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Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by jojothaiv(m): 1:56pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
alexogbebor:Read what you just wrote again, pay attention to the last few lines therein lie your answer. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by BabaIbo: 1:57pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
Nicepoker: Bros na 0:3 and it's because it was an abandoned game i.e restarted match. Make she kukuma find the baby daddy na make dem restart am, simple! 1 Like |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by sylve11: 1:58pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
Fahvvy: Who is vexing you? |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by Tosinville(m): 1:59pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
Nextt:God can’t direct you to marry rubbish that can later end you while you still have a lot of single girls all around town to choose one from. Leave single mothers to their spouses to continue from where they stop 7 Likes |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by bonnyhope: 2:00pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by sylve11: 2:01pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
izonborn098: Having stayed in most riverine terrains, I believe you. The single mothers there are extremely terrible, far different from the ones in the cities. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by advanceDNA: 2:02pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
LeeSmart: No mind the Werey .. ...she dey tell other women's sons to give single mother chance..... If e reach her turn she no go gree oooo... I don see enough single mothers wey no want make their son marry a single mother.....this one come dey cap fake advantages. 11 Likes |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by oba1000(m): 2:04pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
Never date a single mother until you're crystal clear about what rendered her the title. My sympathy for 1/100 who were victim of mal-treatment from men. I once had sympathy for them but they are worse. One day, the ops would post my personal experience with SMs....I went through hell...none, I think should earn my respect. I stand to be corrected by my fellow men who had encountered a sincere one. However, rather than castigating them, my advice for men is simple: don't fall for their stories, fall not beauty, don't be moved by crocodile tears, do your investigation properly from both ends and be sure it worths the investment. Brothers, be wise.... something, somehow contributed to their singleness. I have spoken from a bitter experience, don't be the next victim. Iku to pa elediye, ko gbodo pa elewure...QED! 10 Likes |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by sylve11: 2:09pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
Blitzking: On point! |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by diggindeep: 2:09pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
tonicyril: Maybe yes maybe not |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by sylve11: 2:10pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
VIKTO83: Hahaha |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by bonnyhope: 2:10pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
franktech: 1 Like |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by PeachtreeReside(f): 2:13pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
It takes a lot to marry a single parent. Great amount of time needs to be given to communication, patience and therapy for the adults and the kids involved. I would honestly advise any single mom not to remarry or marry. Have a longterm partner . Date but marry after your kids are in the university. Or if you marry stay separately. It takes great maturity and patience plus teamwork to have a successful union with single parent of either gender . 5 Likes |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by tonicyril: 2:16pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
diggindeep:stay one place oga |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by sylve11: 2:16pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
1 Like |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by advanceDNA: 2:19pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
Blendy77: Lies!! Lies!! Iies!!! Bunch of false advantages every man dont need in his life. Having one child doesn't automatically make u fertile ..there are millions of women with only one child unable to make more..... . Men don't need to learn parenting skills with another person's child that the mother will always complain and scrutinize his pattern of discipline because the child isn't his...... No be only Blessing..... Na ngozi ...... Most single mothers I've seen are always broke looking for who to throw their burden on and frustrate with their ptsd.....so where is the blessing.... Lies..lies...lies...thats all u poured up here... Even u will question ur own son say "he nor see any single girl without kids for road to start life with?? U pple know how to advise other women's sons badly with fake advantages u listed up there...but if e reach ur turn, u head go correct and see the evil disadvantages clearly 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by Tosinville(m): 2:19pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
wisdomkid:you better learn now and make a good choice marrying a young lass not single mothers. I hope this safe a life today 3 Likes |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by ginggerxy: 2:21pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
Nicepoker:Thats not true , the guy also gave illustration that countered that your bullshit. Continuation is not the same as starting. 1 Like |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by obinna58(m): 2:22pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
Nicepoker:And after the match you no see how body Dey Ajax E ended wotowoto |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by sylve11: 2:22pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
Dancebreaker: Words! |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by LordAdam16: 2:25pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
Blendy77: There are two ways to gain experience in life: You either learn from the experiences of others or live through one yourself. Single mothers in this country have not covered themselves in glory. You act like we don't see them around us, notice their movements, or observe the things they do. Nigerian men are venerated for their simphood. If they're saying these women are a no go area, it is because whatever they or someone they know endured during a relationship with a single mother left a mark. Nigerian women on a normal day are not appreciative, very selfish, and ruthless. Then you add a baby that isn't yours to the mix. A lot of men have tried it. And the horrific tales they tell is enough to give any man pause. That "the kid is a sib" deceit is for someone who isn't street smart. Capping when one area boy go cast on top Origin. -Lord 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by Tosinville(m): 2:27pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
Blendy77:Well she might end up firing herself in the foot when the man she’s in a relationship get to know she has child already. Lies like this end up with 4 different baby fathers with none in her life. Think before u lie ok 3 Likes |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by jrusky(m): 2:27pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
Marry single mother and doom. That is it. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by sylve11: 2:29pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
pocohantas: That's my girl! 1 Like |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by sylve11: 2:32pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
FireUpNow: Mind sharing your experiences? |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by ashawopikin(m): 2:37pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
It is not advisable 1 Like |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by LordAdam16: 2:39pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
sylve11: Single mothers are the norm in riverine terrains. Their attitude has nothing to do with motherhood. Those are your average promiscuous women who have had way too many abortions until they allow one get to term. The birth of the child does not slow them down or give them an epiphany. If they had standards before, now they're even lower. Babe wen u need 500 for 2.5GB data to nack before go accept foodstuff wen remain for house. Those people are on a different planet. There is no big future or dreams to aspire to. At 11 they realize there's nothing out there for them. There is no escape, especially for those, actually most of them, who are not book smart. So they just start f*cking, raising kids, fishing and doing whatever menial tasks to survive. Their way of life is very different from what most city folks are accustomed to. And I'm not trying to be elitist. -Lord 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by Enculer2: 2:41pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
Do not do it guys. Don't 3 Likes |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by Paulson477: 2:44pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
Fairly used 🙃 1 Like |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by Tallesty1(m): 2:45pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
Blendy77:If your woman is above 25 and you follow her home and she introduces someone who is below 10 as their last born, she is lying. Na she born am 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by sylve11: 2:46pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
Styluss: Mind talking more about the bolded? 1 Like |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by Nicepoker(m): 2:47pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
TayusKilzEasyjay:try and be a bit civilized. Don't speak like wild men from the woods. |
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