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Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by Blueace247(f): 9:17am On Sep 19, 2023 |
Hmmm |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by jubrilELsudan: 9:17am On Sep 19, 2023 |
THE PROBLEM WITH YOU PRESENT DAY YOUTH IS THAT YOU BELIEVE TO HAVE A PERFECT LIFE OVERNIGHT YOU ALL ARE SO STUPID TO BELIEVE THAT ONCE YOU GET ABROAD ALL YOUR LIFE PROBLEMS ARE SETTLED YET THAT SAME ABROAD YOU GOING TO...NATIVES OF THE COUNTRY WITH ANCESTRAL AND GENERATION LINEAGE ARE STILL STRUGGLING TO SURVIVE AND RELY ON CREDIT CARDS AND BANK LOANS FOR SURVIVAL AND ARE SWAMPED IN HEAVY DEBTS BACK IN THE DAY BEFORE GSM AND INTERNET...WAS IT NOT LETTERS WE WRITE AND IT WILL TAKE MONTHS BEFORE THE LETTER IS RECIEVED? DID WE ALL DIE BACK THEN? EVEN WITHIN NIGERIA...DID PARENTS IN THE VILLAGE NOT DIE AND THEIR CHILDREN IN THE CITY WOULDN'T EVEN KNOW TILL SOMEONE HAS TO COME FROM THE VILLAGE TO INFORM THEM....SO DID WE ALL DIE FROM THE GUILT? 7 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by kalvoken(m): 9:17am On Sep 19, 2023 |
You would stay back and watch her die, while you kids wait to watch you die, all in poverty? 6 Likes |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by kingsleyLAF07(m): 9:20am On Sep 19, 2023 |
sukkot: Why is it that it's only the negative side of Japa that people keep on posting. Are there no positive sides? No matter your location there must still be challenges, just that each location has unique challenges. I wish everyone who has japad a great and fulfilled life abroad. 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by KanwuliaExtra: 9:20am On Sep 19, 2023 |
Getting stuck abroad is better than getting stuck in any African SHYTEHOLE like LIEGERIA. ![]() Enjoying my peaceful clean home. Sorry, I don't do junk or clutter. ![]() I DON'T LIKE PEOPLE IN MY HOME either! ![]() All bills paid! Good food! ![]() Bye bye for life LIEGERIA! 17 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by Nasri100(m): 9:20am On Sep 19, 2023 |
So you prefer to be in this poverty hole Nigeria and keep suffering? Its like the Government is playing agenda games by sending agents like this on social media. Nonsense. 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by ednut1(m): 9:21am On Sep 19, 2023 |
sukkot:are you the one in this shoes ![]() ![]() ![]() 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by henrycloud: 9:21am On Sep 19, 2023 |
Unless you are her doctor, your money will do better than your presence. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by wittywriter: 9:22am On Sep 19, 2023 |
sukkot:If you have the will to assist it shouldn't take you a year to set up an HMO for them. Most peeps are just overly selfish once they get to settle abroad. koonbey: Wittyness. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by Emeskhalifa(m): 9:22am On Sep 19, 2023 |
My mama no go die. Ogar no come dey discourage people abeg 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by folake4u(f): 9:23am On Sep 19, 2023 |
Why dont you add a caveat to your post? The title is misleading. You could have simply said For illegal Japarians. I don't see why you can't travel to and fro Nigeria if you're a legal immigrant but as usual, agenda must agend. And it's not like it's your own personal experience. Amebo! 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by sukkot: 9:24am On Sep 19, 2023 |
Amotolongbo:the bolded. yes. in UK as well but with UK its lack of money that makes most people stuck. you need like 5000 pounds for a journey like this. not many can gather 5000 pounds cash. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by Ibkrichie(m): 9:24am On Sep 19, 2023 |
sukkot: Oga go rest jur Everytime una go bring this una thesame topic come here to discourage us...make una rest Person wey dey Nigeria him parent no dey sick?? If una wan come Nigeria Make una come back, leave us wey we wan to go... please 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by Nobody: 9:25am On Sep 19, 2023 |
ednut1: You're 💯 on point. The OP only painted an illegal immigrant's experience, cos 10-15 years for what? I've been into relocation and study abroad services and I can tell you from experience that some Nigerians love shortcuts, which later become longcuts. When you tell some Nigerians to invest just 1 year learning a skill or doing a course that would help them get a good job abroad, they think it's too long, so they opt for the fast option of using a tourist visa. They get there and can't do any legal work and they have to spend over a decade settling in a foreign country. 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by Rahkman: 9:25am On Sep 19, 2023 |
Mysseeeeeewww you idiots trying to stop jakpa can do better than this nonsense .....lamest shit I ve read in while 2 Likes |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by LONEWOLFJOHN: 9:26am On Sep 19, 2023 |
