Foolish women thinking going abroad alone is best. Abroad will show single moms shege

soccerlite:
■ In that case she has to pay back the money the man spent in her to travel. If it becomes a legal issue, can she win. The abuse didn't occur in England

NO dey expose say na tambolo full your head naw!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

naijamerican:
Foolish women thinking going abroad alone is best. Abroad will show single moms shege

Single moms do better abroad with all the amenities and programs out there to help them in their struggles. It is in Nigeria, that I believe a single mom is on her own.

Kobojunkie:
NO dey expose say na tambolo full your head naw!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Eyah

But na excreta full yours

Kobojunkie:
Playing the victim card works for when you are not actually a victim but pretending to be one. Clearly, this woman as her story goes was a victim and so isn't playing any card at all.

As for what you said of economic reasons, yes, marriage in Nigeria where women submit to master-slave agreements in marriage are typically entered into for economic reasons. However, that does not hand the man right to above the woman even in that scenario.

It does because it is master-slave relationship. Our women are not handicap or amputees.They should get a job and invest in the family instead of choosing to be in a scam relationship"master-slave". How do you expect a master not to exploit a slave when he knows the slave is only there because she wants to exploit the wealth of the master? They are both exploiting themselves.

loswhite:
■ It does because it is master-slave relationship. Our women are not handicap or amputees.They should get a job and invest in the family instead of choosing to be in a scam relationship"master-slave". How do you expect a master not to exploit a slave when he knows the slave is only there because she wants to exploit the wealth of the master? They are both exploiting themselves.

Another example of a master-slave relationship is the typical employer/employee model used by most companies. Are you telling me then that employees lose their rights as humans when they sign a job contract? Look, if you are going to argue like someone wey tambolo don chop him head, make you waka pass me this morning abeg!

Kobojunkie:
Another example of a master-slave relationship is the typical employer/employee model used by most companies. Are you telling me then that employees lose their rights as humans when they sign a job contract? Look, if you are going to argue like someone wey tambolo don chop him head, make you waka pass me this morning abeg!

Labour's laws are there to protect workers so if your country no get no expect employer to not exploit you. It is the law that put us in check...lol if you don't know that by now then don't reply my post again....Foolish man when be women spoke man...I hate SIMP men sha

grandstar:
Some Nigerian women have been dying to teach their Nigerian husbands lessons but have been stymied by the misogynistic environment here that favours men, both from the public and the law.

Upon setting foot abroad, especially in countries that gives them rights, they bare their fangs and take vengeful bites.

Men, stop cheating on your wives. I am certain 90% of these cases involve adulterous husbands. Nigerian men have a "right" to cheat and woe betide the woman that does not tolerate it.

but why marry beast in the first place
And yes they always show signs before marriage

Magnoliaa:


Exactly.

So you think whatever made the woman take the decision she did is not of a greater consequence?

No woman just wakes and decided to do something like that, and apparently, this man in question is an abuser who even beat her while pregnant one time.

After beating her, he sold his properties and sponsored her to UK for studies. Her lies would have been more difficult for you to believe if the man in question were your brother.

Dailymice:
Its good to hear from both parties. The woman in question gave a reply as to the circumstances surrounding her actions.

I dont quite believe this story. It doesnt fit the narrative. An abuser likes to take away control from their victim.

If truly, he did all of that, why will the man allow her travel without the kids, knowing she could run away?

Why will he allow her travel at all, knowing all the atrocities he has committed and knowing that he cant continue with it or that she could get him arrested?

Some men no dey hear word

Kobojunkie:
Your uncle shortchanged his own life because of cock-n-bull storied he has heard from others?

By the way, if he is sure his wife will leave him if she enters USA, it means your uncle is enduring Nigeria because he is afraid of being abandoned by that. Implying that what he has right now is not a healthy marriage at all.

There is no healthy marriage anywhere unless where the man accepts to be at the mercy of his wife. Even so, she still gets tired of the simp over time and start desiring "strong" men in whose hands she will be maltreated. That is the convoluted nature of the female gender.

