Alternative men should get it outside?

How many women do you know in Nigeria that don't work or contribute to the home front?

How many men work jobs 12hrs/day?

lexy2014:


what a selfish talk. so the food, shelter, clothing, medical care, school fees that was provided for the child also comes from the woman or it just fell from heaven? or that one doesnt require time and energy?

Atolu01:
The childish, immature, overgrown bully, me, me, me, and my overgrown; must be catered to, all the time; ego, rule bending gender? Seems you are asking for the moon.

Don't mind all these sex maniacs that call themselves Nigerian men.

Sex is the air they breathe.

Hopeless creatures.

advanceDNA:


What exactly is stress?? That word is what u women use to push ur husband away ....

Madam... if u are not incapacitated, or sick...u can't be hiding under stress for many weeks, yet u wake up go to work and do everyother thing ........ It's just witholding sex because u want to do so....

.. We all don't feel like paying bills.. we pay it anyways......and like I said earlier..we all don't have to be starving before we eat

I am a man and I get stressed out sometimes. Even if you are a sexy freak, some days are like that.

Remember the lady talked about after giving birth. If you are married you'll agree that their bodies need to heal

It's not easy when you have a beautiful wife with all the things you desire in a woman....I got my wife pregnant again and we have a 7 months old baby
Op you're very pretty too am sure your man feels like I do too

Sometimes I forget. It has to be cruelty to insist on upholding values that are doing more harm than good.

pocohantas:


They know these things. It is why they appreciate their mothers and say the wife never comes close to her. Stop pouring water on stones. They know.

Sterope:
How many women do you know in Nigeria that don't work or contribute to the home front?

How many men work jobs 12hrs/day?

you didnt answer my questions...the food, shelter, clothing, medical care, school fees that was provided for the child also comes from the woman or it just fell from heaven? or that one doesnt require time and energy?

Alihamdulilah!! Islam is a way of life and meant for the thinkers only

It is too early to be pouring water into a basket. Stay deluded!

pocohantas:


They know these things. It is why they appreciate their mothers and say the wife never comes close to her. Stop pouring water on stones. They know.

Ok Mummy

Lamanii22:
Okay so uh… I have been reading a lot about men complaining about how their wives wouldn’t have sex with them after having kids…. The truth is… sex is harder to have after birthing a baby or more babies, it’s even more harder to feel aroused when you have a toddler to care for, a baby that wants to feed all time, the lack of sleep you get, doing the cookings, making the house clean….

Men please pity your wives too, try to be discipline your p***s….. it’s not easy on the woman too… thank you…

No woman can resist a loving and caring husband. Impossible!

Married women should understand that we're in the age of Nudity where single and olosho women sexually tempt men everywhere they go.

So it's not funny when their partner regularly demand sex from them to quench this temptations.

Kingray10:
Is she sensitive to how the man feels...
Women always putting emotions before logic...

This forum should be enough evidence of how damn emotional men can be. Which logic do Nairaland men have? Just a bunch of emotional things who keep barking and barking like rabid dogs without debating anything meaningful.

No logic, nor objectivity expressed in most of their arguments. The few logical ones we used to have are from the old Nairaland. Even I would look forward to their posts. It's a pity most of them are no longer active.

Lamanii22:
Okay so uh… I have been reading a lot about men complaining about how their wives wouldn’t have sex with them after having kids…. The truth is… sex is harder to have after birthing a baby or more babies, it’s even more harder to feel aroused when you have a toddler to care for, a baby that wants to feed all time, the lack of sleep you get, doing the cookings, making the house clean….

Men please pity your wives too, try to be discipline your p***s….. it’s not easy on the woman too… thank you…

Discipline with?

GenderMix:


I am a man and I get stressed out sometimes. Even if you are a sexy freak, some days are like that.

Remember the lady talked about after giving birth. If you are married you'll agree that their bodies need to heal

What stress makes u not want to have sex for weeks going to months sir..... There are women that tell their husband they are stressed for months ...

