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Re: I Received The Greatest Disgrace Of My Life!!! by Thundafireseun: 9:45pm On Oct 05, 2023 |
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Re: I Received The Greatest Disgrace Of My Life!!! by olioxx(m): 9:47pm On Oct 05, 2023 |
It is a normal thing to have stage fright, if you want to remedy the phobia, do this. 1. Take a deep breath while on stage 2. If possible take bottle water, so that once you forget what to say or if the tension is building up, you drive water to relive yourself. 3. Focus your gaze on some selected audience. Try it thank me later 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Received The Greatest Disgrace Of My Life!!! by grandstar(m): 9:47pm On Oct 05, 2023 |
Wallteck: The more you do it, the better you become. It is no big deal. Just thank your stars you don't suffer from agoraphobia. It is practically a death sentence. |
Re: I Received The Greatest Disgrace Of My Life!!! by spencekat(m): 9:47pm On Oct 05, 2023 |
Public speaking no be here o. With repetition and mastery,you go dey alright for it. |
Re: I Received The Greatest Disgrace Of My Life!!! by Timothy89(m): 9:48pm On Oct 05, 2023 |
I used to be like you not until I see dead body live in casket I come dey see everyone as same same if crowd full everywhere I'll give my speech without any fuss 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Received The Greatest Disgrace Of My Life!!! by fayomim: 9:48pm On Oct 05, 2023 |
Wallteck: you bleeped up big time |
Re: I Received The Greatest Disgrace Of My Life!!! by socialmediaman: 9:48pm On Oct 05, 2023 |
Wallteck: You don’t need drugs, you need to practice and present more. Many speakers today were like you. If you read books about their life experiences you’ll know 6 Likes |
Re: I Received The Greatest Disgrace Of My Life!!! by RushManni: 9:49pm On Oct 05, 2023 |
Wallteck: It happens even to the best speakers. It's obvious you don't know that. 1 Like |
Re: I Received The Greatest Disgrace Of My Life!!! by AllenSpencer: 9:51pm On Oct 05, 2023 |
Try using alcohol next time! That has always been my secret! If you see me burning on the podium, I am 30% to drunk It makes you bold, confident and gives you a sense to reason fast to questions. 6 Likes |
Re: I Received The Greatest Disgrace Of My Life!!! by AZControversial(m): 9:51pm On Oct 05, 2023 |
![]() We've seen those days...... Yours is just one. Lemme not start counting my own..... I just hate facing crowd shaaa!!! |
Re: I Received The Greatest Disgrace Of My Life!!! by Lexusgs430: 9:51pm On Oct 05, 2023 |
Wallteck: Importance of a notepad and bullet points........ You did not prepare enough..... |
Re: I Received The Greatest Disgrace Of My Life!!! by Theta1: 9:52pm On Oct 05, 2023 |
Whenever i see such topic i always thank God for been a prefect during my secondary school and also thank God for my seniors that will tell us to go and toast random girls during break time. Those boarding activities build my courage to face any crowd and approach any lady. 3 Likes |
Re: I Received The Greatest Disgrace Of My Life!!! by BigSmoke4u: 9:54pm On Oct 05, 2023 |
Its not your fault its just the way you were brought up Now that you know,never raise your child the same way Some parents go dey knack pikin put inside like say na pet,shuuu na parent u be abi vet? 11 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: I Received The Greatest Disgrace Of My Life!!! by Watinhapen(m): 9:54pm On Oct 05, 2023 |
Talking to the crowd is not difficult. You don’t need to look at everyone. Just find one person that with a friendly face and keep looking at the person while talking. Don’t ever look at everyone when talking to the crowd. That’s the secret. 9 Likes |
Re: I Received The Greatest Disgrace Of My Life!!! by kingphilip(m): 9:55pm On Oct 05, 2023 |
You stand and others sit down? The key to beating the fear of facing the crowd is to master the topic. If you master the topic and you are flowing well, the crowd will not matter to you. You will just be spitting fact until you're done with the presentation. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Received The Greatest Disgrace Of My Life!!! by Menclothing: 9:55pm On Oct 05, 2023 |
This is what |
Re: I Received The Greatest Disgrace Of My Life!!! by minakom: 9:56pm On Oct 05, 2023 |
Wallteck:Ordinary Canadian Loud for help you. Chaaai |
Re: I Received The Greatest Disgrace Of My Life!!! by hkidola00(m): 9:56pm On Oct 05, 2023 |
