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Re: What Habits Did You See In Your Father And You Are Determined To Change by fergie001: 9:02am On Sep 15, 2023 |
Rayban25:Leave this man, he is quiet even on issues he shouldn't. If not my mum, who is his opposite, Dem for don marchnus enter ground. 1 Like |
Re: What Habits Did You See In Your Father And You Are Determined To Change by Nobody: 9:05am On Sep 15, 2023 |
fergie001: Oh alright I understand. The type of quietness that can make people use you as a doormat |
Re: What Habits Did You See In Your Father And You Are Determined To Change by fergie001: 9:20am On Sep 15, 2023 |
Rayban25:Worse than a doormat. Now we are grown, all it takes is my mum signalling or calling me, we simply ask him to remain inside and then we handle it otherwise na cast. 3 Likes |
Re: What Habits Did You See In Your Father And You Are Determined To Change by yomi531(m): 9:28am On Sep 15, 2023 |
Best Dad Ever ... We will all be waiting for him to return from work by 3:30-4pm. Once we hear pim pimmmm.. Everywhere go scatter... Daddy oyoyo daddy oyoyoo. Even our neighbor children dey join for the excitement to tell u how he was loved. That man was so quiet for my liking. Very Shy. He communicates better in writing. Na polygamy no let us enjoy am till old age. He died at 60. Rest on Peace maker 4 Likes |
Re: What Habits Did You See In Your Father And You Are Determined To Change by rexesq(m): 9:33am On Sep 15, 2023 |
Hezzyluv: He is already on earth |
Re: What Habits Did You See In Your Father And You Are Determined To Change by DonPapyrus: 9:35am On Sep 15, 2023 |
SultanOfPuna: Please, what do you mean by "Red Pills"? |
Re: What Habits Did You See In Your Father And You Are Determined To Change by Anayordike(m): 9:41am On Sep 15, 2023 |
Karemarealty288: Perhaps, what our dads did was what their fathers did that they didn't like and they too did the opposite and becomes someone you would not want to be like. Spare and respect your dad. He may have his reason(s) by doing things the way he did. |
Re: What Habits Did You See In Your Father And You Are Determined To Change by Anayordike(m): 9:45am On Sep 15, 2023 |
Nairas2dollars: That's the way it should be. I love him. He is not far from the kingdom of God. After all we brought nothing to the world. He is a good man. Don't hate it please 2 Likes |
Re: What Habits Did You See In Your Father And You Are Determined To Change by emmyN(m): 10:07am On Sep 15, 2023 |
1Sharon: I have good things to say about polygamy misty! 1 Like |
Re: What Habits Did You See In Your Father And You Are Determined To Change by emmyN(m): 10:09am On Sep 15, 2023 |
Klass99: You sound like you nag, honestly! 4 Likes |
Re: What Habits Did You See In Your Father And You Are Determined To Change by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 10:13am On Sep 15, 2023 |
blingxx: Blessed are the meek in spirit, for they shall inherit the earth. As great and powerful as Jesus was, he never was a classist. Emulate him. There's no classism in the grave. Everyone is equal. 1 Like |
Re: What Habits Did You See In Your Father And You Are Determined To Change by Nobody: 10:19am On Sep 15, 2023 |
emmyN: Oga polygamy is not the flex most of you think it is. Most of you only think of having different women. Learn to think further than that. Children have issues with their step siblings and step mothers a lot and when you go to the grave it will become a whole lot worse. Some of you cant even handle the stress of courtship talk less monogamy. |
Re: What Habits Did You See In Your Father And You Are Determined To Change by emmyN(m): 10:21am On Sep 15, 2023 |
Rayban25: Oh well, you can't school me about my experience! 1 Like |
Re: What Habits Did You See In Your Father And You Are Determined To Change by Yxxx: 10:28am On Sep 15, 2023 |
blingxx: |
Re: What Habits Did You See In Your Father And You Are Determined To Change by Nairas2dollars: 10:45am On Sep 15, 2023 |
UyaiIncomparabl: There is social class! I have always wanted to marry Obama's first daughter but I can't even get to reach but it's been futile because me and her aren't in the same social class but I really love her! That lady have taken my heart long time ago! |
Re: What Habits Did You See In Your Father And You Are Determined To Change by blingxx(m): 12:29pm On Sep 15, 2023 |
Yxxx: My dad once seized ladder from Nepa men once they wanted to extort us. I thought they were going to call police the idiots came back beautiful begging the next day ![]() |
Re: What Habits Did You See In Your Father And You Are Determined To Change by Naanlong01: 1:04pm On Sep 15, 2023 |
Not having a relationship with his children just because he's not accessible always maintain frown face, in my thirties now, and I can say there was never a time me or my siblings sat and had a father to child/Children discussion. Making our mum our goto for anything including confidance, we eventually bonded with her and never missed our daddy even when he's not around. He pushed us away unknowingly and now at old age he complains every time about how we don't tell him things, how our mother turned our back against him. Not showing care enough for us but can go out of his way for outsider. I remember been brought home very sick by a neighbour where I lived, mum was at work, Dad came home saw me lying sick on the couch in the parlour, didn't even bulge, I didn't take anything until mum came back from work. To think am the only male Child makes it all unbelievable. It took the grace of God to forgive him and let go even though I can never forget. I have seen mummy sick several times with him giving the same attitude. Too blunt, almost emotionless. I have taken after that bluntness unintentionally but the caring aspect, my wife can testify. Nagging, I do this too but cautiously. 2 Likes |
