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Re: Should I Divorce Or Remain Subjected To This Punishment For My Infidelity? by saysoo: 3:20pm On Nov 06, 2023 |
Kcgeology:No, the husband is really ashamed of what his people will say about him not being a man. |
Re: Should I Divorce Or Remain Subjected To This Punishment For My Infidelity? by chidiokay: 3:24pm On Nov 06, 2023 |
Fountainofyouth: Is it only opinion, are people not entitle to there choices, if i want to quote i will if you don't like it keep your opinion to yourself. if you can't take correction don't ever tell me what to do again. roger that |
Re: Should I Divorce Or Remain Subjected To This Punishment For My Infidelity? by Jewessgratitud3: 3:24pm On Nov 06, 2023 |
fotadmowmend: See them... It's people like you that have normalized adultery to the point you no longer see anything wrong in it. If you have a tradition and understand the gravity of what she has done, you won't be here saying rubbish. A place where they have very strong traditions ruling marriage, what she did can bring death to the whole family. Her husband and , children will all be wiped out but thank God the man found out and didn't touch her again. Keep supporting evil until it comes knocking at your door. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Should I Divorce Or Remain Subjected To This Punishment For My Infidelity? by kkins25(m): 3:24pm On Nov 06, 2023 |
Do you guys use Nairaland to test your cheap nollywood scripts?" ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Should I Divorce Or Remain Subjected To This Punishment For My Infidelity? by SAMBARRY: 3:24pm On Nov 06, 2023 |
Roozzaay:there's nobody that can survive for long without his mother.it will definitely break you.strong man no reach when you loose your mother o.look at how Davido broke down when he lost his Mom,look at how Wizkid broke down,even Kanye West.there are somethings that are irreplaceable in a child's life no matter how old you are,it's called mother.you can marry another wife but you cannot use me or my mother to do your mother.mothers are only one |
Re: Should I Divorce Or Remain Subjected To This Punishment For My Infidelity? by Munzy14(m): 3:26pm On Nov 06, 2023 |
No man forgives a cheating wife...Even she is feeding him.. ![]() |
Re: Should I Divorce Or Remain Subjected To This Punishment For My Infidelity? by Bonebreaker233: 3:30pm On Nov 06, 2023 |
there is no cause for pity madam. how insane can u be to bring a man into your matrimonial home? how would you explain this to your children even if your husband chooses to forgive you? |
Re: Should I Divorce Or Remain Subjected To This Punishment For My Infidelity? by Mhizzard(m): 3:30pm On Nov 06, 2023 |
hobat4cash:you think so??the children knew about it |
Re: Should I Divorce Or Remain Subjected To This Punishment For My Infidelity? by omoadeleye(m): 3:33pm On Nov 06, 2023 |
Jewessgratitud3: Omo, you are very worst oo. To the point that your children caught you in the act. Your hubby is being lenient sha, he should have thrown your ass out. If you are not going to be faithful at least go outside and do your rubbish. Damn you |
Re: Should I Divorce Or Remain Subjected To This Punishment For My Infidelity? by RealEmilokan: 3:37pm On Nov 06, 2023 |
Forgive yourself. Seek God's forgiveness earnestly, and hang in there seeking your husband and kids' pardon. They day you give up on them is the day you really mess things up. Do things to show them how broken and sorry you are. Also pray about God touching their hearts, it works. As for your parent, it will pass when you can win your own family back. |
Re: Should I Divorce Or Remain Subjected To This Punishment For My Infidelity? by Kobojunkie: 3:40pm On Nov 06, 2023 |
Jewessgratitud3:Are you kidding? Your TRADITIONS are what normalized adultery in Nigeria by suggesting the man is to be allowed to roam and the woman be all forgiving. ![]() You seem to have this delusional notion that a man cheating on his wife is a lesser blight on marriage than a woman doing the same. Why? ![]() 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Should I Divorce Or Remain Subjected To This Punishment For My Infidelity? by Jewessgratitud3: 3:42pm On Nov 06, 2023 |
darealez: Born again means to be gentle as a dove and wise as a serpent. Wisdom is needed here. She can be forgiven but no longer be his wife. On the grounds of adultery, divorce is allowed in my Bible. So let her get the hell out!!! |
Re: Should I Divorce Or Remain Subjected To This Punishment For My Infidelity? by Kobojunkie: 3:44pm On Nov 06, 2023 |
