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Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by Addme: 12:41pm On Nov 05, 2023 |
I remember your earlier threads. If your marriage isn't working and you have tried all you could do but still the same, I think you have made the best decision. Don't force what's not possible. |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by kenchop: 12:41pm On Nov 05, 2023 |
ITS OKAY TO END A MARRIAGE, BUT 15K UP KEEP EVERY MONTH IS ABSURD, GOING BY THE CURRENT ECONOMIC SITUATION IN NIGERIA. BROS A WOMAN AND CHILD 15K MONTH IS PURE EVIL ABEG. NO TALK AM AGAIN. DONT PUNISH THE KIDS COS OF THEIR MOTHER. |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by Edusouls(m): 12:42pm On Nov 05, 2023 |
Ginaz:shut up he did the right thing |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by azpekuliar: 12:42pm On Nov 05, 2023 |
Handsomejok: Even you fit survive on N15k a month? Irresponsible man 2 Likes |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by Risingsunn: 12:43pm On Nov 05, 2023 |
It's better to divorce and be alive than to stay in the marriage and lose your life. But the upkeep money, pls have mercy and increase it. |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by Lexusgs430: 12:43pm On Nov 05, 2023 |
Handsomejok: Marriage is NEVER by FORCE OR FIRE ........ Let's assume you have 2 children, β¦15,000 per month, would only feed them for 15 days, assuming each child spends β¦7500 each ....... You forget to factor in school fees, clothes, medical cost, books, snacks, uniforms, extra lessons, housing etc etc ...... You never start o...... π To born pickin no be joke ......ππ |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by LockDown69(m): 12:43pm On Nov 05, 2023 |
Skyview01:15 likes |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by WHITELIGHTER: 12:44pm On Nov 05, 2023 |
One paragraph is never enough to talk about a failed marriage. So I'll pass on this 1 Like |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by hobat4cash(m): 12:44pm On Nov 05, 2023 |
Zooposki:Inasmuch as the man messed up in his marriage but I think you are going too far. That is why people should learn to have the number of children they can comfortably take care of. This man from his posts is not sound financially, heck he even lives in his store according to him. 15k is far from ideal, that is why he must be advised to redouble his efforts to give his kids reasonable lives. If e no dey e no dey, unless he has to do illegal or immoral things to cover up. |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by Zooposki(f): 12:45pm On Nov 05, 2023 |
hobat4cash: So the children should die from hunger cos if e no dey e no dey? Can you hear yourself? |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by Olumaeme: 12:46pm On Nov 05, 2023 |
Edusouls: You are obviously an irresponsible person and I pray you don't birth children. You want children to fend for themselves? 1 Like |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by wrongnumber: 12:46pm On Nov 05, 2023 |
Handsomejok: Your choice, your life. I have been there and done that and I can tell you that no matter how many times you choose a new woman, be prepared to face her demons. They all have demons manifesting in different ways so just confront your demon and cope. 3 Likes |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by 4everyoungpresh(f): 12:47pm On Nov 05, 2023 |
15k...oga you try. At least you still plan to de send them cash monthly. The one I'm in with 3 children,1k sef him nor de seed...feeding, accomodation,health care, utility,name them,even tuition and books everything on me. This oga sef still try ππ 4 Likes |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by onadana: 12:47pm On Nov 05, 2023 |
Handsomejok: All this made up stories for topics on nairaland.Very annoying. |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by Blaze14k: 12:48pm On Nov 05, 2023 |
Handsomejok: This is a case of money issues. The woman is clearly not happy with the marriage cos you are not providing enough. I think you should put more effort to earn more money and build your family. The decision is not a right one. Discuss with your wife and let her know u will work better to make the marriage progress. |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by shedy03(m): 12:48pm On Nov 05, 2023 |
Handsomejok:15K monthly is poor, and your childrens school fees and clothing must remain your responsibility. |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by Okiton: 12:48pm On Nov 05, 2023 |
