Engaging with prostitute is very very addictive ..

I could remember then if I no enta asawo house to Bleep every day I go SICK ....

So Tay I no come get the courage to talk to any lady on the street or anywhere...

I feel the moment you now realize you have the problem there is now a solution which is within you ...

What you have to do is WITHIN you
1 make sure you already know what you doing is waste of
time
Sperm
Energy
MONEY

2 self discipline comes vouch to your side that you won't go to Dem anymore (although e dey hard oo) but try ...
(Try look for a lady wey you fit dey with fir this period )

My bro if try am I swear you go fight the addiction.....




Na how I take quench my Asewo addiction



If you do am come thank me later

Puss360:

Noo my dear... Price don go up ooo...
Person dey charge 50k...

Good to hear

Puss360:
Lol... So far so good there's nothing wrong with the OP...
The first step to treating someone is if the person is willing to agree that he/she is Ill....
The OP Neva gree say him wan solution..
Coz as e dey so, he still pays an exorbitant amount of money to hook-ups... And he really enjoys the sex...
Let your Mama rest...
The fact is dat, you aren't ready to Rest...
Well, life they say is once...
You live Only once....
Do what gives you joy...


Chai, so some men fit pay 80k per night....

And some people go come online say olosho no be work...
Well, make my house rent expire first and I no see money pay..

Na yeye dey worry you! 🤣🤣

My instincts dey tell me say you no be female sef.

xin5:
As a 47yr old I still patronise prostitutes which I don't see a problem with. I have No kid, no serious relationship. The problem is my mother complaining here and there for me to get married if I don't see my age.
My mother has complained to the extend she's embarrassed on my behalf even when I am well established.
I know I can't help myself, it's just an addiction I can't stop.
I find it so hard to chyke a girl, talk more calling every now and then.. having meaniless discussions and drama all the time.. pestering for sex something I can achieve with just a phone chat with my connect and they will send pictures of multiple variables I can pick from..30k shortime.

The longest relationship have ever had was in 2008 I think 7months.
Ever since I was young I focused on pay as you go and this has been eating my finances on a steady which I normally don't see as anything because I am doing quite well for myself.
But the pressure to have kids it's getting on me so bad that I wish I can just get a prostitute and impregnate her so that my mother can rest.

Stop the addiction before getting married. If not, your wife will suffer from your own addiction and your marriage will not last.

tonicyril:


Kemi why are u always like this today??

like what? Imagine a 47yrs old patronising olosho at his age when he supposed to be a family man.

Bombolistic:
Just cut off you gbola.. Thats permanent solution bro.

VASECTOMY bro

djon78:



Power no be every babe bad for naija

E still get plenty babes wey never Sabi anything

But player like you no go fit understand
Because you are used to okpo women

Yes but even those ones no get anytin to offer a stuggling man only to be a liability

vannessa7:


That you realise you have a problem is the reason why I'm replying you unlike the op. The first thing you need to do is to build up your self confidence and one sure thing that destroy self esteem is immorality or crime, the more you engage in it the more you violate yourself and low self esteem is the outcome, which means patronizing prostitute is against your being and it is contributing to your low self esteem.

There are many things you can do to develop your self confidence, one major route is to get God, begin to serve God genuinely and you will see a difference, read the word of God first thing in the morning daily and it will heal your soul and take away the desire for immoral sex from you, I have experienced it. You focus on reading the word of God daily either as a Christian or Muslim and worship God. If you prefer Christianity I will recommend RCCG, it's one of the churches where you are sure you will see God , I'm a Muslim though, after reverting to Islam after almost 20 years of being a Christian, check my story of convertion in my profile here on nairaland.

Anyway another route is to get self help books on building self esteem, get as many as possible then read them all.

Also check your life for any habit that can erode your self confidence. Anything that violates the law of God will give you low self esteem to an extent no matter how small. Do away with such habits because you need good self esteem to be able to talk to a good lady and to build a relationship with her that will lead to marriage.

About the place of worship, you need accountability and places of worship can offer you that if you belong to a particular place of worship where you come together for prayers and you build up friendship there with people who are even closer to God than you, you will look out for each other and they will encourage you to be closer to the things of God because of your interaction with them, you will also not be lonely anymore because several opportunity to interact with others will present themselves if you belong to a place of worship,

Also directly ask God to take away the desire to patronize prostitute from you and to give you self confidence, pray this prayer daily and you will surely get answers to your prayers.

thank you so much for this. With these words I feel encouraged and hopeful. I would do as you have advised; so help me God. Thank you.

mariahAngel:


Na yeye dey worry you! 🤣🤣

My instincts dey tell me say you no be female sef.

Lol.. so bad u haven't seen an outspoken girl...
All these Nairaland guys can't oppress me oo .. I go talk am as e dey do me... Lolzz

Menclothing:

Good to hear

U welcome

Better go for deliverance at Prayer City (MFM)quote author=xin5 post=126457165]As a 47yr old I still patronise prostitutes which I don't see a problem with. I have No kid, no serious relationship. The problem is my mother complaining here and there for me to get married if I don't see my age.
My mother has complained to the extend she's embarrassed on my behalf even when I am well established.
I know I can't help myself, it's just an addiction I can't stop.
I find it so hard to chyke a girl, talk more calling every now and then.. having meaniless discussions and drama all the time.. pestering for sex something I can achieve with just a phone chat with my connect and they will send pictures of multiple variables I can pick from..30k shortime.

