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Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Please Help by Deepthoughts: 4:57pm On Oct 19, 2023
xin5:
As a 47yr old I still patronise prostitutes which I don't see a problem with. I have No kid, no serious relationship. The problem is my mother complaining here and there for me to get married if I don't see my age.
My mother has complained to the extend she's embarrassed on my behalf even when I am well established.
I know I can't help myself, it's just an addiction I can't stop.
I find it so hard to chyke a girl, talk more calling every now and then.. having meaniless discussions and drama all the time.. pestering for sex something I can achieve with just a phone chat with my connect and they will send pictures of multiple variables I can pick from..30k shortime.

The longest relationship have ever had was in 2008 I think 7months.
Ever since I was young I focused on pay as you go and this has been eating my finances on a steady which I normally don't see as anything because I am doing quite well for myself.
But the pressure to have kids it's getting on me so bad that I wish I can just get a prostitute and impregnate her so that my mother can rest.
Truly the problem with dating is that the ladies just use it to exploit the guys, continuously making endless greedy demands with no reasonable contribution in return,most guys that can't stand it simply drift towards prostitutes or hook ups n unfortunately get addicted,but frankly if na so Toto cost me I go just embark of konji fasting,after all I Neva hear of disease wey celibacy don cause,haba 25,30k just like dat?,no wonder some people de go take drugs to count their money for the Toto.

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Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Please Help by pikechukwu6(m): 4:57pm On Oct 19, 2023
Thank God you have a very good source of income. Money no be problem... No go find a girlfriend ooh... They might set you backward financially. But, bro try to born for mama nah 47yrs no be small thing. sad sad sad

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Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Please Help by Geovanni412(m): 4:57pm On Oct 19, 2023
seeteazain:


Bros carry him FX tools come here grin

abeg free me oh grin
Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Please Help by Brownbetsport24: 5:07pm On Oct 19, 2023
PissInside:
80 percent of nigerian men are addicted to prostitutes.....I'm not lying.

Go to Cynergy hotel at Festac or Jolly friends hotel at Ikeja on a Friday night and see rich, matured married men looking for hoes to fvck.

The situation of things in this country is not helping at all.... For me,I fvck prostitutes at least four times a week and I know how much I do spend.

Going into a relationship too is crazy because the woman you dating might have up to 20 boyfriends not to talk of toasters.

It's a crazy world out here.

Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Please Help by blesdman(m): 5:09pm On Oct 19, 2023
benuejosh:
As a Christian the first i will recommend is pray and ask God for help.
Fake

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Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Please Help by Aditkd(f): 5:09pm On Oct 19, 2023
Greetings Sir.
If you are in Lagos, pls go book an appointment to see a psychologist at their human behavioral department, Lagos state teaching hospital, Ikeja.
This will go a long way in pulling you out of the present situation you are in.
Do have a pleasant evening ahead.

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Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Please Help by durubennie(m): 5:09pm On Oct 19, 2023
poweredcom:


Help me tell dem , pretenders na full this country , infact almost many nigerian girls are olosho working from home , they think its when a women is in a hotel mean she is a prostitute

You say cynergy , jolly friend , premier oluti , sunderland and , city center , surulere , owonla newlife oshodi , top star ajegunle , all d red bulb hotel around hoods omo allen avenue , pekas opebi , romeo juliet ejigbo , adeniran ogundanya , rita lori surulere ..omo if i start here ....we don rock dose zone now na from house gals de operate from
Come to ocabiq in portharcourt and see wonders
Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Please Help by aameyah(f): 5:10pm On Oct 19, 2023
Sha don't go and deceive one innocent girl into everlasting tears and sorrow.

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Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Please Help by seeteazain(m): 5:10pm On Oct 19, 2023
Geovanni412:


abeg free me oh grin


Abeg help am advice am make e out that efforts for chart
Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Please Help by mariahAngel(f): 5:11pm On Oct 19, 2023
myami:
how much for the nite
Ask your sister.

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Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Please Help by blesdman(m): 5:12pm On Oct 19, 2023
Hanatunde:
@ 47 your children suppose dey secondary school by now. Go for deliverance please.
He should just think towards having babies
Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Please Help by macodollar: 5:17pm On Oct 19, 2023
Na spiritual wife dey worry you. Even if you marry now, it will end in divorce.
Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Please Help by Dchampion65: 5:18pm On Oct 19, 2023
You better buy goat to appease your village people.
Or seek for the nurse that circumcised you.
Or critically look at your extended family and see if it is a jinx on all the first son.

Finally, deliver yourself. It's not profitable and the end of that road you are plying is named regret.
Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Please Help by MrNipplesLover(m): 5:21pm On Oct 19, 2023
There's nothing wrong in carrying olosho/runs girls as long as u are doing well for urself...

