Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / NewStats: 3,201,874 members, 7,980,054 topics. Date: Sunday, 20 October 2024 at 01:57 AM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Family / I Had Put An End To My Marriage (39539 Views)
The Year Is Gradually Coming To An End. What Is Your Achievement? / My Marriage Is At The Brink Of Collapse Help Me / My Marriage Has Finally Ended (2) (3) (4)
(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) ... (12) (Reply) (Go Down)
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by Offpointng: 1:29pm On Nov 05, 2023 |
swaqq: |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by Yorubafonja: 1:29pm On Nov 05, 2023 |
slimjohn2k5:U can add to it, request for his children account Not everyone is rich like u 1 Like |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by smasher1(m): 1:31pm On Nov 05, 2023 |
Stevenbright: That 15k can't take care of food for three children only excluding the wife for a week not to talk of a month! |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by Nlanalyst: 1:31pm On Nov 05, 2023 |
ahnie:Now switch to your other moniker and continue the trolling. P.I.G. |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by smasher1(m): 1:32pm On Nov 05, 2023 |
kevwemike: Better than that miserly amount he is mentioning. |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by eldoradoxx: 1:33pm On Nov 05, 2023 |
You made the right decision, except that 15k is not enough to feed a child for one week let alone feed "children" and their mum for one month. |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by OSDD(m): 1:33pm On Nov 05, 2023 |
spencekat: It's bullsheet when they try to shift the whole welfare of the children to the man. The mother is alive and I see no reason why she should not contribute her own too(since the kids are with her), but no! The man should work all round the clock and drop money while the mother can live fat on it. 3 Likes |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by NwaliE01: 1:33pm On Nov 05, 2023 |
Handsomejok:15k every month or every week? Even every week is almost nothing compare to the situation at home. |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by Morbeta11(m): 1:33pm On Nov 05, 2023 |
being: Hey man.....leave religion out of failed marriage, you will be the first to blame them should they eventually kill themselves. I thought you would have adviced him to increase the 15k upkeep for his children and not sermon that will amount to nothing. If you feel your marriage is not working, leave it and move on, instead of ending up in the grave or prison. The devil in failed marriages is uncontrolled temper and ego. |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by ahnie: 1:34pm On Nov 05, 2023 |
Take the floor... Ventriloquist arse licker.. Nlanalyst:Mugu...oya entertain us. Lolxx We go gather slap you for diary section. Stupid small boy. Take the floor! |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by nizelgirl(f): 1:35pm On Nov 05, 2023 |
I wanted to contribute but when I say 15k monthly I'm just speechless. Op are you sure you are not the problem in your marriage? 1 Like |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by Offpointng: 1:35pm On Nov 05, 2023 |
kevwemike: How did you pull this without a fight |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by OSDD(m): 1:36pm On Nov 05, 2023 |
smasher1: Is the wife Lame?? Can't she also raise 15k? The man is literally taking over a huge part of the bills(rent,school and light bill). The wife/mother should be able to pull her own part too. Let her bring her own 15k too and support the family. The kids belong to the both of them, not the man alone |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by Kevineleven(m): 1:36pm On Nov 05, 2023 |
15k monthly OP is clearly not able to provide for his family, and the wife is giving him hell, because he couldn't pay school fees, house rent and feeding. He has chosen the path of a coward to escape his responsibility. Thank God he didn't choose suicide, op work harder and see if you can increase the money you send to your family. Seems your wife is earning more than you, that should be a challenge . 1 Like |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by bdrefessy: 1:36pm On Nov 05, 2023 |
I saw whr you wrote a stepdaughter,it means she have a child for someone else before you marry her or my eye Is paining me ? Bros you don fxck up na ..... What bring you go marry such a person? |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by Richpet85: 1:37pm On Nov 05, 2023 |
If you are truthful about your write up and sure u were not the cause of your marital challenges. I am indeed very sorry for you, this age marriages are facing very huge temptations and Satan is always very happy when marriages break and children divorced of marriages are littered every where without proper guidance and direction. If you can be a bit patient and don't leave your house for any woman or abandon your kids because of one irresponsible wife or husband, trust you understand why I added husband in my statement. For the sake of ur kids, just find a way to be happy and engage in some activities that will give you joy. Ignore her ill behaviour and try to be a man and father for your kids. I ve been in your shone for over ten years but I can tell you today I am happy I stayed and in my next wife I will wish to marry my wife. She is just a beautiful soul. I ve overgrown her shortcomings but always see her strength and those area she is a wonderful and virtuous woman. If you tarry with hope, faith and submission to the will of God who hates divorce. I promise you, you will leave to testify. Thanks |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by ottersberger(m): 1:40pm On Nov 05, 2023 |