The longest relationship have ever had was in 2008 I think 7months.
Ever since I was young I focused on pay as you go and this has been eating my finances on a steady which I normally don't see as anything because I am doing quite well for myself.
But the pressure to have kids it's getting on me so bad that I wish I can just get a prostitute and impregnate her so that my mother can rest.[/quote]

slimjohn2k5:
You will soon meet an angel that will change you.
Do away with your current friends and make friends with responsible people.

Ashawo pussy not dey wet.

This pay master hoe of a man doesn't deserve an angel. Will you send your daughter to him?

ayomilore:
Op I don't know your religion but you need deliverance asap, those power that held you captive to prostitute might be the one preventing you from getting married. Like someone earlier said you are the only one that can stop it if you are ready, deliverance, fasting and prayer is the solution.

God will deliver you

Hmmm, speaking of the Creator.

Nwokem I naaaaa

Everything dey ur ✋️

Walai this man never ready to change 😂 😂 😭 😂

xin5:

Nor talk am, premium own dey dey well

slimjohn2k5:
You will soon meet an angel that will change you.
Do away with your current friends and make friends with responsible people.

Ashawo pussy not dey wet.

Kobojunkie:
At 47, he not only needs a good job but a side project or gig as well. Many of his mates are out there trying to solve real life problems while his focus seems to be entirely only solving the twitching of the extra meat between his legs.

Is he not better than you that spends all your time on Nairaland at over 50

xin5:
As a 47yr old I still patronise prostitutes which I don't see a problem with. I have No kid, no serious relationship. The problem is my mother complaining here and there for me to get married if I don't see my age.
My mother has complained to the extend she's embarrassed on my behalf even when I am well established.
I know I can't help myself, it's just an addiction I can't stop.
I find it so hard to chyke a girl, talk more calling every now and then.. having meaniless discussions and drama all the time.. pestering for sex something I can achieve with just a phone chat with my connect and they will send pictures of multiple variables I can pick from..30k shortime.

The longest relationship have ever had was in 2008 I think 7months.
Ever since I was young I focused on pay as you go and this has been eating my finances on a steady which I normally don't see as anything because I am doing quite well for myself.
But the pressure to have kids it's getting on me so bad that I wish I can just get a prostitute and impregnate her so that my mother can rest.

Surrender your life to Christ and serve him with undivided attention. He will give you the grace to stop it and you will find a new passion for life.

You need help from boogeyman..
Make Im blast blast your left seedie with im old kala...then blast blast your right seedie with im new kala..
Light up his weed and sprinkle the ashes around the bullet wounds..
You will be ok sha..
Sips my monkey tail and listen to "prick power" by Zorro..great jam.

xin5:
As a 47yr old I still patronise prostitutes which I don't see a problem with. I have No kid, no serious relationship. The problem is my mother complaining here and there for me to get married if I don't see my age.
My mother has complained to the extend she's embarrassed on my behalf even when I am well established.
I know I can't help myself, it's just an addiction I can't stop.
I find it so hard to chyke a girl, talk more calling every now and then.. having meaniless discussions and drama all the time.. pestering for sex something I can achieve with just a phone chat with my connect and they will send pictures of multiple variables I can pick from..30k shortime.

The longest relationship have ever had was in 2008 I think 7months.
Ever since I was young I focused on pay as you go and this has been eating my finances on a steady which I normally don't see as anything because I am doing quite well for myself.
But the pressure to have kids it's getting on me so bad that I wish I can just get a prostitute and impregnate her so that my mother can rest.

you want to b free, attend the Lords Chosen services . the power of God will set you free from that addiction/bondage.

you may think this habit is ordinary. But just try and see.

Angelfrost:
All I see is a man lacking life goals, ambitions, and direction.


If those were in your life, you won't spend such time and money chasing women of easy virtues.

All you see is rubbish. The man you call no future ambition has a company and lives in his own house. He has achieved more than you can ever achieve in your life

Angelfrost:
All I see is a man lacking life goals, ambitions, and direction.


If those were in your life, you won't spend such time and money chasing women of easy virtues.

There are equally way more ambitious and made men who patronise prostitutes. In fact, the majority who patronise prostitutes are married men. Arguably, the most ambitious set of men in the world.

Dennisochampa:
Broz, all of us get one challenge or the other.
My prayer is that may God come through for you and help you realize the harm you're doing to yourself before it's too late.
Find one babe wen get sense.... Marry her so that you go get free liscence to run am even if na every minute of every day...
Again, may God heal you... Amen

Married men are the biggest patrons of prostitutes. Marriage doesn't stop brostitution.

xin5:
As a 47yr old I still patronise prostitutes which I don't see a problem with. I have No kid, no serious relationship. The problem is my mother complaining here and there for me to get married if I don't see my age.
My mother has complained to the extend she's embarrassed on my behalf even when I am well established.
I know I can't help myself, it's just an addiction I can't stop.
I find it so hard to chyke a girl, talk more calling every now and then.. having meaniless discussions and drama all the time.. pestering for sex something I can achieve with just a phone chat with my connect and they will send pictures of multiple variables I can pick from..30k shortime.

