isabi2lof:
Cheap sex can actually take away some people sense of reasoning

Plus other self benefits.

MICVOCT

SenecaTheYonger:
This is your future:

-You’re going to break up with your loyal GF.
-You will date your old crush. After a while, you’ll come to realize there was nothing special about her.
-Your old crush will also come to hate you and seek out another guy to sleep with.
-You will fight to save the relationship.
-You will fail.
-She will leave.
-You’ll be alone.

These you have seen!

You knacked her raw??
answer me first before i proceed.

Kakamorufu:
You knacked her raw??
answer me first before i proceed.

Lol why are you asking when the answer is obvious. He didn't give the details of how the sex went down buh from the introduction, I didn't see where a condom was in a bag or pocket. I'm sure there wasn't condoms in his house.

StylesX:
She was the first girl I ever had amorous feelings for, I was in secondary school then, I asked her out with all the courage my being could muster, and she turned me down, we stayed friends for over 10years, I would try to move on, and it would work for a while and all the feelings will come back all over again especially when I see her, I don't see her often as she lives in another state.

We both did well for ourselves, I concentrated on making myself a better guy, worked hard to make something of myself, she did the same, and over the years we were just friends and I went ahead and dated only 4 girls, I don't womanize, I realized I always looked for her in every girl I dated, and I mostly dated girls that looked like her, I have been lucky with love in the sense that all the girls I dated loved me, I'm currently in a relationship with a decent girl too.

So fast forward to last week, she came visiting all of a sudden, haven't seen her for over two years and here she is, we connected and spent time like best friends, shared and talked about our lives and joked about how she put me in friend zone in the past, throughout her stay she stayed in my apartment, we slept in same bed and everything yet nothing happened, she kept talking about how I am a good guy that most guys will sleep with a girl that come under their roof, sometimes she would change her clothes in my presence and I won't make any move, she said being a good guy was what she hated about me back then, that she thought I was weak, and now that she's matured she sees that quality differently now, I didn't read meaning to any of this as I have zeroed out the thought of anything happening between us for years until she started doing strange things, like kissing me without warning, cuddling at night and pressing me to her Bossom etc,

One night she did that and I got aroused, I lost control and we got intimate, it was intense, but before we could have actual sex I came to my senses and made her stop, it was super awkward, we didn't talk about it because she has a partner and I do too, I thought we'd just pretend nothing happened and move on so we wouldn't sabotage our relationships, then the next day we were alone at home in my living room, she wore my Tshirt with undies and we were binge watching movies, suddenly she started kissing and touching me, and I lost it again and this time we had passionate sex, she left the next day, and ever since then I've been confused and guilt ridden, she told me it was a mistake she rejected me in the past that we can still start something if I want, that she is ready to be with me, but I wasn't buying it, I am confused because a part of me feel something fishy is up, and the other part wanted her but I don't know how to tell my girlfriend nor do I want to hurt my girlfriend, I don't love her like I loved this old time crush of mine, but she is a loyal girlfriend and I can't look her in the eyes since the sex thing happened, and every nerve in my body is telling me to confess and ask for forgiveness or keep quiet and move on with my life, what do I do?

I pity you hope you use protection cos she is about to pin a child that is not yours on you. no be very food person dey chop

She's probably pregnant and wants to push it on you, thereby initiating the sex

StylesX:
The school you attended no try, I wonder what happened to your comprehension.

He is actuallu saying the truth

She may likely call you to report a preganancy

But guy you no try at all

Person reject you for so many years
And after your life is now about to launch she shows up all of a sudden
And you just fell like that

I only pity your so called loyal girlfriend sha

ExudeLoveToAll:
I will choose loyalty over dopamine rush any day any time.

I will prefer someone who is matured at a younger age than someone who starts making better decisions as she grows older.

A word is ok for the wise .

Chaiiiii
Wisdom
Wisdom
Wisdom
..
Loyalty over dopamine chief

Na advice d guy com ask ooo No beta person even reason d mata Na

Trizyd:


Lol why are you asking when the answer is obvious. He didn't give the details of how the sex went down buh from the introduction, I didn't see where a condom was in a bag or pocket. I'm sure there wasn't condoms in his house.

Be like she wan pin belle on ham ooo IMO.
Let's see how the story goes sha

MICVOCT:


Plus other self benefits.

MICVOCT

Dey play , I'm not saying sex isn't good but at as a man , you should know what you're doing .

Kakamorufu:
Be like she wan pin belle on ham ooo IMO.
Let's see how the story goes sha

Oh she's coming back. It's her comeback I am waiting for him to update us about. He would probably give us more details then. If he wants to.

