"Welcome back guys

Today I have 50 Bluepilled lies and phrases you'd have heard as a child as a man.

What is the bluepill you may ask?

I will define the bluepill as a set of lies and half-truths that are designed by society to help other feel good about otherwise terrible situation whilst blinding them from seeing things as they actually are


I will split these bluepilled lies into each of these categories,
1. Dating advice
2. Importance of looks
3. Relationship advice

I will be starting with dating advice:

Lie Number 1: Just be yourself.

Reality: You can only afford to "just be yourself" if you're attractive enough in the first place. For anyone who's unattractive, it will be irrelevant because they'll get rejected based on their looks anyway. For anyone average, jestermaxxing (behaving like a clown to get the attention of women, and no you're not funny) will be required to get any attention.


Lie Number 2: Be someone you yourself would want to date.

Reality: This phrase is in direct contradiction to the last one. First, you say "just be yourself," now you say "be someone you would want to date." Which is it?


Lie Number 3: Just be confident.

Reality: Your looks are your confidence for the most part.
Confidence won't get a broke short man who is balding a smoking hot 8/10 gf. The guy who is rawdogging your crush is likely more shy than you are.


Lie Number 4: If I ask 100 girls out, at least one of them will say yes.

Reality: By the time you've asked out two or three, your reputation will be in tatters, and from now on, you'll be forever known as the man who hits on every girl. Contrary to the redpill, dating is NOT a numbers game (strictly speaking). Avoid poisoning the well as best as you can



Lie Number 5: Always reply to a woman's text as fast as possible so she knows you're available and interested.

Reality: Responding immediately every time a text comes through is probably the fastest way to make a girl lose interest. You will come off as needy and attention/pussy starved.


Lie Number 6: Don't be too eager in the early stage; otherwise, you'll scare her off.

Reality: In direct contradiction to the last point, which was what? Be patient or respond readily and fast. The bluepill is a gospel of confusion.


Lie Number 7: If a girl doesn't respond to your texts, send a follow-up; she probably just missed it.

Reality: I guarantee she did see it but just didn't care enough to respond. Do you know how much these chicks check their phone on a daily? Never double text under any circumstances, guys.
The only compromise I can off is if the conversation is a very important or heavy one. In that case, follow up once and never do it again if she refuses to respond.



Lie Number 8: Just put yourself out there.

Reality: Any number multiplied by zero is zero. Putting yourself out there via either online dating, warm.approach or cold approach won't help you if you're not getting any interest in the first place. Any by now you should know that genuine interest from women heavily depend on your looks



Lie Number 9: Just tell her how you really feel (aka "toasting" and "applying pressure)

Reality: If a woman likes you, she'll make it obvious she wants to push things forward. You should never have to get to the point of confessing your love to her. If you have to do this, then she is NOT INTERESTED IN YOU.
This is one of the few things I agree on with redpillers. You don't ask her to be your gf, you begin to ACT like you're her gf based on the cues she gives you. You don't know how to read said cues? Get more experience.



Lie Number 10: If she flakes you on a date, she was probably just going for an emotional time, and you should ask her if it's okay for you to offer a second time.

Reality: Never tolerate a flake. The ball is in her court, and if she really wants you, she'll be the one to come chasing. It's either in or out.
If she flakes on you once, do not ask her out again. If she's genuinely interested in you and she was also genuinely not stable at the moment you asked her out on a date, SHE WILL be the one to reach out to you after the coast clears on her end


Lie Number 11: If she rejects you, keep pursuing her anyway; it shows you care about her.

Reality: If you do this after a woman says no, she'll get annoyed and angry with you for not getting the hint. Don't be a fool and listen to society who will tell you to "apply pressure" and "be intentional".



Lie Number 12: Humor is what women care about the most; just be a funny person, and women will start being attracted to you.

Reality: Women will voluntarily laugh at jokes from guys they find attractive. A joke from an unattractive guy will be seen as offensive or creepy.
I have living proof of this. A fairly ugly guy at my place of work wanted to joke light heartedly with a girl at work and she just ignored him and ran to her friends before gossiping to them later on how the guy was "creepy" and "smelly".
The attractive guy at work made a really offensive joke about her clothes and she laughed as if he said something funny. Another blackpill, the more attractive you are, the more you can get away with.


