My past is seriously hunting me. In the past 4 years I've had unprotected sex with 12 girls. Now I want to get married and my girlfriend is insisting on HIV test first.

All these while I never did any HIV test, I never felt it's important to do it and I never had any known symptoms of HIV.

Since she requested for the test, I've been postponing it citing busy schedules and all that but deep down I'm just damn frightened.

Can it be possible to have sex with 12 girls and still not get HIV? The thing is seriously giving me sleepless night.

I'm planning on going for a test myself alone, then if it's negative, I will then go with her but if not, I will just japa

Go for test now!!

FarSide:
My past is seriously hunting me. In the past 4 years I've had unprotected sex with 12 girls. Now I want to get married and my girlfriend is insisting on HIV test first.
All these while I never did any HIV test, I never felt it's important to do it and I never had any known symptoms of HIV.
Since she requested for the test, I've been postponing it citing busy schedules and all that but deep down I'm just damn frightened.
Can it be possible to have sex with 12 girls and still not get HIV? The thing is seriously giving me sleepless night.
I'm planning on going for a test myself alone, then if it's negative, I will then go with her but if not, I will just japa

12 girls 12 HIV positive status

incandescentena:
You banged 12 girls in 4 years only and you are scared of HIV??

The fear shaa. I just can't stand it. For the past two weeks I've been trying to muster courage for this but no way.
I wanted to do it last week Wednesday but when I got close to the hospital, I lost every courage in me, I had to change direction, entered a cool joint, took some bottles of beer and headed home.
I just wish someone can drag me there but I can't confide in anyone Incase if it turns out positive

How can I reach you?

I can advise you what to do.

FarSide:

The fear shaa. I just can't stand it. For the past two weeks I've been trying to muster courage for this but no way.
I wanted to do it last week Wednesday but when I got close to the hospital, I lost every courage in me, I had to change direction, entered a cool joint, took some bottles of beer and headed home.
I just wish someone can drag me there but I can't confide in anyone Incase if it turns out positive

stop this

Just go ahead. You don't have hiv
That's what I felt when I went for hiv test also

But it came out negative


Just be calm. It's going to be okay

Creamcrest:
How can I reach you?

I can advise you what to do.

Email boss

TripleLTD:
stop this

Just go ahead. You don't have hiv
That's what I felt when I went for hiv test also

But it came out negative


Just be calm. It's going to be okay

Omo e no easy oo.
When I was galavanting and jumping from one girl to another, I never thought of all these.

FarSide:

Omo e no easy oo.
When I was galavanting and jumping from one girl to another, I never thought of all these.

naso I feel when I went for test also for my marriage
But it turns out negative. After that I went two times more before the marriage and na dis year also

And let me tell you

I slept with someone last two years who was rumour to be positive but I never confirm but I don't have anything

TripleLTD:
naso I feel when I went for test also for my marriage
But it turns out negative. After that I went two times more before the marriage and na dis year also

And let me tell you

I slept with someone last two years who was rumour to be positive but I never confirm but I don't have anything

Na just fear shaa. I don't have any symptom ever since but I went to one clinic last month and they were just gisting about HIV. How some people don't even know they have it and all that. I just felt there were talking to me
Now my girl started the same test thing. Me that doesn't go to church, I've been praying ever since.
Wahala dey oo

FarSide:

Na just fear shaa. I don't have any symptom ever since but I went to one clinic last month and they were just gisting about HIV. How some people don't even know they have it and all that. I just felt there were talking to me
Now my girl started the same test thing. Me that doesn't go to church, I've been praying ever since.
Wahala dey oo

Just remove that from your mind
That's what I heard also when I was about to do the test

I have to just get courage
When they were doing the test
I nearly past out
But it turns out negative and I did genotype stuff
It comes out AA or so
Naso I just say my life is in order now
And I promise myself never to indulge in any thing again except I got married

TripleLTD:
Just remove that from your mind
That's what I heard also when I was about to do the test

I have to just get courage
When they were doing the test
I nearly past out
But it turns out negative and I did genotype stuff
It comes out AA or so
Naso I just say my life is in order now
And I promise myself never to indulge in any thing again except I got married

No p na
I go try run am. If I survive this one, na me and my babe forever

FarSide:

No p na
I go try run am. If I survive this one, na me and my babe forever

That's the Goal boss

Just no dey run around again

Run the test alone in different hospitals, your next step would be determined by the outcome of the test.

Visit any public hospital and get yourself tested.

Have you ever wonder about the possibility of having HIV for a whole year without symptoms but ordinary malaria will take you down in days...

I don't believe one can have hiv for a whole year without symptoms.

Op just relax... Nothing do you

Ehyaa sorry

Invite us to your wedding

Unseen:
Have you ever wonder about the possibility of having HIV for a whole year without symptoms but ordinary malaria will take you down in days...

I don't believe one can have hiv for a whole year without symptoms.

Op just relax... Nothing do you

Guy u be correct G.
The thought alone have drained me. The stigma is too much that's just my only problem. I can't stand people pointing hand at me "look he has HIV"
I go just kii myself

FarSide:

The fear shaa. I just can't stand it. For the past two weeks I've been trying to muster courage for this but no way.
I wanted to do it last week Wednesday but when I got close to the hospital, I lost every courage in me, I had to change direction, entered a cool joint, took some bottles of beer and headed home.
I just wish someone can drag me there but I can't confide in anyone Incase if it turns out positive

FarSide:

Na just fear shaa. I don't have any symptom ever since but I went to one clinic last month and they were just gisting about HIV. How some people don't even know they have it and all that. I just felt there were talking to me
Now my girl started the same test thing. Me that doesn't go to church, I've been praying ever since.
Wahala dey oo

What are the symptoms of HIV? And how long will someone start seeing the symptoms?

