Fearyourcreator:

Many of you deserve make the carry cane dey flog una wella...

engrchykae:
be careful with women, don't love them with your heart,love with your head
Demonic woman,she claims the man brutalizes her but the man helped her to better her life only to be rewarded with international disgrace and embarrassment.
All men should learn.
Remain financially strong and never slip.
A wife will remind you how you denied her ice cream after 70 years of marriage.

NOwazobia:
If this is true, then I can't help but support the wife decision.


I fit kill any man wey go dey beat my sister as if na him punch bag.


I almost did it once for someone else's sister when my uncle was involved.

Angelfrost:
I don't know the full story, but there can be no smoke without fire.

For a woman to take such a drastic action or hatch such a move, she has certainly left the marriage a long time ago.

There are a lot of marriages in Nigeria today being held by pretense and limited options on the part of either couple, more often than not the women.

That's why they never hesitate to break free once they enter nations that allow women exhale!

Fiscus105:
What the girl did now worse . Which means,she herself, if she is stronger than the husband she would be beating the husband in Nigeria.


Atimes, I dnt blame some guys that are dealing with women mercilessly.

On many occasions, they only respect and loving guy/husband because of what they stand to gain and not real love.


Girls will ask u to come her side, in which after stressing and wasting time and money to see her, she would just off phone or telling u she is not available,but if it's other way round ,just 5 minutes of not coming out, she would be angry and complaining

emnite:
Wahala dey oooh when women want to pay back even the devil sits down and take notes of events e nor dey ever end well. I don't hit women cause hmmmm e nor good maka paybacks

Luckysbab:


If the reverse was the case, I'm sure you will talk down on the man. There's a name for that "women can do no wrong" syndrome.

He "enslaved and brutalized" her but somehow still allowed her to japa to a brighter future abi?

It's a good Nollywood script, I admit.

ahnie:
I said it in the other thread...women don't just dump their husbands like that.

We masked our feelings n hatred alot and always wait for the right time to strike, underestimate a woman at your own peril.


Immediately I read the topic,I already knew our bobo was a toxic
Person who must have dealt massively with his wife...some naija men and toxicity.

When you start hitting on your wife she channels all atom of love she has for you to the kids and that ends it all,she may be giving you her body,and patiently waiting for you to slip then she strikes.

If it were me....I would do same to him no hard feelings.

Luckysbab:


If the reverse was the case, I'm sure you will talk down on the man. There's a name for that "women can do no wrong" syndrome.

He "enslaved and brutalized" her but somehow still allowed her to japa to a brighter future abi?

It's a good Nollywood script, I admit.

ahnie:
E be like say you dey craze abii ...I think your UseleSS sisters would relate perfectly with the situation.
Anu-pama,I HAVE BN NOTICING YOUR STUPIDITY FOR QUITE SOME TIME NOW.


Fvckterd now you have my attention. Any derogatory word you use on me,I would return the energy back to your mother and fuu-lish sisters.

Be like you want make Ogun kill you like the gutter rat you're this afternoon.

NOwazobia:
If this is true, then I can't help but support the wife decision.


I fit kill any man wey go dey beat my sister as if na him punch bag.


I almost did it once for someone else's sister when my uncle was involved.

loswhite:
Evil species always lie to themselves. They will provide a justification of their evil acts. It is only fool that will underate a manipulative species. Approach a woman and she starts manipulating you immediately by telling you hope you will not hurt me....lol. The foolish man will promise heaven and earth thinking he is the only one capable of hurting the woman....lol. He is drop his guard trying to fulfill promise of not hurting her and forget to protect himself...lol. They will strike you and still blame you ..lol.

blacksam01:


its a very big lie...wen dont live their husbands in naija..they love only the kids...does it mean man and wife cant have a fight again without the wofe terming it beat me beat me, brutalized me brutalized me...abeg mk una park well,the woman is a Jezebel

ahnie:
More reasons why you should take at least 23 hours a day to fear women.

