PinkNature:
Women are attracted to your value

I've been attracting some women lately, but really don't know the specific kind of value they see in me that they feel I can offer.

Trust me, it's not low self esteem or some other BS. Sometimes I just think about it. I'm not rich yet, but I'm tall and handsome: Women who sell stuffs in the market thinks so 😅

I also emanate an I don't give AF kind of aura. Could that be the value that they are attracted to?

I really don't understand.

Rizzputin
Pukkalolo
Pukalolo

CuteNbad:
UPDATE ON THIS:

Firstly, thank y'all for your inputs. But also I want y'all to understand that love can make us do illogical things. I'm currently in my finals and she's in her second year. We're both majoring in Same course.

Lately, I've been trying to get her out of my mind. Focusing on more important things like my project, studying for upcoming quizzes and all but it's still difficult as from time to time she still crosses my heart.

The thing is when the going was good. We( she and I) both shared lots of great moments and this things keeps playing on a loop in my head.

REAL TIME UPDATE:

After I called her twice on Friday of which she didn't respond. I messaged her on WhatsApp and demanded an explanation for why she didn't pickup my call. Then she said this.

Ps: this conversation took place on Saturday. And today is Monday and I'm yet to give her a reply. I felt it's bullshit cause this isn't the first time she'll be give this same excuses.


Right now I'm left with three options.
1. Bleep her and let her go

2. Let her go

3. Keep pushing and being there for her till she realises I'm the only one there for her in the end.

So what will you do in my shoes.

I need your advice on this.

Ps: I still love this girl.

MetalJigsaw:
Don't know how true this is... But wetin men no fit do for pussy?

PinkNature:


I'm always motivated to go to the gym, but I've been in serious pains for days now, so I decided to give myself a 3 days break. I'll resume tomorrow.

CuteNbad:
UPDATE ON THIS:

Firstly, thank y'all for your inputs. But also I want y'all to understand that love can make us do illogical things. I'm currently in my finals and she's in her second year. We're both majoring in Same course.

Lately, I've been trying to get her out of my mind. Focusing on more important things like my project, studying for upcoming quizzes and all but it's still difficult as from time to time she still crosses my heart.

The thing is when the going was good. We( she and I) both shared lots of great moments and this things keeps playing on a loop in my head.

REAL TIME UPDATE:

After I called her twice on Friday of which she didn't respond. I messaged her on WhatsApp and demanded an explanation for why she didn't pickup my call. Then she said this.

Ps: this conversation took place on Saturday. And today is Monday and I'm yet to give her a reply. I felt it's bullshit cause this isn't the first time she'll be give this same excuses.


Right now I'm left with three options.
1. Bleep her and let her go

2. Let her go

3. Keep pushing and being there for her till she realises I'm the only one there for her in the end.

So what will you do in my shoes.

I need your advice on this.

Ps: I still love this girl.

pansophist:


Gym is just a convenient excuse why some people can't be fit. Because you'll have to commute to and fro, then pay for membership, etc.

You don't have to go to the gym. Just do push ups like 100 everyday or at least three times a week. Then use skipping rope and jump very fast like 1000 steps.

Then stop consuming too much sugar. Eat normally, but cut sugar off in the form of sodas, beer, bread, and fast foods. That's all.

Cc: proudpolygamist

pansophist:


Gym is just a convenient excuse why some people can't be fit. Because you'll have to commute to and fro, then pay for membership, etc.

You don't have to go to the gym. Just do push ups like 100 everyday or at least three times a week. Then use skipping rope and jump very fast like 1000 steps.

Then stop consuming too much sugar. Eat normally, but cut sugar off in the form of sodas, beer, bread, and fast foods. That's all.

Cc: proudpolygamist

PinkNature:
Women are attracted to your value

I've been attracting some women lately, but really don't know the specific kind of value they see in me that they feel I can offer.

