PinkNature:


Please do.

It even get worse when the weather is moderately hot, because the oil production becomes more Intense. I'm a bit light skinned, and my face get's too shiny and feels a bit heavy for me.

What I've been doing on my own path to manage it? I wash my bedsheets regularly, bath twice daily (kind of a ritual), and also wash my face whenever the oil accumulate.

I make use of tura soap, but I stopped and continued using Eva soap. Soon as I started using Eva, pimples started paying a visit.

Please do list all your routine if possible.

Thank you.

Tura contains mercury. I can tell u natural stuff that can clear your face but it will cost u.

teebagy:
Tura contains mercury. I can tell u natural stuff that can clear your face but it will cost u.

Ok. Let me know.

PinkNature:

Ok. Let me know.

U will have to pay me for my recommendation

teebagy:
U will have to pay me for my recommendation

bruh if you are not sharing it for free forget it.

teebagy don't pay a dime.

Pukkalolo:


You're wrong bro.

This was my biggest limiting belief back then.

I used to think physical looks is all that matters. But I started meeting guys who are average looking like me and observing their behavior with women. I saw that despite their average looks, they seem to be scoring with girls.

I realized I got no excuses.

As long you don't look like a chimpanzee or Shrek, then your looks can not prevent you from getting with women.

Physical looks are important attraction switch for men, but with women, it’s only a part of the whole package. Yes, if you're tall and handsome, you will have it easier with girls....

But I will be brutally frank here: in my neighborhood, I know quite number of fellas who are better looking than me, but I still score more girls than them ... Infact many of them struggle to get anywhere with women.

Anytime I'm seen with a new cute girl, the fellas tease me, "Baba, how you take they get all these fine fine girls??"

Well, I've got, AUDACITY

Here's how I define audacity: when you interact with a woman like it already certain that you are gonna Bleep her. Whenever I interact with a new woman, I have this audacious and entitled attitude of a guy who has already slept with her.


Asking a girl to hangout with you

Other guys: "I'll like to hangout with you dear...Uhmm, please what do you think?"

Pukka: "I want you to wear this beautiful pink gown on the day you and I are gonna hangout."


Inviting her to your house

Other guys: "Howfar girl, Uhmm, how about you come hangout with me in my place... Uhmm, let just chill and you know, maybe watch movie or something?"

Pukka: "I wonder what I'll serve you when you come to my crib this Sunday, I'm still tryna remember what I've got in my fridge."


If you notice from my own interaction, you could see how audacious I was. I interact with pure certainty. I talk like it's already certain I'm getting them.


No jokes, Couples of time girls have ask me,
"are you rich or something?"

I'll ask "Why"

They say things like, "only rich guys talk in this confident manner."



Many girls are attracted to my audacious attitude, and not my looks.

I'm just average looking by the way, so most girls don't look at me the second time. That's why I don't wait for chosen signals, else I'll be waiting till thy kingdom comes.

Like I said, most girls don't look at me the second time, but when I start talking, they are intrigued immediately because I attack them with my audacity and unpredictability.

See my interactions with these different ladies, so you can get a glimpse of how audacious I am with women.

Here:

https://www.nairaland.com/7800065/darkest-aspects-female-psychology#125048452


Here:

https://www.nairaland.com/7809463/funny-experience-beautiful-muslim-lady


Here:

https://www.nairaland.com/7835777/crazy-experience-two-beautiful-nurses

And here:

https://www.nairaland.com/7868239/crazy-experience-lady-restaurant-yesterday

Law 28: Enter Action with Boldness (48 Laws of Power)

If you hesitate before doing something, your doubts will undermine your efforts. When you act, be bold — and if you make mistakes, correct them with even greater boldness. Everyone admires the bold.

Ballzproblem2:
bruh if you are not sharing it for free forget it.

teebagy don't pay a dime.

Nothing in life is free.

teebagy:
Nothing in life is free.

ok do what you wish

As a man The more you keep showing off your resources and little gains, the higher you're attracted by gold diggers.


Same thing applies to women.
The more you keep exposing your body with stupid kind of dresses the higher you get Bleep with no true love from men side.

What do I know...

chenny360:
As a man The more you keep showing off your resources and little gains, the higher you're attracted by gold diggers.


