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God is great by Alzwell(m): 8:33am On Oct 29, 2023 |
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Re: God is great by Lungdick: 8:35am On Oct 29, 2023 |
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Re: God is great by JASONjnr(m): 8:50am On Oct 29, 2023 |
There are places you can rent a house and manage to go to your PPA without having to endure the menace you're enduring right now.... You have to move out and begin to struggle.... Under your sister's roof, becoming a man and living your dream will be difficult. Because you will always fall back to her. But when you realise that you're on your own and you need to work hard to keep that lifestyle, then you will unlock your potential.... I wish you good luck... 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: God is great by Alzwell(m): 8:55am On Oct 29, 2023 |
[quote author=JASONjnr post=126676003]There are places you can rent a house and manage to go to your PPA without having to endure the menace you're enduring right now.... Thanks man...my thoughts exactly...am just thinking d pros and cons because I don't want to regret my actions |
Re: God is great by yomi007k(m): 9:01am On Oct 29, 2023 |
I have just 2 questions for you and I hope you will be honest with me; 1. At the end of the month, how much cash do you spend in that house or give your sister? 2. In a week or day, how many routine house chores do you do in your sister's house? 2 Likes |
Re: God is great by bewla(m): 9:09am On Oct 29, 2023 |
The give it a Japa from them 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: God is great by Nobody: 9:23am On Oct 29, 2023 |
I have a sister like that and it's like the older she gets, the more the nagging... ![]() ![]() ![]() But she's been married for more than 10 years and has two kids... Each time she'd come to the family house and starts nagging, I'd just agree to everything she says knowing very well that she'll later leave and I wouldn't do any of those things... ![]() ![]() ![]() I don't wish to ever live with her because wow!!! I'd suffocate. I only find her nagging useful whenever someone has offended me and I'm in need of her skills to come shout and insult the person on my behalf...😂😂😂 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: God is great by Alzwell(m): 9:23am On Oct 29, 2023 |
yomi007k: 1...this my second month there and before go and man...my thought before considering leaving this is to be Giving her 10 _15k out of my allawe because them have not start paying us at my ppa which is 25k...note apart from d food I eat..every other experience are from me. 2..I do sweep,wash d plates and clean d house...if anything is not okay in the house I do it that has been my nature I don't like things not in other..I help her with her stoning job too which she done turn to my work and whenever am don't have d strength self, which I still do..na my sister and I like to be useful whenever I am. |
Re: God is great by online4business: 9:26am On Oct 29, 2023 |
People Want freedom but don't like taking responsibility. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: God is great by ImmanuelMyron(m): 10:12am On Oct 29, 2023 |
26yrs old lad under-going NYSC roofing with 40yrs old nag and anger issue lady. SMH, At 26 you scared of responsibilities. At 26 you don't cherish your freedom and you called yourself man. I'll like to give you the kinda advice you need but you know your family trees more than i'd. 1 Like |
Re: God is great by Alzwell(m): 11:18am On Oct 29, 2023 |
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Re: God is great by Alzwell(m): 11:19am On Oct 29, 2023 |
online4business: Is earlier said than done my oga...am always alone all my undergraduate which I don't bother dem like that at home....Abuja cost of living no be here...thanks 4 d input appreciate |
Re: God is great by Alzwell(m): 11:20am On Oct 29, 2023 |
ImmanuelMyron: Thanks for d input |
Re: God is great by Stevenbright(m): 1:05pm On Oct 29, 2023 |
You didn't state the actual issues. What is small small things. State the issues and you will get the desired responses. 1 Like |
Re: God is great by yomi007k(m): 7:23pm On Oct 29, 2023 |
Alzwell: Well. You can try and make enquiries for your own place if you know deep down you have tried being a good brother. 1 Like |
Re: God is great by Kobojunkie: 7:52pm On Oct 29, 2023 |