The longest relationship have ever had was in 2008 I think 7months.
Ever since I was young I focused on pay as you go and this has been eating my finances on a steady which I normally don't see as anything because I am doing quite well for myself.
But the pressure to have kids it's getting on me so bad that I wish I can just get a prostitute and impregnate her so that my mother can rest.

You admitted that you don’t see anything wrong with your lifestyle. You are only trying to put on a facade because your mother has been on your case. Until you are ready to change, no words can make you change if you are not willing. However you must remember that there are principles that govern this life. Dawn & dusk are a sure thing, anything born must surely expect a day of death , last but not least, we have a time for sowing and reaping. It’s shocking that you aren’t worried about the health implications of your lifestyle, but in due time life will force you to sit and look back at the decisions you made.These days I don’t do motivation talk. At 47, I’ll advise that whatever you do, to do it to the best of your ability. Even prostitution, get them even from the internet. When it’s all said & done, what will matter is how you lived your life.

poweredcom:


Bro almost all nigerian girls of today are prostitutes , so sad it will be hard to get dem to keep as house wife oo cos this generation is gone to the dogs , notin wrong is pating as u go directly with ashewo , i k ow u dont want these trikish gals to eat u and run away without giving you the nookie

Why not travel to uganda or botswana and find a wife there ..as for dis nigeria forget it

You may even end up with a damage girl who have been banged around or a retired okpo

Pot calling kettle black 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

jackmrandy:
what did I just read? a 47 years old man not married, still looking for hook up to do short time with. If you are married now it would been a different case, but offortunately you are not. things dey happen oh.

I'm curious, why would it be different as a married man? Would it not be worse considering as a married man, he has a child and wife to cater for?

I beg to differ. Not almost all Nigerian girls are prostitutes

poweredcom:


Bro almost all nigerian girls of today are prostitutes , so sad it will be hard to get dem to keep as house wife oo cos this generation is gone to the dogs , notin wrong is pating as u go directly with ashewo , i k ow u dont want these trikish gals to eat u and run away without giving you the nookie

Why not travel to uganda or botswana and find a wife there ..as for dis nigeria forget it

You may even end up with a damage girl who have been banged around or a retired okpo

Jamie1000:
Bro. Go get a life.You're most likely too fat and old . That's why they are billing you high. Normal level is 20 full night. Tall pretty ass. Short ones 10k. 😆 🤣 😂 😹 😆 🤣 😂 😹 😆 🤣 😂

It depends on where OP is residing. If na anywhere near Lekki or Maitama, no girl will collect 20K for a night.

torqque7:
47 years old man saying all this?the heigh of irresponsibility..after going through your profile I have to say bro you need prayers..I and not even 40but men I no dey reason like you,how does a full grown man seat and be anticipating his family inheritance,using his last cash that he budgeted for olosho then used it to gamble and lost it and then starts calling his friends to bail him out?like wtf? No wonder none of your friends bailed you out because you are are a manchild. Omo people dey o damn.

Yeah, I did go through his profile and it showed that he's not a good financial planner. Engaging in gambling and brostitution AND even using the money to pay the escorts to gamble shows irresponsibility.

AlphaHakimi:
Some comments are hypocritical.

At 47 and you are unmarried, there is absolutely nothing wrong in patronizing sex workers. Just keep an open mind and hear me out.

If we are all sincere to ourselves, the major aim why a woman gets married is just to have someone take care of her and to elevate her societal standards(married woman). The major aim why men get married is to have a home( Home cooked meals and orderliness) and to have a sex partner. Every other thing is just a bonus to that marriage.

OP, Women will criticize you because you are actually one of the men they cannot manipulate in terms of relationship because their greatest weapon which is sex is something you get whenever you want it.

As humans, well all enjoy most of the things we consider bad. If you are truthful to yourself you will know I'm saying the truth. We all like sex, we like clubbing, we like smoking, we like orges, we like naked parties. We are only scared because we don't want to go to hell. Remove religion and indoctrination and you will know I'm saying the truth.

Shalom.

The issue is that OP has lost control of this habit. Regarding your comments about marriage, yes, those are the major benefits. Financially, I'm yet to see the benefits a man gets from marriage. The major benefit is having his biological children. Even the children fit later love their mother more than the man wey spend money.

Sha, if you remove religion and cultural norms, na anarchy and jungle you don create o. Not good for society.

Babsoul:
One of his major problems is complex issue, no man I mean man at the age of 47 will pay as high as 50k for hook up girl, except the lady in question is far better than you.

You do spend someone's salary a week just for sxx that's free everywhere, that explains the fact that you are not responsible.

If your story is true, you are the definition of a fullllll

There are men who pay more than OP. The koko is that they're well-to-do. So the money is chicken change.