Luckysbab:


So someone will be mumu enough to think the woman he allegedly beats will forgo everything and invite him to keep beating her in the UK?

You're dull, no apologies.

Nazgul:
The man is very foolish. How can you be brutalizing your wife and not expect any kind of reaction from her? Like you beat her every now and then, and you're planning to relocate to a country where the rights of women are seriously protected by the law, and your relocation doesn't give you goosebumps?

Even Joseph in the Bible whom his brother's sold into slavery, when they discovered that he was now a powerful ruler and invited them to Egypt, they still met him secretly and pleaded with him that their father's dying wish was for him to forgive them. They knew what they did to him, and quickly apologized so that if he nursed any plans to deal with them, he'll abort immediately.

This is what this man should have done man if he was wise, he should have called his wife privately and beg her for forgiveness before she travelled, if possible kneel down sef. Let her use her mouth and tell him that she has forgiven him. Cos when you treat people badly, and the tables change, don't expect them to overlook what you did to them.

Besides, I don't even know how some men feel beating up a woman who can't fight back. Like you'd just keep punching and punching her, until you're tired or she collapses? That's horrible.

Anyways he has until January to find something doing, if he has skills, he might get something. Once he's back on his feet, he and his wife can iron things out.

viodemus:
■ The guy can sue her, and have her share custody of the kids.
■ If she think say dem go deport am and leave her, she lie. UK will gladly rescind her kpai and send all of them back, afterall, them no dun collect processing money. As Nigeria dey thief them, they them dey clear Nigeria too, from everywhere.

Nice2023:




If u treat ur wife and children well,u will see the woman loving u like mad. The man na mumu.

He was lured and he truly fell for it.

He doesn't treat his wife well and he wants to live abroad.

That man na animal.

1Sharon:
Some men are anti-japa so they can have the freedom to beat their wives.

To add insult to injury, I'm certain he was beating his wife in front of the kids.

Nazgul:
The man is very foolish. How can you be brutalizing your wife and not expect any kind of reaction from her? Like you beat her every now and then, and you're planning to relocate to a country where the rights of women are seriously protected by the law, and your relocation doesn't give you goosebumps?

Even Joseph in the Bible whom his brother's sold into slavery, when they discovered that he was now a powerful ruler and invited them to Egypt, they still met him secretly and pleaded with him that their father's dying wish was for him to forgive them. They knew what they did to him, and quickly apologized so that if he nursed any plans to deal with them, he'll abort immediately.

This is what this man should have done man if he was wise, he should have called his wife privately and beg her for forgiveness before she travelled, if possible kneel down sef. Let her use her mouth and tell him that she has forgiven him. Cos when you treat people badly, and the tables change, don't expect them to overlook what you did to them.

Besides, I don't even know how some men feel beating up a woman who can't fight back. Like you'd just keep punching and punching her, until you're tired or she collapses? That's horrible.

Anyways he has until January to find something doing, if he has skills, he might get something. Once he's back on his feet, he and his wife can iron things out.

ahnie:
E be like say you dey craze abii ...I think your UseleSS sisters would relate perfectly with the situation.
Anu-pama,I HAVE BN NOTICING YOUR STUPIDITY FOR QUITE SOME TIME NOW.


Fvckterd now you have my attention. Any derogatory word you use on me,I would return the energy back to your mother and fuu-lish sisters.

Be like you want make Ogun kill like the gutter rat you're this afternoon.

viodemus:
The guy can sue her, and have her share custody of the kids.


If she think say dem go deport am and leave her, she lie. UK will gladly rescind her kpali and send all of them back, afterall, them no dun collect processing money and years of tax money. As Nigeria dey thief them, they them dey clear Nigeria too, from every avenue possible. from the top leader to the common man. U think say you wise, no be only them, any country with leverage, dey clear Nigeria without pity, and Nigeria get willing thieves wey go cooperate with them.

Sue who? On what ground?

Send who packing

Abeg i no wan talk

Kobojunkie:
1. Sue her how?

2. The UK already gave the man until January 2024 to find his roots or be deported. You don't seem to know how the UK works at all but you publicly beat your chest in ignorance, why?

Luckysbab:


So he enslaved her and somehow still allowed her to japa to the UK?!


How brilliant!

Kukutente23:
And you're sure he treated her badly because you were there abi You conveniently forgot the part of he sold all he had for her to travel. If she hated him that much, why didn't she divorce him before leaving Nigeria so she can go with her kids?

DKM123:
Ofcourse I knew it was more than meet the eye. Nigerian women wey like marriage pass food.... Suffering and smiling marriages and Naija women are a match made in heaven.

No Nigerian married woman married to a good man (I am using good loosely here cos some Nigerian women call thier toxic cheating husband's good) will dump him for no concrete reason. Talkless of doing so in a country where the earning of two adults will help the family to navigate the new territory.

She must have seen shege banza before she made that decision.

Jeon:
[b]Men are very stupid. [/b]They think the bad seeds which they planted can never be harvested.

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But why are they so quick to cry and playing the victim if the Woman is no longer interested ?. And all the other fools will be blaming /insulting the woman without knowing the past events in the Marriage.

Luckysbab:


I no be gutter person like you.

Make e pain you die; I no go engage your nonsense.

viodemus:
■ I will implicate her, she was aiding and abetting me. She wants to kidnap our kids. Just dey messy with the system with her. I don't support such actions, but am saying the guy can be petty, and with a kind fair lawyer, they can mess her reputation like she want to do to him. I must admit, I don't know their specific issue history, but I kinda have a fair knowledge of UK laws, not like I know America or Brazil tho.

Chioma1989:
I knew the man must be the guilty party. We have a family member that the husband was using as a punching bag. Someone sold the idea of japa to him which he happily bought. The wife was meant to travel and study in Amsterdam, Holland.

The wife travelled, finished her studies and luckily joined an NGO organisation in the Hague. She did exactly what this nigerian lady did and invited the husband and the kids. Just after four days stay in Holland, she and her organisation filed papers for the husband "s deportation to Nigeria. Her evidence was water tight and the man was sent packing back to Nigeria.

It has been seven years now and the lady is still with the kids who are all grown. The last child was 8 when they were brought to Holland in 2015. That was before the general elections. I remembered vividly how the gist spread within our family.

Kobojunkie:
How many women in Nigeria to this day divorce their husbands even when treated less than humans by them in marriage? Even your grandmothers and so on who were abandoned in marriage, how many of them got a divorce at the end of the day?

ahnie:
Imbe.cile don drop quote with saliva d.rooling from his mouth
I m glad you got the message,going forward if you ever cap nonsense I go drag your useless mother who did a shoddy job raising you.

Now run along you vermin!