OSDD: I laughed out loud when someone up there called women "assistant devils" . Look, the problem in our society is illiteracy and too many illiterates calling themselves pastors. OP entered into a marriage where his wife already had a child. And they made another child, all good and fine. A third came about 2 months ago. That makes 3 children. 3, because you cannot discriminate against the child she brought into the marriage. Ordinarily, both parties should know from an assessment of their combined income that they cannot afford to raise 3 children until their financial situation improves. Illiteracy does not allow for critical thinking, and your pastors cloud your minds with messages of hope and renewal, thus depriving people of a rendezvous with the realities of their existence. Many of our women still see marriage as an escape into laziness. They have forgotten that they are young and married to an ordinary, struggling man, and are therefore reasonably expected to be part of their family's support structure. Our grandmothers did not feel so entitled and docile. The reason our parents were raised in mostly intact households. |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by nedman77: 1:40pm On Nov 05, 2023 |
15K for gala? abi agbado? in this Tinubu regime? are you mad? 1 Like |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by OSDD(m): 1:41pm On Nov 05, 2023 |
bdrefessy: Love don choke am na.... everything don clear, and to even think he'll be providing for the step daughter too(paying her school fees,rent and even sending 5k for her feeding) He don shoulder responsibility wey pass e own 1 Like |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by 43Ronin: 1:43pm On Nov 05, 2023 |
Handsomejok:if you are paying house rent, school fees for your own children then 15k is not bad at all. weldine boss... stay strong 1 Like |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by Isobug: 1:44pm On Nov 05, 2023 |
Handsomejok:Yes, nice decision on your part, that's if you are also not guilty of the same character she exhibit. We only heard from you alone. But I taught I heard Children? Do you think 15k will do anything in a month for one child let alone children? 15k is way too small. You should be talking of 40k to 100k in a month, and what about their School fees? You think separation is easy? |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by deltateam: 1:45pm On Nov 05, 2023 |
Skyview01: Is it for eba, ewa or agbado? Anyway showing responsibility is better than none. The children education is not part of it. Won't they go to school? What of health care? Op didn't even say the change he's asking for. Even Buhari no gree give Nigerians change. |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by 43Ronin: 1:45pm On Nov 05, 2023 |
nedman77:he is paying their school fees, house rent and light bills 100% 15k is ok. 1 Like |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by OSDD(m): 1:45pm On Nov 05, 2023 |
ottersberger: I'm even surprised at those commenting that the 15k is too small, considering the fact that the man has said he will foot every other bills. No one is even saying anything about the mother working or doing something to help the family. Assistant devil is an understatement, more like devil's successor. Oh well, there are soo many things wrong with an average Nigerian; illiteracy and religion are ontop of that list |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by Trumpdonald5: 1:46pm On Nov 05, 2023 |
Skyview01:Good question. 15k that cannot comfortably take a single person for a week. |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by nedekid: 1:46pm On Nov 05, 2023 |
Skyview01:For cassava, garri, ewa and dodooo.. |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by Singhabele: 1:46pm On Nov 05, 2023 |
The most important thing is that he is Tired of marriage.And he made right decision to move on. The only problem is 15k bfida increase it to 40k so u know they will leave well or better still u give her 15k and buy food 4 hus and pay fees and enjoy while u check on them. Never force tired people to remain in marriage or you may see that poison or brutally in action.. |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by OSDD(m): 1:47pm On Nov 05, 2023 |
Isobug: You clearly didn't read the ops post well and his subsequent replies, he'll be paying the house rent, school fees(even for his step daughter) and light bill. Hasn't he done enough?... |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by sonofsteven: 1:48pm On Nov 05, 2023 |
LadyG05: Did you ask how much is his salary or profits in a month? Abi you feel you should just comment to sound relevant? |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by Gainman: 1:49pm On Nov 05, 2023 |
slimjohn2k5:u be mumu is like u never marry or if u are a female, u will end up like his wife. If he have more than that he will give. See as u dey talk as if nah dat e easy. I don't think there is normal man dat doesn't like taking care of his family if money dey. U are not a man that is y u are being stupid in your judgment. Nah people like u dey push man to go rob. So that when he got killed u will inherit his property alone. Werey |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by Isobug: 1:51pm On Nov 05, 2023 |
OSDD:Alright |
Re: I Had Put An End To My Marriage by OSDD(m): 1:53pm On Nov 05, 2023 |
sonofsteven: To even think she didn't even say anything about the mother doing something to help the man.. Fgs, he'll be paying all bills na, dem wan kill the man quickly |
(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) ... (12) (Reply)
My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids / Mexican Mum Horrified, Spotting Ghostly Figure Pushing Daughter Down Slide(Pix) / The Biological Mother of President Goodluck Jonathan's Children
Viewing this topic: 3 guest(s)
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 69 |