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Leaving Wife And Kids To Travel Abroad by Gwin007: 4:18pm On Nov 09, 2023 |
Good day nairalanders.. please I need advice on what to do.. am married with three kids, 5, 3 , and a year old.. I own a bussines.. but for now my bussines is down, the has been very good and lucrative.. but due to lack of capital to invest more on it. It was now shaking.. but the thing now is that.. I have the capital to invest on the bussines.. but now am saying should relocate abroad with the money and leave my 3kids and wife back home or invest on the bussines.. cus am traveling with a tourist visa and itβs a Europe country and I donβt how long it will take to get my papers over there please Nairaland I really need ur opinion not make future mistakes Thanks 1 Like |
Re: Leaving Wife And Kids To Travel Abroad by PoliteActivist: 4:19pm On Nov 09, 2023 |
Stay with your family. 'Nough said 1 Like |
Re: Leaving Wife And Kids To Travel Abroad by Nobody: 4:26pm On Nov 09, 2023 |
I have a question for Nigerian husbands living abroad without their wives... Do you guys abstain from sex when you get there? And don't you ever think that your wives get lonely back at home without you? 1 Like |
Re: Leaving Wife And Kids To Travel Abroad by dawnomike(m): 4:30pm On Nov 09, 2023 |
Gwin007:If you're going using tourist visa, it is not worth leaving your family for. That journey of yours has too much is uncertainties 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Leaving Wife And Kids To Travel Abroad by Chingyyy878: 4:42pm On Nov 09, 2023 |
dawnomike: π― |
Re: Leaving Wife And Kids To Travel Abroad by Kobicove(m): 4:51pm On Nov 09, 2023 |
I hope you know you will not be able to get a reasonable job over there if you relocate with a tourist visa 3 Likes |
Re: Leaving Wife And Kids To Travel Abroad by Ballzproblemm: 4:55pm On Nov 09, 2023 |
wrong decisions left and right 2 Likes |
Re: Leaving Wife And Kids To Travel Abroad by tonicyril: 4:56pm On Nov 09, 2023 |
Samantha124:Well, u re right but the problem I have with my girl is that, she can stay three years without minding if u re existing, so far she has work to do |
Re: Leaving Wife And Kids To Travel Abroad by Gwin007: 5:03pm On Nov 09, 2023 |
Kobicove:no.. thanks and they it going to be about 2weeks tourist visa.. Whc after it expires I will now start looking for my papers |
Re: Leaving Wife And Kids To Travel Abroad by Gwin007: 5:04pm On Nov 09, 2023 |
Okay Ballzproblemm: |
Re: Leaving Wife And Kids To Travel Abroad by DaudaTheSexyGuy(m): 5:08pm On Nov 09, 2023 |
Samantha124: Part of my job is to take care of lonely wives 4 Likes |
Re: Leaving Wife And Kids To Travel Abroad by DaudaTheSexyGuy(m): 5:11pm On Nov 09, 2023 |
tonicyril: I can help you keep her company while you are away 2 Likes |
Re: Leaving Wife And Kids To Travel Abroad by tonicyril: 5:28pm On Nov 09, 2023 |
DaudaTheSexyGuy:No problem, so far u don't change the surname of my kid to urs 1 Like |
Re: Leaving Wife And Kids To Travel Abroad by RGRNetwork: 7:28pm On Nov 09, 2023 |
If you have a lucrative business why not sponsor yourself or your wife to school in europe. Because goin through tourist visa is a very wrong move. If you go through school, your family can come as dependants with you and you will have enough years to work and get your papers. Poland, portugal, Germany and Austria will be good options 2 Likes |
Re: Leaving Wife And Kids To Travel Abroad by Farrason: 7:39pm On Nov 09, 2023 |
Gwin007: This is where you people miss it. And you think these papers you are looking be like groundnut for Lagos traffic. 10 yrs fit pass you like 10days and you may still be in hiding. If you wan japa... Japa well. If you are not grounded with a purpose and strategy... Forget am. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Leaving Wife And Kids To Travel Abroad by very4tune8: 9:31pm On Nov 09, 2023 |
Gwin007: My brother it's easier said. Pls don't take any decision that will make you regret. Getting paper in Europe is not as easy. Unless you have made up your mind to go 1 Like |
Re: Leaving Wife And Kids To Travel Abroad by Nobody: 9:35pm On Nov 09, 2023 |
Good... Keep up the good work... We need more guys like yourself in this life...πππ Maybe these men will think twice before leaving their wives behind to drown in loneliness. DaudaTheSexyGuy: 1 Like |
Re: Leaving Wife And Kids To Travel Abroad by Gwin007: 9:38pm On Nov 09, 2023 |
Okay thanks Farrason: |
Re: Leaving Wife And Kids To Travel Abroad by Nobody: 9:42pm On Nov 09, 2023 |
Are you sure she's got work to do or she's minding another man in those three years? Because that's too long and her body also has needs. I can't claim to be in a relationship but be feeling lonely for a whole three years, it's impossible... If my man is going to work abroad, either he takes me along because I don't mind starting afresh or the relationship is over because I don't do long distance relationships. tonicyril: 2 Likes |
Re: Leaving Wife And Kids To Travel Abroad by Nigerfine3: 10:25pm On Nov 09, 2023 |