The mother ish on getting married and having a child is the only wahala which I can relate to...

I always tell my mama say if na baby u want, e no hard for me at all... I gat plenty girls wey i fit just put prick inside one's toto and give am Belle make she born baby for me...

U see that marrying stuff, smiles...

I no fit marry and stay loyal to the woman, I go dey fvck outside and that's the favor I dey do for any woman wey think say I fit marry am...

It's better not to make any woman a divorcee, lemme just be cruising, abeg...

No time...

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Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Please Help by Puss360(f): 5:23pm On Oct 19, 2023
myami:
i need to fingerfùck your puci
Lol...wait for your turn... grin
Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Please Help by Puss360(f): 5:24pm On Oct 19, 2023
ericmor:


If you no see money pay, you are trying to tell us you will do olosho or hook up as you people use to call olosho this days. Something may be u have been using to pay your house rent in the past self
At least I no beg you for money nah.. why are you pained cheesy
Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Please Help by jaxxy(m): 5:26pm On Oct 19, 2023
xin5:
As a 47yr old I still patronise prostitutes which I don't see a problem with. I have No kid, no serious relationship. The problem is my mother complaining here and there for me to get married if I don't see my age.
My mother has complained to the extend she's embarrassed on my behalf even when I am well established.
I know I can't help myself, it's just an addiction I can't stop.
I find it so hard to chyke a girl, talk more calling every now and then.. having meaniless discussions and drama all the time.. pestering for sex something I can achieve with just a phone chat with my connect and they will send pictures of multiple variables I can pick from..30k shortime.

The longest relationship have ever had was in 2008 I think 7months.
Ever since I was young I focused on pay as you go and this has been eating my finances on a steady which I normally don't see as anything because I am doing quite well for myself.
But the pressure to have kids it's getting on me so bad that I wish I can just get a prostitute and impregnate her so that my mother can rest.

u need to unlearn this dirty habit and learn healthy ones. Yes sleeping with random girl who are sleeping with other random guys for money as a hussle is dirty.

The only was u can stop this is by stopping sex completely for atleast 3months. Yes try snd be celibate and u will have better control over ur self and habits.
Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Please Help by Goalnaldo(m): 5:27pm On Oct 19, 2023
xin5:
As a 47yr old I still patronise prostitutes which I don't see a problem with. I have No kid, no serious relationship. The problem is my mother complaining here and there for me to get married if I don't see my age.
My mother has complained to the extend she's embarrassed on my behalf even when I am well established.
I know I can't help myself, it's just an addiction I can't stop.
I find it so hard to chyke a girl, talk more calling every now and then.. having meaniless discussions and drama all the time.. pestering for sex something I can achieve with just a phone chat with my connect and they will send pictures of multiple variables I can pick from..30k shortime.

The longest relationship have ever had was in 2008 I think 7months.
Ever since I was young I focused on pay as you go and this has been eating my finances on a steady which I normally don't see as anything because I am doing quite well for myself.
But the pressure to have kids it's getting on me so bad that I wish I can just get a prostitute and impregnate her so that my mother can rest.
my life would likely have taken the path of yours if I didn't mend my relationship with Jesus Christ. I'm not addicted to sex nor prostitutes as I do it twice or once a year but I was disvirgined by a prostitute and I've never had sex with a regular girl since I don't have a girlfriend. Till today marriage still scares me and recent happenings in marriages are not helping matters. God help US!

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Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Please Help by Puss360(f): 5:28pm On Oct 19, 2023
77up:
E be like say Oga wan reason your matter too asper you grab wink wink


Maybe you too fit start the hustle and no need to wait till your house rent expire or better still,you fit make him mum happy grin grin grin
Omo 80k no be small thing oo...
And na one night o grin cheesy grin...
No wonder Nigeria be giant of Africa grin grin grin
Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Please Help by AmbassadoR100(m): 5:28pm On Oct 19, 2023
Believe me when I tell that you are under a serious bondage bro.

The same issue applies to pornography and masturbation.

The demon behind this evil act is not allowing you get a real girlfriend or wife not to talk of a kid at your age with all of your money... It's a serious spiritual battle which you need to fight bro.

What you are into is a serious mortal sin and the end of it is death.

Believe me bro.. I'm telling you the absolute truth as my big bro. You have a serious spiritual battle to fight.

I know this has caged you for years and is not letting go... There's an evil spirit behind it.

You need to call it quits bro.. Visit a genuine Man of God or a priest if you are Catholic for serious prayers.

You need to stop this act now that you are still aware...

