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Should I Let Her Go Or Keep Up With Her? by Hdanny(m): 5:55pm On Oct 20, 2023
Let me start with this, am not the relationship type, have never been committed to any girl all my life. I don’t go for anything under skirt cause am too selective when it comes to Girls.

I met this girl in Port harcourt at a friends place in early June, she is a single mother and she seems to be a very good and jovial person, we got connected immediately and we had sex the same day, ever since then our sex scenes been great, she do a-lot of things for me, like house cleaning, cooking, doing my laundry and stuffs even when she’s not been told. I told her the first day that I don’t base here and I might travel back to Lagos where I came from very soon, she said it’s fine.

Fast forward to the day I was about leaving, she started begging me to take her along that she needs to take her son to Lagos where her ex boyfriend parents live for the boy to resume school, the ex is not in Nigeria. I felt pity for the poor boy and I told her it’s okay, I gave her money to go take the boy from her mom so we can go Lagos together. I made it known to her that I won’t be responsible for her housing and feeding cause am going back to go hustle. We left Port Harcourt together the next day.

Getting to Lagos, she started lamenting that she hasn’t eaten that I should please send her some money and should try to get her a job, I reminded her of what I told her the day we were leaving, don’t try putting your burden on me here in Lagos. Luckily for her I got her a job close to my work place, just for her to use that in taking care of herself. She started the work the next day and we started seeing again and having sex couple of time at my place, all these time I didn’t promise her marriage or whatsoever. Now here is the problem.


Anytime we have misunderstanding at my work place, before I say one she don talk two even when I tell her to stop she still continue talking, when it happens like that I just get up and find my way out but she never allowed me to go out, she would run after me and lock the door then remove the key, before I know it I would hit her and she won’t even waste time hitting me back, have never hit woman all my life but I can’t just help it, all these happened at my work place most of the time, once we settled she would go on her kneels and start begging me to forgive her for hitting me, it happens over and over again, our last fight was bloody, I had to call it quit few days ago before anything bad happen. She cried and begged me that it won’t happen again but I made her understand that it is not healthy if we continue like this.


Have been by myself these past few days, I must confess I miss her so much, she cook for me and bring to my office everyday, I miss our nights conversations so much, her soft touch on me and the rest. I called her two days ago to come around which she did, I made her sleep at my place, we talked through the night and we ended up having sex and she asked if I was okay with it or if I want more that she knows I miss her so much, I can’t even deny that cause it’s boldly written all over me. She left very early in the morning at 6am. I noticed the feelings wasn’t there anymore, I understand how she feels cause I had to make her leave my place that day we broke up even though she never wanted to leave.

I miss everything about her even though I don’t see any future in us. I feel something is not right, keeping her and still having sex while we already broke up. Should I just let her go or still keep up with her?

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Re: Should I Let Her Go Or Keep Up With Her? by theophilusj31(m): 6:01pm On Oct 20, 2023
If all this redpill guys start calling you simp,you will pick offense.

How does this sound in your ear

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Re: Should I Let Her Go Or Keep Up With Her? by ShenTeh(m): 6:03pm On Oct 20, 2023
Hdanny:
Let me start with this, am not the relationship type, have never been committed to any girl all my life. I don’t go for anything under skirt cause am too selective when it comes to Girls.

I met this girl in Port harcourt at a friends place in early June, she is a single mother and she seems to be a very good and jovial person, we got connected immediately and we had sex the same day, ever since then our sex scenes been great, she do a-lot of things for me, like house cleaning, cooking, doing my laundry and stuffs even when she’s not been told. I told her the first day that I don’t base here and I might travel back to Lagos where I came from very soon, she said it’s fine.

Fast forward to the day I was about leaving, she started begging me to take her along that she needs to take her son to Lagos where her ex boyfriend parents live for the boy to resume school, the ex is not in Nigeria. I felt pity for the poor boy and I told her it’s okay, I gave her money to go take the boy from her mom so we can go Lagos together. I made it known to her that I won’t be responsible for her housing and feeding cause am going back to go hustle. We left Port Harcourt together the next day.

Getting to Lagos, she started lamenting that she hasn’t eaten that I should please send her some money and should try to get her a job, I reminded her of what I told her the day we were leaving, don’t try putting your burden on me here in Lagos. Luckily for her I got her a job close to my work place, just for her to use that in taking care of herself. She started the work the next day and we started seeing again and having sex couple of time at my place, all these time I didn’t promise her marriage or whatsoever. Now here is the problem.


