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Re: Lady Cries Out Over Being Unmarried At 39 & Battling A Spirit Husband (video) by Nobody: 10:23pm On Nov 09, 2023
I answered your question.

I don't know... I'm not a witch and I've never experienced witchcraft before.
RoyalUc:


Sure you don't know or you don't just want to answer
Re: Lady Cries Out Over Being Unmarried At 39 & Battling A Spirit Husband (video) by Nobody: 10:31pm On Nov 09, 2023
If you can see things from the spiritual realm, then how come you guys can't prevent the negativity from manifesting into reality and make Africa a better place?

If most Africans can see things from the spiritual realm, then why is Africa still poor and most of these poor people just happen to be those religious beings?
icedbreez:


Leave them, people talk a lot about things they don't know and eventually they believe themselves.

This world is more spiritual than physical...

Offcourse the spirit world would not want anyone to know or for people to believe those who have gotten the knowledge.

God is the answer. Get delivered ASAP.

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Re: Lady Cries Out Over Being Unmarried At 39 & Battling A Spirit Husband (video) by RoyalUc(m): 10:36pm On Nov 09, 2023
Samantha124:
I answered your question.

I don't know... I'm not a witch and I've never experienced witchcraft before.

Listen, even in the Western world these things exist.

I agree there is a measure of manipulation and influence that one could overcome by strong will and discipline but to say that spiritual things don't exist and then attribute the experiences of others to 'African mentally' is actually the real delusion.

Spiritual husband/wife is not just about having sex in the dream however frequent. It's mostly having the same person come to you in your sleep in an almost real and normal situation.

Some times, they actually get 'properly' married and get pregnant and have children.

In the true sense of it, it's demonic manipulation and can be overcome
Re: Lady Cries Out Over Being Unmarried At 39 & Battling A Spirit Husband (video) by Nobody: 10:39pm On Nov 09, 2023
So what you're saying is that we shouldn't be dreaming about getting married and being pregnant because it would've been the work of a spiritual husband? undecided undecided undecided
RoyalUc:


Listen, even in the Western world these things exist.

I agree there is a measure of manipulation and influence that one could overcome by strong will and discipline but to say that spiritual things don't exist and then attribute the experiences of others to 'African mentally' is actually the real delusion.

Spiritual husband/wife is not just about having sex in the dream however frequent. It's mostly having the same person come to you in your sleep in an almost real and normal situation.

Some times, they actually get 'properly' married and get pregnant and have children.

In the true sense of it, it's demonic manipulation and can be overcome
Re: Lady Cries Out Over Being Unmarried At 39 & Battling A Spirit Husband (video) by RoyalUc(m): 10:40pm On Nov 09, 2023
hardbody:


Please say a similar prayer for me

Be careful what you wish for
Re: Lady Cries Out Over Being Unmarried At 39 & Battling A Spirit Husband (video) by RoyalUc(m): 10:46pm On Nov 09, 2023
Samantha124:
So what you're saying is that we shouldn't be dreaming about getting married and being pregnant because it would've been the work of a spiritual husband? undecided undecided undecided

Is that what you could get from what I said?

How is "dreaming about getting married and being pregnant" a problem?

Will the lady be crying if that was just her experience?

Most dreams are the products of our imagination and subconscious mind but some others convey spiritual things
Re: Lady Cries Out Over Being Unmarried At 39 & Battling A Spirit Husband (video) by HighTable(m): 10:48pm On Nov 09, 2023
That word "Spiritual husband!" Is straight out of Nollywood brainwashing. A more accurate perspective is perhaps your ancestors or bloodline.
Re: Lady Cries Out Over Being Unmarried At 39 & Battling A Spirit Husband (video) by Nobody: 10:48pm On Nov 09, 2023
Okay.
RoyalUc:


Is that what you could get from what I said?

How is "dreaming about getting married and being pregnant" a problem?

Will the lady be crying if that was just her experience?

Most dreams are the products of our imagination and subconscious mind but some others convey spiritual things
Re: Lady Cries Out Over Being Unmarried At 39 & Battling A Spirit Husband (video) by pansophist(m): 10:50pm On Nov 09, 2023
How some people are comfortable to cry in front of the camera and post online shocks me.

