malcom1X:


Show up in the location. Take pictures of her then go home. Don't let her see you.
Then when you meet at home ask her where she was, show her the picture

Bizma2474:

I like your idea

MyVILLAGEpeople:


Women love the emotional type. Dem go manipulate the guy tire lol.

DND069:


They don't love them, they use them instead.

MyVILLAGEpeople:


Exactly. I have been there before. I know how e be.

DND069:


Yet women will preach men should show emotions but in the end they punish/hurt them.

The loss effect will really tell on women because men won't take women seriously anymore. And that is what is occurring, men nowadays only want sex.

Reminderz:

this is the reality of men who are naive in the game and let emotions direct their affairs... You're heartbroken because you love her, sadly, she might not feel the same about you.. you might even be the one investing in the relationship all these while which I don't blame you, but as a man, you should know to guide your heart ruthlessly and only give your commitment to the one who has proved herself to you...

If it's view once, she might screenshot it, but if you can show up in the location without her seeing you, do that, if she shows up, do not let her know you're there... Just act normal and you can come up with an excuse.. ask about how her day went as a normal boyfriend and you'll get your answer.. but the answer is already glaring enough to you.. just don't make a woman your mission, your purpose comes first..

Fajeed:

This is how it later went....

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Reminderz:

damn! you shouldn't have showed up! remember I said even if you were gonna go on with something like this, she shouldn't know you were there...! damn! you fvcked up on that part... I don't know how the conversation with her and your friend goes but he might have hinted her through his chats with her that you were the one that was testing her all along.. because how come you said she mentioned your name and still told her how long you guys have been together at the same time?? she might have known that it's you who just wanna test her that's why the guy refused to tell her who gave him her contact...

remember, women are smart and very much smarter than men... you might have been the only guy used to checking up her phone like you've said earlier which screams insecurity, even if she's guilty, this would have let her come up with other strategies to use for you like clearing chats or leaving no trails of her cheating when she's with you.. even if you're suspecting a woman of cheating, you shouldn't let her know that you're investigating on her until she's caught red-handed... now with this mistake you made with this stunt, she's going to be fully guarded... she might be real with you but now, she holds all the cards and I don't think you have any cards left with you...

1. she now knows you love her so much and might decide to use it against you... women rarely appreciate true love...

2. she might be real with you, she might not, but with this mistake, she will come up with other tricks...

3. your clinginess and desperation will lead her to cease being attracted to you... women don't like needy men..

4. you've shown her that you might have no life and can't live without her hence the stress you go through in finding if she's truly loyal to you...

5. a woman should be the one always wondering if you're cheating on her and not the other way around... she would keep finding you attractive that way with the kind of aura you emanate...

6. if you're emotionally invested more than the woman you're in relationship with, she will cease to being in love with you and starts seeing you as weak... whoever needs each other less in the relationship holds all the cards...

7. a woman should always see that you're more carried away with your mission than with her.. this way, if she's real with you, she will find you more attractive and if she's cheating on you, she will easily let her guard down because she feels you're more confused on yourself than on her...

8. it's actually not quite complicated to know if a woman is real with you or not, just don't let them know of your plans... always stay 10 times ahead of them...

9. and what you said about her restricting you to her posts, women, women do this very well, since you're not married to her yet, she will keep her options open and she wouldn't want you to see things that will also spoil her chances with you and also her chances with other prospective suitors... women always keep their options open know this and know peace, even when married especially if her loyalty was bought by the man she ended up with or if she married a simp or a weak man...

10. since she now holds all the cards, she's left you in a rock and hard place and anything you do again won't seem genuine to her because she will feel you're still testing her with it... Even if she's not real, she can use the fact that you haven't caught her cheating and also the scenario with your friend to exonerate herself and in also to emotionally manipulate you into thinking she's real .. now you no won't really know where she falls into...

My final line is, brother, anyhow the matter later turns out to be, just focus on yourself, she might be real, she might not, but the fact is, focus on yourself... there are plenty of girls in this world for you, you're a man, you can date and marry more than one. You have that privilege, don't give yourself unnecessary high blood pressure over one... I know you love her and even more than she does, but as a man, you don't deal with women on an emotional platform because you just make yourself an easy target for women to prey on you.. just act normal to her and don't overburden yourself in the relationship... if you feel your mind ain't at rest, the best is to let her go for your sanity... But you should work on your emotions... Women think, men act.. so act like a man you were born to be... always act like you don't need a woman and women will always want to be with you...
thanks so much bro I really appreciate
That’s why I had to let you know about the outcome
I will keep updating you if I find out anything I know in this situation I will have to continue with her and I will just have it in mind that I need to be careful I no go to carry her for head again I really appreciate bro