Anytime we have misunderstanding at my work place, before I say one she don talk two even when I tell her to stop she still continue talking, when it happens like that I just get up and find my way out but she never allowed me to go out, she would run after me and lock the door then remove the key, before I know it I would hit her and she won’t even waste time hitting me back, have never hit woman all my life but I can’t just help it, all these happened at my work place most of the time, once we settled she would go on her kneels and start begging me to forgive her for hitting me, it happens over and over again, our last fight was bloody, I had to call it quit few days ago before anything bad happen. She cried and begged me that it won’t happen again but I made her understand that it is not healthy if we continue like this.


Have been by myself these past few days, I must confess I miss her so much, she cook for me and bring to my office everyday, I miss our nights conversations so much, her soft touch on me and the rest. I called her two days ago to come around which she did, I made her sleep at my place, we talked through the night and we ended up having sex and she asked if I was okay with it or if I want more that she knows I miss her so much, I can’t even deny that cause it’s boldly written all over me. She left very early in the morning at 6am. I noticed the feelings wasn’t there anymore, I understand how she feels cause I had to make her leave my place that day we broke up even though she never wanted to leave.

I miss everything about her even though I don’t see any future in us. I feel something is not right, keeping her and still having sex while we already broke up. Should I just let her go or still keep up with her?

A woman's greatest cosmetic is a man's lust for her body.

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Re: Should I Let Her Go Or Keep Up With Her? by garriAndsugar: 6:04pm On Oct 20, 2023
You said your last fight with her was bloody, Isn't the flag red enough to let her go?

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Re: Should I Let Her Go Or Keep Up With Her? by Odin13: 6:05pm On Oct 20, 2023
That one done catch you keep.. leave her na by mouth?

Just go pay dowry ..

You no leave her when you suppose do.. she manipulate you enter Lagos .. get job close to her .. ah..

Now tell us honestly.. you don loot any girl aside her ? grin

You see why i say make you go pay dowry.. weda you see future or not ..

Single mothers ba?

Jones her .. see stabbing

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Re: Should I Let Her Go Or Keep Up With Her? by Dyfynezz12(m): 6:06pm On Oct 20, 2023
Chai,there are some epistles that u will read on nairaland and the only thing u can do is to laugh very hard.This is one of them

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Re: Should I Let Her Go Or Keep Up With Her? by Hdanny(m): 6:24pm On Oct 20, 2023
theophilusj31:
If all this redpill guys start calling you simp,you will pick offense.

How does this sound in your ear
Bro this ain’t a matter of simp, I don’t even waste time when it comes to women but this one choke me, my mistake was bringing her to Lagos.

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Re: Should I Let Her Go Or Keep Up With Her? by Hdanny(m): 6:25pm On Oct 20, 2023
garriAndsugar:
You said your last fight with her was bloody, Isn't the flag red enough to let her go?
Yes bro, reason why I broke up with her that same day, she used to sleep at my place but nothing like that anymore.
Re: Should I Let Her Go Or Keep Up With Her? by Hdanny(m): 6:26pm On Oct 20, 2023
Dyfynezz12:
Chai,there are some epistles that u will read on nairaland and the only thing u can do is to laugh very hard.This is one of them
No reason am, e dey happen bro
Re: Should I Let Her Go Or Keep Up With Her? by Hdanny(m): 6:28pm On Oct 20, 2023
Odin13:
That one done catch you keep.. leave her na by mouth?

Just go pay dowry ..

You no leave her when you suppose do.. she manipulate you enter Lagos .. get job close to her .. ah..

Now tell us honestly.. you don loot any girl aside her ? grin

You see why i say make you go pay dowry.. weda you see future or not ..

Single mothers ba?

Jones her .. see stabbing
No be lie bro, anytime fight occurs, she can do and undo, ever since have noticed that behaviour, I made her leave my house before it gets out hands.
Re: Should I Let Her Go Or Keep Up With Her? by Odin13: 6:36pm On Oct 20, 2023
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Hdanny:

No be lie bro, anytime fight occurs, she can do and undo, ever since have noticed that behaviour, I made her leave my house before it gets out hands.

Na bone wey hook for throat be that..

Just relocate , ghost her.. but e no easy..

To get girl friend .. no be option at all grin.. if you like yourself

E don be ..