Re: What Habits Did You See In Your Father And You Are Determined To Change by LARRYOBRAIN(m): 1:22pm On Sep 15, 2023 |
He was too gentle. |
Re: What Habits Did You See In Your Father And You Are Determined To Change by Yxxx: 1:49pm On Sep 15, 2023 |
blingxx: |
Re: What Habits Did You See In Your Father And You Are Determined To Change by occfx: 2:02pm On Sep 15, 2023 |
Skyview01: All those illiterate dads... I just don't know what's wrong with them |
Re: What Habits Did You See In Your Father And You Are Determined To Change by occfx: 2:22pm On Sep 15, 2023 |
SonofGod231: Now you may have a child who would come up tomorrow to say his father is too quiet to his liking... Lol. Like some of the posts I see |
Re: What Habits Did You See In Your Father And You Are Determined To Change by Prettyclown: 2:29pm On Sep 15, 2023 |
You just said bit all Rayban25: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What Habits Did You See In Your Father And You Are Determined To Change by folake4u(f): 7:50pm On Sep 15, 2023 |
735i: Lol. I can relate. My father is a very kind person. Too kind infact. He wanted to uplift his extended family too but they never just liked him at all. He got burnt all the time until he learnt his lesson and left them alone for good. Well, I learnt a lesson from him. I'd NEVER marry into any family where the extended family doesn't accept you. You're not just marrying your spouse alone, you're marrying into their family too. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Habits Did You See In Your Father And You Are Determined To Change by Elxandre(m): 11:43am On Sep 16, 2023 |
riko1010:Are you not the man running ads on Instagram? I hope you're out of jail now? 1 Like |
Re: What Habits Did You See In Your Father And You Are Determined To Change by whodeyhere: 1:14pm On Sep 16, 2023 |
Contentment |
Re: What Habits Did You See In Your Father And You Are Determined To Change by XAUBulls: 3:37pm On Sep 16, 2023 |
Skyview01:There are too many dysfunctional younger and older people in the society because of what they've learned from their parents, who equally picked up bad personal and ethnically-specific, narcisistic cultural habits from their own parents and ancestors. 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: What Habits Did You See In Your Father And You Are Determined To Change by Farfalla(f): 4:48pm On Sep 16, 2023 |
folake4u: In my father's case, they bludgeoned him as he was coming out of the car and left him for dead. This was executed by his own cousin, whose mother's medical costs my father catered for until she recovered from her illness. They were shocked to see him alive the following morning. My father is a very tough dude but he'd somehow soften when handling his relatives (relatives my arse). These fools would sell his property with wanton abandon, completely disregarding the legal consequences, knowing very well my dad go shout tire but do nothing about it. What lessons have I learnt from my dad? - That your blood is not necessarily your family. My relatives must earn my friendship. We won't just relate because we share a paternal great-grandfather or that our parents are siblings. They must treat me with kindness for them to be a part of my life. Otherwise, they cease to exist in my world. 1 Like 4 Shares |
Re: What Habits Did You See In Your Father And You Are Determined To Change by folake4u(f): 5:01pm On Sep 16, 2023 |
Farfalla: Damnnnnnn!!!! I'm telling you. My father is tough too but when it comes to family, he'd be very soft. It used to really get me upset. I'm glad he's learnt his lesson sha. Them don too burn am. ![]() That is a very solid lesson actually. I apply it also in my life. Sometimes water (friends) is thicker than blood (family). 1 Like |
Re: What Habits Did You See In Your Father And You Are Determined To Change by Farfalla(f): 5:05pm On Sep 16, 2023 |
folake4u: Allow me to borrow these words of wisdom. 1 Like |
Re: What Habits Did You See In Your Father And You Are Determined To Change by folake4u(f): 5:07pm On Sep 16, 2023 |
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Re: What Habits Did You See In Your Father And You Are Determined To Change by toygod2: 8:21pm On Sep 18, 2023 |
Skyview01: This narrative is almost similar to the description of who my father is. It’s just for some few differences. An addition is ; my father likes that , as he is asking you to do something…… at that moment, you have already swung to action else, get ready to be roared at 🦁. And he is not that patient and kind of gets angry easily. I have said I would change that when I grow up or starts having my own family but somehow, I am already exhibiting similar traits. Dunno how it creeped into me but I am still better off him, in these regards. 2 Likes |
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