Same thing applies to women.
The more you keep exposing your body with stupid kind of dresses the higher you get Bleep with no true love from men side.

What do I know...

Just to point out, hypergamy is gold digging which makes women naturally gold diggers.

But there are levels to the gold digging.

No woman wants you for just being you, you must have something she thinks she desires.

So when you're out there, don't loose guard .

AWALT IS A CONSTANT not a derivative.

Understand this.

sagerasaq:
Na wa for dis guy ooo.. U c toto u dy smell for condom. Ma babe don go bang anoda guy come my place Lyk 20mins later I bang her on top. I noticed but I no talk since na banging tinx I dy into....
Gals of nowadays are for banging...
U bang, bang, bang and bang.
Gals are bitches now am heartless I even bang dem and not give dem food and transport fair again...
All of dem dy mad.

Bobo u go don marry by now sha. Came across your comment while going through that thread.

Karlifate:
It's better to be called a misogynist than a nice guy.

Awake to reality, women won't love you for tolerating their BS.


When they wanna fukk you up, they'll do it without batting an eyelid.

Soo on point. Just reminds me of one babe like that that said I'm wicked simply because I don't chest her billing antics. But same babe would immediately the next day come back begging for forgiveness.
I've discovered that once you remain stoic and not let whatever they label you define you or get to you, their respect for you tripples. By the way, I've had her laid tho

Seeker3:
Soo on point. Just reminds me of one babe like that that said I'm wicked simply because I don't chest her billing antics. But same babe would immediately the next day come back begging for forgiveness.
I've discovered that once you remain stoic and not let whatever they label you define you or get to you, their respect for you tripples. By the way, I've had her laid tho

@ bolded

Even women don't take what they say seriously.

They say what they say based on how they're feeling at the moment.

A woman's thought or perception is always on a fleeting mode. There's no static unlike a man's.

Hence why I always laugh when I see men take what women say so seriously without any prudence for the actual truth of a matter.

It's always serves as a good identifier for simps anyways. Men hopelessly stuck in the matrix.

Her respect for you triples once they see that you're not affected by shame . Why?
It is because they themselves lack the strength to overcome shame

Women long for traits in men they don't posses. Hence why attraction forms.

So learn to harness traits women don't/cannot possess. That'll take your game to a whole new level.

If a woman is clearly not interested, do not continue. It is simply a matter of wasting time.

Your time would be better spent on leads that have greater potential.

Further, plowing towards an uninterested woman who may be too shy to say “no, leave me alone” can lead to burning out, killing your vibe, or getting banned from places.

You do want to be persistent but in a smart way. The goal is to run the game on “maybe girls” & “yes girls”, but it’s a waste of time to run game on “no girls”.


Show interest, not desperation.
Attract, don’t chase.

As a man the sooner you realize you are on your own the better for your mental health.

The below post was from Twitter.

The moment I realized that people respect towards you drastically reduced the moment you opened up to them about your challenges, i stopped sharing my challenges with anyone.

My decision to be a lone wolf since 2010 is at best one of my best decision ever.

Being as mysterious and unpredictable as one can be have been extremely beneficial to me both mentally, emotionally, financially and physically...

Pukkalolo:

A guy recently told me, "I'm scared of initiating conversation with a girl for the first time.... How should I go about it?"

Let imagine a scenario:

Let's say you are ask to take a shot at the goal post. And the keeper who is at the goal post ready to catch the ball is Diogo Costa. And you know Diogo Costa is an excellent Portugal goal keeper.

And you are told that if you miss the shot, you are gonna be sent to spend the rest of your life in jail with hard labour...but if you score the goal, you are gonna be given the sum 50 billion dollars.

Guess what?

You are gonna experience serious fear and anxiety: heavy heartbeat, sweating palms, shaking feet...

The reason why you are experiencing total fear and anxiety is because there's a high value placed on scoring the goal.

This is the reason you are scared of initiating conversation with the girl: you place high value on getting her.

You're trying to get something from her. You are trying to get her phone number; you are trying to get her to be your gf; you are trying to get to open her legs. And since you place high value on getting those things, you are gonna experience fear and anxiety when you see her.

All this things you are trying to get are not in your control, that's why you have anxiety and fear when you see a girl you like.

Here's my honest advice:

For now, just forget trying to get something from her; just focus on trying to give something to her.

