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Re: As A Man 5 important Reasons Why you Should Reconsider Marriage by pocohantas(f): 5:35pm On Oct 27, 2023 |
KiNg0G: What is derailment? Abeg keep quiet!! 3 Likes |
Re: As A Man 5 important Reasons Why you Should Reconsider Marriage by Kobojunkie: 5:45pm On Oct 27, 2023 |
henrimoto:Do you realize that loneliness is one of the major reasons why Nigerian men, for example, commit adultery, and are never satisfied even at that? Marriage does not cure loneliness... never able to do that. 7 Likes |
Re: As A Man 5 important Reasons Why you Should Reconsider Marriage by KiNg0G: 5:47pm On Oct 27, 2023 |
pocohantas:Your a bitter soul, A lowlife reject.. claiming feminist and all...like I said everyone on nairaland knows your story except newbies who just registered few years ago that would want to take you serious..as for me I don't... atleast not for a renowned prostitute who have been screwed by several users on nairaland since time immemorial. 6 Likes |
Re: As A Man 5 important Reasons Why you Should Reconsider Marriage by pocohantas(f): 5:51pm On Oct 27, 2023 |
KiNg0G: I knew it takes one sentence to bring out your real colour. No be you again? Keep crying. I remain here. 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: As A Man 5 important Reasons Why you Should Reconsider Marriage by Kobojunkie: 5:56pm On Oct 27, 2023 |
Carcholce:That only existed when your mothers practically lived as though slaves to your fathers. There is no such thing in the real world. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: As A Man 5 important Reasons Why you Should Reconsider Marriage by henrimoto(m): 6:06pm On Oct 27, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:Kobo .. you dey contradict your comment o. You na positive Mental health Advocate, you suppose know the negative effects of Loneliness to the Mind. How is it that "marriage does not cure Loneliness" ? |
Re: As A Man 5 important Reasons Why you Should Reconsider Marriage by Kobojunkie: 6:13pm On Oct 27, 2023 |
henrimoto:First you need to understand what loneliness really is from what it isn't. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6179015/ |
Re: As A Man 5 important Reasons Why you Should Reconsider Marriage by reddingtonblack: 7:17pm On Oct 27, 2023 |
pocohantas: when you rush and talk, you rarely make sense, now slow down N ..... action 2 Likes |
Re: As A Man 5 important Reasons Why you Should Reconsider Marriage by pocohantas(f): 7:29pm On Oct 27, 2023 |
reddingtonblack: Says a troll with over 10 accounts that can't survive without latching unto female comments. One woman somewhere is submitting to a bottom barrel male. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: As A Man 5 important Reasons Why you Should Reconsider Marriage by KIDfurniture(m): 10:35pm On Oct 27, 2023 |
Marriage no be achievement. Marriage is not for every man. Plz don’t do it cos everyone is doing or age isn’t on ur side. Marriage is not compulsory 6 Likes |
Re: As A Man 5 important Reasons Why you Should Reconsider Marriage by Chetas81(m): 10:35pm On Oct 27, 2023 |
4UCK YOU IMAGINATION 2 Likes |
Re: As A Man 5 important Reasons Why you Should Reconsider Marriage by EthanSly: 10:38pm On Oct 27, 2023 |
As long as e no matter for heaven no qualms 2 Likes |
Re: As A Man 5 important Reasons Why you Should Reconsider Marriage by Nwaokunkpara: 10:40pm On Oct 27, 2023 |
You see that Doors of Breakthrough has led many to unforseen hardship.... If you really want to get married please make money first don't expect doors to break after marriage 8 Likes |
Re: As A Man 5 important Reasons Why you Should Reconsider Marriage by U09ce: 10:41pm On Oct 27, 2023 |
Dogalmighty17: No be fight na. Go an marry. |
Re: As A Man 5 important Reasons Why you Should Reconsider Marriage by JagabanB: 10:42pm On Oct 27, 2023 |
KiNg0G:The only thing worthwhile here is the joy of fulfilment. Nobody will give u extra respect simply because u are married. Marriage doesn't lead to break through, the kind of woman u marry will determine whether u grow or deminish. When u live a life so fulfilling that u leave ur footsteps well engraved in the sands of time, history and ur family will always remember you. Today we talk about Mandela, do u know his sons? Today we talk about Einstein, do u know his children? We talk about Galileo, Aristotle, James Chadwick, Charles Darwin, Tafawa Balewa, Zik, Awolowo, Fela Kuti, Amina of Zaria, Mao Zedong, Roosevelt, Washington etc etc, do we talk about them because of their children or because they were married? 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: As A Man 5 important Reasons Why you Should Reconsider Marriage by thesicilian: 10:44pm On Oct 27, 2023 |
Carcholce: Carcholce:Only an unmarried person thinks this 4 Likes |
Re: As A Man 5 important Reasons Why you Should Reconsider Marriage by Kobojunkie: 10:48pm On Oct 27, 2023 |
JagabanB:1. Dey there dey tell tales. If you like, marry the most enterprising of women. If you yourself no get your own head for development of self, to achieve your yourself, you will never grow and will likely continue to diminish. Nobody can grow you or cause you to diminish. You make it happen to yourself. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: As A Man 5 important Reasons Why you Should Reconsider Marriage by Omoawoke2(m): 10:51pm On Oct 27, 2023 |
