Happy Sunday nairalaners, I need your advice please I have a neighbour beside my shop , we are not into same business but I noticed anytime anytime one of his people want to purchase from me , he must put mouth indirectly, if they are pricing instead of him to keep mute like other customers, he will be telling me to sell street price for them not company price , or if I can tell his customer #2400 , I will just hear a voice from his shop ₦2000 , I don't know if its him or his friends there , it's becoming too much , if it's someone he knows wetin I he environment he just put mouth indirectly, except some that not his friend that's the only way he can keep mute and be looking my face .and I'm not selling too high honestly.... I wanted to acquise him , but he is a smart person he can turn it to quarell indirectly.... Or he can tell them the good is nice just the price , he must make sure he get involved, how do you think someone can live with that kind of person please , but keep behaving like a good person and respectful but deep inside him like he is not happy with you .

Call the police or security around. Its a street business and everyone should focus on there shops. If after that it continues go learn takwando and karate.
I will be the ring referee for this UFC bout after that mind your biz will be a total 💯 achieved.

Continue to be so submissive and he will price your death.

You think it is about goods or price, you're slow. He sees himself as your master and leader and you his boy which is very dangerous in the days when big money will come.

You must stand your ground and detach and resist and rebel tactically. It's simple. You're on a journey to collect your power back from him.


When the next sets of buyers come, do like you want to sell the market.


Wait for him to cook mouth, when he chook mouth, say you won't sell at the price that they should go and buy somewhere else.


Do it continuously until he gets tired. If you don't resist now, the day big money will find you, you're gone


I expect you to wake up as I don give you new orientation. After you reject three person's, the last one turn to him and tell him, Oga mind your business. When you do am, you don become man. If you fail to do all I instructed you above, I will be angry with you. Act fast and collect your power from him. He will harm you if this trend persists

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Bendaniel1616

Recently someone he knows wanted to purchase something from me he Joined the conversation with I should collect money from him with jokes , that he has money , I shouldn't allow him to use scope, that one latter left my market cos of just #100 gain I want to gain from him, he wanted to buy at exact price I bought from the market, when the guy left I had to show him my price list so that he would know too that I'm not cheating people he knows , he saw I'm only making #100 gain too , I was like some people can't even joke with #100 with someone he replied that they want to see where their money is entering, I just see him as hyprocate.

bendaniel1616:
Recently someone he knows wanted to purchase something from me he Joined the conversation with I should collect money from him with jokes , that he has money , I shouldn't allow him to use scope, that one latter left my market cos of just #100 gain I want to gain from him, he wanted to buy at exact price I bought from the market, when the guy left I had to show him my price list so that he would know too that I'm not cheating people he knows , he saw I'm only making #100 gain too , I was like some people can't even joke with #100 with someone he replied that they want to see where their money is entering, I just see him as hyprocate.

Did he start business for you? Are you related in anyway . Didn't you pay for your rent? Are you a nincompop to show your business list to a total competitor. You will learn hard way.

Hmmm, I think I did a mistake there, I believe since we are not into the same business he shouldn't be angry with my success , human being sha.

MatrixReloaded:

Did he start business for you? Are you related in anyway . Didn't you pay for your rent? Are you a nincompop to show your business list to a total competitor. You will learn hard way.

You're weak. When people around you perceive you to be weak, your eyes go see shege. Tell him straight to stop interfering in conversations that involve you and your customers.

Omo it's your business and you make a living from it.

You can keep quiet but that wouldn't help, because the person you described is obviously unreasonable.

In such case you gats tell ham face to face say watin him dey do no pure

Some people will come and withdraw money you will be disturbing them to give you money , dragging money with them all in the name of joke ,if I'm the customer too , I might want to free such place, if you say something in church situation it will be like can he play with his people anymore shey you understand

TheFreshVanilla:
You're weak. When people around you perceive you to be weak, your eyes go see shege. Tell him straight to stop interfering in conversations that involve you and your customers.

I found my self in this nonsense stuf but I end it by stop giving the guy face. I stop playing with him. I stop anything that will make him talk to me. Do this and thank me later.
Now the guy the him own lane I dey my own.

bendaniel1616:
Hmmm, I think I did a mistake there, I believe since we are not into the same business he shouldn't be angry with my success , human being sha.

Just warn the guy straight up to stop interfering in your business, alternatively you can start ignoring him...even if he greets you in the morning just ignore him and he will get the message

Nice idea .. thanks boss

Arewa247:
I found my self in this nonsense stuf but I end it by stop giving the guy face. I stop playing with him. I stop anything that will make him talk to me. Do this and thank me later.
Now the guy the him own lane I dey my own.