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Intereligious Marriage Advice Please by ayomidefavour: 9:07am On Oct 23, 2023
From a friend of mine

I am a Christian Guy and my Girlfriend is a Muslim;
I met her when I was appointed secetary and she appointed as my assistant in my work place

We do things together and we ended up
falling in love
I initiated the introduction process but her parents refused
She saidi should impregnate her but I
refused;

What should I do
Re: Intereligious Marriage Advice Please by Houseontherock1: 9:13am On Oct 23, 2023
ayomidefavour:
From a friend of mine

I am a Christian Guy and my Girlfriend is a Muslim;
I met her when I was appointed secetary and she appointed as my assistant in my work place

We do things together and we ended up
falling in love
I initiated the introduction process but her parents refused
She saidi should impregnate her but I
refused;

What should I do

Is she willing to practice her religion without influencing you and /or your children in future? Do you think the parents will allow you practice your religion in peace? Is it really worth it? The simple solution is for you to fall in love with and marry a Christian lady... it's not as easy as you think.
Re: Intereligious Marriage Advice Please by ayomidefavour: 9:24am On Oct 23, 2023
Houseontherock1:

Is she willing to practice her religion without influencing you and /or your children in future? Do you think the parents will allow you practice your religion in peace? Is it really worth it? The simple solution is for you to fall in love with and marry a Christian lady... it's not as easy as you think.

According to him;
He said the lady is willing to make sure all her kids are Christians in as much that she have him to herself but the
problem is her parents
Re: Intereligious Marriage Advice Please by Houseontherock1: 9:26am On Oct 23, 2023
ayomidefavour:


According to him;
He said the lady is willing to make sure all her kids are Christians in as much that she have him to herself but the
problem is her parents
It's easier to cope with a bad spouse than bad in-laws undecided
Re: Intereligious Marriage Advice Please by mysticwarrior(m): 9:28am On Oct 23, 2023
My brother for everyone's safety you have to abandon your intention of getting married to her
Re: Intereligious Marriage Advice Please by ayomidefavour: 9:30am On Oct 23, 2023
Houseontherock1:

It's easier to cope with a bad spouse than bad in-laws undecided
No;
Both are not good but Bad in-laws are the worst
Re: Intereligious Marriage Advice Please by ayomidefavour: 9:35am On Oct 23, 2023
mysticwarrior:
My brother for everyone's safety you have to abandon your intention of getting married to her
Sir;
She keeps crying every day If the intention of breaking up is mentioned to her
Re: Intereligious Marriage Advice Please by mysticwarrior(m): 10:49am On Oct 23, 2023
ayomidefavour:

Sir;
She keeps crying every day If the intention of breaking up is mentioned to her
My brother avoid family interventions and wahala, there would be unwanted envetualities if you end up getting married to her
Re: Intereligious Marriage Advice Please by MaxInDHouse(m): 11:12am On Oct 23, 2023
ayomidefavour:

I am a Christian Guy and my Girlfriend is a Muslim

married to whomever (you) wants, only in the Lord. 1Corinthians 7:39

A TRUE Christian will never marry a Muslim! undecided

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Re: Intereligious Marriage Advice Please by paxx: 6:24pm On Oct 23, 2023
ayomidefavour:
From a friend of mine

I am a Christian Guy and my Girlfriend is a Muslim;
I met her when I was appointed secetary and she appointed as my assistant in my work place

We do things together and we ended up
falling in love
I initiated the introduction process but her parents refused
She saidi should impregnate her but I
refused;

What should I do

if she loves u, ignore the family
Re: Intereligious Marriage Advice Please by Emusan(m): 8:08pm On Oct 23, 2023
ayomidefavour:
From a friend of mine

I am a Christian Guy and my Girlfriend is a Muslim;
I met her when I was appointed secetary and she appointed as my assistant in my work place

We do things together and we ended up
falling in love
I initiated the introduction process but her parents refused
She saidi should impregnate her but I
refused;

What should I do

1 Corinthians 7:1-40

It'll help.
Re: Intereligious Marriage Advice Please by Emusan(m): 8:11pm On Oct 23, 2023
MaxInDHouse:


married to whomever (you) wants, only in the Lord. 1Corinthians 7:39

A TRUE Christian will never marry a Muslim! undecided

Reason why you didn't quote it in full. "A wife is not free as long as her husband lives. If her husband dies, she is free to marry anyone she wants, if he is a Christian."