It's marriage ...can't just keep tell someone stress is the reason u are pushing them away anytime they want to get intimate with you..

That's why I asked u to define stress... Weda man or woman....it's not fair to hide under undefined stress for many week or months..

There are times I don't feel like having sex ..but when I allow my partner near me because I know pushing some away can make them feel bad...I get in the mood as long as I am not incapacitated or sick

[color=#006600][/color]life is fill of changes on both sexes but remember to code your family with intimacy to divert his attention from willing side machines 😕😕😕😕 thanks

CHoccolaTE:


Don't mind all these sex maniacs that call themselves Nigerian men.

Sex is the air they breathe.

Hopeless creatures.

So what do women breathe?

Reminderz:
sure it's not easy, but a wife who's considerate and respects her husband will find ways to satisfy and perform her duties... nor be she go first do am... it's not easy on the husband as well...

if she's not in the mood for sex, she should do bløwjob or dry hump, or anything to empty his balls, not she throwing tantrums and blaming it on mood swings anytime his husband ask for intimacy... men want to find solace in the wife they marry, and if he feels his peace is being threatened, he would be forced to do what he once vowed to never do...

This comment wins the most foolish content of the year.


We must understand that wives are not some slaves, employees or house helps who must satisfy their husband pleasure regardless of how they feel.


The wife doesn't have a duty to satisfy the man, but duties to come to terms on issue that concerns both well beings.

No wonder some men treat their wives as an employee.

KayB:
Alihamdulilah!! Islam is a way of life and meant for the thinkers only

The way of Hamas and Hezbollah is an example.

Fahvvy:
Child birth comes with its own challenges and pressure, however those challenges/pressure aren't just felt by the woman alone, it's also on the man! ...

Y'all should stop trying to paint the picture that child birth affects only the woman, that's a huge lie! ...


The same "understanding" you're seeking for is the same understanding the man too is seeking for ...

The man too have needs for crying out loud, so do your best to meet them!


People (especially women) need to realize that your SPOUSE is your priority NOT your CHILD

Don't make the mistake of neglecting the needs of your husband (spouse) simply because there's a child in the picture ...

This ryt here is d dumbest post av come across dis year..once babies begin to set in.. automatically they've become both spouse's priority.. "compromise" becomes d watch word..

Lamanii22:
Okay so uh… I have been reading a lot about men complaining about how their wives wouldn’t have sex with them after having kids…. The truth is… sex is harder to have after birthing a baby or more babies, it’s even more harder to feel aroused when you have a toddler to care for, a baby that wants to feed all time, the lack of sleep you get, doing the cookings, making the house clean….

Men please pity your wives too, try to be discipline your p***s….. it’s not easy on the woman too… thank you…

this greedy vagina entity

I will be sensitive to my wife feeling by going outside or having a side chick depending on when my wife feel like opening her sensitive legs

That's why I like the northerner who have more than 1 wives! Their are very sensitive to Their first wife's feelings

Just masturbate or visit a brothel if you know say the thing hook you too much.


Your wife is not some doll you must hump at will.


Some of the comments here are so anyhow, and I wonder if you so called dumb Alphas can tolerate same for your mothers.


The second to comment foolishness na follow come. Imagine the nonsense he wrote.


If you are marrying for solely sex, and you consider a wife as a sex object...,


... please stick to Olosho, because even a baby Mama won't allow such nonsense.

permit225:

This ryt here is d dumbest post av come across dis year..once babies begin to set in.. automatically they've become both spouse's priority.. "compromise" becomes d watch word..

I totally agree with you ...

This is indeed the dumbest post I've come across ...

advanceDNA:


Weda man or woman.....Any one that sees ordinary sex that both party enjoys as pressure has no business being married....

What most women want is to have sex only when u women want it ....that's wrong..

...many of u don't even want ur husband to come close to you.....yet if he does u will get in the mood...so why not let him get u into the mood instead of pushing him away until ur body naturally into mood once a month or once in 6 months...that's just wickedness and controlling sex just because u can....

