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Re: Her Body Size Discourages Me by Ojagun(m): 9:18am On Oct 30, 2023 |
1Sharon:Oh so you women do not want to build broke men?Its the rich ones showing you pepper.You women should humble yourselves and stop ignoring broke men 9 Likes |
Re: Her Body Size Discourages Me by 1Sharon(f): 9:19am On Oct 30, 2023 |
Ojagun: Lol im using the logic of you men. You don't like it when I flip it, do you? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Her Body Size Discourages Me by 1Sharon(f): 9:21am On Oct 30, 2023 |
advanceDNA: He can assist her to lose weight. But no, una want ready-made beautiful woman. This is how men miss their blessing. 1 Like |
Re: Her Body Size Discourages Me by Idaytesj29(m): 9:25am On Oct 30, 2023 |
ukaface: Is he her parent? 5 Likes |
Re: Her Body Size Discourages Me by advanceDNA: 9:26am On Oct 30, 2023 |
1Sharon: Person wey dey very fat like house na blessing?? Lol.. U seff know naaa...u just dey lie... The cons out weight the pro... If she can't lose weight herself...the man cannot make her That aside....There are slim good ladies everywhere...stop making it look like slim ladies are horrible women Besides ...The dude is not sexually attracted to her...that's the bottom line..... It can happen with a slim lady too... Some men like flesh...and some men can't date slim girls.... 5 Likes |
Re: Her Body Size Discourages Me by GreatAchiever1: 9:30am On Oct 30, 2023 |
PeeboyDmx: My major problems with relationship of nowadays, they start thinking about how to commit fornication, who made them think because they are "dating", they now have the right to have access to each others body. Why? Little wonder why the marriage institution has lost its value in these modern times because what should be enjoyed in marriage is now free commodity in "relationships". And for your question, encourage her to go the gym and even help her change her diet by recommending suitable diet for weight loss. And please flee youthful lusts. |
Re: Her Body Size Discourages Me by Essienjeremiah: 9:50am On Oct 30, 2023 |
Don't marry who u don't love u will not enjoy ur marital life. Since u don't like her body size just tell her now that is early don't keep her waiting |
Re: Her Body Size Discourages Me by Dilijingsly(m): 10:11am On Oct 30, 2023 |
ukaface:gbamsolutely |
Re: Her Body Size Discourages Me by HopeNeverDies: 10:50am On Oct 30, 2023 |
shogotermies: I obviously made that mistake once bro... Damn regretting it till today 💔💔 2 Likes |
Re: Her Body Size Discourages Me by AFvckingAlpha(m): 10:56am On Oct 30, 2023 |
PeeboyDmx: You’re not good at something, psyche! Ni66a you just body shamed her, tell it to her face, hurt her feelings, tell her to go drop some pounds. If you like her, you will tell her! I said what I said my ni66a 1 Like |
Re: Her Body Size Discourages Me by PeeboyDmx: 11:14am On Oct 30, 2023 |
AFvckingAlpha: I want to bro, whenever we talk, I feel like letting her know, but I don't know how she's going to take it in. We are all wires differently you know... I don't want to make her feel less of a human |
Re: Her Body Size Discourages Me by SkengRay: 11:55am On Oct 30, 2023 |
1Sharon:put in the work Hun? The question is, is She willing to do such, in the end it will just be waste of time and resources. Abeg na ready made dey okay pass 2 Likes |
Re: Her Body Size Discourages Me by Tshine456(m): 12:46pm On Oct 30, 2023 |
1Sharon:dont be deceive one can force anyone to add weight or lose it only if she is willing to cos it is nt easy to slay or do sum workout at d gym,dont u think d woman cn just be kind cos of her shape,women are unpredictable if im d guy i will only help her to lose weight after she decide what she really want,keep d friendship and dont forget self-determination matters in all things |
Re: Her Body Size Discourages Me by Fahvvy: 1:20pm On Oct 30, 2023 |
1Sharon: You're the one who is being shallow here ... And last I checked, it's not the OP's responsibility to help her lose weight and there's ABSOLUTELY NOTHING WRONG in wanting a woman who is, in your own words "ready made" ... I mean, don't y'all ladies want an already made man? ... How many ladies are willing to "put in the work and assist a man"? ... This is hypocrisy at its peak! ... What some of y'all ladies are too d.umb to understand is that men have preferences too! And fat women don't cut it for most men out there ... And as for putting in the work, why would he put in the work on someone who isn't putting in the work for herself? ... I mean, if losing weight was important to her, she wouldn't be that fat cause she would already be hitting the gym by herself ... @OP... If you're not attracted to her, let her go! No need wasting anyone's time ... 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Her Body Size Discourages Me by ExudeLoveToAll: 2:29pm On Oct 30, 2023 |
ukaface: This doesn't work, it's like advicing a girl whose major interest in a man is been financially stable to give the man money even when she doesn't have any. In most cases men feel empathetic to ladies when the ladies are the ones doing the asking out because most of the times it's not their ideal partner they seek. This is a disaster when the man who happens to drive relationship afterwards isn't attracted to his spouse. It is a disaster waiting to happen. Watching social media and seeing people reducing in body mass is different from doing it yourself. OP if you can't finish something don't ever start it, you are in for a rude shock unless you are ready to be blind to her body size. As for going to the gym, she will just go initially and stop subsequently so you must be blind to body size for this to work. 2 Likes |
Re: Her Body Size Discourages Me by ExudeLoveToAll: 2:34pm On Oct 30, 2023 |
1Sharon: That's same way ladies want financially stable guys What is good for the goose is good for the gander. I come in Peace 2 Likes |
Re: Her Body Size Discourages Me by Omoawoke2(m): 2:49pm On Oct 30, 2023 |