Alzwell:With the economy the way it is, you are considering renting a place with near no income instead of waiting it out as long as you can. ![]() OP, it is unfortunate that your sister is the way it is but you can still use the opportunity to grow yourself mentally and also develop skills to handle even people like your sister. You say you both live in a room and parlor. Maybe find ways not to get on her nerves as much, consider spending time outside more than not, and also focus more of your time on work and maybe even studies— never too late to learn a new hobby. You say she disrespects you in front of outsiders, what you could do is learn to ignore even her disrespect. Change your approach to dealing with her so much so that she no longer moves you with her disregard and disrespect. That will not only make you stronger as a person but also prepare you for even worse that could be out there in the world. ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: God is great by eniolorunfe: 7:57pm On Oct 29, 2023 |
You can look for other corpers like you to share apartment with. After all, if your sis wasn’t in Abuja and you’re posted there, you would have found a way to survive there. The other alternative is to endure your sis by avoiding her as much as possible since it’s just a temporary situation. 1 Like |
Re: God is great by frozen70(f): 11:09pm On Oct 29, 2023 |
Alzwell: Two things are involve Get an apartment if you can and pack out of her house or You stay there, play the fool and obey her to the last point till you leave |
Re: God is great by flokii: 12:19am On Oct 30, 2023 |
@OP You just have to exercise patience with your sister.. I'll advise you take up side job that will keep you engaged and out a bit late.. You can even look for somewhere to learn a skill e.g. phone repairs, electronics, barbing etc. something you have passion for. If it's food you like to cook, learn cooking as you might one day find yourself in the hospitality or catering industry. For the house part, I doubt you can afford house in berger/ wuse axis.. house rent in those places choke. Infact house rent in Abuja generally now is on the high side. You'd need to have like 600k to 1 million naira to get a good place with meter and everything. You can consider areas like Dutse-Alhaji, Kubwa, Dei-Dei or if it's Lugbe area, places like FHA, around Police signboard and environs. 1 Like |
Re: God is great by Dubetex96(m): 8:24am On Oct 30, 2023 |
Sincerely i feel your plight and from my own experience it won't get better, u will be emotionally abused imagine your sister always claim to be right sometimes she don't appreciate your efforts in the house. Bro i will advice if it is possible get your own apartment even though living alone comes with it own dimensional challenges but U having that peace of mind matters so much . 1 Like |
Re: God is great by world123: 8:53am On Oct 30, 2023 |
To be honest, sometimes it good to play a fool till you get what you want. You aren't earning much, renting apartment comes with lots of responsibilities. So I will advise that you get some side jobs if you can, learn some skills that will useful to you after your your POP while searching for job. Spend lots of time outside; if possible have your dinner outside before coming in. So when you come in, you just bathe and sleep. |
Re: God is great by ahnie: 11:18am On Oct 30, 2023 |
The way I protect my mental health eeh,I protect ham pass my bank accounts. 3 Likes |
Re: God is great by DyingFetus: 5:12pm On Oct 30, 2023 |
We are nothing but dust in this world Kys today and be free of any misery in your life Don't be scared and take a bold step Even the Bible isn't afraid to admit ; And I declared that the dead, who had already died, are happier than the living, who are still alive. But better than both is the one who has never been born, who has not seen the evil that is done under the sun. |
Re: God is great by Alzwell(m): 6:56pm On Nov 01, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Thanks, am working on thix |
Re: God is great by Alzwell(m): 7:00pm On Nov 01, 2023 |
world123: My thoughts exactly, I just don't want to act based on emotions only |
Re: God is great by Alzwell(m): 7:04pm On Nov 01, 2023 |
Dubetex96: Am already looking for a small space...God help me |
Re: God is great by Dubetex96(m): 7:10pm On Nov 01, 2023 |
Alzwell: As you embark on this journey. God will see u through |
Re: God is great by Alzwell(m): 6:59pm On Nov 07, 2023 |
Re: God is great by LordReed(m): 8:36pm On Nov 07, 2023 |
Alzwell: Guy your allawee no go support house in Wuse/Berger axis. My advice is just endure till you get a good job and can afford to stay on your own. You can also look for a friend or another corper to team up with to get an affordable accommodation. |
Re: God is great by Alzwell(m): 5:22pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
Thanks to everyone's input....I have finally gotten a small place even though I know it might not be easy but I know God will help......thank u all for d advice and input It really went a long way. |
Re: God is great by Kobojunkie: 5:24pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
Dubetex96:Which God? See as una dey like take God name punish your fellow men. ![]() |
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