Father4all:
But when Muslim Women/Ladies dress modestly, they abuse, insult, laugh and stereotype them. Bunch of hypocrites

Ashawokobokobo:

Not true o!
I personally love hijab wearing girls.

Ashawokobokobo:

Gbam!
If that girl handle you for bed, you go forget your current girlfriend.

Father4all:
Then, you must be a Muslim

progressb4andno:


Bros, small matter look where u carry d levels go heh

FarmTech:

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A modestly dressed lady can cause some men to think about Christ and eventually repent. Not all, but some.

Kobojunkie:
Christians/Churchians and controlling of the way OTHERS live their lives are like 5&6. That desire to wield power and control over the freedoms of expression of others is a high they can't seem to resist.

Ombudsman1:
■JUST DEY PLAY. ITS A REALITY YOU WERE BORN INTO AND WILL CERTAINLY DIE AND LEAVE AS IS. JUNKY

siofra:
■ Thank you for saying this. As I get older, I've realised that every rule and law made by the Church (Catholic church especially) is just meant to control the minds of people. And it makes me so mad😤

FarmTech:
Do you know, you can command others to grant your heart's desire?

Yes! You can.

It is just so simple to do. The trick is this, dress the way you want them to address you.

You can command an interviewer to grant you that job request. He or she may not know your qualifications, but the first impression and appearance has qualified you already.

You can command your environment to respect you, even if you don't deserve it.

You can command your fellow age group to give you the respect you deserve.

All those things can be achievable when you are moderate in your dressing.

You don't need to expose the front and back qualities before others will respect you. They don't need to see your knees, laps, packs etc before they can give you what you need.

You don't need that skinny and tight gown before they can give you what you need.

I know, at this point some people are like…

That is what I do to get what I need. Some will say; nothing is free, not even in freetown.

Ladies, do you know that, those same human beings you expose your body to, are busy looking for a faithful and a responsible being.

They are only helping you tarnish your image. They have only come to give you a free ticket to a life filled with regret.

Guys, do you know that ladies find it difficult to believe a Guy that other ladies are so attached to?

Don't Kill the respect others are supposed to give to you. You deserve more than you are receiving. You are a speck and so special to be misused.

Dress in a manner that you want others to address you. Others will address you in the manner you appear, therefore be of guidance on your appearance.

I am so glad it is Friday. Don't go out this weekend with indecent Wears.

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HugeElephant:
That's what make a Christian. You live a christ like life.

frugal:
■ We can only advise and encourage you. No one is putting a gun to your head or forcely trying to convince you. Very hyprocritical of you tho. On one hand you're accusing them of trying to control your freedom of expression. On the other hand you're also trying to control theirs by suggesting what they should or shouldn't say/do.

Porksupplyib:
🤣🤣 Here comes the religious confusionist with her confusion again. Can't you just rest? God is not concerned whether they do it clothed or naked, they should. Just obey his teachings? 😆 Dressing morally is not part of his teachings and commandments?🤣

Surface2AirToto:
Keep decieving yourselves. If you like cover yourself from head to toe like all those Muslim women, if you like remain a virgin till 40, person wey go still marry better husband go marry.

Pacesetter2021:
Yes modesty is very good.

The benchmark however is to not expose skin like thighs, boobs and avoiding body con shaped dresses that leaves nothing to the imagination.

Your hair however can be well adorned. Doesn't have to be covered up.

Just wanted to add that so the younger ones are not discouraged.

Lucymercy:
l laugh in in urhobo😄😄😄 . There was a time l have a girlfriend that dress like this and plate her hair with rubber and thread..friends mock me what l am doing with her some at of jealousy (the girls in our class) but unknown to them this girl now fire when it comes to bedmatics and sex..tell me the style will the not do. Abeg make una forget dressing.[color=#006600][/color]

phemmyfour:
Lies
Your character not dressing. That's why we still have evil perpetuated in deeper life despite their "decent" dressing

tarboshi:
Am not impressed. Kindly share you pictures of Wednesday to Friday.
This might be her Sunday 'uniform'.

WriterX:

In all of this dressing thing, I see this, the intent of the dresser matters for me in my views.


There is something the apostle Paul talked about. In Romans 14:12-15

Therefore let us stop passing judgment on one another. Instead, make up your mind not to put any stumbling block or obstacle in your brother's way.
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As one who is in the Lord Jesus, I am fully convinced that no food [2] is unclean in itself. But if anyone regards something as unclean, then for him it is unclean.
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If your brother is distressed because of what you eat, you are no longer acting in love. Do not by your eating destroy your brother for whom Christ died.
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Do not allow what you consider good to be spoken of as evil.

I consider this too in clothing, for me it is simple, the intent of the person who is wearing the clothes matter, why are you wearing it? Are you trying to get the attention of someone(s) cause this is where it becomes dangerous? Is a show of sexual appeal seduction? Again the society has really stretched the line on this. The bible says it is not what goes inside of us but what comes out.... so when you wear what you wear, what are your thought, is it a oh this dress is nice on me and everyone is going to love it or oh Jim must fall for this..all the guys must hear am! Lol

How we as Christians view things matter , verse 15 adds more , would what you are wearing discomfort a fellow believer, would it make you feel odd in a fellowship of other believers, would you be comfortable been with your Christ like brothers and sisters.

16. Reiterates your belief , we can only defend what is good and right when we know and do what is good and right.

In the end, i don't judge people base on their dressing, rather than judge people's dressing base on religious doctrine , lets do better .

DominusPrime:


Be able to think broadly. I dressed up for an interview with a suit, tie, nice pants and my glasses. I was the only person given the job. I was told that I was the best dressed amongst all the applicants for a job that didn’t even require that kind of dressing. And they said that was what made them give me the job. There are times when dressing can influence decisions and there are times when it won’t. You just have to be able to reason extensively instead of saying dressing can never affect decisions.

FarmTech:



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It's not just about dressing alone. Total obedience to Christ is what matters. Any lady that obeys Christ cannot dress immodestly.

world123:
I respect modesty in dressing. However, telling me that the way I dress will influence people's decision is a fat lie.

Getting the right skills, wisdom, and God does the trick.

phemmyfour:
But can disobey in other areas like gossiping, backbiting, stealing, adultery etc

Don't be deceived by their appearance, they are wolves in sheep clothing