GiftedHands47:hahahahahaha,I don't agree but it funmi ![]() |
Re: I Received The Greatest Disgrace Of My Life!!! by purples25(f): 9:56pm On Oct 05, 2023 |
Secondary school; one of my English teachers betted against the other that I could debate well. They fixed a debate with me in it. On the d day, two girls from my class sat behind me. I remember it was the tallest girl in the class and one other short girl. When I wanted to get up as my name was called, they pulled me down, they pulled my clothes, whispering to me that I don't know anything that I'll say, can I debate, etc. Because of them I sat down and didn't go. Someone else took my spot. At the University level, 300 level to be precise, we had a group project. Everyone in my group was messing up when it came to presentation. Nobody even expected me to make anything better, as I was known to be quiet and antisocial. However, I knew the whole thing back to back. When it got to my turn, I don't know what entered me. I just looked at the fact that I know this project too well, to hell with whoever is looking at me sef. I spoke and everyone was dumbfounded. Even the lecturer was so pleased. I saved my group with my presentation. It was so surprising to my set, that girl that everyone assumes knows nothing. That week, I received admiration and hailing die. Some people even asked that I should come and teach them. It was a short lived bit of Fame, but it made me happy. You can overcome your fear of the crowd at any age. Once you do, you can always do it again. 10 Likes |
Re: I Received The Greatest Disgrace Of My Life!!! by MrsTwrite(f): 9:58pm On Oct 05, 2023 |
Sorry. |
Re: I Received The Greatest Disgrace Of My Life!!! by Ashawoman82: 9:59pm On Oct 05, 2023 |
This might sound funny o, but next time take little alcohol or energy drink before addressing the crowd. Fearless energy drink does it for me . 1 Like |
Re: I Received The Greatest Disgrace Of My Life!!! by Okechinwadike: 10:00pm On Oct 05, 2023 |
you shouldn't have been looking at the crowds, is just like someone climbing MTN mass they don't look down on the ground |
Re: I Received The Greatest Disgrace Of My Life!!! by Figger(m): 10:00pm On Oct 05, 2023 |
advanceDNA:Lol. we call it Dutch courage |
Re: I Received The Greatest Disgrace Of My Life!!! by Wallteck: 10:00pm On Oct 05, 2023 |
BigSmoke4u: To toast a girl is not my problem naa, to be able to face crowd is the probs!!! |
Re: I Received The Greatest Disgrace Of My Life!!! by ChristianMuslim: 10:01pm On Oct 05, 2023 |
Thats why its good to be social and humble |
Re: I Received The Greatest Disgrace Of My Life!!! by flokii: 10:02pm On Oct 05, 2023 |
@OP Don't feel too bad, just work on your confidence level and self esteem.. Public speaking is really not hard.. Those smooth and fluent speakers you see everywhere started from somewhere. Practice makes perfect.. as you grow older, you'd become better at it. 1 Like |
Re: I Received The Greatest Disgrace Of My Life!!! by Lovecars501(m): 10:03pm On Oct 05, 2023 |
Wallteck:You'll overcome it man, it's a matter of time and practice. Don't even think about using drugs or weed or any harmful stuff claiming that it'll make you "high". You'll only be ruining yourself. You'll overcome it naturally. |
Re: I Received The Greatest Disgrace Of My Life!!! by kingphilip(m): 10:03pm On Oct 05, 2023 |
Wallteck:Na wetin kill you be that. Have a small note as summary and take a sneak peek time to time to Keep you on track. 1 Like |
Re: I Received The Greatest Disgrace Of My Life!!! by InvertedHammer: 10:03pm On Oct 05, 2023 |
Wallteck:/ You sabotaged yourself. A beginner's kit must include a small bottle of Jack Daniel's. / 1 Like |
Re: I Received The Greatest Disgrace Of My Life!!! by Nyascobar1414: 10:06pm On Oct 05, 2023 |
PaganTerrorist:or study medicine and surgery |
Re: I Received The Greatest Disgrace Of My Life!!! by alfajohn: 10:11pm On Oct 05, 2023 |
Public speaking is not your mate. Our educational system failed us we were not trained for such. We should have been made to make presentation at our early age. 6 Likes |
Re: I Received The Greatest Disgrace Of My Life!!! by advanceDNA: 10:13pm On Oct 05, 2023 |
Figger: 👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍 But the guy messed himself up buy not using notes...he was stupidly trying to show off when he knows he has storage fright.. .. even the best speakers use notes 1 Like |
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