Jewessgratitud3:That is what you think it means to be born-again? ![]() By the way, have you also given this same ultimatum to every man you know of who has ever cheated on his wife? ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Should I Divorce Or Remain Subjected To This Punishment For My Infidelity? by shopwiser: 3:45pm On Nov 06, 2023 |
Jewessgratitud3:The fact he didnt tell his family shows he still respect you because he knows what to do to dissolve the family. I feel him and the kids converse and they still need their mother around cos i see no reason why he hasnt kicked you out of the home. Also if he tell his parents, trust me they will make him marry another woman immediately and let you cheat to your fill, abi na wetin you want cos you didnt even consider your kids when doing it. I do not know what to advise you but you have to seek their forgiveness everyday. Your Husband may forgive but will your kids do, especially if they also caught you in the act with their own very eyes. Your husband is a very calm guy, if it was me, straight divorce. I hate cheaters with everything in me. That what brings about insecurities, your husband may eventually forgive but will never trust you anymore, he will be always insecured. |
Re: Should I Divorce Or Remain Subjected To This Punishment For My Infidelity? by tctrills: 3:45pm On Nov 06, 2023 |
Jewessgratitud3: You claim to be a born again Christian yet you refuse to forgive. These days, the word born again Christian is just a title. It really means nothing. I was thinking that a born again Christian is one who follows the examples of Jesus Christ. What did Jesus Christ do to the woman caught in adultery? You might be a born again Christian but you are definitely not a true follower of Jesus Christ. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Divorce Or Remain Subjected To This Punishment For My Infidelity? by Jewessgratitud3: 3:48pm On Nov 06, 2023 |
mbaise1000: Story. I never said she can't be forgiven but the man can choose to divorce her even after forgiving her. and Mr man, the bible never condemns any partner who chose to divorce on adultery grounds. go and read your Bible very well. Yen yen yen.. Wait until it happens to you, we'll see how you'll continue living with such a woman. |
Re: Should I Divorce Or Remain Subjected To This Punishment For My Infidelity? by bonnyhope: 3:57pm On Nov 06, 2023 |
Jewessgratitud3: Story story Thank you for keeping us busy You are showing your writing skill |
Re: Should I Divorce Or Remain Subjected To This Punishment For My Infidelity? by Jewessgratitud3: 3:59pm On Nov 06, 2023 |
Obierika: Did she mention the age of the children? For all we know they may be teenagers. Besides their father may have given them strict warning never to go near her because some traditions, of they keep eating her food or having anything to do with her, there will be repercussions which could claim the whole family lives. If the man were here to tell his own side, you'll understand how and why the children got to stay away from her. |
Re: Should I Divorce Or Remain Subjected To This Punishment For My Infidelity? by Danabu(m): 4:06pm On Nov 06, 2023 |
BOSSkesh:Try and get married and let someone lat your wife before you start practicing forgiveness. |
Re: Should I Divorce Or Remain Subjected To This Punishment For My Infidelity? by Davidave(m): 4:07pm On Nov 06, 2023 |
This is not even my problem,my problem is I was vommiting this morning and I decided to go to pharmacy to buy pregnancy test kit.. then on my way going, I remembered I'm a man 🙄🙄 |
Re: Should I Divorce Or Remain Subjected To This Punishment For My Infidelity? by Jewessgratitud3: 4:07pm On Nov 06, 2023 |
Eyinju112: You're as dumb as the fellow you quoted. If you read through with the intent of understanding the post and not going about looking for what is not lost, you would have seen where I made my own contribution to the OP and then figured out it was copied and not my personal story. I think the joke is on you now. |
Re: Should I Divorce Or Remain Subjected To This Punishment For My Infidelity? by fkj950ax(m): 4:20pm On Nov 06, 2023 |
Jewessgratitud3: I am sorry you are in this situation. You should ask your husband to kindly have a sit down with you and ask for his forgiveness. You hurt him and broke his trust, along with your children’s trust, so you need to earn it back by doing extra. Now if he doesn’t want to continue in the marriage with you, you can ask for separation or divorce. Like I say always, a marriage is not a prison sentence. If it’s over or damaged or one party doesn’t want it again, everyone should go their way. |
