There's this young guy im very sure I'm older than in my local assembly. Hes very young and is doing well for himself. A very disciplined and intelligent born again Christian.

Though sometimes he likes ordering me to do some task as the president of our group and I most times challenge him that I won't do it. He either ends up doing it or I'll just pity him after he goes quiet and do it before Dem tag me iya aje. .

Last week he messaged me but I didn't see it as anything cos I thought he wanted to give one of his usual tasks. I didn't reply and that one went. Yesterday I received another one and I got a bit worried because normally he would message me on the group but this one he's now coming directly to my box, I don't understand cos we are not that close neither have we ever had any previous sessions for him to be saying what he said in the message.

We saw today but I was just avoiding his gaze at the Sunday school when he was taking us. When I'm not looking he'll just be staring at me and this he has been doing for the past few weeks before this messages started.

He's too young. I no want small boy wahala but let me not conclude yet until I've heard from you guys. If it's what I'm thinking I need to know how to handle it and say no and not look stupid like I'm allowing an opportunity slide at my age. I don't have any feelings for him but let me know what this means.

Please read below and tell me what this means.
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For those making snide remarks, it obvious you didn't get the drift of the post. I'm not preempting anything but only trying to stop something I may not like before it gets too far or becomes public as I've been seeing some suspicious moves and tracking from the pastorate. Therefore I need to know the angle the message is drifting so I can quickly approach and tell him in time to stop.

I've had this experience with a pastor in the past that before I knew it he already went round to all the pastors to announce that he's interested in me and I didn't know until after I told him off because of his stinginess, the whole Area and zone started pouring out about me rejecting a lifetime opportunity spreading my name in a way I didn't like.

If you still don't get it at this point, it means the world has entered deeply into you and you don't know how christian relationship and courtship is done. .

Op, don't give in.




This is how they behave when looking for a warm water to bath their dick.

"A very disciplined and intelligent born again Christian" indeed.


How did you come up with that? ...because you meet for a few hours in church?? lol.

“O fe do e ni o” (e wan fück you).

Na from close your eyes and let’s pray e dey start, before you know anything, clothes, trousers/skirt, pants and bra don part ways with the body.

Ki olorun gba ni l’owo awon afi adura jagun gba pata lara eni (make God deliver one from the prayer warriors who specialises in using prayer to depart the pants from one’s body)

Acidosis:


"A very disciplined and intelligent born again Christian" indeed.


How did you come up with that? ...because you meet for a few hours in church?? lol.

What's the meaning of the message?

Jeon:
Op, don't give in.




This is how they behave when looking for a warm water to bath their dick.

My dear are you telling me? I know them.

You're not a small child neither are you a baby, you already know what he wants

Amotolongbo:
“O fe do e ni o”

Iro o. He's truly a born again but I'm surprised at the "hear your voice" thing . I was shocked because he's so over spirikoko I never knew he could say such

garriAndsugar:
You're not a small child neither are you a baby, you already know what he wants

I DON'T KNOW!

Jewessgratitud3:


Iro o. He's truly a born again but I'm surprised at the "hear your voice thing ". I was shocked because he's so over spirikoko I never knew he could say such

”born again” ti ko l'oko abi (born again with no dïck)

Olorun ma je ki won fi “born again” lu e ni jibiti ara (May they not use born again to rob you of your pûzzy).

Amotolongbo:
”born again” ti ko l'oko abi (born again with no dïck)

Olorun ma je ki won fi “born again” lu e ni jibiti ara (May they not use born again to rob you of your pûzzy).

At 42 someone will deceive me with sex? Haba... E get wetin person dey pass.

Jewessgratitud3:


At 42 someone will deceive me with sex? Haba... E get wetin person dey pass.

42?

Please don’t say that you can’t be deceived with sex at 42. He sees you to be vulnerable at that age without a partner.

Arugbo gan n se agbako oko (aged women fall victim of prïck). Oko ti o ti le ko ma leri okan (hard prîck no get conscience)

Amotolongbo:
42?

Please don’t say that you can’t be deceived with sex at 42

Yeah I'm proudly 42.

He is just looking for a hole to put his dick.

Kindly ignore him... And if he tend to be a disturbance, stop talking too him in general.

Jewessgratitud3:


At 42 someone will deceive me with sex? Haba... E get wetin person dey pass.

Of course he can't deceive u....if u spread it, u can't claim u were deceived.....ur flesh want it

At 42...what is it that u don't get here ... A man with penîs said he wants to hear your voice....
It's pretty straight forward..
..if the idea of fvcking him is cool with u...go and pray with him... If not.....tell him u are not interested in prayers and he should not ask again....

All this ur comment of calling him a small boy no follow.... If he nack u once..u will know he's no a small boy

Why are you preempting this little chat ?



The young man is yet to say anything and you are already asking for advice.

Besides by your description of him you admire him.

Let's not be too serious when it comes to some things especially human relationships..

You tend to miss out on life when we over calculate every little move or gesture .

Be open minded.

