Help a brother,

If I touch my wife she frown, and complain she doesn't like it.

We have s*x only when she's in the mood, even if I romance her she complain of pain or give useless excuse to stop it.

My problem is, she no dey go out, no friends. Please any advice or help to this.

IamReallyboy:
Help a brother,
If I touch my wife she frown, and complain she doesn't like it.
We have s*x only when she's in the mood, even if I romance her she complain of pain or give useless excuse to stop it.
My problem is, she no dey go out, no friends. Please any advice or help to this.

possible things involved...

1) she's not sexually attracted to you..
2) she doesn't see you as a man she respect; a weak man.
3) she's cheating.
4) you don't take your personal hygiene seriously; you're not neat.
5) you don't know how to get a woman in the mood.
6) she's not performing her duties as your wife.
7) she knows you can't get it anywhere else so she keeps manipulating you with it; you've gat no options..

if the problem is 1, 2, 4 and 5, then the problem is you... if the problem is 3, 6 and 7, then don't also perform your duties on her, ignore her like she doesn't exist... she wants to friendzone you in the marriage, if she doesn't fvck you, who does she fvck? and did you meet her a virgin? if it persists, get another wife or cheat since she doesn't know what's expected of her, she should go back to her father's house if she's not emotionally matured enough to be married...

Hope she ain't lesbian

Watch closely, check her phone first then ask her some questions.

IamReallyboy:
Help a brother,
If I touch my wife she frown, and complain she doesn't like it.
We have s*x only when she's in the mood, even if I romance her she complain of pain or give useless excuse to stop it.
My problem is, she no dey go out, no friends. Please any advice or help to this.

Una no date before marriage?If yes,why the sudden change? Did she just give birth or what?
Something is wrong somewhere.. Abi you cheat,she catch you and you no know? Try and ask her questions, and keep a close eye on her activities in and outside the house.. Check your hygiene too ..

Mugu horseband

Ontop bride price wey u pay, na u dey dull yourself naw if na me na 2 hot slaps she go use open those stupid legs for me, can you imagine?

Mhizzard:
Hope she ain't lesbian

haha that one sef dey but might not be the case as the op described the situation...

or e fit be say sex dey pain am, she doesn't enjoy it with him, doesn't get wet or her body system differs.. but one thing is, you will hardly see a woman that doesn't crave sex... except maybe she's had some traumatic experience that changed her perspective towards sex...

She nor dey go out,No friends ? Same you will open another thread and wail that ur wife have many friends, she doesn't stay at home.You'll start checking her phone,sniff her panties.It is time for you to start making ur wife smile ,laugh and smile always. U both can plan and go out to 🐔Republic etc.

Reminderz:

possible things involved...

1) she's not sexually attracted to you..
2) she doesn't see you as a man she respect; a weak man.
3) she's cheating.
4) you don't take your personal hygiene seriously; you're not neat.
5) you don't know how to get a woman in the mood.
6) she's not performing her duties as your wife.
7) she knows you can't get it anywhere else so she keeps manipulating you with it; you've gat no options..

if the problem is 1, 2, 4 and 5, then the problem is you... if the problem is 3, 6 and 7, then don't also perform your duties on her, ignore her like she doesn't exist... she wants to friendzone you in the marriage, if she doesn't fvck you, who does she fvck? and did you meet her a virgin? if it persists, get another wife or cheat since she doesn't know what's expected of her, she should go back to her father's house if she's not emotionally matured enough to be married...

you no just Sabi counseling at all....

You no read where d guy said she no dey go out, she no get friends? ..how those number of possible reasons for her behaviour capture the main issue which is what I just mentioned now?

No try to council any body again ooo...make you no go brake person marriage...

Obainoman6:
Ontop bride price wey u pay, na u dey dull yourself naw if na me na 2 hot slaps she go use open those stupid legs for me, can you imagine?

hmmm...na waooo...you just open eye carry money go pay for stupid legs, ..

Relationship wahala too plenty for for this Nairaland, infact these women have made it a point of duty to frustrate men for no tangible reason. Na wa

Ever8090:
you no just Sabi counseling at all....

You no read where d guy said she no dey go out, she no get friends? ..how those number of possible reasons for her behaviour capture the main issue which is what I just mentioned now?

No try to council any body again ooo...make you no go brake person marriage...

lol she nor dey go out or he doesn't see when she goes out? you mean she stays indoor 24/7? dey play...

and in my previous post, I said 'possible things involved'... always read to understand and comprehend..

lordnkem000:
Relationship wahala too plenty for for this Nairaland, infact these women have made it a point of duty to frustrate men for no tangible reason. Na wa

Hahaha 🤣

Reminderz:
haha that one sef dey but might not be the case as the op described the situation...

or e fit be say sex dey pain am, she doesn't enjoy it with him, doesn't get wet or her body system differs.. but one thing is, you will hardly see a woman that doesn't crave sex... except maybe she's had some traumatic experience that changed her perspective towards sex...

yeah,that may be true.her husband should sit her down and ask her what may be cause of sudden change.she may confid in him.