PeeboyDmx: I don’t understand you oo. There are many girls that will meet your spec and yet be good You want to marry someone you are not attracted to, are you a masochist? 2 Likes |
Re: Her Body Size Discourages Me by ednut1(m): 3:01pm On Oct 30, 2023 |
Why is this even a topic 2 Likes |
Re: Her Body Size Discourages Me by DyingFetus: 3:14pm On Oct 30, 2023 |
Rope her fess , she go lose weight by force . |
Re: Her Body Size Discourages Me by zed7: 3:30pm On Oct 30, 2023 |
Women reject men all the time, there's nothing wrong in rejecting the advances of a woman whom you're not attracted to. She may have a good character, but you need a level of attraction to your partner or you'd quickly lose interest. Don't feel guilty, there are many nice ladies who will be your type, she can't be the only one. 3 Likes |
Re: Her Body Size Discourages Me by seanwilliam(m): 3:31pm On Oct 30, 2023 |
This your story reminds a girl I just stopped talking to. She’s in her final year, claims to be a virgin, acting all nice and that.. she’s not fat , very young but she’s really not my type in the grand scheme of thing, and the closer I get to her the more she falls for me and the higher the chances of breaking her heart.. I suddenly stopped talking to her, I’ll just leave her texts on read , stopped picking her call too. Tbh i like her ( she seem respectful ) but something within me doesn’t want anything to do with her…. To advise you, create boundary and make her understand that it’s purely platonic relationship ( even though platonic relationship is a scam to me).. gradually , reduce the closeness till she moved on .. |
Re: Her Body Size Discourages Me by 23jerryking(m): 5:25pm On Oct 30, 2023 |
PeeboyDmx:Op, well, I don't have a girlfriend and I've never been in a relationship. But I can tell you for a fact that if she doesn't appeal to your eyes then it's not worth the trouble. Honestly it would look as though you'll just be trying your best to love her, even Adam was happy and glad when he saw Eve for the first time. I don't belong to that school of thought that would teach "Beauty is in character and not on the face or body", you can be beautiful on the face and still have character (the complete package). If you have this much doubt about her then it's a clear message already that she's not for you, a lot of people would suggest that you take her to the gym and stuffs like that but the truth is that you'll never achieve the desired results. Would she be punishing herself going to the gym just so that she could please you? That's too much to ask already. Such arrangements usually end in tears. She's not some kind of material that you can easily shape to your liking, she has her own preferences as to what she wants to look like. |
Re: Her Body Size Discourages Me by 23jerryking(m): 5:32pm On Oct 30, 2023 |
1Sharon:Aunty be calming down na. It's not like we want already -made, but here's the thing, what if she's okay with her weight? What if trying to assist her doesn't go down well with her, she'll even ask if it's her body you want to love or her personality? See ehn, things are not quite as simple as some of you girls think o. She'll be like "so you don't like me because you feel I'm overweight". 2 Likes |
Re: Her Body Size Discourages Me by 23jerryking(m): 5:35pm On Oct 30, 2023 |
shogotermies:With all due respect ma, the physical is equally as important. Me even as a guy I hate weight, that's why I overwork myself at the gym and on the field of play. All just to stay fit, I hate big yansh and pot belly. And I wouldn't want to marry a wife that has any of these things too. It's not a question of whether she's worthy of love or not but let's not deceive ourselves, another man out there would cherish her just the way she is. That's life!!! |
Re: Her Body Size Discourages Me by 23jerryking(m): 5:41pm On Oct 30, 2023 |
1Sharon:See, if she agrees to be helped then it's fine. But do you know that I've offered to teach a girl cooking and she refused? What was her reason? She said she'll be so embarrassed seeing a guy teaching her how to cook. She was raised far away from home in a house where the guardians are very busy people, me on the other hand has no sister (my mom gave birth to boys only) so I had to grow up on time and be both the boy and girl of the house. I tried everything to make her understand that it's not her fault that she doesn't have cooking skills but girl said no. 2 Likes |
Re: Her Body Size Discourages Me by 23jerryking(m): 5:44pm On Oct 30, 2023 |
PeeboyDmx:I understand you bro. But you start by making her aware of some of the terrible diseases associated with weight. And also the disadvantages of eating junks that adds nothing but weight. You just have to be very logical about it and not sound too disapproving or judgemental. |
Re: Her Body Size Discourages Me by RealEzee(m): 5:45pm On Oct 30, 2023 |
Beta no gree ooo Person way ur priiiick no fit stand dey greet wifout force no b for u oo |
Re: Her Body Size Discourages Me by TheMensch(m): 7:11pm On Oct 30, 2023 |
Omor Mine is total opposite I like fat babes, but mine dey very slim. |
Re: Her Body Size Discourages Me by holybabayo(m): 8:15pm On Oct 30, 2023 |
Let her gooooooo You are supposed to be excited about who u r going for. This that is affecting u will become the reason you will leave her tomorrow. |
Re: Her Body Size Discourages Me by Scream(m): 10:17pm On Oct 30, 2023 |
SMH, the one you will be sexually attracted to may use it against you...even the sex, you nor go see...you see attitude...e go booku! If you like nor speak to your spirit man...dey find lepa. |
Re: Her Body Size Discourages Me by minasu190: 10:30pm On Oct 30, 2023 |
She's beautiful inside, If you like her, then be helpful to her with some exercises, it will help if she listen. |
Re: Her Body Size Discourages Me by imagrg(m): 11:38pm On Oct 30, 2023 |
I like them slim. |
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