For what exactly? to gain pity? No, you won't, instead, you will get mockery. The internet is hardly a place for empathy.

Pray to your God in silence, and realize that in life, even those who listen to your grieve have problems. You don't dry your dirty linen outside.

May God grant her the desires of her heart. Amen.

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Re: Lady Cries Out Over Being Unmarried At 39 & Battling A Spirit Husband (video) by jackmrandy: 11:03pm On Nov 09, 2023
Samantha124:
Well, if you believe in something and work hard for it to happen, then it will happen.

I'm sure that man believed in whatever he was doing and worked hard for it to finally happen... But if you make a choice not to believe in such things, then nothing is going to happen.

I remember when my grandmother died, we were told that the entire family must shave their heads, but I refused to shave my head and I was told that bad lucks and sicknesses will come my way if I don't.

But I still stood my ground and refused, till this day, nothing bad happened to me.

Okkkkk
Re: Lady Cries Out Over Being Unmarried At 39 & Battling A Spirit Husband (video) by Kobojunkie: 11:21pm On Nov 09, 2023
RoyalUc:
Listen, even in the Western world these things exist.
Spiritual wives/husbands in the western world? Where? undecided

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Re: Lady Cries Out Over Being Unmarried At 39 & Battling A Spirit Husband (video) by ufotunang: 11:28pm On Nov 09, 2023
Samantha124:
Isn't it normal to be having sex dreams when you've been single for too long?
..it's not normal...those that always have sex in their dreams are those their thoughts and mindset is always about sex..they always think of sex ..so when the thought of sex is always in the person mind...he will always have sex in the dream...and a person that likes to watch porn videos and sex films everytime and a a person that is a womaniser will always have this though and mindset about sex , sex ,sex

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Re: Lady Cries Out Over Being Unmarried At 39 & Battling A Spirit Husband (video) by ufotunang: 11:30pm On Nov 09, 2023
Samantha124:
Isn't it normal to be having sex dreams when you've been single for too long?
..it's not normal...those that always have sex in their dreams are those their thoughts and mindset is always about sex..they always think of sex ..so when the thought of sex is always in the person mind...he will always have sex in the dream...and a person that likes to watch porn videos and sex films everytime and a a person that is a womaniser will always have this though and mindset about sex , sex ,sex which will make him or her to have sex in his or her dreams

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Re: Lady Cries Out Over Being Unmarried At 39 & Battling A Spirit Husband (video) by ufotunang: 11:32pm On Nov 09, 2023
Calitoscassius:
Rabbish! What nonesense! grin the only reason she dreams about getting married in her dreams is because she is desparate to get married, what people worry about so much appears in their dreams much.
...she is desperate to get married because she is ageing
Re: Lady Cries Out Over Being Unmarried At 39 & Battling A Spirit Husband (video) by Hsurdluxury: 11:36pm On Nov 09, 2023
Aunty 39

Kindly flashback to age 19 when men were chasing you

Kindly remain celibate ,no man enjoy cold pap ,better served hot

My advice: more women should embrace early marriage, last last you will face the marital challenge early not all this spiritual husband excuses
Re: Lady Cries Out Over Being Unmarried At 39 & Battling A Spirit Husband (video) by Kobojunkie: 11:36pm On Nov 09, 2023
ufotunang:
..it's not normal...those that always have sex in their dreams are those their thoughts and mindset is always about sex..they always think of sex ..so when the thought of sex is always in the person mind...he will always have sex in the dream...and a person that likes to watch porn videos and sex films everytime and a a person that is a womaniser will always have this though and mindset about sex , sex ,sex
I was barely a teenager when I started having sexual dreams, and I wasn't even in to porn nor could I say I had sex on my mind all of the times at that point. As I entered my teenage years proper, I started having sex on my mind more often than not and I was certain a lot of the people in my class at the time also had similar things happen to them too. Some of them had nocturnal emissions on a pretty regular basis, they claimed. Of course, as we grew older and life and responsibilities began to hit us in various ways, those things diminished a bit for most of us. So where do you get that it ain't normal? undecided

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Re: Lady Cries Out Over Being Unmarried At 39 & Battling A Spirit Husband (video) by Kobojunkie: 11:37pm On Nov 09, 2023
ufotunang:
...she is desperate to get married because she is ageing
Not true. Age isn't a valid enough reason for anyone to want to get married. undecided
Re: Lady Cries Out Over Being Unmarried At 39 & Battling A Spirit Husband (video) by Hsurdluxury: 11:41pm On Nov 09, 2023
Zonefree:
At 20-26 years, she had numerous men coming at her but she neglected them cos she was busy exploring and whoring her flower age.

