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Re: "When It Is Safer To Do Court Marriage As A Guy" by Cjayboy: 1:08pm On Oct 03, 2023
I and my Wife, agreed that court marriage is scam with dirty intent.

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Re: "When It Is Safer To Do Court Marriage As A Guy" by Nice2023(m): 1:10pm On Oct 03, 2023
Court marriage is essential for those who value marriage.

And wrong to those who lack trust.

It should be done immediately or after ur white wedding.

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Re: "When It Is Safer To Do Court Marriage As A Guy" by tiswell(m): 1:12pm On Oct 03, 2023
EgunMogaji2:


It’s never advisable unless there’s a seriously compelling reason. Not even love.

If you must then try to get a solid prenup and/or get your properties beforehand.

Don’t build with a woman. E get why.
Re: "When It Is Safer To Do Court Marriage As A Guy" by Chizigreat(m): 1:12pm On Oct 03, 2023
The Most Important Thing Everyone Must Know.

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Re: "When It Is Safer To Do Court Marriage As A Guy" by BigBashiru: 1:15pm On Oct 03, 2023
morikee:
Anything marriage count me out 🙌

I hate marriage....
Re: "When It Is Safer To Do Court Marriage As A Guy" by Franzinni: 1:25pm On Oct 03, 2023
Wealthoptulent:

after DNA
JUst joiking bruv! its no big deal anytime u can but first make sure it ur missing RIB not replacement RIB.. divorce costed me 700k year 2020
Omo 700k 2020, Omo now as dollar don high men.... Nah die


But it's worth it Sha... did you have to be seperated for at least 2 years before filing for divorce or you can just file for it anytime, asking for the proverbial freind ni o...
Re: "When It Is Safer To Do Court Marriage As A Guy" by xynerise: 1:28pm On Oct 03, 2023
Most of the people speaking against marriage and court marriage here are mostly kids or fuckboys. grin


When you are matured enough you will think differently

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Re: "When It Is Safer To Do Court Marriage As A Guy" by InvertedHammer: 1:34pm On Oct 03, 2023
ebubeson:
Some people may resist court marriage when it is presented to them. Some may prefer having a baby mama to having a court marriage.

When is it probably safer or fair to do court marriage as a guy?.

(1) When the lady you want to marry has loved you so much for long number of years; maybe from secondary school till your adulthood.
(2) When the lady is a virgin. In this case, she is giving you a costly gift in marriage.
(3) When the lady is richer than you, spends well and loves you a lot. When a lady is richer than you and has invested a lot in your life, you may not bother much giving her your wealth to enjoy when things clicks.
(4) When you are the one insisting on it. A lady not interested in court marriage may be kind of safe.
(5) When a lady is not money-conscious. If you have been with a lady for a long time, and you notice she is not having the love of money as a weak point, you may be safe.


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Does it mean that traditional or church wedding is not legally recognized?
I believe most people in Nigeria do it to avoid the expensive trad/church wedding or for japa purposes.

Court marriage is ok when both parties are rich or poor. If the equation is not balanced, don't go near a court unless you will be the beneficiary.

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Re: "When It Is Safer To Do Court Marriage As A Guy" by Nobody: 1:40pm On Oct 03, 2023
I am struggling to make any sense out of your article. Having or not having a court marriage has no correllations to all the points mentioned.
Re: "When It Is Safer To Do Court Marriage As A Guy" by Kobojunkie: 1:42pm On Oct 03, 2023
shiki:
cheesy when the Holy spirit lead the marriage
That never happens. undecided
Re: "When It Is Safer To Do Court Marriage As A Guy" by Kobojunkie: 1:43pm On Oct 03, 2023
ebubeson:
Some people may resist court marriage when it is presented to them. Some may prefer having a baby mama to having a court marriage.When is it probably safer or fair to do court marriage as a guy?.
(1) When the lady you want to marry has loved you so much for long number of years; maybe from secondary school till your adulthood.
(2) When the lady is a virgin. In this case, she is giving you a costly gift in marriage.
(3) When the lady is richer than you, spends well and loves you a lot. When a lady is richer than you and has invested a lot in your life, you may not bother much giving her your wealth to enjoy when things clicks.
(4) When you are the one insisting on it. A lady not interested in court marriage may be kind of safe.
(5) When a lady is not money-conscious. If you have been with a lady for a long time, and you notice she is not having the love of money as a weak point, you may be safe
.
No be by force to create thread naw! undecided
Re: "When It Is Safer To Do Court Marriage As A Guy" by Nobody: 1:49pm On Oct 03, 2023
Kobojunkie:
No be by force to create thread naw! undecided

I honestly tire.
Re: "When It Is Safer To Do Court Marriage As A Guy" by Kakamorufu(m): 1:51pm On Oct 03, 2023
Its never safe. Just that it makes japaing easy for couples
Re: "When It Is Safer To Do Court Marriage As A Guy" by cutedharmee: 1:53pm On Oct 03, 2023
Do what best suit you both and works for you
Re: "When It Is Safer To Do Court Marriage As A Guy" by BabaIbo: 2:04pm On Oct 03, 2023
Tho the post is irrelevant and doesn't make sense, I will play along...