Reminderz:
haha that one sef dey but might not be the case as the op described the situation...

or e fit be say sex dey pain am, she doesn't enjoy it with him, doesn't get wet or her body system differs.. but one thing is, you will hardly see a woman that doesn't crave sex... except maybe she's had some traumatic experience that changed her perspective towards sex...

yeah,that may be true.her husband should sit her down and ask her what may be cause of sudden change.she may confide in him.

Reminderz:

possible things involved...

1) she's not sexually attracted to you..
2) she doesn't see you as a man she respect; a weak man.
3) she's cheating.
4) you don't take your personal hygiene seriously; you're not neat.
5) you don't know how to get a woman in the mood.
6) she's not performing her duties as your wife.
7) she knows you can't get it anywhere else so she keeps manipulating you with it; you've gat no options..

if the problem is 1, 2, 4 and 5, then the problem is you... if the problem is 3, 6 and 7, then don't also perform your duties on her, ignore her like she doesn't exist... she wants to friendzone you in the marriage, if she doesn't fvck you, who does she fvck? and did you meet her a virgin? if it persists, get another wife or cheat since she doesn't know what's expected of her, she should go back to her father's house if she's not emotionally matured enough to be married...

You're goated.

Just accept her like that. Its good for a woman not to have many or any frieñds at all ,her staying at home always is a good thing. That's d type of lady I want . if u don't her just allow me to marry her

BigYash:
Una no date before marriage?If yes,why the sudden change? Did she just give birth or what?
Something is wrong somewhere.. Abi you cheat,she catch you and you no know? Try and ask her questions, and keep a close eye on her activities in and outside the house.. Check your hygiene too ..

We have been together since 2017 but everything changed when she had a second child and we do Birth Control, then 2years after that BT she changed.
I thought it was the BT the we removed it nothing change

Quality20:
Just accept her like that. Its good for a woman not to have many or any frieñds at all ,her staying at home always is a good thing. That's d type of lady I want . if u don't her just allow me to marry her

You need cord, like Seriously
I need to wipe you cord

Reminderz:

possible things involved...

1) she's not sexually attracted to you..
2) she doesn't see you as a man she respect; a weak man.
3) she's cheating.
4) you don't take your personal hygiene seriously; you're not neat.
5) you don't know how to get a woman in the mood.
6) she's not performing her duties as your wife.
7) she knows you can't get it anywhere else so she keeps manipulating you with it; you've gat no options..

if the problem is 1, 2, 4 and 5, then the problem is you... if the problem is 3, 6 and 7, then don't also perform your duties on her, ignore her like she doesn't exist... she wants to friendzone you in the marriage, if she doesn't fvck you, who does she fvck? and did you meet her a virgin? if it persists, get another wife or cheat since she doesn't know what's expected of her, she should go back to her father's house if she's not emotionally matured enough to be married...

It seems you are a marriage counselor... If not you are really missing your calling .

Reminderz:

possible things involved...

1) she's not sexually attracted to you..
2) she doesn't see you as a man she respect; a weak man.
3) she's cheating.
4) you don't take your personal hygiene seriously; you're not neat.
5) you don't know how to get a woman in the mood.
6) she's not performing her duties as your wife.
7) she knows you can't get it anywhere else so she keeps manipulating you with it; you've gat no options..

if the problem is 1, 2, 4 and 5, then the problem is you... if the problem is 3, 6 and 7, then don't also perform your duties on her, ignore her like she doesn't exist... she wants to friendzone you in the marriage, if she doesn't fvck you, who does she fvck? and did you meet her a virgin? if it persists, get another wife or cheat since she doesn't know what's expected of her, she should go back to her father's house if she's not emotionally matured enough to be married...

You're great bro.
But I don't let her know I trust her but I do, she doesn't cheat 95% sure of it.
Neat more than her
And she will know when I get a new GF, I don't know if she's a witch 🧹 (and I think number 7 is main thing)
But everything was changed 2 years after she took Birth control, we thought it was BT and Remove it, yet no change.

Una Good Morning

IamReallyboy:
Help a brother,
If I touch my wife she frown, and complain she doesn't like it.
We have s*x only when she's in the mood, even if I romance her she complain of pain or give useless excuse to stop it.
My problem is, she no dey go out, no friends. Please any advice or help to this.

She's cheating on you simple

Marynwachukwu21:
Hahaha 🤣

Babe chat me up na

lordnkem000:

Babe chat me up na

Done

Marynwachukwu21:
Done

Check urs now

lordnkem000:

Check urs now

Okay

lordnkem000:

Check urs now

I didn't see any message

Marynwachukwu21:
I didn't see any message

I did send.. let me resend it again

Maybe she's hiding something

lordnkem000:

I did send.. let me resend it again

Una don start?