Look, I don't mean giving her money or any gift; infact I don't even mean giving her compliment.

I mean, just give her playful advice or just throw out comment at her while walking walking at the same time, so that both you and the girl will feel no pressure to be in the interaction.


For example, I saw a girl wearing a nice shoe at the mall. I didn't say "nice shoe"...

Instead I gave her a playful advice. I said, "this shoe will also rock well with pink top and black jean..."

I said that while walking away.

She smiled and said. "Oh! Really??"

Since she replied, I stopped to continue the conversation with her. If she had ignore my comment, I'd just keep walking away like nothing happened.


Another example, I saw a girl at the market last week trying to buy some stuff. She was going through the list of things she wrote on a little paper. Then I walk past her and playfully said, "You forgot to add Maggi and Egusi to the list...."

She laughed, and said, "you are not serious."


Throwing out this playful advice at her and (pretending to be) walking away is a way of testing the waters to see if she's interested in talking to you.... If she turn to look at you and even make a comment back at you as you saw in above two examples, then you can continue talking to her if you wish to.

To me, that one na Beating about the bush 😐

MetalJigsaw:
To me, that one na Beating about the bush 😐

I get your point bro. But this for just those who are totally scare of even initiating conversation with a girl. It's just more like an exercise to get them to open up and get used to talking to new people.

Pukkalolo:


I get your point bro. But this for just those who are totally scare of even initiating conversation with a girl. It's just more like an exercise to get them to open up and get used to talking to new people.

I understand, but its better they learn the real deal.

I'm sure a lot of women will sense this move and see that as lack of confidence and directness.

Hi, I'd like getting to know you....

If she responds positively, ask of her name and continue from there.

Direct and confident😎

It pays off.

IAmHim1:
First paragraph is pure reverse engineering of ubunjas work... something I encourage everyone who ever comes in contact with his work to do

Here's another one...one I STRONGLY believe should be another miseducation on its own

"if you're hopeless with hints and clues, then you'll be careless with hints and clues too"

meaning if you aren't smart enough to perceive it when someone is giving hints out bit by bit, so also you wouldn't be smart enough to NOT GIVE IT OUT YOURSELF

ie if your gf is cheating on you, you'd know from her change in attitude towards certain things you both love doing cus women can't compartmentalize when they're fucking two different guys. The reason you'd know this is because you've done it before and you've become smart at hiding yours AND CAN detect when someone is hiding his/ hers

Click! Your epiphany right there

if you didn't know or perceive so (the hints and clues she's giving) , you'd also not know when you too will be giving such signals when you Also fall in love with a different girl whilst still in that relationship

if you're smart at detecting clues of cheating, you also would be smart at hiding clues of your cheating

if you're not smart at detecting clues of cheating, YOU ALSO WOULDN'T BE SMART AT HIDING CLUES OF YOUR CHEATING
That's why women are good at reading body languages... BECAUSE THEY'RE GOOD AT SPEAKING BODY LANGUAGE
Hence the saying "players listen to actions...not words. If the actions and words corresponds, THAT'S GREAT FOR YOU. A PURPLE MOON. if the actions and words doesn't correspond, filter the words...focus on her actions"


And one killer I noticed from your second paragraph is "make she dey do her thing, no be me go marry am"

This generation and the world as we know it is littered with STis of different infections as we know it...those who have these STis are stigmatized in society making the 'new comers' not to open up.

Now with that being said, YOU WOULDN'T EXPECT A MAN OR WOMAN TO OPENLY CONFESS HE/SHE HAS HIV OR HERPES TO YOU... especially when he/she didn't open up early in the relationship and there's a lot to lose from disclosing such truth...

Such a person would be taking medication in background after infecting you and watching you suffer...

After all, you'd die and leave some properties for them...
Bonus points if you're known for sleeping around

That'd just make it easy for the Carrier to put the blame on the newly infected

Be careful out there. Use your head or someone will use it for you. We learn everyday though and that's the beauty of life... moulting... growing

If only ubunja could release lessons from a bitch (charts and graphs included) and the female alpha...

If women want to be the chaser, prolly the promise of commitment from the select men would be greater than the commitment itself. Reverse engineering the promise of sex from women greater than sex itself nowadays.