My babe suggested court marriage but I resisted it because I don't see any reason for that at least for now.

Most countries recognize my Church's wedding certificate as legal, so no problem if japa matter arises.
Re: "When It Is Safer To Do Court Marriage As A Guy" by isabi2lof: 2:05pm On Oct 03, 2023
You guys ain't tired of all these , when nobody is forcing you to get married.

Online they say A , offline they do the opposite. undecided

Everytime gender war , una no dey tire , no wonder marriages are failing everyday . Some men that have peaceful homes , due to the things they read or see online , they've turned their homes into a battlefield.

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Re: "When It Is Safer To Do Court Marriage As A Guy" by BabaIbo: 2:06pm On Oct 03, 2023
xynerise:
Most of the people speaking against marriage and court marriage here are mostly kids or fuckboys. grin


When you are matured enough you will think differently

Mu², many of them are better off than you in all aspect of life.
Some are even married sef.

Everyone has choice to make and also have what works for them, but castigating people because of their choices is chi idish.

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Re: "When It Is Safer To Do Court Marriage As A Guy" by isabi2lof: 2:08pm On Oct 03, 2023
Skyview01:
I am struggling to make any sense out of your article. Having or not having a court marriage has no correllations to all the points mentioned.

You're right , no sense at all , everybody wants to claim alpha male and feminist online .
Re: "When It Is Safer To Do Court Marriage As A Guy" by Bfly: 2:08pm On Oct 03, 2023
Wetin concern court with marriage if not a form of prevention.
Re: "When It Is Safer To Do Court Marriage As A Guy" by Risingsunn: 2:14pm On Oct 03, 2023
No big deal about court marriage, when you are tired you can file for divorce. Simple! Marriage no be by force.

Even if you don't file and say you are not doing again, no judge will send you to jail because you said you don't want to marry again.

Divorce is a civil matter and not a criminal matter

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Re: "When It Is Safer To Do Court Marriage As A Guy" by josite: 2:15pm On Oct 03, 2023
when u are sure u will never have anything to lose and when have put the money to hire a very good lawyer in a fixed deposit account.
Re: "When It Is Safer To Do Court Marriage As A Guy" by akaahs(m): 2:16pm On Oct 03, 2023
BabaIbo:
Tho the post is irrelevant and doesn't make sense, I will play along...

My babe suggested court marriage but I resisted it because I don't see any reason for that at least for now.

Most countries recognize my Church's wedding certificate as legal, so no problem if japa matter arises.
Which church is that?
Re: "When It Is Safer To Do Court Marriage As A Guy" by ufotunang: 2:24pm On Oct 03, 2023
When a lady is not money concious ?... which girl in nigeria that is not money concious ?.. where we have urgent 5k babes everywhere 🙄

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Re: "When It Is Safer To Do Court Marriage As A Guy" by divalizzy(f): 2:24pm On Oct 03, 2023
Who is this narcissist?

God abeg o!
Re: "When It Is Safer To Do Court Marriage As A Guy" by MICVOCT(m): 2:33pm On Oct 03, 2023
No safer time!

MICVOCT
Re: "When It Is Safer To Do Court Marriage As A Guy" by xynerise: 2:36pm On Oct 03, 2023
BabaIbo:

Mu², many of them are better off than you in all aspect of life.
Some are even married sef.

Everyone has choice to make and also have what works for them, but castigating people because of their choices is chi idish.
Everyone has a choice, true; so why are they speaking against other people's choice? Your last sentence back at you
Re: "When It Is Safer To Do Court Marriage As A Guy" by AlphaHakimi: 2:39pm On Oct 03, 2023
Court marriage is to the detriment of the man. If you must do a court marriage, get your wife to sign a BULLETPROOF PRENUP or WILL every possession you have or may have SECRETLY to your mum or dad.

#Hakimi

Shalom
Re: "When It Is Safer To Do Court Marriage As A Guy" by 2Radii: 2:46pm On Oct 03, 2023
Skyview01:


I honestly tire.

You will soon understand baba grin grin grin

I will be here to laugh at ur foolery when ur time is come grin
Re: "When It Is Safer To Do Court Marriage As A Guy" by Nobody: 2:49pm On Oct 03, 2023
;
2Radii:


You will soon understand baba grin grin grin

I will be here to laugh at ur foolery when ur time is come grin

cool
Re: "When It Is Safer To Do Court Marriage As A Guy" by Caleycash(m): 2:55pm On Oct 03, 2023
Spells:

Anything that works for you do it… not all dis… this write up is selfish
How's it selfish!?, how many men are noticed when they're not doing fine financially or if they're not wealthy??, keep deluding yourself with self righteousness, you'll be on the losing end soon!

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Re: "When It Is Safer To Do Court Marriage As A Guy" by Caleycash(m): 2:57pm On Oct 03, 2023
Cjayboy:
I and my Wife, agreed that court marriage is scam with dirty intent.
💯 Scam!!!
Re: "When It Is Safer To Do Court Marriage As A Guy" by Caleycash(m): 2:58pm On Oct 03, 2023
divalizzy:
Who is this narcissist?

God abeg o!
Go and hussle for your own money... Thief!

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