Remain blessed.
xin5:
As a 47yr old I still patronise prostitutes which I don't see a problem with. I have No kid, no serious relationship. The problem is my mother complaining here and there for me to get married if I don't see my age.
My mother has complained to the extend she's embarrassed on my behalf even when I am well established.
I know I can't help myself, it's just an addiction I can't stop.
I find it so hard to chyke a girl, talk more calling every now and then.. having meaniless discussions and drama all the time.. pestering for sex something I can achieve with just a phone chat with my connect and they will send pictures of multiple variables I can pick from..30k shortime.

The longest relationship have ever had was in 2008 I think 7months.
Ever since I was young I focused on pay as you go and this has been eating my finances on a steady which I normally don't see as anything because I am doing quite well for myself.
But the pressure to have kids it's getting on me so bad that I wish I can just get a prostitute and impregnate her so that my mother can rest.

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Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Please Help by Oladhips(m): 5:35pm On Oct 19, 2023
Na lack of responsibility dey disturb you.. Get marry and man up

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Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Please Help by Dennisochampa: 5:39pm On Oct 19, 2023
myami:
you get babe wey i fit run tins with?
...
Them plenty everywhere.... Facebook, tagged, meet me, kismia etc
Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Please Help by vannessa7(f): 5:39pm On Oct 19, 2023
justmi1:
I'm in tears while typing this. I feel like someone leaked my life story. This is my current predicament only that I'm 33 not 47 and I don't pay that high. After battling masturbation for years, I found myself addicted to prostitutes. I feel very bad after the act. I find it hard to walk up to a girl I like and even if we meet through an event, I lose interest in girls easily as i dont know how to love a girl except to try to sleep with her. I get depressed daily.i have zero social life. I'm just existing in a lonely world. I feel so bad. I need help. 😫

That you realise you have a problem is the reason why I'm replying you unlike the op. The first thing you need to do is to build up your self confidence and one sure thing that destroy self esteem is immorality or crime, the more you engage in it the more you violate yourself and low self esteem is the outcome, which means patronizing prostitute is against your being and it is contributing to your low self esteem.

There are many things you can do to develop your self confidence, one major route is to get God, begin to serve God genuinely and you will see a difference, read the word of God first thing in the morning daily and it will heal your soul and take away the desire for immoral sex from you, I have experienced it. You focus on reading the word of God daily either as a Christian or Muslim and worship God. If you prefer Christianity I will recommend RCCG, it's one of the churches where you are sure you will see God , I'm a Muslim though, after reverting to Islam after almost 20 years of being a Christian, check my story of convertion in my profile here on nairaland.

Anyway another route is to get self help books on building self esteem, get as many as possible then read them all.

Also check your life for any habit that can erode your self confidence. Anything that violates the law of God will give you low self esteem to an extent no matter how small. Do away with such habits because you need good self esteem to be able to talk to a good lady and to build a relationship with her that will lead to marriage.

About the place of worship, you need accountability and places of worship can offer you that if you belong to a particular place of worship where you come together for prayers and you build up friendship there with people who are even closer to God than you, you will look out for each other and they will encourage you to be closer to the things of God because of your interaction with them, you will also not be lonely anymore because several opportunity to interact with others will present themselves if you belong to a place of worship,

Also directly ask God to take away the desire to patronize prostitute from you and to give you self confidence, pray this prayer daily and you will surely get answers to your prayers.

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Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Please Help by qtx(m): 5:42pm On Oct 19, 2023
xin5:
As a 47yr old I still patronise prostitutes which I don't see a problem with. I have No kid, no serious relationship. The problem is my mother complaining here and there for me to get married if I don't see my age.
My mother has complained to the extend she's embarrassed on my behalf even when I am well established.
I know I can't help myself, it's just an addiction I can't stop.
I find it so hard to chyke a girl, talk more calling every now and then.. having meaniless discussions and drama all the time.. pestering for sex something I can achieve with just a phone chat with my connect and they will send pictures of multiple variables I can pick from..30k shortime.

