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Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by UnfairLife7(m): 6:56pm On Sep 30, 2023
FRANCISTOWN:

has anyone called them cats or dogs?


The fact that she has a kid for someone else already disqualified her from being the right person. Anyways! There is no such thing as "The right person" to begin with


What a very wise decision. You are a real man. A king and a star.

In parties, after the invited guest must have eaten to their satisfaction. Some people pack their left overs and eat them.

Some people are comfortable with eating left overs, while some only eat their meals freshly served.

But I'm sure, no king would eat left overs.
Well, we are all free individuals with rights to our own choices.
You've done well
stop sprewing trash comfortably biko. Those single ladies you prefer might have done series of abortion with multiple body count. I know a single mother of one who was deflowered by her husband but sadly the man was irresponsible and she had to leave

I will chose such single mother one million times over your over used single ladies🤣

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Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by NEUDUDE: 7:02pm On Sep 30, 2023
UnfairLife7:
Thank goodness the world doesn't revolve around you🤣

Lol and obviously it apparently revolves around you nekwa. Just look at lol grin
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by UnfairLife7(m): 7:05pm On Sep 30, 2023
NEUDUDE:


Lol and obviously it apparently revolves around you nekwa. Just look at lol grin
I am not a bitter person like you. I can marry a single mother. I prefer a single mother than a single lady with multiple body count and several abortion.
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by NEUDUDE: 7:10pm On Sep 30, 2023
UnfairLife7:
I am not a bitter person like you. I can marry a single mother. I prefer a single mother than a single lady with multiple body count and several abortion.

So having standards is bitter. Where do you reason from biko? because obviously your head is full of coconut water lol shocked.

The funny thing is - a single mom can choose to not want a broke man and yet she isn't bitter lol grin

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Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by UnfairLife7(m): 7:17pm On Sep 30, 2023
NEUDUDE:


So having standards is bitter. Where do you reason from biko? because obviously your head is full of coconut water lol shocked.

The funny thing is - a single mom can choose to not want a broke man and yet she isn't bitter lol grin
why should a broke man consider marriage in this economy in the first place? Maybe you are still living in stone age.

Biko you do not have a standard because the single girls could probably had multiple body count and several abortion
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by NEUDUDE: 7:23pm On Sep 30, 2023
UnfairLife7:
why should a broke man consider marriage in this economy in the first place? Maybe you are still living in stone age.

Biko you do not have a standard because the single girls could probably had multiple body count and several abortion

Why should a rich man like myself take care of another person's kid in this economy. You are clearly unwise with your arguments lol grin. Ive dated some clean single moms but the goal is always the same chop and clean mouth. Au revoir cool

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Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by UnfairLife7(m): 7:37pm On Sep 30, 2023
NEUDUDE:


Why should a rich man like myself take care of another person's kid in this economy. You are clearly unwise with your arguments lol grin. Ive dated some clean single moms but the goal is always the same chop and clean mouth. Au revoir cool
you're bitter and I'm sure you know that
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by NEUDUDE: 7:40pm On Sep 30, 2023
UnfairLife7:
you're bitter and I'm sure you know that

You don't sound like a guy i'm sure you know that. But your opinion doesnt matter either way grin

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Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by UnfairLife7(m): 7:44pm On Sep 30, 2023
NEUDUDE:


You don't sound like a guy i'm sure you know that. But your opinion doesnt matter either way grin
like i said earlier the world doesn't revolve around you. Stop expecting all men to behave and reason like you. An identical twins doesn't exhibit same trait.

You're bitter and I'm sure of that
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by FRANCISTOWN: 7:59pm On Sep 30, 2023
UnfairLife7:
stop sprewing trash comfortably biko.
You are very stupid for this statement. Are you mad? My preference is my preference so, how dare you call it trash?
Who made you an authority over people's preferences?


UnfairLife7:
Those single ladies you prefer might have done series of abortion with multiple body count. I know a single mother of one who was deflowered by her husband but sadly the man was irresponsible and she had to leave

I will chose such single mother one million times over your over used single ladies🤣

Whoever or whatever you know is irrelevant to me.
Anybody can say "I can't marry a broke girl", "I can't marry a short girl" or "I can't marry a girl who bleaches ".
As long as it has nothing to do with me, I can't be bothered. I'm not interested in anything in this life except my own business.

Whoever or whatever you know is none of my business.
I FRANCISTOWN will never go for a leftover meal when there are freshly served plates everywhere.

We are all free individuals, anyone can go for left over meals. It's none 'my business.

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Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by OKOATA(m): 9:22pm On Sep 30, 2023
UnfairLife7:
stop sprewing trash comfortably biko. Those single ladies you prefer might have done series of abortion with multiple body count. I know a single mother of one who was deflowered by her husband but sadly the man was irresponsible and she had to leave

I will chose such single mother one million times over your over used single ladies🤣
You dey dia when the husband disflower am? See mugun. 😁

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Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by UnfairLife7(m): 3:04am On Oct 01, 2023
FRANCISTOWN:

You are very stupid for this statement. Are you mad? My preference is my preference so, how dare you call it trash?
Who made you an authority over people's preferences?




