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Re: The leopard change its spots? What Bad Habit Did Your Partner Later Stop? by umpire1st(m): 6:17pm On Oct 30, 2023
olanreyman:
Mine used to cheat, she stopped being a cheat and now she's a chronic cheater
lol bro you to funny
Re: The leopard change its spots? What Bad Habit Did Your Partner Later Stop? by DARLINGTON869(m): 6:20pm On Oct 30, 2023
olanreyman:
Mine used to cheat, she stopped being a cheat and now she's a chronic cheater
LoL, bro I hate to break it to you. But you are also a cheat

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Re: The leopard change its spots? What Bad Habit Did Your Partner Later Stop? by Newdawn30: 6:23pm On Oct 30, 2023
My brother no kids yet, she works close to the house, so before 4pm she is back and she has fridays as off




quote author=DARLINGTON869 post=126703420]

Does you both have kids now?
It's may have been easier for her then to be 100% top notch clean. But when kids start trickling in, it becomes kinda tough to maintain that same perfect neatness record. If this is the case, don't be quick to judge her. [/quote]

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Re: The leopard change its spots? What Bad Habit Did Your Partner Later Stop? by 9free(m): 6:27pm On Oct 30, 2023
abobote:
Mine has changed for the worse.
Very disrespectful and ungrateful
Most men that their Nigerian wives earn more than them fall under this category.

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Re: The leopard change its spots? What Bad Habit Did Your Partner Later Stop? by Blitzking: 6:29pm On Oct 30, 2023
If am angry I just lock up put her in guessing mode..it usually frustrates her I became more vocal.

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Re: The leopard change its spots? What Bad Habit Did Your Partner Later Stop? by NSK4U(m): 6:30pm On Oct 30, 2023
Filled with sxual fantasies. Porn addiction, gets aroused even at sight of my undies; often aims for it at any opportunity, want to s^ck me empty every minute. I think her libid jus too high and it scares

She's not changed yet buh I hope she does soonest

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Re: The leopard change its spots? What Bad Habit Did Your Partner Later Stop? by WriterX(m): 6:32pm On Oct 30, 2023
My lady is actually a no nonsense woman she hates been cheated and would want to defend her right and isn't afraid to step on toes to do so like literally, cautioned her a lot on the path of wisdom towards issues like this. We thank God she is calming down, has taken and played key roles where she is learning.

I on the other hand, I am a writer and lol I can easily exaggerate and slip words and stuff that should not be. I am learning to use my own words to communicate and learning and preparing to be a husband and a good Christian father.

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Re: The leopard change its spots? What Bad Habit Did Your Partner Later Stop? by chukkystar(m): 6:36pm On Oct 30, 2023
I stopped taking Bullet cos of my Woman. Also grew up and became way more Spiritual

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Re: The leopard change its spots? What Bad Habit Did Your Partner Later Stop? by debbydams(f): 6:37pm On Oct 30, 2023
Mine changed from good to worst

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Re: The leopard change its spots? What Bad Habit Did Your Partner Later Stop? by Chookym(m): 6:39pm On Oct 30, 2023
Newdawn30:
Nice topic

My own changed for the worse, when we started, she was very neat, she used to mop the floors 2 times a week. 2 years down the line, I am the one cleaning the bathroom walls , floors and toilet. I realised its earlier to just do it myself instead of complaining about it

Right solution to live long

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Re: The leopard change its spots? What Bad Habit Did Your Partner Later Stop? by Caleb15(m): 6:42pm On Oct 30, 2023
The leopard does'nt change its spot use another animal

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Re: The leopard change its spots? What Bad Habit Did Your Partner Later Stop? by phemmyfour: 6:52pm On Oct 30, 2023
lovediehatelive:
They say,

'a leopard cannot change it's spots.'

But is it fair? I mean, we are talking about humans here not animals.

I know people hardly change, but saying everyone doesn't change is a big generalization and stereotypical.

To every rule, there's always an exception.

Now, before I get carried away and digress, let's stick to the topic.

What bad habit or character did your partner later stop?

For the ladies, did your guy stopped

gambling?
Womanizing?
Alcohol?
Smoking?



For guys, which one did she change, is it
Dirtiness?
Disrespect?
Chronic lying?
Ungratefulness?


Share your experiences, I believe there's a lot of good news out there, to bring back positive approach towards relationships!


She stopped sitting carelessly
She stopped watching telemundo, she's a football fan now

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Re: The leopard change its spots? What Bad Habit Did Your Partner Later Stop? by Therock5555(m): 7:01pm On Oct 30, 2023
My major problem is how I ghost my partners for no reason, I could be all mushy and squishy with you today and for the next one week, I won't take your calls.

I do it when I need to expend my energy on a certain problem, all my girls have tried to change me, the more I ghost them.


So we've all come to a compromise, if I ghost them, they wait patiently until I find them again, I fit forget babe for months before reaching out, and I'll act like we have been seeing ourselves since yesterday.


Na only God go help my wife if I marry oh

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Re: The leopard change its spots? What Bad Habit Did Your Partner Later Stop? by OGrockinnewacct: 7:01pm On Oct 30, 2023
Englishisamust:
Telling me she want to suck my dick!! Very Bad habit...

One man’s food is another man’s poison.
This life no balance

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Re: The leopard change its spots? What Bad Habit Did Your Partner Later Stop? by Jspider22: 7:04pm On Oct 30, 2023
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Re: The leopard change its spots? What Bad Habit Did Your Partner Later Stop? by Flesh10: 7:11pm On Oct 30, 2023
6yrs relationship with my fiancee I can't seem to find any fault with her. I have searched and searched yet that babe is just too perfect in every area. I asked her about my flaws too and where I need to improve she also cannot spot.