Relax and pray something happens

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Re: Should I Let Her Go Or Keep Up With Her? by Hdanny(m): 6:44pm On Oct 20, 2023
Odin13:
I

Na bone wey hook for throat be that..

Just relocate , ghost her.. but e no easy..

To get girl friend .. no be option at all grin.. if you like yourself

E don be ..

Relax and pray something happens
Brr funny enough I no dey do girlfriend, my own na to bang go my way but this one choke me, of course I dey pray bro, I believe na matter of time, she go become history.

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Re: Should I Let Her Go Or Keep Up With Her? by Xinjin: 6:57pm On Oct 20, 2023
I hope this is not one of those cock and bull stories
Re: Should I Let Her Go Or Keep Up With Her? by Hdanny(m): 7:08pm On Oct 20, 2023
Xinjin:
I hope this is not one of those cock and bull stories
Lol the story doesn’t look real to you?
Bro na wetin dey sup at the moment
Re: Should I Let Her Go Or Keep Up With Her? by OSDD(m): 7:13pm On Oct 20, 2023
........


This is a hooge level of forkrey

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Re: Should I Let Her Go Or Keep Up With Her? by Hdanny(m): 7:16pm On Oct 20, 2023
OSDD:
........


This is a hooge level of forkrey
In what way bro
Re: Should I Let Her Go Or Keep Up With Her? by DyingFetus: 7:16pm On Oct 20, 2023
Sniper no too cost , Just do the needful

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Re: Should I Let Her Go Or Keep Up With Her? by SkengRay: 7:19pm On Oct 20, 2023
Hdanny:

Brr funny enough I no dey do girlfriend, my own na to bang go my way but this one choke me, of course I dey pray bro, I believe na matter of time, she go become history.
for where this one don hook u already u no fit escape am seh.

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Re: Should I Let Her Go Or Keep Up With Her? by Hdanny(m): 7:20pm On Oct 20, 2023
SkengRay:
for where this one don hook u already u no fit escape am seh.
Bro this one na curse abi wetin
Re: Should I Let Her Go Or Keep Up With Her? by doggedfighter(f): 7:21pm On Oct 20, 2023
What kind of place do you work that allows you fight with a girlfriend and still shows your face the next day?

Must be a Motor park ?

Even bloody fighting is even allowed.


Is fighting part of your job description ?

Fighting maybe you guys love language.

Just enjoy the relationship 🙂

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Re: Should I Let Her Go Or Keep Up With Her? by Hdanny(m): 7:22pm On Oct 20, 2023
DyingFetus:
Sniper no too cost , Just do the needful
If you don’t have any sensible thing to write, get the Bleep outta here

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Re: Should I Let Her Go Or Keep Up With Her? by SkengRay: 7:23pm On Oct 20, 2023
Hdanny:

Bro this one na curse abi wetin
at all. The babe don see soft ground. U think say she go con leave you easily. She go try everything in her power( manipulation or worse still)

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Re: Should I Let Her Go Or Keep Up With Her? by KiNg0G: 7:26pm On Oct 20, 2023
Hdanny:
Let me start with this, am not the relationship type, have never been committed to any girl all my life. I don’t go for anything under skirt cause am too selective when it comes to Girls.

I met this girl in Port harcourt at a friends place in early June, she is a single mother and she seems to be a very good and jovial person, we got connected immediately and we had sex the same day, ever since then our sex scenes been great, she do a-lot of things for me, like house cleaning, cooking, doing my laundry and stuffs even when she’s not been told. I told her the first day that I don’t base here and I might travel back to Lagos where I came from very soon, she said it’s fine.

Fast forward to the day I was about leaving, she started begging me to take her along that she needs to take her son to Lagos where her ex boyfriend parents live for the boy to resume school, the ex is not in Nigeria. I felt pity for the poor boy and I told her it’s okay, I gave her money to go take the boy from her mom so we can go Lagos together. I made it known to her that I won’t be responsible for her housing and feeding cause am going back to go hustle. We left Port Harcourt together the next day.

Getting to Lagos, she started lamenting that she hasn’t eaten that I should please send her some money and should try to get her a job, I reminded her of what I told her the day we were leaving, don’t try putting your burden on me here in Lagos. Luckily for her I got her a job close to my work place, just for her to use that in taking care of herself. She started the work the next day and we started seeing again and having sex couple of time at my place, all these time I didn’t promise her marriage or whatsoever. Now here is the problem.