Amumaigwe:
After beating her, he sold his properties and sponsored her to UK for studies. Her lies would have been more difficult for you to believe if the man in question were your brother.

Where is your own proof for believing this?

Because he said so?

Who do you want to pull the relation card on? If na your sister man beat with pregnancy, push am comot for house for midnight, leave her make she die for labour, dey transfer aggression for her children body and finally come kidnap them, e sure for me say you nor go dey cap nonsense here.


Abeg, gerrout.

Amumaigwe:
■ There is no healthy marriage anywhere unless where the man accepts to be at the mercy of his wife. Even so, she still gets tired of the simp over time and start desiring "strong" men in whose hands she will be maltreated. That is the convoluted nature of the female gender.

So, no healthy marriage and it is all women's fault? **yawn**

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One was arrested last month after her text messages exposed their plans.
They belong in a WhatsApp group in UK where they teach other women how to apply for asylum
using the excuse of "Domestic violence" against their husbands once they migrate to UK.


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therealMcCain:
■ I dont quite believe this story. It doesnt fit the narrative. An abuser likes to take away control from their victim. If truly, he did all of that, why will the man allow her travel without the kids, knowing she could run away? Why will he allow her travel at all, knowing all the atrocities he has committed and knowing that he cant continue with it or that she could get him arrested?

Go back and read story first!

InvertedHammer:
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One was arrested last month after her text messages exposed their plans.
They belong in a WhatsApp group in UK where they teach other women how to apply for asylum
using the excuse of "Domestic violence" against their husbands once they migrate to UK.


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You can imagine. Well, simps deserve whatever they get. Any man that marries from here and takes her abroad is a big fool and his tears later will be premium and massive. They no dey learn until it happens. As for me, I never even marry keep for here talkless of taking her abroad.

InvertedHammer:
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One was arrested last month after her text messages exposed their plans.
They belong in a WhatsApp group in UK where they teach other women how to apply for asylum
using the excuse of "Domestic violence" against their husbands once they migrate to UK.


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I cannot count the number of times I've been seeing these claims.

Yet one real screenshot like this from such a group has never trended. I never see.

Where is the link to the story of this arrested woman, please?

Kobojunkie:
Caution him to keep her imprisoned in the marriage by refusing to allow her go for a job she was offered?

You obviously didn't get my comment.

casualobserver:


if he is a wife beater i have no sympathy for him and he 100% deserves what he gets. If you abuse your wife, no matter how long it takes she will extract her revenge. However not all situations are abused women. I am not saying this woman's story is not true, i wasnt there, I dont know. One thing i have learnt is an errant woman who is in a good relationship and wants to misbehave is not going to tell you all is well in the relationship.

Actually If a man abuses his wife and wants to sponsor her abroad with the aim of joining her, I will encourage him because when he gets there he will see shege!! However if you have been a good husband, know your wife well before you attempt it.

That was what happened to this man in question.

Cromagnon:
but why marry beast in the first place
And yes they always show signs before marriage

Even the most innocent looking of Nigerian men cheat. That is the truth. They see nothing wrong in cheating.

naijamerican:
Foolish women thinking going abroad alone is best. Abroad will show single moms shege

How so?

Is the West not an haven for women again?

If at all the abroad go show dem shege, will the shege they'll face in 9ja not be x5 worse?

They're foolish because in your Solomonic wisdom, you can see other viable options for them to follow? Or what would you rather have them do if going abroad alone is not best?

Magnoliaa:


Where is your own proof for believing this?

Because he said so?

Who do you want to pull the relation card on? If na your sister man beat with pregnancy, push am comot for house for midnight, leave her make she die for labour, dey transfer aggression for her children body and finally come kidnap them, e sure for me say you nor go dey cap nonsense here.


Abeg, gerrout.

Mocking a naive and stupid man that played into the hands of his spiteful wife will never make you more successful in relationship. I perceive chronic bitterness.

Kobojunkie:
Your uncle shortchanged his own life because of cock-n-bull storied he has heard from others?

By the way, if he is sure his wife will leave him if she enters USA, it means your uncle is enduring Nigeria because he is afraid of being abandoned by that. Implying that what he has right now is not a healthy marriage at all.