Trust me, it's not low self esteem or some other BS. Sometimes I just think about it. I'm not rich yet, but I'm tall and handsome: Women who sell stuffs in the market thinks so 😅

I also emanate an I don't give AF kind of aura. Could that be the value that they are attracted to?

I really don't understand.

Rizzputin
Pukkalolo
Pukalolo

Proudpolygamist:
Guys is it Normal for one feel reluctant of Hitting the Gym? I never do something serious for like 1 week and I'm scared ASF because my Somatype is Ectomorph

Ahbeg make person motivate me

Cc Pansophist

Proudpolygamist:



That's where the problem lays boss
A hard gainer like me cant do 100 press up and feel like he's done anything.

I have a friend that's Mesomorph, he doesn't even hit the fucking gym. He does a maximum of 50Press up a day, but if u see this guy ehn, He grab well.

The minimum press up i do when I'm training at home is 400i.e 100press up at a stretch, 4 times. And this is when I'm not even taking it seriously because the Normal benchmark for me is 800press up i.e 100 at a strech, 8 times. And i train a minimum of 4 days a week

So you see how rigorous training is for some of us that used to be Thin.

This is one of the reasons i had to procure my own crude gym equipments at home because i nor fit dey spend all my time for gym

You don see some guys wey nor too get body but them dey carry heavy weight and fit bench weight pass some Grab guys? Na so i be... Even my gym instructor dey call me IRON MAN but e body full pass my own and na only Bench press the guy take good pass me o, i dey lead am for tricep and bicep workout or thighs and shoulders😂

Pukkalolo:



My cousin came visiting last weekend with his new car. So I excitedly jump in it to test it out. As I was driving it, I saw this lady who I was wooing walking along the road. The moment I saw her, I hide my face, so she won't see me.

My cousin ask out of surprised, "why are you hiding your face... You're suppose to let her see that you're driving this fine car...that will boost your value in her eyes."

I replied, "I've not Bleep her yet....I don't want her to think I own the ride."

My cousin who was shocked by my response, ask "why"

I said, "I don't impress women..."

My cousin looked at me with the facial expression of, "what the Bleep is this dude talking about"

Anyways, PinkNature, just like you said, "Women are attracted to your value."
That's a fact.

There are 2 types of value: internal value and external value.

External values are outwardly based value you accomplish or acquire, for example, The car you drive, Your fame, your wealth, Your cool job, the designer cloths you wear, your Rolex watch, your nice house and and many others.

Internal values are inwardly/natural or behavioral attributes like your looks, confidence, intelligence, Industriousness, creativity, risk tolerance and many others...

If a girl is attracted to you because of your external values(money, job, car, etc), then she's not necessarily attracted to you, she's only attracted to those external benefits she's getting from you. The problem is, those external value can be taken away from you at anytime or she can meet someone with better things... When that happens, she lose interest in you.

I've seen this happen many times, where a guy lost his lucrative job, suddenly his girl start losing interest in him. Infact, I could remember a guy I know. He's actually a family friend of mine. He went broke and had to sold his nice car to pay off some debts. And suddenly his so called loving girlfriend started misbehaving. Soon, she told him she needed space and want to focus more on her education and career. Basically, she dumped him.

When things like that happens, guys will scream, "this bitches aren't loyal."

Nah, bro, she was actually loyal, but not to you... She was loyal to your money, job and car, iPhone and other external values you were trying to use to impress her.

This is was why I told my cousin, "I don't impress women..."

Women are attracted to your value, but never attract them with your external value(money, job, car, designer clothes, Rolex watch, iPhone and so on)... For example, If I attract her with the car I was driving, then she later find out I do not own the car, the attraction will disappear.

It's better you attract women with your internal value(looks, confidence, intelligence, Industriousness, creativity, conversations, risk tolerance, mental toughness and so on)... Because these internal values are part of you and these will help you scare away gold diggers, manipulative women and opportunists...and attract the right kind of girls that'll add value to your life.

You said, you've been attracting some women lately, but really don't know the specific kind of value they see in you that they feel you can offer.