At 27-33 years, she flooded religious houses, praying and fasting for same men she rejected and neglected during her flower age.

At 39, she's now blaming innocent spirit husband for her mistakes.
She didn't remember spirit husband when she was flying from dick to dick like a butterfly during her flower age.

Women should learn to take responsibility for their actions!

Her best years is between age 19-24 ,this age are very arrogant with excuses

Better marry early and avoid all this ogbanje excuses because no man will marry fearly used or old women when some latest sweet 19-24 are coming

My advice: women should always do what is on their mind early not what society wants you to do

The average age of marriage nowadays is 27-35 after tasting different men and women and expect the marriage to last tufiakwa
Re: Lady Cries Out Over Being Unmarried At 39 & Battling A Spirit Husband (video) by Figger(m): 11:46pm On Nov 09, 2023
I beg to differ, I don't know about you, but I basically spend my day hustling, thinking and fantasizing about money or how to make more money, then why don't I always dream about money instead I keep having series of nightmares, dreams that don't reflect my day life activities. Most times I got frightened by the kind of dreams I usually have. U no go understand
Kobojunkie:
What you spend your mind's energy thinking/fantaszing/day dreaming about the most is bound to invade your dreaming. Those sexual fantasies you busy your wide with during your waking hours, do not remain limited to just your waking hours. Oh, no, they crawl into your dream and make their home there for as long as your mind is caught in the web of those particular fantasies. undecided

2. That na lie! Ask well and don't let anyone fool you. Many people who experience sexual dreams regularly also think of sex and even fantasize about such ideas during the day. When you eventually stop giving so much time to sexual thoughts during your day, after a while, sexual dreams move from being regular to maybe occurring once in a blue moon or eventually go away. undecided

3. Incubus & Succubus? Those are mythical creatures that don't even exist.


Those were European ideas which have long been abandoned by the Europeans. So how come you, a Nigerian, have taken to picking them up and wearing them as your lot? You no shame? undecided
Re: Lady Cries Out Over Being Unmarried At 39 & Battling A Spirit Husband (video) by kkins25(m): 12:08am On Nov 10, 2023
Kobojunkie:
Spiritual wives/husbands in the western world? Where? undecided
Novels and horror films of course. grin grin grin grin
Re: Lady Cries Out Over Being Unmarried At 39 & Battling A Spirit Husband (video) by Kobojunkie: 12:09am On Nov 10, 2023
Figger:
I beg to differ, I don't know about you, but I basically spend my day hustling, thinking and fantasizing about money or how to make more money, then why don't I always dream about money instead I keep having series of nightmares, dreams that don't reflect my day life activities.
■ Most times I got frightened by the kind of dreams I usually have. U no go understand
What I gave you was a thoroughly simplified look at where some of the contents of your dreaming comes from, and going by what you described, I can understand how you may have dreams of what you claim are nightmares as desperation, anxiety can breed those. undecided

What do you typically dream of? undecided
Re: Lady Cries Out Over Being Unmarried At 39 & Battling A Spirit Husband (video) by Kobojunkie: 12:10am On Nov 10, 2023
kkins25:
Novels and horror films of course. grin grin grin grin
What? undecided
Re: Lady Cries Out Over Being Unmarried At 39 & Battling A Spirit Husband (video) by kkins25(m): 12:11am On Nov 10, 2023
Kobojunkie:
What? undecided
didn't you ask a question... I was backing up your claim.
Re: Lady Cries Out Over Being Unmarried At 39 & Battling A Spirit Husband (video) by Kobojunkie: 12:12am On Nov 10, 2023
kkins25:
didn't you ask a question... I was backing up your claim.
I do hope that wasn't what he meant when he said it Is all in the West too. undecided

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Re: Lady Cries Out Over Being Unmarried At 39 & Battling A Spirit Husband (video) by delpee(f): 12:12am On Nov 10, 2023
Zonefree:
At 20-26 years, she had numerous men coming at her but she neglected them cos she was busy exploring and whoring her flower age.