Samantha124:No, a lot of girls beg for sex abroad. The man may even be colonized by a woman |
Re: Leaving Wife And Kids To Travel Abroad by Nobody: 10:33pm On Nov 09, 2023 |
Then I'm assuming that the wife back at home will also be having a man that's keeping her in company while her husband is away... As long as he doesn't find out about it. Nigerfine3: 1 Like |
Re: Leaving Wife And Kids To Travel Abroad by addictiv(m): 9:00am On Nov 10, 2023 |
Gwin007: See you see life long suffering...at the end of the day you will ask yourself... Was it worth it? 1. Europe is one of the worst places to become an illegal. If it's not an English speaking country your suffering is x10. 2. There are better ways to Japa legally with your family on a student, work, or permanent visa. Explore those options. 3. Don't believe what you see on social media, and anyone advising to become an illegal in Europe doesn't have your best interest at heart tbh. 4. Most countries have systemized their visa and passport processes to the point that you cannot even get anything including housing, a bank account, a car, a good job, healthcare.. Etc if you become an illegal. 5. The fact someone went 5 - 10 years ago and the person made it and became successful as an illegal, doesn't mean if you go now in 2023/2024 you will see similar opportunities to exploit. Policies and technology has changed many things and rules are changing everyday. 6. The options for papers you re talking about including getting married to a citizen or working with someone else's papers will put you at the mercy of someone else who on a whim can destroy you. Why would you want to do that to yourself and your family? 7. At the end of the day, you will loose your family. The people you are hustling for will move on with life without you. Then you ask yourself..... Was it worth it? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Leaving Wife And Kids To Travel Abroad by cjeriia: 9:16am On Nov 10, 2023 |
RGRNetwork: I agree with poster above @ OP, If you have up to N5M & academic qualifications, why not face Austria..? Check Dewon's twitter posts. Tourist visa na long thing |
Re: Leaving Wife And Kids To Travel Abroad by Gwin007: 9:33am On Nov 10, 2023 |
Thanks for the advice I really appreciate addictiv: |
Re: Leaving Wife And Kids To Travel Abroad by Mandela27: 9:36am On Nov 10, 2023 |
Samantha124:Bleep loneliness,man need to go Hussle and come back for his family,if the money finish will she stay?? |
Re: Leaving Wife And Kids To Travel Abroad by Nobody: 9:41am On Nov 10, 2023 |
You're not answering my questions though. And you can't ask me a question on top of another one. Mandela27: |
Re: Leaving Wife And Kids To Travel Abroad by Mandela27: 10:36am On Nov 10, 2023 |
Samantha124:she will stay,unless she chooses not to. Loneliness doesn't kill, at least there's video calls and phone calls. |
Re: Leaving Wife And Kids To Travel Abroad by Nobody: 10:52am On Nov 10, 2023 |
Will those video and phone calls have sex with her? Will they penetrate her and take her to cloud 9? Keep saying loneliness doesn't kill while she'll be back in Nigeria busy enjoying another man in different styles that she's never done with you... I see her having those calls with you while the man would be hiding in the background and listening to you making a fool out of yourself... After the call ends, the only thing that'll be coming out of her mouth would be "hmmm, ooh, ahh, and heee", for she'll be getting it real good...π€£π€£π€£ Mandela27: 2 Likes |
Re: Leaving Wife And Kids To Travel Abroad by Nobody: 11:11am On Nov 10, 2023 |
Even Mandela's wife emotionally and sexually dumped him long time ago before he even got released from prison. She still continued having an affair with a younger man after his release from prison because the distance had caused a strain to their marriage. And you think your situation will be better compared to that of the real and legendary Nelson Mandela?πππ Mandela27: 1 Like |
Re: Leaving Wife And Kids To Travel Abroad by Preservedfish: 2:01pm On Nov 10, 2023 |
Europe won't work for you Go to Mexico then enter US from there 1 Like |
Re: Leaving Wife And Kids To Travel Abroad by Nobody: 3:10pm On Nov 10, 2023 |
I am surprised when people talk of relocation with a tourist visa. Really really surprised. It is a fvcking tourist and temporary visa and not designed for relocation. |
Re: Leaving Wife And Kids To Travel Abroad by germanburger(m): 4:39pm On Nov 10, 2023 |
Good day with d economic suituation in Nigeria Man need plan B. With a tourist visa which take 3 months like Germany where I base what happened after ur paper expired like in Germany for example for u to have ur paper is either u get married or u have a child. Talk with ur wife very well because itβs not a decision u will just take but if u know if u invest in ur business u will make more money. My brother invest and stay with your family. Discuss it with ur wife because she has a very important role to play. 1 Like |
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