That verse is for widows.

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Re: Intereligious Marriage Advice Please by MaxInDHouse(m): 9:30pm On Oct 23, 2023
Emusan:

Reason why you didn't quote it in full. "A wife is not free as long as her husband lives. If her husband dies, she is free to marry anyone she wants, if he is a Christian."
That verse is for widows.

https://www.nairaland.com/1065851/pastor-adeboye-dont-marry-outside#12430363

[quote]These are his words.. live on DOVE TV.

Don't marry outside this church! Unless you're blind (men), we have alot of good girls in this church. Reasons : if troubles come up later, we can easily call the family to order..but God help you if you marry a lady with another G.O ..


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9JhRHSSV0OE?si=0wM2TG-BIBtCOTvK

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9ubGtY54uKk?si=WiBBVUO18kJIVIEF

Now you can argue with those claiming Christians at least not only JWs say so. wink
Re: Intereligious Marriage Advice Please by cornelboy(f): 9:43pm On Oct 23, 2023
MaxInDHouse:


https://www.nairaland.com/1065851/pastor-adeboye-dont-marry-outside#12430363

The bible clearly say we can't marry an unbelievers, I don't know what's wrong with these guys.
For example why would a JW marry from another "Christian" denomination when their beliefs are different?

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Re: Intereligious Marriage Advice Please by Emusan(m): 10:54pm On Oct 23, 2023
MaxInDHouse:
https://www.nairaland.com/1065851/pastor-adeboye-dont-marry-outside#12430363

So Adeboye is now the person who will explain 1 Corin 7:39 you cherry pick cheesy grin cheesy grin grin

I said 1 Corin 7:39 is about WIDOWS, why can't you proof me wrong that 1 Corin 7:39 isn't about WIDOWS?

cheesy grin grin grin

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Re: Intereligious Marriage Advice Please by MaxInDHouse(m): 2:20am On Oct 24, 2023
cornelboy:

The bible say wffey unbelievers, I don't know what's wrong with these guys.
For example why would a JW marry from another "Christian" denomination when their beliefs are different?
Apostates just want to contradict wise counsel found in God's word, at least Adeboye also told his members to marry only in the church (RCCG) and the man gave an indisputable reason:
"it will be easier to help when both spouse are looking up to the same G.O. for counseling"
Once you find anyone blindly criticizing what is clear like this then know that he or she is an apostate. This is a clear evidence that Emusan is no other person but the same Achorladey the apostate.
He thought i'm going to start arguing with him so he could start saying:
"other Christians this, other Christians that"
I simply set a trap and he ran into it so easily now let him mention his so called "other Christians" who despises the interpretation of Nigerias Daddy G.O. in Christendom! grin

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Re: Intereligious Marriage Advice Please by ayomidefavour: 6:27am On Oct 24, 2023
MaxInDHouse:


married to whomever (you) wants, only in the Lord. 1Corinthians 7:39

A TRUE Christian will never marry a Muslim! undecided
Yeah;
I have told him several times but all to no avail;
The Lady keeps crying ...
Re: Intereligious Marriage Advice Please by ayomidefavour: 6:31am On Oct 24, 2023
paxx:


if she loves u, ignore the family

The guy has
taken the bull by the horn by taking the right decision

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Re: Intereligious Marriage Advice Please by ayomidefavour: 6:41am On Oct 24, 2023
MaxInDHouse:


https://www.nairaland.com/1065851/pastor-adeboye-dont-marry-outside#12430363


I wonder oo;

We have a lot of Christian girls that are unmarried
Getting married outside will create a deficit ....

