Shalommy:
Op, allow those strange men and women to smash you to calm your urge. Chaii.... Ogbanje!

Shalommy:
Op, allow those strange men and women to smash you to calm your urge. Chaii.... Ogbanje!

Alooone:
Hello
Am a 32year old lady with 3kids...and my problem is that my husband doesn't like coming close to me...this year September will make it 1 year since we came back to the house after about 4years of separation....I have some health challenges I.e I have been diagnosed with Schizophrenia/ Bi-polar disorder so my challenges are peculiar...he doesn't come close to me, he feels my illness is more spiritual and transferable...anything I make the move to initiate sex first I am met with violence...sometimes he makes comments like "leave me alone"..." How are u that what is doing you is not communicable", "how sure am u, that those that are doing you are not after me" etc.
In the course of this 10years of marriage... I have had to endure up to 2years of no sexual contact and is telling on me....my psychotherapist says I need sex to calm my subconscious... Sometimes when I want to sleep or in the night...I see strange men or women that want to sleep with me plus other strange things etc
I need help please

DDIA:

Shalommy baby


When are you going to lay another set of eggs again my sexy wall lizard?

Shalommy:
Op, allow those strange men and women to smash you to calm your urge. Chaii.... Ogbanje!

Shalommy:
Tueeehhh

DDIA:

Just fvck your shrink to ease the tension.
Or you can get it from the streets.
To find man wey go service you no be hard thing.
To hell with your husband.
Make yourself happy.

Shalommy:
Tell her to contact you ASAP. Oloo...shooon Tueeehh

DDIA:


You can let her borrow your Amos instead. I believe you can share Amos with her .


By the way, has Fman been successful in banging you yet?

Shalommy:
You mean your gay mate? Chaiii...

DDIA:

Fman the fat pig from Benue will wed Shalommy the sexy wall lizard very soon.

Every night when you give him lizard style you will also receiving shit in your vagina from his dick which he used to bleep a guy just before pouncing on you mercilessly.

Shalommy:
Oh lawd! I said it! So... You don yansh fman? tueeehh

Alooone:
Hello
Am a 32year old lady with 3kids...and my problem is that my husband doesn't like coming close to me...this year September will make it 1 year since we came back to the house after about 4years of separation....I have some health challenges I.e I have been diagnosed with Schizophrenia/ Bi-polar disorder so my challenges are peculiar...he doesn't come close to me, he feels my illness is more spiritual and transferable...anything I make the move to initiate sex first I am met with violence...sometimes he makes comments like "leave me alone"..." How are u that what is doing you is not communicable", "how sure am u, that those that are doing you are not after me" etc.
In the course of this 10years of marriage... I have had to endure up to 2years of no sexual contact and is telling on me....my psychotherapist says I need sex to calm my subconscious... Sometimes when I want to sleep or in the night...I see strange men or women that want to sleep with me plus other strange things etc
I need help please

Alooone:
Hello, Am a 32year old lady with 3kids...and my problem is that my husband doesn't like coming close to me...this year September will make it 1 year since we came back to the house after about 4years of separation....I have some health challenges I.e I have been diagnosed with Schizophrenia/ Bi-polar disorder so my challenges are peculiar...he doesn't come close to me, he feels my illness is more spiritual and transferable...anything I make the move to initiate sex first I am met with violence...sometimes he makes comments like "leave me alone"..." How are u that what is doing you is not communicable", "how sure am u, that those that are doing you are not after me" etc.
In the course of this 10years of marriage... I have had to endure up to 2years of no sexual contact and is telling on me....my psychotherapist says I need sex to calm my subconscious... Sometimes when I want to sleep or in the night...I see strange men or women that want to sleep with me plus other strange things etc. I need help please

cunny88:
■ Get ur doctors to speak to ur hubby about it. U can also have close family members discuss it with him. Don't attempt to cheat on him, if he finds out and sends u out, dis will add to existing psychological issues. I hope dis helps

Shalommy:
Op, allow those strange men and women to smash you to calm your urge. Chaii.... Ogbanje!

Kobojunkie:
Get her doctors to speak to her husband to force him to have sex with her so that she can calm down.

cunny88:
■ you won't understand, I had someone wit exact issues...the docs are trained therapist and psychologist, it's their job, they know to achieve it

Alooone:
■ @ all...thanks for the contributions.... For those making mockery about the subconscious thing I said up there, please let me explain....as a schizophrenia patient, I suffer from both auditory and visual hallucination( although not on a major scale like the auditory)...now all these hallucinations is a thing of the mind and subconscious and not real...that according to my therapist for me to be seeing strange men and women that want to sleep with me speaks of the state of my unconscious and how sexually deprived I am...that's what brought d whole sex as a therapy issue...
could you believe that since I gave birth to my second child about 6years ago we have met not more than 5times...
Sorry for sounding like a sex freak or something...but this is what am currently going through.

Kobojunkie:
Woman are not born with dicks in their vaginas from birth same way men are not born with their ducks cemented inside a vagina from birth. Sex "deprivation" happens to everyone at some point or another. That said, it is one thing to say one is sex-deprived and another to claim one must have sex before one's subconscious can be calmed. You claim that is what your psychotherapist told you and I seriously find it hard to believe any professional would say such a thing.

I would recommend you please consider getting a second opinion from another mental health professional on how best to deal with your delusions. And as suggested also consider alternative outs from all that pent up sexual energy you have building in you.

Alooone:
■ Thanks

Kobojunkie:
From your backstop, you and husband haven't been on the same page for some years now. I do hope you at least have your parents as your support though.

Alooone:
■ Yes. I do...my family is my backbone

Kobojunkie:
Good! I made mine my support too and that paid off for me in many ways. They didn't really understand but they has no choice but to accept me as I am.

Please be understanding! You can't force knowledge or acceptance on your husband or anyone for that matter. So as far as advice, there really isn't anything you can do to force him to become the right partner for your situation. And it isn't your fault that he choose ignorance nor is it your fault that he rejects you. Life, even marriage, does not always turn out the way we want it but that shouldn't stop us from working on ourselves regardless.