Handsomejok: See where poverty have landed you 15k for upkeep of ur children and you are proud to come on social media to announce it. Chai I don die I think the poor woman deserve better 1 Like |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by Omoapena(m): 12:48pm On Nov 05, 2023 |
15k every month with kids, you're the most wicked person on earth... 1 Like |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by Britishpea: 12:49pm On Nov 05, 2023 |
Oga why are you running. 1 Like |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by atilla(m): 12:50pm On Nov 05, 2023 |
Handsomejok: I think uve made the best decision. However I dont blame your wife after going through the stories on your profile. I wish you the best continue to take care of them as much as you can and God will reward you with a successful business. When you start making a lot of money dont forget them |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by udemzyudex(m): 12:51pm On Nov 05, 2023 |
This attention seeker again. |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by DarkJeddi(m): 12:51pm On Nov 05, 2023 |
being:The same devil that ended many of your Pastor's marriages and Una no fit do anything about it? Ogbeni,park well.. 1 Like |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by Exceed15: 12:51pm On Nov 05, 2023 |
You mentioned something that caught my attention: For your sanity and that's very key. It's better u do the needful now than to commit murder one day when it gets unbearable . Women can frustrate one until you loose your mind or develop Hbp. Obviously she's not denying u access to the kids. Please increase the monthly upkeep. Times are hard now. Wishing u all best. 1 Like |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by GboyegaD(m): 12:54pm On Nov 05, 2023 |
Gadafii: 1. He enjoys been responsible (the choice he opted for the day he decided to get married). 2. He enjoys the privilege of providing the lead/direction for his household. 3. He enjoys the privilege of been the spiritual head of a home. 4. He enjoys the opportunity of been a mentor. 5. He enjoys the grace of God. I chose to add more: 6. Your life will be more organized. 7. Companionship. 2 Likes |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by wanimo: 12:54pm On Nov 05, 2023 |
Handsomejok:N15k monthly upkeep for she and your children? You are a very wicked man. It's obvious that you were the problem with your marriage 1 Like |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by Faposky95: 12:55pm On Nov 05, 2023 |
You see how the man is the prisoner.....?! We have so changed things that we are now so confused..... It's a life of cycles, so it's not evil if he will take care of them while alive. It's better than the kids see a painting of mum being unhappy thinking it was always dad's fault. It's unfortunate on the kids but life goes on The marriage is fruitful with kids...... Let the adults play their game and let the children live their dream. Kids are dying in the Gaza as we speak 1 Like |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by Roozzaay(m): 12:55pm On Nov 05, 2023 |
Handsomejok:So you took her in again after she had tried somewhere else and didn't work out abi where did that stepdaughter came from? Some of you deserved what you are going through |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by royalfly(m): 12:55pm On Nov 05, 2023 |
Handsomejok: Men are suffering believe me, this times are different. If men tell you what they go through at home you will think it's fiction. We have more men suffering in families than women now. God heal us all. |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by tsdarkside(m): 12:57pm On Nov 05, 2023 |
dreams.... are you stvpid....?? na you dont want no more,stop lyin here.... |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by OkukoIgbo: 12:58pm On Nov 05, 2023 |
LadyG05: Taaaaa! You are using sentiments here, because na woman en touch. So she no know she go suffer she go misbehave. You didn't even ask why will a man leave his home, this is where you based your judgement, let the help come to her, highest na prostitution she go start noting else. |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by MrPresident1: 12:59pm On Nov 05, 2023 |
Why is it that Nairaland never places stories of successful marriages on FP? We never get stories of successful courtships, weddings, marriages etc., the only stories that reach FP are gloomy depressing stories of divorces and infidelity, why is this so? Have you seen any story of a successful marriage on NL anytime in the recent past? |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by spencekat(m): 1:00pm On Nov 05, 2023 |
OSDD:Thank you bro |
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