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Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by Tosinville(m): 2:47pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
Jeezuzpick:Well maybe you are not really good looking, so you don’t really have much choice 3 Likes |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by diggindeep: 2:49pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
tonicyril:We run around when playing football 1 Like |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by omega25red(m): 2:50pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
enemyofprogress:This is a joke right? 1 Like |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by seunlayi(m): 2:51pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
In my view and experience dealing with them, many single mum are actually wonderful women, filled with real life experience unlike those single ladies still practicing zeeworld. Although, those that has refused to learn from their past experience are more. As a matter of fact, I know about many that have remarried and are doing their best to keep their new home running well.... Anytime something is about to go wrong, they are very conscious and not ready to go back to separation. I see nothing wrong in marring a single mum if you can careful study her past, I mean you should not believe her story until you investigate what actually happened to her. Best of luck to all signed mum that are still searching 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by sylve11: 2:51pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
chaloskyx: Hmmmm |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by sylve11: 2:54pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
LordAdam16: You tell no lies! 5 Likes |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by Styluss: 2:56pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
They have a child or two already, they have a lower value in the love market. They pretend to love you till you get hooked. They dont get annoyed to what a regular chick will get mad at you for. sylve11: 2 Likes |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by enemyofprogress: 2:58pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
omega25red:it's not in the jokes section |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by Brandiebird: 3:01pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
Fahvvy: Are you single with no children? |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by fckmn24seg(m): 3:04pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by Myer(m): 3:13pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
Fahvvy: Well said. It's a matter of choice. Some have married single mothers and have a very blessed marriage. 2baba's former baby mama is happily married to a pastor. But most times, the single mother has not healed from whatever she was dealing with. 1 Like |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by jaxxy(m): 3:18pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
it's extra and unnecessary baggage unless there is a genuine reason behind it. 1st question is why didn't she marry her baby daddy? 5 Likes |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by ufotunang: 3:18pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
The reason is when you marry her you will also have to take care of the child or children she got from another man out of wedlock...you have to bear the responsibilities of doing that.... and you have not yet gotten your own child yet at that time of marrying her 7 Likes |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by buJu234: 3:31pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
No family wants their son to bring a woman with another man's kids into their family.. (especially African society) That's why if u re lady, and u want to sleep around do that with protection, also if your daughter comes home with pregnancy.. remove it ASAP , because u re saving her future by sacrificing today.. Lastly, to all single ladies, the society loves you but none wants you in their son's life.. So jst move on with your life.. if you find love good.. if not move on.. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by Jeezuzpick(m): 3:32pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
Tosinville: You think it's about looks? Go and ask Freeze about his ex. |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by FireUpNow(m): 3:32pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
sylve11:Writing everything here will take a lot instead I will cut the story. Met this lady she told me she has never been married so we got serious to the point of making marriage arrangements until I met someone I know that also know this lady, the lady wasn't comfortable anymore knowing that I know that particular guy, it was the guy who later told me everything about the lady that she was married to man for 8 years and she left the marriage, oh boy I fear women and I decided to end it all with her. Too many dirty secrets and lies 5 Likes |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by sylve11: 3:35pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
FireUpNow: Oh! Okay bro. Thanks for sharing. |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by highchief1: 3:35pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
tonicyril:lol but tennis them Dey give person ahead na. |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by FarmTech(m): 3:38pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
Fahvvy:. Hmm. I fell for this kind tactics many many times while growing up. Once they throw it at me I just keep quiet out of shyness. |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by Tosinville(m): 3:40pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
ufotunang:wahala 1 Like |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by streetsoldier1(m): 3:40pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
Fahvvy: How i wish i worked with this mindset... I was forming woke and "it doesnt mean attitude" .. my eyes see shege, not advisable at all 2 Likes |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by FarmTech(m): 3:45pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
buJu234:. And that's how u support abortion? |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by ojonugba2014(m): 3:47pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
Sometime I use to ask myself " na pussy scares or what on Earth is the reason why a reasonable guy wl go for single mother " I rather remain single than to marry a single a single mother. Why a reasonable guy go open his eyes and see fire yet decided to play with fire. Over my dead body. There are thousands of fresh pussy out there ooooo 8 Likes |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by Hassanmaye(m): 3:48pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
Azeemokoya:She will always give her baby daddy puna, I can't tolerate that gaskiya. 1 Like |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by Hassanmaye(m): 3:49pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
Fahvvy:Haha they will come for you wait |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by Hassanmaye(m): 3:50pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
izonborn098:Wow |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by Hassanmaye(m): 3:51pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
tonicyril:Bad guy 1 Like |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by APCREP: 3:56pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
This are for the ladies that are still single. Be loyal to your man and respect him fully so that all these comments will have no effect on you because you won't end up being a single mom but a mother. Put not your trust in your cooking skill ( because a man can get better food from a good restaurant) Put not your trust in your beauty and your physical attributes( because the beautiful ones are not yet born) Put not your trust in your mother's wrong advise or friends or sweet talk from other men ( because if e red only you go carry your cross ) See most Rich guys doesn't need your Cooking ability or your looks or anything you are proud of because there is substitute for them money can cover that ..but money can't buy honest loyalty and respect... Girls don't be deceived... Act unwisely and uncultured you will become a scape goat every where.. Your place is loyalty take the name fool just to have a good home two captains can be in a ship ....you are the assistant not the captain.. God bless you. Lastly guys if you see a venza for 300k shine your eyes cos it's too good to be true ...if it was true you won't luckily even find one to buy... Go check well the engine remain small to knock Single women na problem 6 Likes |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by AlphaHakimi: 3:58pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
No matter the situation, never marry a single mother. If she was a good woman, her ex would not get her pregnant and leave her ( except in the case of death of her legally married husband). Even single mothers usually advise their sons not to marry a single mother when he grows of age. Shalom 9 Likes |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by UnfairLife7(m): 3:59pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
Palmyra:Then Why asking a lady to get pregnant before marriage when single mothers are clear evidence of fertility? |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by tonicyril: 4:01pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
highchief1: Nope....e no dey happen for anywhere |
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by UnfairLife7(m): 4:05pm On Sep 29, 2023 |
izonborn098:Lol All these your accusations or reasons are applicable to single ladies too. It has nothing to do with being single mothers or not. There are some single mothers that i personally know. They've remarried and there's nothing like all what you put up there. While we have some single ladies cheating while dating their husband to be and still continue to cheat in marriage. I understand it's a choice not to marry a single mother or even single ladies but your reasons are applicable to both single mothers and single ladies. It has nothing to do with being a single mother |
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