Jewessgratitud3:
■ He's too young.
■ I no want small boy wahala but let me not conclude yet until I've heard from you guys. If it's what I'm thinking I need to know how to handle it and say no and not look stupid like I'm allowing an opportunity slide at my age. I don't have anything for him but let me know what this means. Please read below and tell me what this means.
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If the statement in bold really came from a sincere part of you, then why avoid his gaze all day? You could have confidently walked up to him today to ask him why he sent you the suspicious message but instead you didn't. Why?

2. If it is what I think you may be thinking, wouldn't you need to turn him down in that case? Why draw it out unnecessarily? Ask him as a bigger aunty would, allow him tell you his reasoning for sending you the message and then go from there. No need to make this into a drama.

doggedfighter:
Why are you preempting this little chat ?



The young man is yet to say anything and you are already asking for advice.

Besides by your description of him you admire him.

Let's not be too serious when it comes to some things especially human relationships..

You tend to miss out on life when we over calculate every little move or gesture .

Be open minded.

..See better reasoning here. You even noticed the positive compliments she gave about the guy..

You no let the young man say what is it, he wants to say

Biko, when is it a crime for a Christian brother to admire or propose a serious relationship to a Christian sister of same worship center ?

.. The other moniker up there just dey pour petrol up and down for where fire no dey ..

henrimoto:
..See better reasoning here. You even noticed the positive compliments she gave about the guy..

You no let the young man say what is it, he wants to say

Biko, when is it a crime for a Christian brother to admire or propose a serious relationship to a Christian sister of same worship center ?

.. The other moniker up there just dey pour petrol up and down for where fire no dey ..

Many are already seeing the brother's di**k inside her.

While others are already seeing her pregnant with the brother's baby and abandoned.

Plenty headache for nothing

Jewessgratitud3:


Yeah I'm a proudly ...

.. Hear him out first! No use "Agidi" pursue man with Good compliments away from your side.

Amotolongbo:
“O fe do e ni o” (e wan fück you).

Na from close your eyes and let’s pray e dey start, before you know anything, clothes, trousers/skirt, pants and bra don part ways with the body.

Ki olorun gba ni l’owo awon afi adura jagun gba pata lara eni (make God deliver one from the prayer warriors who specialises in using prayer to depart the pants from one’s body)

.. Anty!! Bawo lon se yin? Se o mo eni ti wo n so tele ni ? ( How is it doing you? Do you know the brother she is talking about before now?)

doggedfighter:


Many are already seeing the brother's di**k inside her.

While others are already seeing her pregnant with the brother's baby and abandoned.

Plenty headache for nothing

.. can you imagine!! The other moniker no even talk like person with matured mind.

O ko'n soro "gbao-gbao" ni.

doggedfighter:


Many are already seeing the brother's di**k inside her.

While others are already seeing her pregnant with the brother's baby and abandoned.

Plenty headache for nothing

Ahhh dogged?

Just tell him you are his aunty, simple

Acidosis:


Ahhh dogged?

I didn't type that

Read the thread and see the heathens imagine vain things

henrimoto:
.. Anty!! Bawo lon se yin? Se o mo eni ti wo n so tele ni ? ( How is it doing you? Do you know the brother she is talking about before now?)

aluwala olongbo, ogbon ati k’eran je ni

doggedfighter:


I didn't type that

Read the thread and see the heathens imagine vain things

Iffahear! You're a bad girl....A very bad girl.

Little21:
He is just looking for a hole to put his dick.

Kindly ignore him... And if he tend to be a disturbance, stop talking too him in general.

We don't even talk in the first place that's why the message got me a bit worried and confused. He's all this highly spiritual brother that hardly look at women or talk to people. In fact they call him stone lol...

advanceDNA:


Of course he can't deceive u....if u spread it, u can't claim u were deceived.....ur flesh want it

At 42...what is it that u don't get here ... A man with penîs said he wants to hear your voice....
It's pretty straight forward..
..if the idea of fvcking him is cool with u...go and pray with him... If not.....tell him u are not interested in prayers and he should not ask again....

All this ur comment of calling him a small boy no follow.... If he nack u once..u will know he's no a small boy

Everything is not about sex ogar!!! Kai!

Amotolongbo:
aluwala olongbo, ogbon ati k’eran je ni

..fi Aluwala Olongbo le jare. You no even give this brother, "benefit of Doubt" upon the Good compliments wey Sis. Jewessgratitude3, give about the brother.

Eje ki brother nor, so o ro okan re.

Jewessgratitud3:


Everything is not about sex ogar!!! Ksi!

Okay ...nor vex ....


I didn't say everything is about sex..... I just told u the possibility of of what hearing ur voice can lead to.... Na u ask for opinion... Na u dey form vandame

Kobojunkie:
If the statement in bold really came from a sincere part of you, then why avoid his gaze all day? You could have confidently walked up to him today to ask him why he sent you the suspicious message but instead you didn't. Why?

2. If it is what I think you may be thinking, wouldn't you need to turn him down in that case? Why draw it out unnecessarily? Ask him as a bigger aunty would, allow him tell you his reasoning for sending you the message and then go from there. No need to make this into a drama.

Why turn him down when I'm not sure what his message meant? And that's why I came to get peoples opinion/ interpretation of the message before asking him one or two so I can be well guided.

We hardly talk so it not something I'll just approach him like that. Let me be sure first.