Anyway;

That's his decision ...
Re: Intereligious Marriage Advice Please by MaxInDHouse(m): 6:45am On Oct 24, 2023
ayomidefavour:

Yeah;
I have told him several times but all to no avail;
The Lady keeps crying ...

The first rule in marriage:
Never marry someone out of pity!

When considering marriage you must think of a friend that you can trust as long as you live, now this is where WISDOM comes in because to make someone your friend you must consider what motivates his or her thoughts since that is what will determine his or her next line of action, apostle Paul defined faith as the assured expectation of what you're hoping for the evident demonstration of reality that's not seen. Hebrews 11:1
So if your spouse is a Muslim surely what that religion teaches will be the driving force behind his or her action and if you're not on the same page then you're on your own when crucial matters arises. Proverbs 22:3

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Re: Intereligious Marriage Advice Please by ayomidefavour: 6:46am On Oct 24, 2023
cornelboy:

The bible clearly say we can't marry an unbelievers, I don't know what's wrong with these guys.
For example why would a JW marry from another "Christian" denomination when their beliefs are different?

We can marry within Christianity;
Also;

JWs are Christians too

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Re: Intereligious Marriage Advice Please by MaxInDHouse(m): 6:49am On Oct 24, 2023
ayomidefavour:

We can marry within Christianity;
Also;
JWs are Christians too

Christians must have the same line of thought according to Jesus and Paul! John 17:22; 1Corinthians 1:10

So all the religions with contradicting teachings and conflicting doctrines are not Christians but different religions hiding under or disguising with the group name "CHRISTIANS" 2Corinthians 11:14

You need to know the one and only organization of those practicing what Jesus taught!

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Re: Intereligious Marriage Advice Please by ayomidefavour: 6:50am On Oct 24, 2023
cornelboy:

The bible clearly say we can't marry an unbelievers, I don't know what's wrong with these guys.
For example why would a JW marry from another "Christian" denomination when their beliefs are different?

We can marry within Christianity ma and also JWs are also Christians too

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Re: Intereligious Marriage Advice Please by ayomidefavour: 6:53am On Oct 24, 2023
Emusan:


So Adeboye is now the person who will explain 1 Corin 7:39 you cherry pick cheesy grin cheesy grin grin

I said 1 Corin 7:39 is about WIDOWS, why can't you proof me wrong that 1 Corin 7:39 isn't about WIDOWS?

cheesy grin grin grin
True;
I read about the verse some times ago and Pastor Adeboye is not God neither is he Christ ...

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Re: Intereligious Marriage Advice Please by ayomidefavour: 7:00am On Oct 24, 2023
MaxInDHouse:


Christians must have the same line of thought according to Jesus and Paul! John 17:22; 1Corinthians 1:10

So all the religions with contradicting teachings and conflicting doctrines are not Christians but different religions hiding under or disguising with the group name "CHRISTIANS" 2Corinthians 11:14

You need to know the one and only organization of those practicing what Jesus taught!

Yeah;
I will tell him about it because I see nothing special about these Muslim ladies to me
Re: Intereligious Marriage Advice Please by MaxInDHouse(m): 7:19am On Oct 24, 2023
ayomidefavour:

True;
I read about the verse some times ago and Pastor Adeboye is not God neither is he Christ ...

When you call someone "PASTOR" but ignore his counsel it's a sin on your part!

So instead of calling the man PASTOR it's better you refer to him as "Mr" in that case you won't incure God's wrath upon yourself because God's word said:

Be obedient to those who are taking the lead among you and be submissive, for they are keeping watch over you as those who will render an account, so that they may do this with joy and not with sighing, for this would be damaging to you. Hebrews 13:17

Calling Adeboye by the title "PASTOR" means you acknowledge him as a servant of your God therefore ignoring his counsel is the name as disobedience to God's Holy Spirit that chose them to lead you! Matthew 12:31-32 undecided

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Re: Intereligious Marriage Advice Please by cornelboy(f): 8:21am On Oct 24, 2023
ayomidefavour:


We can marry within Christianity ma and also JWs are also Christians too
If we don't share the same beliefs then you're definitely an unbeliever. It doesn't matter whether you claim Christianity or not.