I did HIV test close to a month after I had unprotected sex, it came out negative.

UcheKingsley1:


What are the symptoms of HIV? And how long will someone start seeing the symptoms?

I did HIV test close to a month after I had unprotected sex, it came out negative.

Just forget about those symptoms you read online

Go for another test

And once it's negative

You are negative

FarSide:
My past is seriously hunting me. In the past 4 years I've had unprotected sex with 12 girls. Now I want to get married and my girlfriend is insisting on HIV test first.
All these while I never did any HIV test, I never felt it's important to do it and I never had any known symptoms of HIV.
Since she requested for the test, I've been postponing it citing busy schedules and all that but deep down I'm just damn frightened.
Can it be possible to have sex with 12 girls and still not get HIV? The thing is seriously giving me sleepless night.
I'm planning on going for a test myself alone, then if it's negative, I will then go with her but if not, I will just japa

Go to a far away anonymous hospital and do the test. If anything, the result is only known to you.

HIV prevalence is 2.1%. Those are really slim odds of meeting someone with one besides the rate of infection is about 50% when you go unprotected with a carrier (except you've been dealing with high risk individuals)

Either way, it's for your own peace of mind. You'd confirm you're truly negative or you take it in good fate and start treatment.

There's no loss in a taking a test.

laivwire:


Go to a far away anonymous hospital and do the test. If anything, the result is only known to you.

HIV prevalence is 2.1%. Those are really slim odds of meeting someone with one besides the rate of infection is about 50% when you go unprotected with a carrier (except you've been dealing with high risk individuals)

Either way, it's for your own peace of mind. You'd confirm you're truly negative or you take it in good fate and start treatment.

There's no loss in a taking a test.

Thanks man. God bless

Yes, it could happen in one thrust, but statistically speaking, the possibility of you having HIV is extremely low. Nigeria has about 1 million women with HIV and about 100 million women in total. So the chance of you meeting one is like 1%. Again, some of the 1 million HIV positive women are on medication and have undetectable viral loads. This further reduces the number of women in the country that can readily give you HIV (since undetectable viral load implies that it impossible to transmit the disease to others). OK, let's now assume all odds were against you and you had sex with that one-in-a-hundred HIV positive person with a viral load that is not undetectable (i.e., they can transmit the disease), the odds of you contracting the disease from them is still very low. HIV is a difficult virus to catch. When a man has an unprotected sex with a HIV positive woman, the chance of him getting the disease from her in a session is about 0.05%.

So sir, you'll have to be one unlucky fellow to beat these odds. So I suggest you just go and get tested, and stop being a scardy cat, lol. Remember, whatever the result is, it is not the end of the world. It's better to be safe than sorry. Don't let anyone tell you HIV is hoax. That level of ignorance/naivety shouldn't be in existence in 2023. HIV is very much real. And even though it's no longer as dangerous as it once was, it is still out there, and you don't want to have it. So moving forward, it's good to know your safety options and pick the one that works for your and your pocket:

1) Abstinence (aka zip-up)
2) Monogamy (where both parties get tested every 6 months)
3) Condom
4) PREP (regular or on-demand)
5) PEP (preferably PEP-IN-POCKET aka PIP)
6) Undetectable viral load (if one of the parties is known to be HIV positive)

etrange:
Yes, it could happen in one thrust, but statistically speaking, the possibility of you having HIV is extremely low. Nigeria has about 1 million women with HIV and about 100 million women in total. So the chance of you meeting one is like 1%. Again, some of the 1 million HIV positive women are on medication and have undetectable viral loads. This further reduces the number of women in the country that can readily give you HIV (since undetectable viral load implies that it impossible to transmit the disease to others). OK, let's now assume all odds were against you and you had sex with that one-in-a-hundred HIV positive person with a viral load that is not undetectable (i.e., they can transmit the disease), the odds of you contracting the disease from them is still very low. HIV is a difficult virus to catch. When a man has an unprotected sex with a HIV positive woman, the chance of him getting the disease from her in a session is about 0.05%.

So sir, you'll have to be one unlucky fellow to beat these odds. So I suggest you just go and get tested, and stop being a scardy cat, lol. Remember, whatever the result is, it is not the end of the world.

Thanks man. The sleepless night still continues but hopefully it will end this week

So People still have unprotected sex at this age and time. Why una no dey hear word?
Just brace up and do the test to know your status. Whatever outcome it is ,is for your own good. Do it in two different hospitals to be very sure

Ok boss. Thanks

FarSide:

No p na
I go try run am. [/b]If I survive this one, na me and my babe forever[b]

Na so they dey talk. No be for mouth

laivwire:


Go to a far away anonymous hospital and do the test. If anything, the result is only known to you.

HIV prevalence is 2.1%. Those are really slim odds of meeting someone with one besides the rate of infection is about 50% when you go unprotected with a carrier (except you've been dealing with high risk individuals)

Either way, it's for your own peace of mind. You'd confirm you're truly negative or you take it in good fate and start treatment.

There's no loss in a taking a test.

Look at the motivation to go for HIV test you guys have been giving him. .He should be self motivated naa.

UcheKingsley1:


What are the symptoms of HIV? And how long will someone start seeing the symptoms?

I did HIV test close to a month after I had unprotected sex, it came out negative.

Go for another after two months.Window period is 90 days.

spencekat:
Go for another after two months.Window period is 90 days.

Ok