K33fK0zaRt:
being delusional is not a crime. it's no biggie. Everyone was once delusional. Chuckles.

Maybe you were delusional but i know my ordeal better than any other person,so i know what i'm saying.

ILoveFaith:

Esther, know I’m right here

Lol

K33fK0zaRt:
this one dey type go yaba left.

Untop weytin... werey

MajESTHY:


Lol

Can you send a DM? I’m politely asking?

ILoveFaith:

Can you send a DM? I’m politely asking?

Yes.

MajESTHY:


Yes.

That’s lovely. I’m expecting to see it.

ILoveFaith:

That’s lovely. I’m expecting to see it.

Alright

MajESTHY:


Alright

Holla when you’ve done so

MajESTHY:


Maybe you were delusional but i know my ordeal better than any other person,so i know what i'm saying.

ah . I ...no follow you drag my sister.

Yes. That was way back in 2012 but we broke up in 2013.

yungchop:


Please speak.. I'm currently in one and thinking if it's worth it or not, almost 2 years now

Jesus, how will I be doing relationship when penis no go dey enter toto steady steady while the babe go dey collect dick elsewhere while cashing out on me

Lost the appetite for forging online relationships when 2go faded into oblivion.

But before then, just leave it..

yungchop:


Please speak.. I'm currently in one and thinking if it's worth it or not, almost 2 years now

You’re still thinking after 2 years?

marsman:
The funny thing is all the ladies I have actually met online have really been very beautiful.

Is Iyaebe beautiful?

HMMMMM

Let me just read comments and shut my lips. If I open mouth talk wetin my eyes don see, this place go scatter 😅

Blupen969:
Have you ever been in love with someone you met online??
How crazy was the love??
Did you guys later meet??
Was the love still there after spending real time with the person??

I don't enjoy relationship talkless of dating...

Zaddy

Dating scene in Nigeria is kind of unique. And that's because it involves Money.


It can be turned into employment opportunity.

Girl 1 : I'm broke

Girl 2 : Dont you have a boyfriend?


Babe : have you forgotten the money you promised to give me?

Guy : let's see what happens next week.

Later on....

Guy : let's have sex, we haven't had sex in a while.

Girl : let's wait till next week. I'm going to be tired this week.


Is it that wonderful look on her face when you say “oya send your account details”.


When you don't give bae the money you promised her vs when you give her the money


How girls be acting when a broke guy is trying to force them into a relationship


When your salary is 100k And she wants you to give her 85k for her birthday.


How guys expect girls to also understand that the same way some girls have inner beauty is the same way some guys have inner money. We can't see it, but it's there.


But do you blame the ladies? Nooo. Because once you start dating as a lady you automatically become cook, cleaner, etc.

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my girl is in uk we hv been together for 3years, hope i will be able to japa oneday to meet her

That was the days of Yahoo messenger, after the love don sweet, I was happy, then I discovered that she's from Philippines 🇵🇭, omo I weak..

She's beautiful, but from not too rich family, so she no get help wey she fit help me, I just left her to marry her Philippines brothers

Yes, I met her on Instagram in 2020 and we will be getting married in January by Gods grace. Will drop the full gist in due time.

Omo. I meet one like that oo.
Before you know it, under two days she don dey call me baby.
Day 3 guess what...

Na BILLING OOO.
My bros and sises.

Special advice.
Be careful of LDR

I stroll the streets of the internet, looking for T*t*... That's it
Nothing much per say, ain't looking for serious stuff

Packaging and that's that, and it's the best
The internet is good for so many things, look deep and well enough, in the right places, using the right method, so many sweet sugars online!

I got married to my online date

Online dating is a scam, unlike the physical..

I once met one online and it was billing. Like who or what made Nigerian ladies so entitled to a man's money ??!

marsman:
The funny thing is all the ladies I have actually met online have really been very beautiful.

Online which app

Because na man disguising as female plenty online

The challenge with relationship that started online is the lies, the deceits and the fakeness.


If ladies can be sincere enough to be using their real life unfiltered pictures, many people would have found their partner online because most of us spend more time online than offline.



So my advice to ladies who want to find love or a partner online that won't feel disappointed on meeting them in real life is to please avoid using fake pictures or highly edited pictures.


Try and use your natural photograph that show your true you. Don't raise a guy's hopes so high with edited pictures when you know that you are just a basic girl, it will definitely end in tears.



And to the guys, avoid lies, avoid claiming who you are not. Don't claim to be Aliko Dangote when you are just a Dangote Cement shop sales boy. Don't claim to be Drake when you are just a dirty Naira Marley.



Be real, the truth is, in Nigeria, ladies are not so interested in your handsomeness as a guy, they care more about your ability to provide and take care of them, which means you must have a means of earning income and should be able to afford taking care of yourself without depending on your parents or siblings or guardian before you go looking for a girlfriend to deceive. Just be real, there is a girl out there that will like you the way you are, same applies to ladies; don't claim to be Kim Kardashian when you are one flat ass Janet at Ajah, the guy will definitely chop and run or even quit after meeting you in person




Lastly, ladies and gents, don't expect too much from people. Stop having high expectations of who your Mr or Miss right must be, it always end in tears. Don't have the wrong belief that only rich guys come online to find love and thereby expecting to meet only rich guys and don't conclude that only broke guys go searching for love online because its not true, rich and comfortable guys also search for love or partner or female friends online, just be open and expect less from the opposite gender.



Lastly as a lady, when you meet a guy online, please don't give him wrong impression about your personality and character by offloading all your life problems on him and expecting him to carry all for you.



To answer the Op's question, yes I did met wonderful chicks online some years back while single....one or two would have worked but I was too broke to accept their love back then


One lived abroad then while I was still struggling in Nigeria....her kind of rich profile intimidated me and I couldn't imagine myself being with a girl higher than me financially and in everything, I was always feeling cold and bad inside me cos I know I no reach her level. How it ended? I intentionally stopped communicating with her when I realized it was a waste of time cos to me, she is above my league.





Another one I met was beautiful and ready for serious relationship, but me I was still struggling and scared to commit. Out of fear that she would one day bill me more than I could afford, I also ran away

rohangold:
Omo. I meet one like that oo.
Before you know it, under two days she don dey call me baby.
Day 3 guess what...

Na BILLING OOO.
My bros and sises.

Special advice.
Be careful of LDR

Ladies of

House rent is about to expire
My birthday is next month
My phone has been acting up for a while now
School has really been tough
My data gets finished very very fast
What do you think about my hair, it's looking very old

When a girl wants to test whether you're a yes man from the beginning

Just days in and these pop up

She don hit "good guy" that will continue spending

Ade1177:


Online which app

Because na man disguising as female plenty online

Whatsapp group mostly.