WarrenP:
Let’s talk, what’s bothering you right now ?

WarrenP:
Let’s talk, what’s bothering you right now ?

it's not being easy bro. A graduate with strong 2.1 still unemployed. I barely eat once daily

As for data subscription, some friends do help me with #200 airtime once in a while just to search online and apply for any opening

I'm always on free mode on nairaland through opera mini. Life has not been fair with me that i know

To cap it all, I'm just stuck in the house. No money to move around (Transportation) in search of job

I wish God could change my story for good. I'm getting depressed seriously

BItt:
1. My life
2. No helper
3. Hunger, serious hunger, sever hunger
4. No job
5. No finance, no money

Being a man is challenging, most especially trying to build a paradise with no support.

lonelyatdtop:
Seriously my Husband's health is really bothering me, as an asthma patient, the cost of drugs and inhaler has skyrocketed, ever since he lost his job he has been so depressed and is hidden in a shell , that I can't seems to get him out, his business is not progressing at all , he hardly sleeps at night , my salary as a teacher cannot accommodate it all coupled with transportation and the kids. I don't know how long I can keep it together for us really, I am getting tired.

Samantha124:
I've been sick since last night... I already had plans for the weekend, but sickness decided to come knocking at around 8pm and I've been laying in bed like a vegetable all day.

Hopefully I'll be better by tomorrow.

Klass99:
A fight with a friend (Paul), because I listened to and followed the advice of another friend (Peter).

I really need to stop listening to people when their advice conflicts with what is in my heart and soul. I always end up with outcomes I don't like, when I ignore what is within me, to do what others advise. When will I learn?

This logical gender people are not as logical, as they like to think . What was in my heart to do was more logical and would have caused little to no drama. I listened to a logical gender friend and now I have issues.

Klass99:


Lol . No sir, I am very well o. It is you and your logical gender brothers that have issues. It is a new day, let me see which way the tide turns on this matter. I would have asked your opinion on how best to resolve the fight/issue, but like Peter, I fear that, you may only compound the issues for me. 😝

SIMPonPatrol:


Have you done pregnancy test?

Skyview01:


Do not give up. talk with your husband to see if he can find something to manage while looking for a job. Let him leverage on family or church members for help if possible. He should not just sit at home because of no job.

lonelyatdtop:

Thanks alot sir, he has a typing and photocopy business he runs, though the business has been a down due to the LG strike. I am actively searching for an opportunity to get a more stable job for either of us . But he just seem so distant, and he gets irritated easily this days. I am really bothered!

pansophist:
Empathic distress.

To see others suffer, and be helpless in assisting them. This leads to the desire to withdraw from the situation in order to protect one's self from excessive negative feelings that emanate from being empathetic.

Which can also mean, forcing yourself to be apathetic, to avoid a constant feeling of negativity in yourself. After all, you are only human and cant do more than your power.

Klass99:
A fight with a friend (Paul), because I listened to and followed the advice of another friend (Peter).

I really need to stop listening to people when their advice conflicts with what is in my heart and soul. I always end up with outcomes I don't like, when I ignore what is within me, to do what others advise. When will I learn?

This logical gender people are not as logical, as they like to think . What was in my heart to do was more logical and would have caused little to no drama. I listened to a logical gender friend and now I have issues.