Lie Number 13: Always tell a woman how beautiful she is.

Reality: Ask any of the guys on TikTok, twitter, Facebook or Instagram who go under every girls post and tell them how beautiful they are just how many times they get to fûck. They have probably gotten a combined total of zero positive results.


Lie Number 14: Just try to be her friend.

Reality: If you do this, she'll likely think you were only being nice to try to get with her. And again, if you like a girl, starting with "being friends" with her is the worst possible way to go about it. The ",friendzone" and "brother zone is 100% real



Lie Number 15: Ask your female friends for advice.

Reality: Women don't always know what they're attracted to, and if they do, they're hardly going to tell you for fear of offending you. They are masters of virtue Signalling
You also don't ask a rabbit how you can catch other rabbits


Lie Number 16: Make it a priority to meet up with a girl's friends.

Reality: If you meet with her friends, they'll likely have nothing but bad things to say about you. Many of my entanglements and potential relationships have been cut off because the girl's friends didn't like me from the get go. You being all chummy with them will change nothing



Lie Number 17: Just get a haircut.

Reality: Simple haircuts only work on guys who are already attractive. If she's not genuinely attracted to you, even a 1 million Naira haircut won't save you. Same thing with clothes, phones, cars and so on. Please note that the keyword here is GENUINE ATTRACTION


Lie Number 18: Just take a shower.

Reality: Showers will improve your hygiene, but they cannot wash away flaws beneath the skin.


With this, I'm done identifying some lies we hear all the time as men from society.

Next I'll be talking about the lies we hear about the importance of LOOKS

So I've identified the first 18 lies you may have been told when you were younger as a man.


Now moving on to the next nine points, which are all about the lies based on the denial of the importance of looks:

Lie Number 19: Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

Reality: 95% of female likes on social media go to the top 40-50% of men, showing a clear bias in favor of some guys over others.
The bottom 50-60% of guys are lucky to get 10 likes from guys like themselves, talkless.of a girl



Lie Number 20: Looks only get your foot in the door, and it's personality that makes a relationship last.

Reality: If you don't maintain your attractiveness, she will lose attraction for you. Even if you have the best personality in the world, the moment your 6-pack athletic body begins to get buried in the grave of obesity, she will lose attraction to you gradually and start looking at the buff guy that trains her at the gym


Lie Number 21: Age is just a number.
Reality: Every passing year after around 28, your looks will get worse – hairline receding, wrinkles, gray hair, and so on. This applies to men but it is more important when it comes to the women. Your 20s are your prime years. Don't let the redpillers convince you that your 40s are your prime years. It's all a big lie to console themselves to the fact that they get no bitches in their 20s



Lie Number 22: Height doesn't matter.

Reality: In the modern world, height is an advantage in dating.
Tall girls are for tall guys
Short girls are for tall guys
Short guys can have each other.
Majority of girls will agree to what I wrote above. Only a select few women don't care about height, but there isn't enough to go round is there?
The shortest girls also have the highest standard when it comes to height.


Lie Number 23: If a woman rejects me because of my height, it means she's shallow, and I've dodged a bullet.

Reality: Women want to look up to their partner, both emotionally and physically.
You MUST be taller
You MUST be stronger
You MUST be smarter
If she trumps you in these categories then what are you as a man?


Lie Number 24: Women love a dad bod (Dad bods are basically the body types of the sugar daddies and so on)

Reality: The ideal body on a man is around 10-12% body fat, a large chest, shoulders, arms, a six-pack, and a slight tan.
You must keep your body fit, or you perish


Lie Number 25: Personality matters more than looks.

Reality: Most guys struggle in dating because they lack the looks needed to attract, not because they lack personalities.
A guy I know has the best personalities I've ever seen. But he's rejected at every turn because he is short. Personality is useless when it comes to dating if your looks are shit


Lie Number 26: Balding won't affect how women see me, they will still be attracted to me and it's a sign of maturity.
Reality: 47% of women surveyed found bald men less attractive. Hair is life. Don't forget that. Elon Must isn't dumb


Lie Number 27: Size doesn't matter.
Reality: Do I really.need to explain this?


