How do you mean partner? Well if you have not legally married her then this action is a warning signal.

concho:
My partner has a day off today, so she dressed up this morning and said she was going to see a female colleague at work

I was not comfortable with it and asked her not to go since they see everyday at work

She didn't say a word to me but kept on dressing up.

She just left to the said friend’s house.

Is it really right? What would you do in my shoe??

Partner? What kind of partner is that?
Is she a wife?
Make the details clearer.

concho:
She cheated before

Your wife cheated
Boss you be strong man i swear.

concho:
My partner has a day off today, so she dressed up this morning and said she was going to see a female colleague at work

I was not comfortable with it and asked her not to go since they see everyday at work

She didn't say a word to me but kept on dressing up.

She just left to the said friend’s house.

Is it really right? What would you do in my shoe??

Clearly, you treat your wife like a child and she doesn't respect you. Now it's up to you to regain your respect.

Hathor5:
Why would you feel umcomfortable with her seeing a friend?

GEnder supporting gender

concho:
She cheated before

Are both of you married or just cohabiting?

concho:
My partner has a day off today, so she dressed up this morning and said she was going to see a female colleague at work

I was not comfortable with it and asked her not to go since they see everyday at work

She didn't say a word to me but kept on dressing up.

She just left to the said friend’s house.

Is it really right? What would you do in my shoe??

If she is off from work, why is she going to office to see her female colleague? Why can't she call her if she has something important to tell her or wait after work dey see elsewhere. She is going to see anoda persn but used her female colleague as an escape route for her cover up

Hathor5:


I don`t know the nature of her work but at work I don`t get to gist with my colleagues/friends a lot because at work we work. If we want to spend some good time togther, talk and laugh, we meet after work or on a free day.

If you don`t trust her, then you guys have much bigger issues than what has happened today.

Trust u say?? Na so I trust my own and got the shockest news of my life

concho:
My partner has a day off today, so she dressed up this morning and said she was going to see a female colleague at work

I was not comfortable with it and asked her not to go since they see everyday at work

She didn't say a word to me but kept on dressing up.

She just left to the said friend’s house.

Is it really right? What would you do in my shoe??

It shows u re not fully in charge of ur household.

Meanwhile, what u can do include

Stop eating her food.

You report her to her parents, in reporting to her parents, you should blackmail her that she went to visit concubine against ur stance.

concho:
My partner has a day off today, so she dressed up this morning and said she was going to see a female colleague at work

I was not comfortable with it and asked her not to go since they see everyday at work

She didn't say a word to me but kept on dressing up.

She just left to the said friend’s house.

Is it really right? What would you do in my shoe??

The question is why do you wish your partner not to go out?

And this partner , is she a child or a full grown adult who could go where ever she wanted before she met you?

Are you sure it is a partner you want? Won’t you prefer a slave, that will be saying Yes Sah! since you now want to become a slave master policing another adult.

That’s how you guys will now start suffocating someone that is supposed to be your partner, companion and friend.

concho:
She cheated before

oga dey play. Is going down again. I can't imagine how a full grown man will accept a cheating lady back and convince himself she won't do it again. In first of all, why would a so called partner will not listen or accept the fact you refused her going out? That is a huge red flag of a cheater

Do your own back if it will make you feel okay if not... Dont disturb yourself and free your mind.

concho:
My partner has a day off today, so she dressed up this morning and said she was going to see a female colleague at work

I was not comfortable with it and asked her not to go since they see everyday at work

She didn't say a word to me but kept on dressing up.

She just left to the said friend’s house.

Is it really right? What would you do in my shoe??

concho:
She cheated before

If ur story is true

I doubt if u re not a jobless and toothless bulldog.

Since she is the one feeding you, u should continuing playing a second fiddle at home.

Hathor5:


I don`t know the nature of her work but at work I don`t get to gist with my colleagues/friends a lot because at work we work. If we want to spend some good time togther, talk and laugh, we meet after work or on a free day.

If you don`t trust her, then you guys have much bigger issues than what has happened today.

Just gist? You normal ?

Her husband says nah, you are trying to justify her bad character...