We are a perfect match, 6yrs and chasing 7yrs no drama, no fight, no quarrel just both of us loving , making sacrifices and managing our little.

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Re: The leopard change its spots? What Bad Habit Did Your Partner Later Stop? by Emdebby2: 7:11pm On Oct 30, 2023
A leopard does not change it's spot.
Re: The leopard change its spots? What Bad Habit Did Your Partner Later Stop? by hkidola00(m): 7:16pm On Oct 30, 2023
Englishisamust:
Telling me she want to suck my dick!! Very Bad habit...
send me her number

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Re: The leopard change its spots? What Bad Habit Did Your Partner Later Stop? by Englishisamust: 7:18pm On Oct 30, 2023
hkidola00:
send me her number
Thunder wey go fire u, still dey learn how to fire someone to hell without judgement

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Re: The leopard change its spots? What Bad Habit Did Your Partner Later Stop? by Nonexisting1: 7:19pm On Oct 30, 2023
People don't change. Condition and inconvenience make them adapt to changes but nothing changes who they are. Meet them at their turfs and convenience, you'll see them in their full characters.

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Re: The leopard change its spots? What Bad Habit Did Your Partner Later Stop? by MuMuOnBail: 7:21pm On Oct 30, 2023
Na wa ooo


My Own changed from Best to Worst angry


My own, she always come around to cook for me, the way she cook and serve me, you will think I am the president of Nigeria.

She use to leave my personal cook jobless when ever she is around.

She will use her money to buy water melon, apples, bottle groundnut and cashew with Oranges to serve me after every delicious meal.

I started taking her serious (Upgrading her to a serious side chick).

Fast forward to last two week.

This lady started showing me her true color angry

I am so angry that I can't even narrate what that snake did to me angry angry angry

NO TRUST WOMAN E GET WHY, THEM DEY ONLY CHANGE FOR WORST

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Re: The leopard change its spots? What Bad Habit Did Your Partner Later Stop? by blaise26abj(m): 7:23pm On Oct 30, 2023
Only someone with a learning spirit can change . Discern this early enough or you go complain tire .

And you only change because you wanted to . Not because of your spouse . Adults with habits are extremely hard to change unless they choose to

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Re: The leopard change its spots? What Bad Habit Did Your Partner Later Stop? by world123: 7:25pm On Oct 30, 2023
What you should be asking is, "what hidden habits got exposed?"

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Re: The leopard change its spots? What Bad Habit Did Your Partner Later Stop? by funshint(m): 7:26pm On Oct 30, 2023
obicoolnino:
As a partner to my spouse,I stopped taking satchet captain jack after she complained I should stop taking it...that thing purge my belle no be small.
But u dey take the bottle now abi?
Re: The leopard change its spots? What Bad Habit Did Your Partner Later Stop? by Amayabor1: 7:27pm On Oct 30, 2023
Therock5555:
My major problem is how I ghost my partners for no reason, I could be all mushy and squishy with you today and for the next one week, I won't take your calls.

I do it when I need to expend my energy on a certain problem, all my girls have tried to change me, the more I ghost them.


So we've all come to a compromise, if I ghost them, they wait patiently until I find them again, I fit forget babe for months before reaching out, and I'll act like we have been seeing ourselves since yesterday.


Na only God go help my wife if I marry oh

Go seek help. Ozuor. Saying it as if it is an achievement. Nonsense attitude!

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Re: The leopard change its spots? What Bad Habit Did Your Partner Later Stop? by 77up(m): 7:27pm On Oct 30, 2023
Mine can nag for africa but miraculously changed.

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Re: The leopard change its spots? What Bad Habit Did Your Partner Later Stop? by TheMensch(m): 7:30pm On Oct 30, 2023
It's true. A leopard does not change its spots. The spots only get bigger with time

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Re: The leopard change its spots? What Bad Habit Did Your Partner Later Stop? by savcy(m): 7:35pm On Oct 30, 2023
DARLINGTON869:


Do you both have kids now?
It's may have been easier for her then to be 100% top notch clean. But when kids start trickling in, it becomes kinda tough to maintain that same perfect neatness record. If this is the case, don't be quick to judge her.


Even if that was the case, how long does it typically take to wash a bathroom🚽?

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Re: The leopard change its spots? What Bad Habit Did Your Partner Later Stop? by Faposky95: 7:58pm On Oct 30, 2023
Englishisamust:
Telling me she want to suck my dick!! Very Bad habit...

....my friend Aka.....
She was supposed bro to do anything for you.....loci
Re: The leopard change its spots? What Bad Habit Did Your Partner Later Stop? by ukaface(f): 8:00pm On Oct 30, 2023
MikeMicheal:
Scratching anus and sniffing it.
Nyamaaaaaaa
🤮

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Re: The leopard change its spots? What Bad Habit Did Your Partner Later Stop? by ONEjoblessGUY: 8:03pm On Oct 30, 2023
debbydams:
Mine changed from good to worst

Lol....
How??
Re: The leopard change its spots? What Bad Habit Did Your Partner Later Stop? by Pootle: 8:03pm On Oct 30, 2023
she did a good job stopping my drinking and smoking habit, i smoke like a chimney those years she said i choose between smoking or telling my mum and the later means the end of our marraige. i choose the first option cause i knew my mum will be so heartbroken that i did not keep to my promise of quitting smoking. still one of the best decision i make cos it kept me alive, shortly after i quit smoking i had a lungs issue that almost ended my life, pls dont smoke if you have to smoke weed

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