If you fail to plan, you are surely going to fail. Drop that superstitious beliefs that marriage will bring good fortunes to you, this is real life not nollywood 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: As A Man 5 important Reasons Why you Should Reconsider Marriage by Skillsnigeria: 10:53pm On Oct 27, 2023 |
Re: As A Man 5 important Reasons Why you Should Reconsider Marriage by Jackiedemie(m): 10:54pm On Oct 27, 2023 |
Who marriage help? Bro J is only the most popular souls but no wife. 3 Likes |
Re: As A Man 5 important Reasons Why you Should Reconsider Marriage by JagabanB: 10:55pm On Oct 27, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:I grew up in an environment with loads of lgb0s, so I know this young man, he has 3 big shops with sales boys and girls in them, he had a wedding ceremony, very large and colourful, opened another shop for the wife, guess what? He shut down one shop, two shops and the third shop, today, he is an okada, this event happened within a 12 year space. Closed the first shop because he was servicing debth his wife took, closed the second because he has to service the debth and same time pay for luxurious life of wife and kids which the insists he must pay, today, he is living in a wretched face me I slap u. When u align urself with the wrong woman, responsibilities will be placed on ur finances and if she's not supportive, u are doomed to crash, I have seen people earning in millions crash and they are mostly business people. It doesn't matter how much head u get for development. Align with the wrong woman as a wife and u are doomed to fail. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: As A Man 5 important Reasons Why you Should Reconsider Marriage by Realist777: 10:59pm On Oct 27, 2023 |
Blackveil:But you dicking someone already na, you don't have issues |
Re: As A Man 5 important Reasons Why you Should Reconsider Marriage by Kobojunkie: 11:00pm On Oct 27, 2023 |
JagabanB:A has nothing to do with B in this story of yours. The man chose to switch his focus from growing his business to spending the profits on that which he decided was more important at the time. He did it to himself...no one else did it to him. 4 Likes |
Re: As A Man 5 important Reasons Why you Should Reconsider Marriage by RaySimran: 11:01pm On Oct 27, 2023 |
Why take on a decision just so the society don't see me as less a human being ? Only people with least self-worth or exteme would run along with those unintelligent analogy up there. 4 Likes |
Re: As A Man 5 important Reasons Why you Should Reconsider Marriage by APOPTOSIS: 11:02pm On Oct 27, 2023 |
KiNg0G:Honestly, there's no clear distinction here. All your aforelisted points here can be achieved solo, be it single, single parent or whatever singlehood available. It's just like saying WEALTH comes with too many engagements and problems. Yes, I can agree but name one problem a wealthy man is suffering now that a poor man isn't suffering even worse.... I have met with a whole lot of single wealthy guys who earned more than what you just put up there. I think you should come up with clear benefits one can only get if he or she considers marriage. There are highly respected single Guys out there. And there are totally indignified couples out there too. 3 Likes |
Re: As A Man 5 important Reasons Why you Should Reconsider Marriage by JagabanB: 11:03pm On Oct 27, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:He did it because he has a family to take care and woman who doesn't understand, he had to choose between family and business, he made his choice and he was faced with that Choice because of the woman he married, when u expand ur horizon and see from different points of view, u will understand better. |
Re: As A Man 5 important Reasons Why you Should Reconsider Marriage by SeriouslySense(m): 11:03pm On Oct 27, 2023 |
Tur sai gobe. |
Re: As A Man 5 important Reasons Why you Should Reconsider Marriage by Kobojunkie: 11:06pm On Oct 27, 2023 |
JagabanB:Stop telling yourself these lies for Pete's sake. A man does not spend money on luxury goods he knows will run his business down because of family. No sensible individual chooses between business and family since commonsense tells you that you need money to take care of the needs of a family 3 Likes |
Re: As A Man 5 important Reasons Why you Should Reconsider Marriage by JagabanB: 11:09pm On Oct 27, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:Like I told u, when u expand ur horizon, u will have different views and u will understand, I doñ't talk too much about stuffs like this with people on a faceless forum, many people here lack life exposure. 1 Like |
Re: As A Man 5 important Reasons Why you Should Reconsider Marriage by BALLOSKI: 11:14pm On Oct 27, 2023 |
Blackveil:calm down. You don't love kids? |
Re: As A Man 5 important Reasons Why you Should Reconsider Marriage by Kobojunkie: 11:14pm On Oct 27, 2023 |
JagabanB:There is nothing expanded about any of what you described as it revealed a terrible illogical approach to reasoning issues. This man choose to not only marry a woman who probably came in without a job of her own into the marriage, but at the same time he shifted his focus from making money to take care of the needs of the family to instead coming up with ways to purchase luxury items he couldn't afford. Yet somehow you want to believe instead that it was not his fault? Don't you see how close-minded that in fact is? 1 Like |
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