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Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by Fiscus105(m): 11:56am On Nov 04, 2023 |
Flesh10: What's correlation of wedding with story u narrated? Hope u re not a toxic man oo? A man who will never shift his ground? Such a man will have problem in marriage, and his marriage failure has nothing to do with "wedding, his own personal behaviour cause marriage failure. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by Stevenbright(m): 11:57am On Nov 04, 2023 |
Realashbobby: For the fact that you still think about him shows that the reason for the divorce wasn't from him. So, I advise you take time to focus on yourself and child while working on yourself to ensure you build up characters if need be to ensure your next relationship works fine. |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by TheMostComplex1: 11:58am On Nov 04, 2023 |
Tzar: Lol this your mind set of a woman not finding another man of her choice because she has children is false & I guess you're from SE. My having something to do in SS has changed my views or opinions about man & woman matters. A woman with 4 children in SS can marry a brand new man of her choice. Please bro stop living in the past cos things have changed Just like someone shared how a neighbour in the SE was dating/ sleeping with his kinsmen wives & this led to a fight in his house between the two married women & not minding that their husbands might divorce each of them. Bro women are behaving like men so any man, any woman that was or is fortunate to marry a responsible spouse should love & cherish him or her, this's my candid advice. |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by Flesh10: 11:59am On Nov 04, 2023 |
Fiscus105: Shut up. If it was a court marriage they had that man dared not abandon her and the kids. You have brain but don't reason |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by Mase2020g(m): 12:09pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
If he has not been taken, message him |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by akaahs(m): 12:15pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
dealslip:Mtchwwww, we know ur type not be only 15 years, na 50 yrs. Bunch of manipulative species. 2 Likes |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by Livadesh: 12:16pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
Saccharne: In as much that you're very Correct with this your claim... I'll still resolve to the fact that: it'll be dumb of her if she can't find a true advise from the combination of all the advices from this different spheres of people |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by dealslip(f): 12:21pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
akaahs:No wonder your wife has stopped loving you. You believe everyone's life revolves around you. You find it strange people can be married for 15 years because you don't see your self in that place. |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by Omoawoke2(m): 12:23pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
Women always suffering psychological damage after divorce. As long as a man does not suffer financial impact, divorce is a huge freedom for men in the hands of toxic women 4 Likes |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by lendahand(m): 12:24pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:sure my wife abandoned me too and left for months now simply because I requested her submission and respect. You see any woman with a sharp mouth is doing herself more harm than good... 2 Likes |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by Omoawoke2(m): 12:24pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
Realashbobby: please tell us the truth, what did you do to him?? |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by lendahand(m): 12:25pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
Mysteriousworld:you deserve a chilled cocktail with Mexican pizza 1 Like |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by icedbreez(m): 12:27pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
Mysteriousworld: That's the Koko. Women never listen or at best always underestimate their husbands. 2 Likes |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by fx45(m): 12:31pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
Realashbobby:Tell us the whole story. Titbits won't cut it 1 Like |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by YourGFsnatcher: 12:39pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
Realashbobby: Let me be your toy, I can help you forget him |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by viodemus: 12:40pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
I don't have this experience, but I think the logical thing to do, if I was in that situation, will be to go through the motions now, - when I am by myself during this period, I will reminisce on the good and bad that my brain can muster, - i will cry if e reach like that, but I will quickly do a personal reinforcement. I will hone in on my plans, go with the daily motions. I will try not to remain a wreck - easier said than done - especially if your lifestyle is going to degrade financially and if he was a great assistance like helpful with things - say if he was the one that drove you everywhere; basically if outside of finance or sex, he did something(s) that you can do, but since he's not around now, it will extend your doing times. If so, adjust to that reality. Don't sob for too long. If your child gets too inquisitive, tell him/her what happened without bashing the other partner. Prepare your child or children of the upcoming adjustments. But don't stay in the helpless mode. Try to survive and live. Keep your mind sharp and not bogged down with worries. As of today, nobody go live reach 150. So, appreciate everyday. Is easy for me or anyone to say, but the aim is to be on that mindset track. It will bring you glow. That glow will open more doors for you. That clear mind will help you and others around you. Your husband/wife might get cold feet or see reality and come back better, if so, you reassess, and see if it will work for you. Am no expert or have the blueprint on how to navigate times like these, but am sure there are numerous ways you can muster courage, and face your reality. Goodluck |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by ozo13(m): 12:44pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