Fingers crossed. Lol

Learnt something new from your response boss. The bolded hits my brain hard all the time. The "promise of sex" is one of women's greatest weapon, and every smart woman knows this and uses it alot on their target. Fortunately for me, I have learnt to decode that part of their game. Thanks for the write-up, bro. You are good!

Kenogidi:
Dear brothers of the pill, the fastest and easiest way to consistently get laid is to always shoot at girls below your SMV. You can't be a 6 and be chasing a 10, you most likely won't get her. In other words, the uglier she is(i.e the lower her SMV), the easier she'll be to smash.

Bro, you see those ugly girls are the most difficult to run because they've low self esteem and they force to be on top by being saucy, loose mouth, dramatic, proud and bad in character.

I made more results towards beautiful ladies than all these ugly ones.

Akinbahm:
Bro, you see those ugly girls are the most difficult to run because they've low self esteem and they force to be on top by being saucy, loose mouth, dramatic, proud and bad in character.

I made more results towards beautiful ladies than all these ugly ones.

Like why would you even consider dealing with ugly girls if there isn't a fundamental problem somewhere?
And for all you know there are beautiful girls for every socioeconomic class so this is so not about chasing women that are "out of your league" if there is anything so called.
Na real wa.

MetalJigsaw:
I understand, but its better they learn the real deal.

I'm sure a lot of women will sense this move and see that as lack of confidence and directness.

Hi, I'd like getting to know you....

If she responds positively, ask of her name and continue from there.

Direct and confident😎

It pays off.

MetalJigsaw, you don't still get my point bro. But I'll clarify my point in a moment.

But before I get to that, I noticed something you said:

You said, directness is telling her: "Hi, I'd like getting to know you...."

There's nothing even direct about that. Infact that's more of an indirect style of communication.


When interacting with women, I want to quickly find out her level of interest in me or see if she's just gonna waste my time.

Now, look at your statement, Hi, I'd like getting to know you...."

It doesn't help achieve that, If you approach a manipulative girl who has no interest in you and say, Hi, I'd like getting to know you....," she's gonna just say "Ok, cool"; and then she start looking for ways to exploit you.

If you approach a lesbian who has no interest in men and say, Hi, I'd like getting to know you....," she's gonna just say "Ok, fine" and then she'll go ahead and waste your fucking time.

See bro, I've initiated conversation with countless numbers girls and I've learnt a lot of things the hard fucking way.

Here's the bitter truth about most girls: Even she has no interest in you, she will still allow you get to know her. Many girls are just looking to waste your time, effort and money.

The statements, "Hi, I'd like getting to know you" is not direct because it doesn't provoke her to decide if she wants you or not.

In the early stages of the interactions, the purpose of the interaction is not to getting-to-her; but rather the purpose of the interaction is to quickly find out her level of interest in me or see if she's just gonna waste my time. And a statement like, "Hi, I'd like getting to know you," doesn't help you find out if you are talking to a woman that has true interest in you.



Funny enough, this is what most nice guys do, they tell a girl "I'd like to get to know you," and ofcourse the girl will say, "Ok, sure." Then they start wasting their time getting to a girl that has no interest them. After getting to her, at the end of everything, the girl will still say, "let's just be friends."

Alright back to the original discussion.

I do some tutoring on the side. I teach maths, I teach programming. As you see I also teach knowledge on dating and relationship and how to handle women.


If a student who doesn't totally understands mathematics comes to me, I won't start teaching him Differentiation in Calculus. That'll be silly. Instead, I will start by showing him how to solve the basic of, 1 + 1 = 2 and 20 ÷ 4 = 5. Then gradually I'll go up the scale of difficulty.

Again, if a guy who doesn't totally understands JavaScript comes to me, I won't start teaching him Inheritances or Async/Await And Promises or High-Order Functions.. That'll be silly.

Instead, I will start by showing him the basics of how let, const and var works, Then gradually I'll go up the scale of difficulty.



Confidence is built like a muscle. You don't just lift of up the heaviest weight: your muscle can't handle that yet. You will start by lifting the lightest weight and getting comfortable with it.


Same strategy with women, If a guy is terrible scared of initiating conversation with a girl for the first time.

If I tell him "just be confident...go and tell her what you want." That's a stupid advice.