Now, let's move on to phrases providing false and endless hope:

Lie Number 28: There's someone out there for everyone.

Reality: Unfortunately, there actually isn't. The ratio of men to women in Nigeria doesn't favor everyone.
Recent statistics show that there are 102.5 men for every 100 women in Nigeria(Google it). Meaning if one woman were paired to a man in Nigeria, by the time we run out of women there would still be 20-25 million men left unpaired. Where the the women for these men? Are they going to fall from heaven?
And quash that stupid myth that there are more women than men in Nigeria. Wake up


Lie Number 29: The only reason I don't have a girlfriend is that I'm not looking for one right now.

Reality: Even if guys like this did try, let's be honest; they wouldn't have much of a chance. Like I said, it's a lie to help you feel good about an otherwise bad situation


Lie Number 30: Everything will work out in the end.
Reality: There's no magic force guaranteeing a future partner. Stop living in fantasy land


Lie Number 31: When you stop looking, the right person will show up.
Reality: There's no magic force guaranteeing a future partner. It's not like your future spouse will just fall out of the sky.


Lie Number 32: There's always plenty more fish in the sea.
Reality: It doesn't matter if there are plenty of fish. If you're not attractive to women, you're not. C'est fini



Lie Number 33: It's just not your time right now.
Reality: For a small percentage of guys, it will never be their time, and this rate and number of these type of men seems to be rising.


Lie Number 34: Karma is real, and if you're a good person, your dreams will always come true.
Reality: There's no such thing as karma in dating; the market always wins.
The attractive men will take home.the women whilst the unattractive ones jerk off and play video games.


Lie Number 35: Romance isn't dead; you just haven't found the right person yet.
Reality: Romance might be on the decline, and not everyone finds their ideal partner.

Next, I'll be moving to relationship advice:

Lie Number 36: A man who truly loves his wife will forgive her for cheating.

Reality: This also shows he doesn't truly love himself for letting unacceptable behavior slide.


Lie Number 37: If your girlfriend says she wants a break from the relationship, you must give her as much space as possible.

Reality: More often than not, she won't come back, or if she does, it's because the guy she wanted disappointed her


Lie Number 38: Always pay for the date as a man.

Reality: Women have been working and earning money for a long time. There's no excuse for them not to share expenses.


Lie Number 39: A long-distance relationship is just a test of strength.
Reality: Long-distance relationships are often a compromise and a balancing act. It's also a fools errand. What are you in, JSS2?


Lie Number 40: When a woman says, "He's just a friend, you've got nothing to worry about; he doesn't like me like that."

Reality: If a girl is attractive, just about every guy will be trying his luck. Keep your eyes peeled and your ears open


Lie Number 41: Always follow your heart; don't follow your brain
.
Reality: This can lead to mistakes if you don't think things through properly.


Lie Number 42: You should let your partner sleep with other people.

Reality: This is delusion; intimacy becomes less precious and less special.


Lie Number 43: Never tell a woman she is wrong; instead, ask her how she feels and what you can do to comfort her.

Reality: If a woman does something unacceptable, you must hold her accountable.


Lie Number 44: Don't make your life about your relationship.

This is the only bluepilled mindset I actually agree with

Now, let's move on to the final six points, all about coping with rejections:


Lie Number 45: If you get rejected, you should be proud of yourself for having the courage to ask her out anyway.
Reality: There's nothing else to say here on this point other than the fact that this is a form of coping.


Lie Number 46: There's nothing wrong with being a virgin.

Reality: I believe every year past the age of 20, it becomes a bigger and bigger cause for concern in the eyes of most women.


Lie Number 47: I am happy my wife has had lots of partners before me as it means she's really good in bed.

Reality: The intimacy will actually be less precious and less special. Only weak men will actually believe this


Lie Number 48: Getting friend-zoned is no defeat; you should be happy as she sees you as good enough to be her friend.

Reality: If you do this, you are compromising for something less than what you originally desired.