Whoever or whatever you know is irrelevant to me.
Anybody can say "I can't marry a broke girl", "I can't marry a short girl" or "I can't marry a girl who bleaches ".
As long as it has nothing to do with me, I can't be bothered. I'm not interested in anything in this life except my own business.

Whoever or whatever you know is none of my business.
I FRANCISTOWN will never go for a leftover meal when there are freshly served plates everywhere.

We are all free individuals, anyone can go for left over meals. It's none 'my business.
freshly served plate with multiple body count and possibly several abortion
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by UnfairLife7(m): 3:05am On Oct 01, 2023
OKOATA:
You dey dia when the husband disflower am? See mugun. 😁
The husband confirmed it himself. He was begging her after she left but unfortunately it's already too late. I prefer her over multiple body count and possibly several abortion single girl
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by Gamesmart: 5:30am On Oct 01, 2023
Blendy77:

Use same energy pray for ur daughters n sisters that if they make mistakes in life with first marriage or they become widow at an early age may they never find love again in life due to ur mentality of single mothers must not remarry in Jesus name amen

No.

I pray my sons only find and select good, well-behaved and lovely young girls without ant baggage to marry. Your sons will have what you wish on and advise other people's sons to take as good for them.

My daughters will never be dumb enough to select wrongly, pick wrong men, get pregnant for these guys and keep the baby. I will leave women like that for your sons to come and raise those kids of at least 3.

My daughters will be drilled early, be responsible women and would be aware they will be held accountable for their choices and no man owes them to come and save them for their choices if they mess up.

They will pick responsible & good men and marry those ones once and raise their kids together. They will not be candidates as wives for your sons and we will not need your sons income to raise my grandkids.

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Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by Gamesmart: 5:30am On Oct 01, 2023
Jeezuzpick:


You're dumb.

Brain dead.

Mr IQ13, na you dey call someone "brain dead"? grin grin grin grin grin

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Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by advanceDNA: 5:45am On Oct 01, 2023
OKOATA:
You dey dia when the husband disflower am? See mugun. 😁

Lol.....that person just dey cap ...

The guy even say he prefer single mother to girls wey never born but have high body count...

wéréy no sabi street........high body count dey show for face??....e no know say na high body count dey lead to the one or two goals down wey she no gree abort again after aborting several babies.....

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Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by advanceDNA: 5:55am On Oct 01, 2023
NEUDUDE:


You don't sound like a guy i'm sure you know that. But your opinion doesnt matter either way grin

That person na either single mother with two kids or one of those guys wey dey date single mothers wey dey on nairaland....... if he no defend single mothers for her to see online, wahala go start later.... grin grin

..

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Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by FRANCISTOWN: 7:01am On Oct 01, 2023
UnfairLife7:
freshly served plate with multiple body counts and possibly several abortion
We should know that single moms were once single ladies so, they are also not exempted from the several body counts and several abortions.

Imma fact, single moms sometimes were single ladies with almost damaged womb from rigorous abortions and were probably advised not to further in the abortion thing so, they ended up having kids with fathers who were not prepared for fatherhood

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Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by Gamesmart: 7:17am On Oct 01, 2023
Blendy77:


You are a man, if life happens to ur daughters n sisters and they find themselves as single mothers either as divorcees or widows at a young age, advise them to remain single all their lives cos u forbid remarriage for single mums.

It is obvious from your statements that you only care and focus on the interests of women. Men's interests and what is best for them is secondary or irrelevant; they just need to exist to ensure women's interests are satisfied.

Selfish being from an extremely selfish gender.

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Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by OKOATA(m): 12:46pm On Oct 01, 2023
UnfairLife7:
The husband confirmed it himself. He was begging her after she left but unfortunately it's already too late. I prefer her over multiple body count and possibly several abortion single girl
The husband told you, dey mumu yourself for there. Go marry your neighbor wife na. Maga.
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by UnfairLife7(m): 12:59pm On Oct 01, 2023
OKOATA:
The husband told you, dey mumu yourself for there. Go marry your neighbor wife na. Maga.
yes he told everyone that care to listen.

I prefer single mothers than single ladies with several body count and abortions
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by OKOATA(m): 6:14pm On Oct 01, 2023
UnfairLife7:
yes he told everyone that care to listen.

I prefer single mothers than single ladies with several body count and abortions
You are only defending them cos you are married to one. No worry that your eyes go soon clear.

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Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by UnfairLife7(m): 6:34pm On Oct 01, 2023
OKOATA:
You are only defending them cos you are married to one. No worry that your eyes go soon clear.
Olodo the world doesn't revolve around you. Don't expect all men to reason like you.
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by advanceDNA: 6:46pm On Oct 01, 2023
UnfairLife7:
yes he told everyone that care to listen.