Even if I wasn't a JW, there are churches I would never marry from eg catholic, celestial/cherubim church, Mormon etc

We have about 40k different Christian denominations, you think they are all worshipping the same God with contradicting doctrines?

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Re: Intereligious Marriage Advice Please by achorladey: 10:40am On Oct 24, 2023
MaxInDHouse:

Apostates just want to contradict wise counsel found in God's word, at least Adeboye also told his members to marry only in the church (RCCG) and the man gave an indisputable reason:
"it will be easier to help when both spouse are looking up to the same G.O. for counseling"
Once you find anyone blindly criticizing what is clear like this then know that he or she is an apostate. This is a clear evidence that Emusan is no other person but the same Achorladey the apostate.
He thought i'm going to start arguing with him so he could start saying:
"other Christians this, other Christians that"
I simply set a trap and he ran into it so easily now let him mention his so called "other Christians" who despises the interpretation of Nigerias Daddy G.O. in Christendom! grin


See the MaxInDHouse that will never mention my moniker again. The reason you will never answer my question. The madness and insanities peddling in your brains cannot stop lying and manipulating the scriptures.

The questions I need to as asked here is.......are other christians really christians or not christians?

What is the wise counsel found in the bible we are contradicting that Adeboye taught?

I want to fall into your trap. Please allow me fall into it once. Loooool!

Oya run away without responding after mentioning my moniker.

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Re: Intereligious Marriage Advice Please by achorladey: 10:47am On Oct 24, 2023
cornelboy:

If we don't share the same beliefs then you're definitely an unbeliever. It doesn't matter whether you claim Christianity or not.

Even if I wasn't a JW, there are churches I would never marry from eg catholic, celestial/cherubim church, Mormon etc

We have about 40k different Christian denominations, you think they are all worshipping the same God with contradicting doctrines?

cornelboy na female loooool.

Cc. Emusan,Courz, oteneaaron, Johnw47, Mightysparrow

who is an unbeliever using only the bible that does not teach contradicting and conflicting doctrines? I don't want explanations based on the madness and insanities from your lying and madness peddling brains.

A scripture will do, you can add more as available within your disposal. Looool!

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Re: Intereligious Marriage Advice Please by cornelboy(f): 10:57am On Oct 24, 2023
achorladey:


cornelboy na female loooool.

Cc. Emusan,Courz, oteneaaron, Johnw47, Mightysparrow

who is an unbeliever using the only the bible that does not teach contradicting and conflicting doctrines? I don't want explanations based on the madness and insanities from your lying and madness peddling brains.

A scripture is will do, you can add more as available within your disposal. Looool!
You're a madman. This would have made a little sense if I had mention you or replied to your post. But I didn't undecided

I'd sincerely like if you stop mentioning me. Thanks!
Re: Intereligious Marriage Advice Please by oteneaaron(m): 11:26am On Oct 24, 2023
achorladey:


cornelboy na female loooool.

Cc. Emusan,Courz, oteneaaron, Johnw47, Mightysparrow

who is an unbeliever using the only the bible that does not teach contradicting and conflicting doctrines? I don't want explanations based on the madness and insanities from your lying and madness peddling brains.

A scripture is will do, you can add more as available within your disposal. Looool!


Hahahahahahahaha

Wonders shall never end.

So Cornelboy is a female?

Interesting turn of events.

😂😂😂

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Re: Intereligious Marriage Advice Please by oteneaaron(m): 11:28am On Oct 24, 2023
cornelboy:

You're a madman. This would have made a little sense if I had mention you or replied to your post. But I didn't undecided

I'd sincerely like if you stop mentioning me. Thanks!

Sorry madam, but there is no need for the insults.

It is quite a suprise to find out that you are in fact a female.

All these while, you gave the impression of been a male - unless you're a JW Nairaland transgender and we never knew.

😂😂😂

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