Re: Should I Divorce Or Remain Subjected To This Punishment For My Infidelity? by darealez(m): 4:20pm On Nov 06, 2023 |
Jewessgratitud3:No, that's not what born again means. You can be an unbeliever and still be gentle as a dove and wise as a serpent. So, again the question is, who is a born again Christian? 1 Like |
Re: Should I Divorce Or Remain Subjected To This Punishment For My Infidelity? by josite: 4:22pm On Nov 06, 2023 |
Jewessgratitud3: Ask God for forgiveners. As your husband for forgiveness Ask your children for forgiveness . Ask your parent for forgiveness Forgive yourself Then move away from the house When u are well settled ,let your children knows where you are and as much as u can send gifts to ur kids and allowances . Move on with your life your children will eventually get over it and look for you . We sometimes fall as human but they don't let anyone make it a life imprisonment sentence for you. Even the bible says a righteous man falleth seven times and God lifted him up the seventh time. Get a new husband and have a new home and new children . Peace be into u. Don't let the devil trap ur life with endless gulit. |
Re: Should I Divorce Or Remain Subjected To This Punishment For My Infidelity? by cloud(m): 4:24pm On Nov 06, 2023 |
Think9ja:you yourself, are you a Virgin? Just asking. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Divorce Or Remain Subjected To This Punishment For My Infidelity? by Jewessgratitud3: 4:26pm On Nov 06, 2023 |
tctrills: I never said she can't or should not be forgiven. However if after forgiving her the man wants a divorce so be it. You cant force people to remain in marriage they are done with. |
Re: Should I Divorce Or Remain Subjected To This Punishment For My Infidelity? by Eniitankorede: 4:26pm On Nov 06, 2023 |
[quote author=EDOSBROWN post=126814201][/quote] And that your girlfriend will be likely be the future wife of another man. How do you expect her to behave if she sees you in future in the company of her husband? Those of you using girls anyhow with no hope of marriage for them are the cause of heartaches, stories that touch the heart. |
Re: Should I Divorce Or Remain Subjected To This Punishment For My Infidelity? by Jewessgratitud3: 4:29pm On Nov 06, 2023 |
darealez: Abeg stop asking me all these questions. I don't have the patience for this. |
Re: Should I Divorce Or Remain Subjected To This Punishment For My Infidelity? by Eyinju112(f): 4:39pm On Nov 06, 2023 |
Jewessgratitud3: I can’t believe you have a temper even as old as you are. No wonder you’re 48 without a husband. I’m not insulting you, I’m just stating the obvious. If this is how you channel frustration on people, then I don’t blame the men who kept dumping your ass for a calm and reserved women of their choices.You have a big work to do on yourself. So you think I have the luxury time to read your addition? I read the first post well and there was nothing like copied at the bottom line. Then I read another one bashing the lady. Please if you don’t know how to post for people to understand don’t bother posting. 85% of people are confused as I am. I pray you get married soon so you can stop being a bitter witch that you are. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Should I Divorce Or Remain Subjected To This Punishment For My Infidelity? by darealez(m): 4:40pm On Nov 06, 2023 |
Jewessgratitud3:Exactly! It's easier to say I'm a born again Christian, even when Christ is not seen in you. Well, the fruit of the spirit has patience in it, so do well to muster some patience often. So when, "born again Christian" give advises with zero regards to the Holy Spirit, one can easily pinch them to let them know, flesh cannot do the bidding of the spirit. Peace. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Divorce Or Remain Subjected To This Punishment For My Infidelity? by Thegoodone13(m): 4:41pm On Nov 06, 2023 |
You can never have peace in that house and he can never forgive you. He love you too much that is reason he never send you out. Just park your load and leave him. You are a disgrace to women. We have many of you but one day will be one day. My wife also is talking with her ex and I'm monitoring them, one day will be one day. Please, married women, leave your ex alone, they can't marry you after your husband leave you because they can't trust you and they are married man. |
Re: Should I Divorce Or Remain Subjected To This Punishment For My Infidelity? by Clarauju: 4:42pm On Nov 06, 2023 |
Continue to beg him if possible involved anybody your husband listens to, make sure you don't go back to such act, he will forgive you. |
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