Instead I'll tell him to simply approach girls and only ask them for the time, something like "Hello, please what says the time?" Once she tell him the time...he should walk away immediately.

Once he gets comfortable with that, then I'll gradually go up the scale of difficulty.

I tell him to playfully throw comment at girls while walking walking at the same time, so that both him and the girl will feel no pressure to be in the interaction.

For example, if she's coming from a gym and wearing a nike shoe, just playfully tell her, "That's my Christmas shoe you are rocking anyhow like that." She'll probably laugh... Then you walk away.

It doesn't matter what you say, just make any playful comment and walk away, once you get comfortable doing that, then you go up the scale of difficulty by saying or doing more bold stuff.

Just keep gradually going up the scale of difficulty until you start doing and saying more ultra bold and ballsy stuff.

This is even a more effective way to learning game and understanding woman. Actually, It's even more effective than reading 100 of redpill books.

My own level of confidence, audacity and boldness is on another different level entirely. Several times, I've walk up to a group of 3 to 5 girls gisting together and I'll start wooing the cutest girls among them. It takes a lot of audacity to do that.

I've pratically done more things that are even more audacious than that. But if I tell a guy who's totally scared of even initiating conversation with even his fellow guy to do the extreme bold stuff I've done, he will freak out and run away.

But if I tell him to only stop a girl and ask her for the time, he'll do it because it requires only little confidence.

After getting comfortable doing that, I'll tell him to playfully throw out comment at girls while walking away from them. Although, this requires a little more confidence, but he'll still do that because he had already build up some confidence muscle before by asking girls for the time.

Anyways, I hope you get my point.

Ballzproblemm:
Evening News Paper, a slang niggas use to refer women past their prime

Omoooo

Know how to make use of stupidity: The wisest man plays this card at times. There are occasions when the highest wisdom consists in appearing not to know, you must not be ignorant but capable of playing it. It is not much good being wise among fools and sane among lunatics. He who poses as a fool is not a fool. The best way to be well received by all is to clothe yourself in the skin of the dumbest of brutes.

-- Baltasar Gracian

Feels good to be back in the manosphere again

Pukkalolo:


You made some excellent points.

The whole problem began when men start placing high unnecessary value of the pussy.

The biggest problem I've found in most guys is they are trying to get the girl. They are pussy focused.

The loser think he's the alpha man just because, "He gets sex..."

You need to separate getting sex from being alpha.

The loser follows her, looking for everything opportunities to get sex. The alpha guy is grounded: he gives her opportunity to either follow his lead or get lost.

The loser chase sex and love. The alpha guy put RESPECT over sex.

Trying to get the pussy is a low value behavior. You are not supposed be worried about getting the pussy.

The woman should be the one worrying if she should have sex with you or not; you should be more concerned about being at your most POWERFUL BEHAVIOR.

Your job is to be at your most powerful behavior. Her job is to choose and mate with the powerful guy.

well said brother, pussy manipulation never ever works on a man that prioritizes and respects himself over everything. How we grow this sense of self respect? Simple, you do that by making sure you do whatever you set out to do first before paying attention to other things.

An example is your friend wants u to accompany him to a party, but you have already planned on taking a siesta just politely tell him, "guy I wan use this small time crash abeg no vex". What they say or do after that is their business...u do this with women when they try to manipulate you and they fail, they have found a daddy, that is why most of my babes call me that, no be by shout, if dem f*ck up just bounce, and don't accept them back just because they say they are sorry... them not repeating BS the second time truly shows whether they are sorry or not.

Remain stoic and strengthenyour sound judgement by practicing self respect if you tell yourself I go excercise for 30min before I baff, run am... this will inherently permeate throughout your life and you will stop tolerating BS from b*tches.

I just say mai add I don go type plenty

I listened to a podcast recently by modern wisdom and he interviewed a very beautiful and hot lady. Bro knew what he was doing and he wanted to call out there B.S.. I loved her response. Looked like she has gone through it as well. You can check it out here
Top 1% struggles https://anchor.fm/professor-korezi/episodes/Top-1-struggles-e2ah6is

If this Jada is very beautiful, I'll say okay it's one thing Will can hold on to for his stupidity but my goodness, she's not even a 5/10..He still publicly assaulted someone for her not too long ago ffs..

Will Smith has to be an all time Legend in simping..