You better dump the LovePeddler

What's the essence of having a day off if she wont use the day to rest at home and have a beautiful time with her man.


OP tell your woman to tell you where she went to cos I'm sure there's more to her lame excuse.
Dont trust that gender.

izonborn098:
You're a fool for accepting a cheat back.. She don't have ur time mumu

Red flag ful everywhere but quite unfortunate you are still blinded by love...

By the time you father her ex children in your home, just don't destroy the REMAINING PART OF YOUR LIFE

concho:
My partner has a day off today, so she dressed up this morning and said she was going to see a female colleague at work

I was not comfortable with it and asked her not to go since they see everyday at work

She didn't say a word to me but kept on dressing up.

She just left to the said friend’s house.

Is it really right? What would you do in my shoe??

From the attitude of ignoring you, putting you to one corner, and doing what she wants regardless, it is clear she doesn't rate you or is the kind of person that "doesn't allow a man tell her what to do."

It is better to just let her be and look for someone else. If you continue the relationship, na you sabi. If you are a liberal man and you keep imbibing liberal principles in relationship at the expense of traditional ones, the chicken will come home to roost.

“Forgiveness” 🤩

Allow her cheat again and forgive once again. Since that's the limitation of your brain work. 💁

concho:
She cheated before

Than she is still cheating 🙄

concho:
She cheated before

Well well

So I was right that she doesn't rate you. Forgive a woman for cheating and lose your respect. In fact, she will even cheat again and if you catch her again, she will blame you for forgiving her before.

Don't be a simp, bro. I knew you were liberal in mind with no red pill awareness.

Are you working? Sometimes women tends to disobey men who earn less than they do.

concho:
She cheated before

you have already lost. She will cheat again and there is nothing you can do about it, till you take yourself out of that so called ship

concho:


“Forgiveness” 🤩

Ok
Assume she is cheating and forgive her now.
Case closed

Emeskhalifa:


Ohh... Once a soldier, always a soldier

TheGift:


The question is why do you wish your partner not to go out?

And this partner , is she a child or a full grown adult who could go where ever she wanted before she met you?

Are you sure it is a partner you want? Won’t you prefer a slave, that will be saying Yes Sah! since you now want to become a slave master policing another adult.

That’s how you guys will now start suffocating someone that is supposed to be your partner, companion and friend.

You sound a bit naive.

First, as an adult. If your partner tells you what doesn't add up, you should be able to figure out it doesn't add up.

You mentioned about being an adult who could go anywhere before she met the OP. So if she's goes to strippers club at 1am before she met him, she can still continue because she's an adult? As married person, there are habits you have to change once you are married.

GOFRONT:
Someone cannot go and visit a colleague in peace again.


Op, Maybe you are the type that say no to "checking a partner's phone inbox"

One guy somewhere might have dripped a location for her for a sexcapade.


Trust your instinct. Instinct is Spiritual, He hardly lie to us.

Exacy!!!

concho:
A friend she sees everyday at work ?
A junior colleague for that matter

We have instincts, mine told me something was wrong .

If you don't have confidence in her, then simply end the relationship and give yourself peace.

Wetin you sef dey do for house? You no go work? Lol
But jokes apart, this kin tin no suppose pain u like dat o. Me, i like doing do me i do you. Just be patient, there will be a day she will be at home, whether weekend or weekdays, then do ur own back. Enter bathroom, take a shower, dress up nicely, spray perfume, then head out. Even when she dey ask you baby where u dey go, tell her u wan go see a frnd. Even if you no get where to go, enter one joint, enjoy yourself, stay for hours. Then when you enter house, if she carry her wahala come tell her straight, na you start am o, so no ask me that kin question again. Do it again and again and again. She go resense herself

concho:
My partner has a day off today, so she dressed up this morning and said she was going to see a female colleague at work

I was not comfortable with it and asked her not to go since they see everyday at work

She didn't say a word to me but kept on dressing up.

She just left to the said friend’s house.

Is it really right? What would you do in my shoe??

Then u are weak.....Dis is what I called See finish......

Please be patient with her. When she comes back let her know that you are not pleased with what she has done. And let her know that she disobeyed you. God will intervene in the affairs of your home IJN.