I prefer single mothers than single ladies with several body count and abortions

No single guy prefers single mothers to single ladies for marriage....u just dey cap...u sound like u are trying to console urself because u are stuck with one at home....deep down, it's like, if u could do it over...u would have made a different choice..

Fact is ..single mothers do not automatically have low body counts compared to girls without children.....so what u are saying is truck load of horeshiit

...some men like U even claim single mothers are good and righteous than single girls for not aborting.... hahahaha...U guys are naive...

Most girls have high body count...its no longer news .....what Men like u don't realize is that it's the high body count dey lead to the baby they couldn't abort because of many past abortions...

..... make e dey resonate for ur mind...

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Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by UnfairLife7(m): 7:01pm On Oct 01, 2023
advanceDNA:


Nobody single guy prefers single mothers to single ladies for marriage....u just dey cap...u sound like u are trying to consoling urself because u are stuck with one at home....deep down, it's like if u could do it over...u would have made a different choice..

Fact is ..single mothers do not automatically have low body counts compared to girls without children.....so what u are saying is truck load of horeshiit

...some men like U even claim single mothers are good and righteous than single girls for not aborting.... hahahaha...U guys are naive...

Most girls have high body count...its no longer news .....what Men like u don't realize is that it's the high body count dey lead to the baby they couldn't abort because of many past abortions...

..... make e dey resonate for ur mind...
You're so weird in your thinking. Do you think is all girls or women that consider abortion if mistakenly got pregnant? Lol. I guess you've probably made up your mind claiming all girls has multiple body count and has done abortion

If you care to know, neive women hardly indulge in abortion. They mostly keep it. It also depends on family as well. Some family are probably not too exposed thinking abortion will kill their child so she was forced to keep it. You claiming single mothers might have done abortion in the past then probably they couldn't get rid of the child reason why they had it.

If you also care to know, there are girls that are still virgin in the same Nigeria and they might take their untouched body to marriage. Or you think there are no Virgin also?

Take it or leave it single mothers of one with good character are better than single girls with multiple body count and several abortion
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by advanceDNA: 7:21pm On Oct 01, 2023
UnfairLife7:
You're so weird in your thinking. Do you think is all girls or women that consider abortion if mistakenly got pregnant? Lol. I guess you've probably made up your mind claiming all girls has multiple body count and has done abortion

If you care to know, neive women hardly indulge in abortion. They mostly keep it. It also depends on family as well. Some family are probably not too exposed thinking abortion will kill their child so she was forced to keep it. You claiming single mothers might have done abortion in the past then probably they couldn't get rid of the child reason why they had it.

If you also care to know, there are girls that are still virgin in the same Nigeria and they might take their untouched body to marriage. Or you think there are no Virgin also?

Take it or leave it single mothers of one with good character are better than single girls with multiple body count and several abortion

This is 2023...there are no naive girls....
There are no single mothers with low body counts in 2023... All girls have high body except for virgins...
It's the same high body count girls that get pregnant....they are the same.... Saying single mothers are better than single girls is spitting fallacy and being naive

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Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by UnfairLife7(m): 7:25pm On Oct 01, 2023
advanceDNA:


This is 2023...there are no naive girls....
There are no single mothers with low body counts in 2023... All girls have high body except for virgins...
It's the same high body count girls that get pregnant....they are the same.... Saying single mothers are better than single girls is spitting fallacy and being naive
Your opinion.

I will chose single mother of one over single ladies with several body count, series of abortion and saggy boobs. You're free to chose the latter over the former. It's a choice
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by Gamesmart: 11:08pm On Oct 01, 2023
FRANCISTOWN:


Isn't it better to be celibate instead of f^cking with a single mom?

How is that better?
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by Gamesmart: 11:12pm On Oct 01, 2023
UnfairLife7:
stop sprewing trash comfortably biko. Those single ladies you prefer might have done series of abortion with multiple body count. I know a single mother of one who was deflowered by her husband but sadly the man was irresponsible and she had to leave

I will chose such single mother one million times over your over used single ladies🤣

I would chose (beyond casual sex) any woman who is poor at selecting the men she gives her body to.
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by Gamesmart: 11:16pm On Oct 01, 2023
UnfairLife7:
Olodo the world doesn't revolve around you. Don't expect all men to reason like you.

You ARE married to a single mother, aint you?
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by isabi2lof: 10:39pm On Oct 02, 2023
Same way I can't deal with a single father, I don't have time for their baby mamas dramas.
Re: Why Most Nigerian Men Fear Marrying Single Mothers by delkuf(m): 5:44am On Oct 03, 2023
tiswell:
They always love their 'love child" more...even the children she has for you would not be safe,cos the love child won't ever bond with them.
where did you get this from. Are you married to one

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