aswani:let me guess wrongly.the man sir Most women never learn.they allow friends to push them until she leaves the husband house and she there after face the reality when it's almost or already late 1 Like |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by Amumaigwe: 12:46pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
Exceed15: You dey mind those bitches. They get married and bring in feminist attitude and expect not to be served hot breakfast. Men now have very short fuse for nonsense from their disrespectful wives. No need to shout or hit them. After just two warnings, send her packing. 1 Like |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by Fiscus105(m): 12:49pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
Flesh10: If u married, i pity the woman in your house, .. ...."for she married one of beasts in man form. Such woman only leaving in bondage called marriage. Meanwhile, why should you even married with mindset that the marriage will not last. Anyway, I have diagnosed and also told you, ur problem in my last comment. Bye. 1 Like |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by kolexy(m): 12:53pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
Realashbobby: It is never going to be easy. You'll need to apply yourself more to your job/business. It is a positive distraction. |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by achimendy(m): 12:53pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
Realashbobby: Just give the full story without being bias so that every body can understand. Sometimes I feel for good women who got married to the wrong men. Only good women o. |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by aswani(m): 12:55pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
ozo13: You might not be wrong An aside to the story is one of these so called friends is also facing shege in her house but guess what, she is tolerating her own and going through reconciliation without telling her friends. 2 Likes |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by Gboy5050: 12:58pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
You need to move on my dear sister.. The lord is ur strenght contact me on 08037782248 if u like me let's move on start new life |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by Idaytesj29(m): 12:58pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
Realashbobby: Lucky you, my sister left a 10 years marriage with two kids. She never got 25k in all the 10 years of marriage. She was responsible for housing, in fact built one, feeding, school fees, homes running, husband parents Christmas gifts, all sort. On top, the man only eat fresh soup, he womanizes, and has no support to give, uses my sister car to carry his concubines, no support at home, not even financially now. He is also a wife beater. So, madam, not justifying that amount you are given monthly, but you are even luckier than some, even 100s of women out there. My friend said, the reason she left was the beating, it was too much and heavy infections. Guy man was literally a dog, patronize brothels sometimes. |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by Amumaigwe: 1:02pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
Newborn27: @bolded This is the reason why women will continue to crash their marriages with eyes wide open and run to SM to lament. "He wouldn't have left irrespective of what transpired amidst you" - including toxicity and infidelity? That means that you ladies really think that the metalware you exchanged with your men on wedding day performs the same role as a handcuff. Unfortunately, those men you wrongly thought were in chains under your captivity can now break loose even before you could wink. 2 Likes |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by nams77: 1:10pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
Realashbobby:Time heals everything. Be strong |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by Moniya4Real(m): 1:12pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
If you are spiritually sound enough. You should know by now that a woman that leaves you wouldn’t want for you to make it after she has left you. You need to be prayerful and work hard and smart Nisland: 1 Like |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by finallybusy: 1:19pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:“Life Is Short. Make Sure You Spend As Much Time As Possible on the Internet Arguing with Strangers.” |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by Amumaigwe: 1:21pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
dealslip: What did you do to stem the descent? You were just watching the descent and now turn around to complain. |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by Amumaigwe: 1:25pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
dealslip: You are right. That's why house girls now snatch madam's husband and elevate their status to wife, while reducing their madams' status to mere side chick. 2 Likes |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by Idaytesj29(m): 1:27pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
dealslip: Another future divorcee. If you don't give him enough sex, you don't cook for him, you don't wash his cloth- occasionally, you don't off his jacket or do those little loving things or even put warm or cold water in the bathroom for him to freshen up, after a days job, WHAT HOLD or BOND DO YOU HAVE ON HIM? The marriage certificate? That paper? You said he doesn't need a wife but house girl, but you expect him to solve all financial problem, may be women also don't need a man or husband, they just need a bank. 7 Likes |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by Charly68: 1:32pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
Keep praying to see if God will bring back your husbdand because from the look of things you now.appreciate him after he left and felt pained because he care-less about you . The day a woman knows she got what it takes to conquer her husbdand, that will mark the end of trouble in her home . If all you believe is what a man can do ,a woman can do better then there can't be peace at the home front. - Never say never, allow your emotional wound to be healed before contemplating any relationship. In any case,if he refuses to look for you ,try to let him know his child is missing him.. He must be there for the little baby and from there God will take total control .. When things become normal again,come back and give.us your testimony on this page . Good luck 3 Likes 1 Share |
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