Luckysbab:


So he enslaved her and somehow still allowed her to japa to the UK?!


How brilliant!

Salowise:
■ From what i read, the man is wrong but the lady went too far. What if he doesn't have anything to fall back to when he's deported, he may never have the chance to meet his children again.
■ At least welcome him, tell him you don't want to continue with the marriage anymore, give him time to get a job and move to another apartment, allow him access to his children anytime he wants, they can also coparent their children and also tell him about the law if he's not ok with it.

NOwazobia:
If this is true, then I can't help but support the wife decision.


I fit kill any man wey go dey beat my sister as if na him punch bag.


I almost did it once for someone else's sister when my uncle was involved.

luminouz:

You fall my hand!!! So all the naija women that divorced their husbands did so because the husbands were wifebeaters?

I can give you 10 instances this year alone of men who cherished their wives and were dumped after getting to the UK

Kukutente23:

And you're sure he treated her badly because you were there abi
You conveniently forgot the part of he sold all he had for her to travel.
If she hated him that much, why didn't she divorce him before leaving Nigeria so she can go with her kids?

43Ronin:
■ while the woman maybe right the decision was laced with emotions & not properly thought out. how is she going to combine schooling, working and taking care of 3 children? in London for that matter. worse still she divorced the man so there's no hope of financial assistance from him since he would be supposedly in naija. men.. she will regret this decision. knowing fully well that UK law favors her, she would have used the man to balance hustle and bring funds for upkeep. she will definitely suffer for a long time. chaiiii....

ahnie:
I said it on the other thread...women don't just dump their husbands like that,she must have endured his toxicity for years.

We masked our feelings n hatred alot and always wait for the right time to strike, underestimate a woman at your own peril.


Immediately I read the topic,I already knew our bobo was a toxic
Person who must have dealt massively with his wife...some naija men and toxicity.

When you start hitting on your wife she channels all atom of love she has for you to the kids and that ends it all,she may be giving you her body,and patiently waiting for you to slip then she strikes.

If it were me....I would do same to him no hard feelings.

Kukutente23:

God bless you jare

I'm not even standing up for the guy but to support what she's doing is total bullocks. That's fraud!! And she's doing it because she knows she's in a society that is on her side.

Kobojunkie:
How many women in Nigeria to this day divorce their husbands even when treated less than humans by them in marriage? Even your grandmothers and so on who were abandoned in marriage, how many of them got a divorce at the end of the day?

Angelfrost:


Bro... Look at the evidence up there. I didn't fabricate them.

Mind you, I didn't even make any comments when the man's side of the gist came out. I simply waited for the full gist.

Las las, none of us will ever know everything... But, for the woman to take her kids and abandon the man like that at the airport, there is definitely bad blood somewhere.

Make you reason am.

NwaNimo1:
Two wrongs = Right?

luminouz:
You have a point but I thought the man sponsored the wife to the UK with his money?

Chioma1989:
I knew the man must be the guilty party. We have a family member that the husband was using as a punching bag. Someone sold the idea of japa to him, which he happily bought. The wife was prepared to travel to study in Amsterdam, Holland, which the man fully sponsored.

The wife travelled, finished her studies and luckily, joined an NGO organisation in the Hague. She did exactly what this Nigerian lady did to her husband and invited the husband and the kids. Just after four days stay in Holland, she and her organisation filed papers for the husband "s deportation to Nigeria becauseof previous unresolved domesticviolence. Her evidence was water-tight and the man was sent packing back to Nigeria.

It has been seven years now and the lady is still with the kids who are all grown. The last child was 8 then when they were brought to Holland in 2015. That was before the general elections. I remembered vividly how the gist spread within our family. Luckily, the man is still doing well in Nigeria, doing his business at Amuwo Odofin area of Lagos. I am surprised that he didn't remarry after that incidence. He is still living his normal life, attending our town's meetings. My husband regularly sees him in the meeting.