Lie Number 49: When a man tells himself, everyone in a relationship right now is just in the honeymoon phase, they'll soon snap out of it and come back down to earth.

Reality: For me, the most productive and fulfilling times of my life have been when I've been in a relationship with a girl.

Finally.

Lie Number 50: The person who runs this account is just a bitter person who's stuck in his ways and loves spreading bad messages.

Reality: Nope, I actually know what I'm talking about, and you should follow this account now for more future black pills

Whew! That was a lengthy one!
Took me a while to get it done. Anyways, if you've read it up to this point, kudos
I'd like to hear what you have to say
Feel free to comment

My next thread would be on looks and how to know where you stand on the attraction scale

Speedy0420 will never ask you to buy a book or all that bs they do in the redpill spaces
I'll give you the complete truth 100% free

Wow, just wow

All the jobless blue pills and redpill guys,...bunch of bitter men who have be burned and hurt by women.

Some of them aren't hat true tho

theophilusj31:
All the jobless blue pills and redpill guys,...bunch of bitter men who have be burned and hurt by women.

You didn't read a word of what was written up there
You just entered, gave a default reply like a robot (who hurt you?) and left thinking you did something
Bring out one bitter thing I said about women in my post. Come on, do it

Some of these things you said here are kinda depressing bro
I know it's kinda true but... Omo

YxCEc2kUDRp2RWy:
Some of these things you said here are kinda depressing bro
I know it's kinda true but... Omo

One way to know the truth is if it touches you somewhere deep
What he said up there na 100% of the truth
I just day wait for person to rationally counter him points
Nlfpmod, this is a breath of fresh air. Fp material self

theophilusj31:
All the jobless blue pills and redpill guys,...bunch of bitter men who have be burned and hurt by women.

I hope that Nairaland babe sees this and messages you bro

"Na feel at home na him make visitor go spoil remote". ~ erigga.
.
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In all you do in life be it relationship or whatever, always try you best to keep your foot on the pedal.
Never to be caught ungaurd.
Always be ahead or behind,never in the middle.
And lastly, like it or not we were all born into battle so strive to win at all cost.
Win your girifriend/wife,
Win your collegue.
Infact see everything like a competetion.

Great. But no be you write this thing

Depressing words are fvkñ true

Lie Number 5: Always reply to a woman's text as fast as possible so she knows you're available and interested.

Reality: Responding immediately every time a text comes through is probably the fastest way to make a girl lose interest. You will come off as needy and attention/pussy starved

Bitter truth.

Only SIMPs would be offended by this post

GO0DHardDick:
Lie Number 5: Always reply to a woman's text as fast as possible so she knows you're available and interested.

Reality: Responding immediately every time a text comes through is probably the fastest way to make a girl lose interest. You will come off as needy and attention/pussy starved

Bitter truth.

Only SIMPs would be offended by this post

What struck out to me was the part about men who are balding
Sometimes I look at their photos of when they still have hair Vs now and there is a STARK difference
I dunno why they can't admit the fact that balding will make a man lose his level of handsomeness for the most part

CosmicGoat:

What struck out to me was the part about men who are balding
Sometimes I look at their photos of when they still have hair Vs now and there is a STARK difference
I dunno why they can't admit the fact that balding will make a man lose his level of handsomeness for the most part

Air transplant to the rescue

Starzo:
Air transplant to the rescue

You Sabi how much hair transplant day cost nowadays
Na like 10k dollars Omo
Do we even have hair transplant doctors in Nigeria gan

Another useless thread

truth dey pain eh, ;Dtruth dey pain eh,OP whatever you said here na the confirm truth,every body wey dey insult you here dey affected one way or the other na why body dey pepper dem

Sheesh
If I'm 100% honest, you just touched on some things even the redpillers tiptoe around

Martinez93
Kipaji
Mosdii
Rizzputin

From my experience, most of them are true... Others aren't.