Trizyd:



Oh she's coming back. It's her comeback I am waiting for him to update us about. He would probably give us more details then. If he wants to.

we awaits

isabi2lof:


Dey play , I'm not saying sex isn't good but at as a man , you should know what you're doing .

Yinmu...o ti get me wrong

Here's what I was trying to decode, without limiting it to reasoning. There's more than that to loose.....

I can still loose my aura or positive energy, just because of sex. To me, that's self benefit. Now you've got me thinking, thanks for that

MICVOCT

Let me sound like a security relationship expert here. But before I do that, I want you to know that betrayal is not healthy in a relationship. It is tormenting and hurtful. Having said that, have even thought that bringing this scenario of yours to platform such as this can be catastrophic and may end your existing relationship with your real girlfriend? For example, I don't know you, you don't know me but we are here, right? Let me tell you, there may be one or two guys who may still have crush on this your girlfriend you have just cheated on with your so-called girl who are on this platform. They could use this confessional advice-seeking piece of yours to take her away from you. I don't know for you, if I like a girl and she is already with someone, I follow him on ALL his social media platforms for any clue to use against him to be able to get that girl. Bros, this may be happening to you. And believe you me, if this happens, you may end up losing the two girls. You said it yourself that something if off about this "your high school girl". If you want to confess, confess. If you want to keep quite and move on with your life, that is up to you.
Honestly speaking bro, do you know why you are in this situation? It is because immorality has become a norm in our society. It is elevated to a position of the air we breath which everybody wants to inhale. Our argument always is, we are human, body no be wood, I want to belong, stuffs like that. The most important thing we seem to forget is that God created all of us as upright human beings and expected us to be moral. You and many of us are in this situation because we deviate from HIS PATH.
MAY GOD FORGIVE US and give you a way out because you sound honest, gentle and genuine.
Yours.

Let me sound like a security relationship expert here. But before I do that, I want you to know that betrayal is not healthy in a relationship. It is tormenting and hurtful. Having said that, have even thought that bringing this scenario of yours to platform such as this can be catastrophic and may end your existing relationship with your real girlfriend? For example, I don't know you, you don't know me but we are here, right? Let me tell you, there may be one or two guys who may still have crush on this your girlfriend you have just cheated on with your so-called girl who are on this platform. They could use this confessional advice-seeking piece of yours to take her away from you. I don't know for you, if I like a girl and she is already with someone, I follow him on ALL his social media platforms for any clue to use against him to be able to get that girl. Bros, this may be happening to you. And believe you me, if this happens, you may end up losing the two girls. You said it yourself that something if off about this "your high school girl". If you want to confess, confess. If you want to keep quiet and move on with your life, which is up to you.
Honestly speaking bro, do you know why you are in this situation? It is because immorality has become a norm in our society. It is elevated to a position of the air we breathe which everybody wants to inhale. Our argument always is, we are human, body no be wood, I want to belong, stuffs like that. The most important thing we seem to forget is that God created all of us as upright human beings and expected us to be moral. You and many of us are in this situation because we deviate from HIS PATH.
MAY GOD FORGIVE US and give you a way out because you sound honest, gentle and genuine.
Yours

Goodharoun:
Let me sound like a security relationship expert here. But before I do that, I want you to know that betrayal is not healthy in a relationship. It is tormenting and hurtful. Having said that, have even thought that bringing this scenario of yours to platform such as this can be catastrophic and may end your existing relationship with your real girlfriend? For example, I don't know you, you don't know me but we are here, right? Let me tell you, there may be one or two guys who may still have crush on this your girlfriend you have just cheated on with your so-called girl who are on this platform. They could use this confessional advice-seeking piece of yours to take her away from you. I don't know for you, if I like a girl and she is already with someone, I follow him on ALL his social media platforms for any clue to use against him to be able to get that girl. Bros, this may be happening to you. And believe you me, if this happens, you may end up losing the two girls. You said it yourself that something if off about this "your high school girl". If you want to confess, confess. If you want to keep quite and move on with your life, that is up to you.
Honestly speaking bro, do you know why you are in this situation? It is because immorality has become a norm in our society. It is elevated to a position of the air we breath which everybody wants to inhale. Our argument always is, we are human, body no be wood, I want to belong, stuffs like that. The most important thing we seem to forget is that God created all of us as upright human beings and expected us to be moral. You and many of us are in this situation because we deviate from HIS PATH.
MAY GOD FORGIVE US and give you a way out because you sound honest, gentle and genuine.
Yours.

Thanks for this