It's not only when u are starving that u eat.. sometimes, u just make effort to eat and still enjoy the food ....

What most men fail to realise is that sex (for most women) is transactional - even in marriage. To the streetwise or experienced woman, sex is a form of currency for which they expect a remuneration.

It's different for men, we just want to calm our nerves bcoz of our raging testosterone.

Let us close the chapter on Feb 25 election but be very vigilant of the days ahead especially the non Yoruba people living in Yoruba area, the boys should be careful and the girls need prayers because all of them are now active of war. You can't call for international help they operate as one. But Nigeria has technically told the world that it endorses crime and proceeds of crime. Expect the jagaban style of ruling. Area boys nationwide to be unleashed with no police anywhere.

Farfalla:


This forum should be enough evidence of how damn emotional men can be. Which logic do Nairaland men have? Just a bunch of emotional things who keep barking and barking like rabid dogs without debating anything meaningful.

No logic, nor objectivity expressed in most of their arguments. The few logical ones we used to have are from the old Nairaland. Even I would look forward to their posts. It's a pity most of them are no longer active.

I guess that's the type of men around you and the type you attract...
Even in this niaraland there are plenty of logical men here. You just chose not to see them... You have focused ur attention on the negativity about them that's why you don't see the logical...
About my the woman how many have you see discussing something reasonable or rational..
All they do is look for the new ways to exploit the men at their dm, with nothing in their head...

AlphaHakimi:
Women think sexual urge is something you can suppress. Can anyone suppress hunger or thirst?

Childbirth is difficult on both the man and the woman. You cannot sex starve your husband for 3 months and expect him not to get satisfaction outside. You must be a very Wicked person to starve a man and complain if he decides to get satisfaction outside.

For men, the urge to have sex is natural. You cannot deny your husband food and then complain if another woman feeds him.

If a child is hungry and his mother tells him " stop crying, learn to control your hunger, you have to be disciplined to control your hunger, I will feed you in 3 months time", that gives you an idea of how Women sound when they give reasons why a man should not have sex with his wife.

As a man, except on health grounds, if your wife denies you sex, do not complain. Just look for a girl and get the satisfaction you need. Also, deny her whatever you normally provide for her. She should go outside and get it.

It's about time men view marriage the way Women view marriage. It's appalling that married men beg their wives for sex. It's a shame. Any night that she is not in the mood, the next morning the man should not also be in the mood to provide for her. Or better still, when there is a threat to her life, the man should not also be in the mood to defend her.

Shalom

Then masturbate, or visit a brothel.

omooba969:


What most men fail to realise is that sex (for most women) is transactional - even in marriage. To the streetwise or experienced woman, sex is a form of currency for which they expect a remuneration.

It's different for men, we just want to calm our nerves bcoz of our raging testosterone.

That's when u marry retired olosho....



Not all women behave weaponized sex...

NOwazobia:
Then masturbate, or visit a brothel.

There are lots of decent and willing girls out there.

Many of you are not even 1/16th rich for the kind of life you think you deserve because of your manhood.

Even at that, there was a never a time in the history of the world where parenting was done by one person, now the job is quadrupled given the amount of things a kid need to learn and know. Another thing we need to thank colonisation and civilisation for gifting us.

Fahvvy:
Child birth comes with its own challenges and pressure, however those challenges/pressure aren't just felt by the woman alone, it's also on the man! ...

Y'all should stop trying to paint the picture that child birth affects only the woman, that's a huge lie! ...


The same "understanding" you're seeking for is the same understanding the man too is seeking for ...

The man too have needs for crying out loud, so do your best to meet them!


People (especially women) need to realize that your SPOUSE is your priority NOT your CHILD

Don't make the mistake of neglecting the needs of your husband (spouse) simply because there's a child in the picture ...

Well said

NOwazobia:
Then masturbate, or visit a brothel.

Your solution is quite pitiable. A married man should visit a brothel because his wife has refused his advances for sex for a long period of time?

Wow! So, what benefit do men get from marriage?