The longest relationship have ever had was in 2008 I think 7months.
Ever since I was young I focused on pay as you go and this has been eating my finances on a steady which I normally don't see as anything because I am doing quite well for myself.
But the pressure to have kids it's getting on me so bad that I wish I can just get a prostitute and impregnate her so that my mother can rest.
It is good that you acknowledge that it's a problem to you and you are tired of it. That is the first step. Walk into a true bible believing church and share your worries with a true pastor, ask him for a guide and support, try and be close to God through attending church programs and activities after being born again. Study the scripture and and avoid social media for some time. Delete all your account on those sites and groups that use to tempt you. God will help you and rescue your.
Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Please Help by Menclothing: 5:48pm On Oct 19, 2023
puss360 hope no be you Dey charge 5k for ST
Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Please Help by djon78(m): 5:51pm On Oct 19, 2023
xin5:
As a 47yr old I still patronise prostitutes which I don't see a problem with. I have No kid, no serious relationship. The problem is my mother complaining here and there for me to get married if I don't see my age.
My mother has complained to the extend she's embarrassed on my behalf even when I am well established.
I know I can't help myself, it's just an addiction I can't stop.
I find it so hard to chyke a girl, talk more calling every now and then.. having meaniless discussions and drama all the time.. pestering for sex something I can achieve with just a phone chat with my connect and they will send pictures of multiple variables I can pick from..30k shortime.

The longest relationship have ever had was in 2008 I think 7months.
Ever since I was young I focused on pay as you go and this has been eating my finances on a steady which I normally don't see as anything because I am doing quite well for myself.
But the pressure to have kids it's getting on me so bad that I wish I can just get a prostitute and impregnate her so that my mother can rest.


You need deliverance and rehabilitation

Patronizing ashawo at your age na very big problem

First admit that you have a very big problem
Then seek solution to it


If you don't resolve this issue
You may never recover from it
It's a very big problem and terrible addiction that will completely damage you if not resolved
Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Please Help by Kobojunkie: 5:52pm On Oct 19, 2023
WantsandMore:
There's no point speculating in a future that is yet to exist. No one knows tomorrow. What if he changes after having a kid, what if he doesn't? Too many complexities, what's important is that he takes responsibility for his action.
It is exactly that sort of thinking that led to the future that is Nigeria today and will probably to an even worse future to come. undecided
Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Please Help by Nobody: 5:57pm On Oct 19, 2023
xin5:
As a 47yr old I still patronise prostitutes which I don't see a problem with. I have No kid, no serious relationship. The problem is my mother complaining here and there for me to get married if I don't see my age.
My mother has complained to the extend she's embarrassed on my behalf even when I am well established.
I know I can't help myself, it's just an addiction I can't stop.
I find it so hard to chyke a girl, talk more calling every now and then.. having meaniless discussions and drama all the time.. pestering for sex something I can achieve with just a phone chat with my connect and they will send pictures of multiple variables I can pick from..30k shortime.

The longest relationship have ever had was in 2008 I think 7months.
Ever since I was young I focused on pay as you go and this has been eating my finances on a steady which I normally don't see as anything because I am doing quite well for myself.
But the pressure to have kids it's getting on me so bad that I wish I can just get a prostitute and impregnate her so that my mother can rest.

Dear Op,

If you're really interested to get married without stressing yourself to toast a babe, I can refer you to my sisters.

Send me a mail.
Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Please Help by djon78(m): 5:58pm On Oct 19, 2023
PissInside:
80 percent of nigerian men are addicted to prostitutes.....I'm not lying.

Go to Cynergy hotel at Festac or Jolly friends hotel at Ikeja on a Friday night and see rich, matured married men looking for hoes to fvck.

The situation of things in this country is not helping at all.... For me,I fvck prostitutes at least four times a week and I know how much I do spend.

Going into a relationship too is crazy because the woman you dating might have up to 20 boyfriends not to talk of toasters.

It's a crazy world out here.



Abeg count me out of that your eighty percent

If okpo na remaining women on Earth
Make I dey as I dey

Tueh
Na life wey I leave small when I was in my twenties
God forbid now I am much matured

True women nowadays are something else
But screwing ashawo is more addiction to sex
That's how I see it
And it's easier for those guys wey no get game on catching babes
Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Please Help by OBA117(m): 5:59pm On Oct 19, 2023
You need both spiritual and psychological help.
Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Please Help by djon78(m): 6:00pm On Oct 19, 2023
poweredcom:


Help me tell dem , pretenders na full this country , infact almost many nigerian girls are olosho working from home , they think its when a women is in a hotel mean she is a prostitute

You say cynergy , jolly friend , premier oluti , sunderland and , city center , surulere , owonla newlife oshodi , top star ajegunle , all d red bulb hotel around hoods omo allen avenue , pekas opebi , romeo juliet ejigbo , adeniran ogundanya , rita lori surulere ..omo if i start here ....we don rock dose zone now na from house gals de operate from


I know I will see you here brolosho

You never hang boot?
Re: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Please Help by djon78(m): 6:03pm On Oct 19, 2023
aameyah:
Sha don't go and deceive one innocent girl into everlasting tears and sorrow.


Actually many married Men patronize olosho

Na the ones wey no dey secretive they catch

You no come add side chics
Those ones are uncountable

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