Well, you've already answered the question, when you said, " I'm tall and handsome"

The fact that the women are attracted to your look rather than your money is, POWERFUL.

Being tall and handsome is a certain kind of "looks"... Looks is an internal value. It's a win situation because if a girl is attracted to your looks(internal value) and you start making cool cash(external value), it will strengthen her attraction for you.



I'm not really blessed with the looks aspects, but I don't try to attract women with money (or my cousin's car)... Instead I attract women with my internal values, that is, my raw confidence and unpredictable style of conversations...

Internal values is a great potential that you'll achieve success in the long run...

If you're tall and handsome or confident or creative or smart, then in the long run, you have better chance of succeeding.... because with those internal values naturally attract success.

Same way, if you have risk tolerance and mental toughness then you have a better chance of being at the top....because with that internal values you'll naturally attract success in the long run

Anyways, enough talks. PinkNature, I wonder if I have answered your question somewhere in this post. But I believe you get the point I was trying to make.

chikasnight:

Then bring the gym to your room. I’ve not gone to the gym since 2019 I don’t even have time for that but I’m in great shape. You can get a dumbbell coupled with push ups and other home exercises get consistent with that then move on if you need to.

CuteNbad:
Good day y'all,


I need y'all input on this.

So there's the girl I'm seeing currently. I'm yet to ask her out since these days no one does that again. I didn't wanna put a label on it or apply pressure. I just wanted it to keep flowing the way it was. I said was because there's the new guy she's seeing now.

She told me about it the last time we spoke. She said she gat her virginity to him. Something she promised me.

I feel hurt really. I do love this girl but she's slipping away from my grasp and I can't seems to accept that.

When I asked her why she slept with him when she knew we both had planned I'll be her first. She said it wasn't intentional and that it just happened.

Now she they've had sex thrice and she keeps calling him her bf to my face.

She came to my crib last week Monday and I was to have sex with her but she was on her period so we only smoothed and all... No sex.

Since she left my crib she's yet to call back or reply my text

She keeps saying I never asked her out each Time I asked why she's with the other guy.


I truly love this girl fr.
I have like three other girls in my life but I don't love them the way I love this girl.

I even stop talking to two of those girls because I thought she was getting serious with me.

Also she's never billed me before so it's not like she's after money

Anything I can do to save this?.


Ps: we're all undergraduate students.

PECON1:
I saw this on Twitter, pics of will and Jada 2011.pls don't be will smith😹😹

CuteNbad:
Good day y'all,


I need y'all input on this.

So there's the girl I'm seeing currently. I'm yet to ask her out since these days no one does that again. I didn't wanna put a label on it or apply pressure. I just wanted it to keep flowing the way it was. I said was because there's the new guy she's seeing now.

She told me about it the last time we spoke. She said she gat her virginity to him. Something she promised me.

I feel hurt really. I do love this girl but she's slipping away from my grasp and I can't seems to accept that.

When I asked her why she slept with him when she knew we both had planned I'll be her first. She said it wasn't intentional and that it just happened.

Now she they've had sex thrice and she keeps calling him her bf to my face.

She came to my crib last week Monday and I was to have sex with her but she was on her period so we only smoothed and all... No sex.

Since she left my crib she's yet to call back or reply my text

She keeps saying I never asked her out each Time I asked why she's with the other guy.


I truly love this girl fr.
I have like three other girls in my life but I don't love them the way I love this girl.

I even stop talking to two of those girls because I thought she was getting serious with me.

Also she's never billed me before so it's not like she's after money

Anything I can do to save this?.


Ps: we're all undergraduate students.

PinkNature:


Mind sending a picture of your biceps or forearms? Wanna see how hooge it has developed.

Pukkalolo:
Being nice to a woman who has no interest in you is the absolute WRONG thing to do.

The idea is, DO NOT BE NICE TO HER until she has PROVE to you that she's interested in you.

Pukkalolo:
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