CosmicGoat:

You Sabi how much hair transplant day cost nowadays
Na like 10k dollars Omo
Do we even have hair transplant doctors in Nigeria gan

I nor know o,but if you get the money run am

This op dey play
Once you have money all this write ups na nonsense
The less attractive rich guy go carry ur babe Bleep am,match on top her ,even ask her to sleep with his dog
Shit!,I'm outta this thread

Ma park here to learn

Policy3:
This op dey play
Once you have money all this write ups na nonsense
The less attractive rich guy go carry ur babe Bleep am,match on top her ,even ask her to sleep with his dog
Shit!,I'm outta this thread

Op is describing relationship based on genuine attraction
Not relationships based off transaction as you have described
The rich guy is unattractive, but is able to get the girl to sleep with him because he gave her money or something else of value
Buts that it. He will only get sex and nothing more. Which is why a lot of Nigerian men feel unsatisfied in a relationship.
Nigerian men really don't know how to differentiate between transactional relationship and that based on genuine attraction
Sure, the man will still give something even if it's based on genuine attraction, but the dynamics will be very very different

The redpillers always say that you cannot buy nor can you negotiate attraction. And it seems op agrees too

YxCEc2kUDRp2RWy:
Some of these things you said here are kinda depressing bro
I know it's kinda true but... Omo

Even the Bible says the truth is bitter

Nyascobar1414:
Depressing words are fvkñ true

Real talk

CosmicGoat:

What struck out to me was the part about men who are balding
Sometimes I look at their photos of when they still have hair Vs now and there is a STARK difference
I dunno why they can't admit the fact that balding will make a man lose his level of handsomeness for the most part

They lie to themselves so as to not deal with the negative thoughts and feelings that come with the acceptance of that fact
Some even go as far as comparing themselves with DeRock or Jason Santham (who are world class celebs btw) just to prove a point.
It's quite a sad sight to see

Olayinka8793:
Ma park here to learn

Make sure to follow for more threads and posts like this. It'll cost you #0.00K lol

YxCEc2kUDRp2RWy:

Op is describing relationship based on genuine attraction
Not relationships based off transaction as you have described
The rich guy is unattractive, but is able to get the girl to sleep with him because he gave her money or something else of value
Buts that it. He will only get sex and nothing more. Which is why a lot of Nigerian men feel unsatisfied in a relationship.
Nigerian men really don't know how to differentiate between transactional relationship and that based on genuine attraction
Sure, the man will still give something even if it's based on genuine attraction, but the dynamics will be very very different

The redpillers always say that you cannot buy nor can you negotiate attraction. And it seems op agrees too

You couldn't have said it any better my bro
Nigerian men has been inculcated to believe that money directly translates into love and attraction.
And they are inculcated by the women (who push this narrative because they're the only ones it benefits at the end of the day) and so you have millions of men like that other guy who believe money is everything (spoilers: it's not)

speedy0420:

Stop preaching the message of doom to people.

Well anyone with half a brain cell wouldn't believe the blackpill crap.
This is one of the reasons I don't follow the redpill, but the redpill is even more truthful and realistic. At least, the redpill stresses on self development and all round improvement. What does the black pill does? Once you are ugly and short, just accept what life has given to you and stay disoriented. What kinna message of doom is this?

So an ugly/short man should just...man! This is intellectual murder.

Your messages lay emphasis on looks but I can tell you with full authority that in these dating scenes and market, success comes first.

Ned Nwoko is not half as attractive as Somadina or is it Samadina yet (y'all know the story). If looks were everything?

Rema is not half as handsome as B.Red, but at the mention of Rema's name,some girls reach orgasms, live! He has more females crushing on him both home and abroad more than B.Red would ever dream of.

David and Wiz are not the most attractive musical arts in Nigeria(short buddies), but these guys have the largest fan base in Nigeria.

For anyone who has ears and is ready to use them.

Number one thing women are attracted to is SUCCESS.

SUCCESS somehow begets MONEY and FAME.

That's the reason women are attracted to famous and rich people because it's a definition of success in this real world.

Did you guys know Stella Obasanjo who died years back? Many would wonder what a woman like that was doing with the ex military general. My dear, success.

Have you seen Ned's wives, those women are jelly. Success is attractive.

The only things I see in this message are depressions, frustrations, lack of motivation and disorientation.

Does look matter? BIG YES.

