Stats: 3,184,280 members, 7,923,317 topics. Date: Friday, 16 August 2024 at 11:26 PM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Family / I Had Put An End To My Marriage (39264 Views)
The Year Is Gradually Coming To An End. What Is Your Achievement? / My Marriage Is At The Brink Of Collapse Help Me / My Marriage Has Finally Ended (2) (3) (4)
(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) ... (12) (Reply) (Go Down)
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by ikeno(m): 10:31am On Nov 04, 2023 |
I I just want to say that no matter what is going on in your marriage you should try and see how you both can be able to sort it out.i know some marriages are not bed of roses,there are usually ups and down in marriage but nevertheless you guys should try and work things out for the sake of your children cause they mean a lot to you and as a father they need a father figure in their life even though you don't want to be with your wife again at least be a part of your children's life.you both can seek the help of a marriage counselor also the amount you said you will send for the upkeep of your children is too little depending on how much you earn as a salary,the cost of living in Nigeria is high especially foodstuff try to increase it to 30,000 or 35,000. That's just my take 4 Likes |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by Handsomejok: 10:36am On Nov 04, 2023 |
kevwemike: Collecting them from her is impossible because my daughter is 3 and my son is 2 months old I don't trust my mum or my siblings with my children anymore and their mum is the only one who can take better care of them 3 Likes |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by Tayorshd87: 10:39am On Nov 04, 2023 |
kevwemike: Congratulations 👏 1 Like |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by Tayorshd87: 10:40am On Nov 04, 2023 |
Handsomejok:I understand you but I guess u don't really have a higher income that's why u are thinking 15k is fine because if u guys are living together u should know u will spend more than 15k for them before d month runs out 🤔 Please think about it 2 Likes |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by Handsomejok: 10:46am On Nov 04, 2023 |
LadyG05: Don't call me wicked man you don't know my financial states if I had a lot of money I wouldn't have been sleeping in my shop I can only give her what I have by cutting my coat according to my size 36 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by Handsomejok: 10:48am On Nov 04, 2023 |
Tayorshd87: Yes I don't have a higher income and I cannot even rent a room for myself because I have put them as my top priority 5 Likes |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by burg93: 11:27am On Nov 04, 2023 |
ahnie: When are you leaving your own marriage?? just this morning you complained about your husband choking you! 11 Likes |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by Kobojunkie: 11:47am On Nov 04, 2023 |
Handsomejok:I hope you have informed her of your desire to end the marriage as well. Sending a woman who has your kids 15k in this economy is ... anyway, the woman too is to blame for having more kids knowing what is known. ![]() If say this woman serious, she for demand things be made official so she can be assured you will pay your part towards the upkeep of the children every month or face legal consequences. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by Tayorshd87: 11:48am On Nov 04, 2023 |
Handsomejok:.. heya exactly I feel your pain . Marriage is only sweet and mostly florist if there is fund/money but without that many things can erupt like divorce/broken home or domestic violence etc . Just handle the suituation with care.. |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by Tayorshd87: 11:50am On Nov 04, 2023 |
Handsomejok: Exactly how many kids do u have if I may ask? And she suppose to find something doing too at least to cover up some loop holes in the marriage 1 Like |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by Kobojunkie: 11:51am On Nov 04, 2023 |
being:Stop rambling abeg! The marriage was destroyed by OP and not some ghost called the devil. According to Op, after he got his senses back, he put it on life support but it seemed to have all been too little too late. ![]() Stop blaming ojuju for what is probably a result of your own foolishness in life. ![]() 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by being(m): 12:12pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:Let's assume you don't know anything... Who do u think gave those false prophets those sọ called vision they had about d OP & his wife? |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by Kobojunkie: 12:20pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
being:Lol... see this one. Ordinary men lied to OP about receiving visions --- men with delusions of grandeur probably--- yet you would rather confuse yourself by believing someone else was to blame for the lies they fed OP? Una need help! ![]() 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by ravensckar(m): 12:30pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
Nice2023:Bros, wetin happen nau? Shey you wan frustrate the young man join? ![]() ![]() #Let_The_Divorced_Man_Breathe On a more serious note, I see most marital problems as a failure of parenting. It's like both men and women of nowadays don't know what to expect from marriage anymore. You cannot put a woman (assistant devil) in the house and expect to have peace. Those creatures were moulded with a different clay. ![]() ![]() 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by LadyRosa(f): 1:15pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