Wodu89:depression is worrying you reason you never feel good about anything |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by Brandiebird: 9:26am On Sep 19, 2023 |
It happens to many people. I know Muslims who won’t able to get to their parents, grandparents, and some their siblings before they were buried. People die and life moves on. Death respects no boundaries or rules. You just have to pray for the departed and move on with your life. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by LONEWOLFJOHN: 9:26am On Sep 19, 2023 |
Wodu89:depression is worrying you reason you never feel good about anything. |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by Shattuck(m): 9:27am On Sep 19, 2023 |
When we say japa we are talking about legit travels not fraudulent migration, because when folks try to discourage others from travelling they always come up with this kinda tales. 2 Likes |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by Ibkrichie(m): 9:27am On Sep 19, 2023 |
ednut1: E tire me o Them go come online with their mumu discouraged topic If na una devil send, una no fit prosper 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by Rahkman: 9:28am On Sep 19, 2023 |
KanwuliaExtra:like bro this is the most stupidest excuse not to jakpa I ve ever read in a while......the op should be shot dead at point blank range for creating the worst excuse not to jakpa in the history of jakpa 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by kakaki123: 9:29am On Sep 19, 2023 |
All those Western countries are modern slavery, just go there for vacations. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by seunjungle1(m): 9:29am On Sep 19, 2023 |
You just talk your own view and opinion. We've seen case of many residing within Nigeria and still cannot afford to go and see their parents when they fall sick...what do you have to say to that. Will you because your parents can fall sick and not travel to where your life can become better. Moreover,you're not a Doctor.. Money buy good health care in some illness occasions. What you forget to address is that some of these of our parents staying here in Nigeria allows their old parents to fall and die of sickness without paying them any visitation but only turn up for burial ceremony(though not all). We can't because of that issue you addressed not go to where our lives can be better bro.. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by Nobody: 9:31am On Sep 19, 2023 |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Folake will be taking me to places I don't know ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by KanwuliaExtra: 9:33am On Sep 19, 2023 |
Rahkman: No mind am. They want people to stay and pay taxes to a pharaoh from IRAGBIJI! NEVER!!!!! Who no japa nor understand peace of mind. Japa is ideal for people who can't stand to live in an extremely corrupt environment with NO HOPE of survivlal like the YOUTH! Let that useless APC GOVERNMENT govern only old people. ![]() 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by SIRTee15: 9:33am On Sep 19, 2023 |
This guy with his irrelevant posts again. I dont know of anyone on nairaland who discuss illegal migration so I dont understand the relevance of this thread. Migrate legally, be focused and work hard. Be smart and ask for divine favour couple with grace. U can easily build resources overseas as a young man compared to Nigeria. That's the point of Japa. With valid work permit, u can travel to any country of your choice as u like. Las las if abroad no favour u. Come back home and try your luck. To live abroad is not a must. Stop disturbing us with all this annoying threads. 12 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by Mindlog: 9:34am On Sep 19, 2023 |
Ibkrichie:If anyone gets discouraged by what he regularly posts, then the person was never ready to relocate abroad. All I advise people is that they should japa with the right visa then you would benefit more in your destination Country and can visit Nigeria if you choose to spend your work leave there. 9 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by sukkot: 9:34am On Sep 19, 2023 |
koonbey:ermm Ronaldinho was arrested for overstaying his visa in one country. Shit happens bro. It’s life 1 Like |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by OnlySonAlive: 9:36am On Sep 19, 2023 |
Why is it only mother mother mother everytime? Nawa o 1 Like |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by sukkot: 9:37am On Sep 19, 2023 |
kingsleyLAF07:we have to talk about the good and the bad 1 Like |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by ibechris(m): 9:37am On Sep 19, 2023 |
Whether u like or not take a cue from this write up. The news mustn't be juicy all the time. That is the reality we live in. 6 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Stuck Abroad While Mother Is Dying In Nigeria . Dark Side Of Japa by folake4u(f): 9:38am On Sep 19, 2023 |
Persephone1: I don carry you comot express road.🤣🤣🤣🤣 |
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