But I can tell you that if you're successful and wealthy, you'd become automatically attractive to women.

Don't you see very ugly men with their very beautiful wives?

Policy3:
This op dey play
Once you have money all this write ups na nonsense
The less attractive rich guy go carry ur babe Bleep am,match on top her ,even ask her to sleep with his dog
Shit!,I'm outta this thread

You have said the truth. Maybe the OP is very ugly and he hasn't ever walked in a really handsome nigga's pair of shoes.

A famous and rich guy will get a handsome guy's girl any time any day unless if the handsome guy is rich and famous at the same level as well.

Look at what Rugger did to a lady fan the other time . Rugger o, one eyed.

Then some people are here spilling junks.

If you're short and ugly. Make MONEY.

The first item on the hypergamy list is Money( which is a misrepresentation of success).
Even guys are attracted to fellow successful guys and some wanna be in their circle.

FRANCISTOWN:


Stop preaching the message of doom to people.

Well anyone with half a brain cell wouldn't believe the blackpill crap.
This is one of the reasons I don't follow the redpill, but the redpill is even more truthful and realistic. At least, the redpill stresses on self development and all round improvement. What does the black pill does? Once you are ugly and short, just accept what life has given to you and stay disoriented. What kinna message of doom is this?

So an ugly/short man should just...man! This is intellectual murder.

Your messages lay emphasis on looks but I can tell you with full authority that in these dating scenes and market, success comes first.

Ned Nwoko is not half as attractive as Somadina or is it Samadina yet (y'all know the story). If looks were everything?

Rema is not half as handsome as B.Red, but at the mention of Rema's name,some girls reach orgasms, live! He has more females crushing on him both home and abroad more than B.Red would ever dream of.

David and Wiz are not the most attractive musical arts in Nigeria(short buddies), but these guys have the largest fan base in Nigeria.

For anyone who has ears and is ready to use them.

Number one thing women are attracted to is SUCCESS.

SUCCESS somehow begets MONEY and FAME.

That's the reason women are attracted to famous and rich people because it's a definition of success in this real world.

Did you guys know Stella Obasanjo who died years back? Many would wonder what a woman like that was doing with the ex military general. My dear, success.

Have you seen Ned's wives, those women are jelly. Success is attractive.

The only things I see in this message are depressions, frustrations, lack of motivation and disorientation.

Does look matter? BIG YES.

But I can tell you that if you're successful and wealthy, you'd become automatically attractive to women.

Don't you see very ugly men with their very beautiful wives?

That's a lot of words for just describing a beta buxx
Inb4 check Lie number 50 lmao
The truth is very bitter

FRANCISTOWN:

You have said the truth. Maybe the OP is very ugly and he hasn't ever walked in a really handsome nigga's pair of shoes.

A famous and rich guy will get a handsome guy's girl any time any day unless if the handsome guy is rich and famous at the same level as well.

Look at what Rugger did to a lady fan the other time . Rugger o, one eyed.

Then some people are here spilling junks.

If you're short and ugly. Make MONEY.

The first item on the hypergamy list is Money( which is a misrepresentation of success).
Even guys are attracted to fellow successful guys and some wanna be in their circle.

I am making points about how the average guy down the street sees and experiences life and this guy is here countering my stance by mentioning Ruger, a celeb that is known nationwide.
Seems you can't imagine the fact that there are men out there who get the best of the best of women not necessarily because they're rich, but because they're ATTRACTIVE
The one who doesn't know what the life of an attractive man is here is you. Because a person is describing it right before your eyes and still you deny it for some reason

FRANCISTOWN:

You have said the truth. Maybe the OP is very ugly and he hasn't ever walked in a really handsome nigga's pair of shoes.

A famous and rich guy will get a handsome guy's girl any time any day unless if the handsome guy is rich and famous at the same level as well.

Look at what Rugger did to a lady fan the other time . Rugger o, one eyed.

Then some people are here spilling junks.

If you're short and ugly. Make MONEY.

The first item on the hypergamy list is Money( which is a misrepresentation of success).
Even guys are attracted to fellow successful guys and some wanna be in their circle.

Na fool no.mind am