Anytime we have misunderstanding at my work place, before I say one she don talk two even when I tell her to stop she still continue talking, when it happens like that I just get up and find my way out but she never allowed me to go out, she would run after me and lock the door then remove the key, before I know it I would hit her and she won’t even waste time hitting me back, have never hit woman all my life but I can’t just help it, all these happened at my work place most of the time, once we settled she would go on her kneels and start begging me to forgive her for hitting me, it happens over and over again, our last fight was bloody, I had to call it quit few days ago before anything bad happen. She cried and begged me that it won’t happen again but I made her understand that it is not healthy if we continue like this.


Have been by myself these past few days, I must confess I miss her so much, she cook for me and bring to my office everyday, I miss our nights conversations so much, her soft touch on me and the rest. I called her two days ago to come around which she did, I made her sleep at my place, we talked through the night and we ended up having sex and she asked if I was okay with it or if I want more that she knows I miss her so much, I can’t even deny that cause it’s boldly written all over me. She left very early in the morning at 6am. I noticed the feelings wasn’t there anymore, I understand how she feels cause I had to make her leave my place that day we broke up even though she never wanted to leave.

I miss everything about her even though I don’t see any future in us. I feel something is not right, keeping her and still having sex while we already broke up. Should I just let her go or still keep up with her?

That toto tight somehow and belike it nor dey smell..na make bros.

I nor fit judge u, it had to see sensible toto this days

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Re: Should I Let Her Go Or Keep Up With Her? by DyingFetus: 7:35pm On Oct 20, 2023
Hdanny:

If you don’t have any sensible thing to write, get the Bleep outta here


Just kys fàggot

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Re: Should I Let Her Go Or Keep Up With Her? by Fahvvy: 7:36pm On Oct 20, 2023
(sighs) Single mothers again undecided...

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Re: Should I Let Her Go Or Keep Up With Her? by Flenory: 7:54pm On Oct 20, 2023
Odin13:
That one done catch you keep.. leave her na by mouth?

Just go pay dowry ..

You no leave her when you suppose do.. she manipulate you enter Lagos .. get job close to her .. ah..

Now tell us honestly.. you don loot any girl aside her ? grin

You see why i say make you go pay dowry.. weda you see future or not ..

Single mothers ba?

Jones her .. see stabbing
grin grin grin
This guy na clown

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Re: Should I Let Her Go Or Keep Up With Her? by vincenteger: 8:00pm On Oct 20, 2023
Sincerely you don't know what you want.
See you justifying yourself that you have never hit a woman b4.
It's best you end everything now and plz stop thinking with your d**

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Re: Should I Let Her Go Or Keep Up With Her? by maestro299: 8:26pm On Oct 20, 2023
RUN! And don't look back! She's a damaged woman. (you yourself are a damaged man, but let's focus on the banny for now). Forget the sex. No matter how well she can suck your d**k or how many styles she allows you to practice on her, it's not going to be worth it. Forget her cooking and homemaking skills. It's just a hook to snare you with (judging by your post, you don enter the trap finish sef). Your biggest mistake was bringing her with you to Lagos and even getting a job for her near where you earn your daily bread. You just use your own hand light fire for your head. She's a drama queen. And your life is going to be one nonstop soap opera from now on.

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Re: Should I Let Her Go Or Keep Up With Her? by Hdanny(m): 8:30pm On Oct 20, 2023
maestro299:
RUN! And don't look back! She's a damaged woman. (you yourself are a damaged man, but let's focus on the banny for now). Forget the sex. No matter how well she can suck your d**k or how many styles she allows you to practice on her, it's not going to be worth it. Forget her cooking and homemaking skills. It's just a hook to snare you with (judging by your post, you don enter the trap finish sef). Your biggest mistake was bringing her with you to Lagos and even getting a job for her near where you earn your daily bread. You just use your own hand light fire for your head. She's a drama queen. And your life is going to be one nonstop soap opera from now on.
Thanks for this piece man

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Re: Should I Let Her Go Or Keep Up With Her? by Clinghton: 9:07pm On Oct 20, 2023
This is an opportunity for you to escape a time bomb, marriage is not based on sex but on character.

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Re: Should I Let Her Go Or Keep Up With Her? by Dyfynezz12(m): 9:08pm On Oct 20, 2023
Hdanny:

No reason am, e dey happen bro
Omo dy post funny no be lie

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Re: Should I Let Her Go Or Keep Up With Her? by Westerhoffe(m): 1:06am On Oct 21, 2023
Anny69, come and carry your neighbour.

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