Handsomejok: You don't trust your own mom or siblings to take care of your kids? Which kind family you grow up from? ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by kevwemike: 1:30pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
Handsomejok:mine was two boys 6 and 4yrs, they are so attached to my soul dey sees me as their mum and dad even wen their mum was still staying with us, Even till today dey if I ask them do u want ur mother to come back home dey say no oooo she shouldn't come here . That's how bad she was to her children. 7 Likes |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by duduade: 2:35pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
I don't understand why people bring children into this world and will still not take good care of them.. what will 15k do 5 Likes |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by OSDD(m): 2:52pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
Shey the mother is handicapped or what?? He'll be paying house rent and school fess, and other bills, and still add 15k.. but Chinedu,osas and kunle who are still living under their parents house are complaining that the money is too small. The mother of those kids can't work too?? 30 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by Jeon(f): 3:13pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
All those Men with half cooked stories. Op,you haven't told us what you did to your wife that made you to be a monster in her eyes. You are just complaining . 9 Likes |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by Kobojunkie: 3:31pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
Jeon:His tale is a long one ... check out his history to learn the story from his side. ![]() |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by Kobojunkie: 3:32pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
LadyRosa:His mother carries part of the blame for why OP's marriage fell apart. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by Jeon(f): 3:40pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Oh, so he called his wife a witch?. 😮 7 Likes |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by Kobojunkie: 3:41pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
Jeon:And the baby too... continue reading. ![]() His tale is a serious cautionary tale. It should be turned into a book for all gullible folks out there to make sure to read.. ![]() |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by Jeon(f): 3:43pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
He dreamt about his wife wanted to kill him. Kobojunkie: So he was also told that the wife sent the baby on a killing mission. If that's the case, he should enjoy the harvest. 7 Likes |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by Kobojunkie: 3:47pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
Jeon:After accusing his wife of being a witch, he also accused the baby ...1 and a half years old at the time ... of being a witch. Later on, he went to get them all back, but things haven't been the same as the damage has been done. He even had another baby since then, but no peace with him as the wife is there like a shadow in the marriage, according to him. I believe his dreams are a result of his subconscious dealing with him. ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by kkins25(m): 3:51pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
Handsomejok: You sent your wife away with the children? How was she going to raise them? gist us some more, what exactly did you do that drove her nuts, and what did you do in an attempt to reconcile? The dreams is your guilty conscience telling you "you f-ed up.." Let's be honest. Better have a talk with her, maybe split the responsibility of caring for the kids between you two. 1 Like |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by LalastiklaIa(m): 4:24pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
Gadafii: I think for the illusion of sex nothing more and social validation 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by ConfidentialDoc: 5:10pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
15,000 dollars is very benevolent of you. God bless u 2 Likes |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by Uyi168: 6:41pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
LadyG05:... the man don try. the woman should do the remaining.. 2 Likes |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by 1Sharon(f): 7:16pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
Your topic history is catastrophic. Is your daughter still a witch? Troll. 1 Like |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by Cowbell521: 7:24pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
Handsomejok:Didn't read your post but Congratulations bra. Marriage is death sentence for men. Is like bringing problems into your life |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by Resurgent2016: 7:00am On Nov 05, 2023 |
Handsomejok: It is inhumane to leave her at this point. With a 2 months old baby, she is probably not working and will struggle returning to the workforce without help. Stay with her till the kid is at least 1 years old. Also 15k is rubbish. Have you checked the cost of pampers and baby food? Lastly, take time to read about postpartum period. She needs all the support she can get and show her more love. Put your family first in any decision you make, that is true fatherhood. 5 Likes |
(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) ... (12) (Reply)
My Experience At A Traditional Marriage Ceremony Today. / Ochuko Uzere: Missing Person, Lost At Sea In Patani River And Its Environs / How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors?
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 59 |