Saint Kobojunkie pray for us😂
I know get strength to argue with u o. I just tell u what I know besides my uncle is doing well in US. And he send fund to is wife also, he’s just scared of all this western ideology for is family and that’s why he refuse to relocate her

IamAsiri:
■You obviously didn't get my comment.

Most of those who "cautioned" the man not to allow his wife to go for the job in the UK did so out of fear that the marriage may not be well and that she might use the opportunity to escape him in the end.

Babathanks:
■ Saint Kobojunkie pray for us😂
I know get strength to argue with u o. I just tell u what I know besides my uncle is doing well in US. And he send fund to is wife also, he’s just scared of all this western ideology for is family and that’s why he refuse to relocate her

I said it! Na imprisonment marriage dem dey call that one naw! She remains "tied" to him because of economic reasons, coupled with the general terrible situation in Nigeria where she no fit find her way easy while your uncle slaves away in the U.S. sending money back and telling everyone he is a married man, all while probably running around with other women here in the U.S. Dem plenty for here. Nigerian men who think and live like your uncle! In the end, after children leave, na strangers dem go be for such marriage.

IamAsiri:


That was what happened to this man in question.

According to his wife. If so, like I said it is deserved. But just as I have never known a woman who cheats that will tell you her husband is a good man, so also an errant devious woman will not tell you her husband is a good man if her plan all along was to do away with him once he has served his usefulness. So one side of the story is not enough to judge. I lived in the UK, I have heard all sorts that Nigerian women make up because they know the law and child services will always favour them. Including women who will deliberately provoke and batter their husbands to create a scene and secretly call the police.

I am not saying that is what is going on here but I know that a lot of Nigerian women in particular marry just to be married and have kids. Once they achieve that the man starts to become dispensable in their eyes as the relationship was never about love. This is particularly true when the man is struggling financially or the woman now feels she has financial independence in which case the man has no usefulness in her eyes.

I am not saying that’s the case, Just saying one side of the story is not enough to judge. But like I said, if her version is true, he deserves it.

loswhite:
Can you he wicked to your wife and still sell your property to sponsor her to the UK? I don't understand how that works tho

Yes!
One can be wicked to the wife BUT hope to benefit from her residence status in UK in order that he too may Japa!

Except if it can be proved that the woman is insane, there is no smoke without fire. She must have acted because of some reasons due to mistreatment.

If the Husband is good to her, she no rational woman will take that kind of step

Amumaigwe:
Mocking a naive and stupid man that played into the hands of his spiteful wife will never make you more successful in relationship. I perceive chronic bitterness.

When you're ready to bring the proof of him sponsoring her to the UK, let me know.


Until then, you know what to do.

You should try to expand this your fiction and make it into a good novel.

TenQ:
Unfortunately, your friend is reaping what he had sown. When you act as the Lion of the Tribe of your House to your wife and she doesn't know you love her and all she sees is your hate: the more reason she would perfect this kind of smart move on him.

She had calculated that the only way she can have her children is if she played dumb.
Now with her children, she is free to pay back her husband. An Eye for an Eye AND a Tooth for a Tooth.


Note:
I am not supporting this woman's action but, their is no smoke without fire. She did not take the decision because she was insane.

Sorry to the man. I hope he finds help!

He doesn't love his wife he sent her abroad... if any woman try that with me ... na for that public I go kill am , make everybody go jail... aswear... she might be cheating on the man but will want the man to keep shut make that one no gree... a man will just wake and start beating his wife ... what she has done painting him bad makes her no difference now ... their type dey commit suicide at the end .. seen case studies...

grandstar:
Some Nigerian women have been dying to teach their Nigerian husbands lessons but have been stymied by the misogynistic environment here that favours men, both from the public and the law.

Upon setting foot abroad, especially in countries that gives them rights, they bare their fangs and take vengeful bites.

Men, stop cheating on your wives. I am certain 90% of these cases involve adulterous husbands. Nigerian men have a "right" to cheat and woe betide the woman that does not tolerate it.

Women that deny husband sex cus of little matter... dey play