At 27-33 years, she flooded religious houses, praying and fasting for same men she rejected and neglected during her flower age.

At 39, she's now blaming innocent spirit husband for her mistakes.
She didn't remember spirit husband when she was flying from dick to dick like a butterfly during her flower age.

Women should learn to take responsibility for their actions!

You know her well enough to come to these conclusions? Some people never or rarely get proposals in their prime years. It's difficult to understand especially when the person is well behaved. Not every unmarried 39 year old misbehaved or was choosy.

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Re: Lady Cries Out Over Being Unmarried At 39 & Battling A Spirit Husband (video) by kkins25(m): 12:18am On Nov 10, 2023
Kobojunkie:
I do hope that wasn't what he meant when he said it Is all in the West too. undecided
Not at all. But, we both know that's the only place you'd find such supernatural in the WEST. grin grin grin
Re: Lady Cries Out Over Being Unmarried At 39 & Battling A Spirit Husband (video) by BALLOSKI: 2:46am On Nov 10, 2023
If you help her life now, she go become thorn in your flesh. When they need help, they cry...once they have it, they begin to give you heat.
Re: Lady Cries Out Over Being Unmarried At 39 & Battling A Spirit Husband (video) by thomasjoe(m): 3:02am On Nov 10, 2023
Westerhoffe:


There are some things that the regular inexperienced human do not know,
and so find it difficult to believe.

Though, most of these are as a result of the past beliefs and worships of their ancestors, who have evoked/invited/summoned unclean spirits without revoking them.

Just that some ladies who are lucky to find so many suitors while younger do not take them serious, thinking they'd blossom forever until they clocked a certain age before they come to realize.

While some ladies, who are not the outgoing type are in some cases the architect of their late/delay in relationships.

Think slowly about the questions below:

Why are there many spirit husband but little or no spirit wives ?

Why is the Spirit Husband phenomenon more with Nigerian females than any other part of Africa (if not for Ego, Pride and the scam philosophies from commercial religious houses / Nollywood movies?)
Why ?
Wake up!
Re: Lady Cries Out Over Being Unmarried At 39 & Battling A Spirit Husband (video) by thomasjoe(m): 3:04am On Nov 10, 2023
ridwintin89:

Spiritual Husband is real,She would just misbehaving at all time.Also be a bad luck to any man coming her way.

There may be influences but no force ...I repeat NO Force on earth or in any realm can take away your will .
Your will is yours till you give it away to your base desires ... and start misbehaving.

Blaming our misbehaviour on an innocent spirit is at best laughable but sadly at worst only complicating inability to take responsibility and change from our wrong ways .
Re: Lady Cries Out Over Being Unmarried At 39 & Battling A Spirit Husband (video) by Kobojunkie: 3:21am On Nov 10, 2023
BALLOSKI:
If you help her life now, she go become thorn in your flesh. When they need help, they cry...once they have it, they begin to give you heat.
Help her with what? Is she asking for help or just crying for attention? Na savior-complex dey worry you? undecided
Re: Lady Cries Out Over Being Unmarried At 39 & Battling A Spirit Husband (video) by ridwintin89(m): 3:45am On Nov 10, 2023
thomasjoe:


There may be influences but no force ...I repeat NO Force on earth or in any realm can take away your will .
Your will is yours till you give it away to your base desires ... and start misbehaving.

Blaming our misbehaviour on an innocent spirit is at best laughable but sadly at worst only complicating inability to take responsibility and change from our wrong ways .
LOL,I pray you don't encounter it.Am talking from experience.This life is more spiritual that anything.Some people will never make it no matter how they tried.
Re: Lady Cries Out Over Being Unmarried At 39 & Battling A Spirit Husband (video) by Kobojunkie: 3:55am On Nov 10, 2023
ridwintin89:
■ LOL,I pray you don't encounter it.Am talking from experience.This life is more spiritual that anything.Some people will never make it no matter how they tried.
Stop rattling abeg! Like the other informed you, no power can take away your will from you. So stop looking for phantoms to blame your actions on.. undecided

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