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Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by labake1(f): 6:31pm On Nov 11, 2023
Thread for misogynist

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Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by 1Sharon(f): 6:39pm On Nov 11, 2023
Bliss62:
Simply listen to your man and obey him , he married you out of a pool of women, he works his entire life to keep his home safe and happy

It's not as black and white as this, because there is no way a woman should listen to her man that tells her to do something immoral.

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Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by BRATISLAVA: 7:38pm On Nov 11, 2023
Magnoliaa:


If I asked you to oblige me on your Christian journey and faith now, you will chicken out like your fellow guy above. If I asked you if you've had a personal experience with Jesus Christ, I doubt if you'll have something reasonable to tell me.

When you got saved? When you got baptised - both in Spirit and in water? Or how diligent you've followed the Great Commission?

Your moniker alone itself is sus.

Because you want to take the Bible on what it says about marriage, meanwhile you probably haven't taken other things it says about salvation, condemnation, etc., as truth.

The only verse in the bible that determines ones fate and takes everyone to paradise: women be submissive to your husbands.

According to Nigerian men. No other men are so hung up on it.

They don't like the one verse that actually determines their fate: any man who cannot provide for his family is worse than an infidel.

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Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by BRATISLAVA: 7:44pm On Nov 11, 2023
Magnoliaa:


This is what morality means to you?


Are there anything on your list here that a husband can show to his wife too, or it is forbidden for men to express these qualities as you've described with their wives?

Should a husband not be peaceful? Should he not be understanding? Should he not show support for his wife and deal with her with great understanding? I you think these things are okay for men to imbibe, why are you calling it submission for women?

No.

The bible and its laws were made for women. Always preaching about women. Meanwhile the men are over-lording themselves to perdition.

There's this guy who every Sunday preaches tirelessly against women, demonizes them, rails against them and doesn't even think he needs to preach about sexual purity and heaven to his bros. His message is always that women are witches, destroyers etc etc out to get these innocent guys who don't have any interest whatsoever in women grin . So they tend to think it's all about the women doing right, meanwhile they are nothing to write home about. Women are responsible for them being sexually perverse. Women are responsible for them being terrible husbands and fathers. Women are behind all their failures.

Just watch them creating threads about women and commenting and you'll realize they're empty, demented and brainwashed.

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Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by Albertone(m): 7:46pm On Nov 11, 2023
1Sharon:


It's not as black and white as this, because there is no way a woman should listen to her man that tells her to do something immoral.

If you notice, submission of a woman is mostly brought by the holy books. These holy books will guide the woman.
If the husband asks the woman to do what the holy book speaks against, she can refuse outrightly. It was even said in the quran but I don't know where exactly.

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Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by BRATISLAVA: 7:46pm On Nov 11, 2023
Magnoliaa:


This confusion is confusioning my head.

Stay at the back seat, but operate from the passenger seat?? ?? ??

grin grin grin

The more you look at their logic the more you can tell their mental acrobatics to stay on top are failed.

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Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by Albertone(m): 7:50pm On Nov 11, 2023
Magnoliaa:


Mtcheeeewwww, when you have a logical response to give me as the gendar deserving of "leadership", come back to quote me.



Imagine person like you sef dey find woman wey go dey bow and worship am 🤣.

Like is this the intelligence you go take dey do head of house? This is it? You people have audacity sha. Boundlessly.

See, this matter no really hard like that.

Just marry your type. If you want to be kneeling down to serve your husband food, marry a man that wants that.
If you want to be sending your husband to wash your underwear, marry a man that can do that.

All these your questions no really necessary.

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Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by 1Sharon(f): 7:55pm On Nov 11, 2023
Albertone:


If you notice, submission of a woman is mostly brought by the holy books. These holy books will guide the woman.
If the husband asks the woman to do what the holy book speaks against, she can refuse outrightly. It was even said in the quran but I don't know where exactly.

Before holy books, women existed.

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Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by DonroxyII: 7:56pm On Nov 11, 2023
Jeon:
A woman like their mother, period!.
Nah, A Woman That Would Tolerate all their BS.

Yes sir, Yessir, Don't Raise any Objections ....

Worship, Hail, As.slick Him as e Papa na ihm Build CBN!

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Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by Albertone(m): 7:58pm On Nov 11, 2023
A submissive wife is the type of woman that listens to and obeys her husband as long as his wishes are not against their religion. Yes! Religion, because it's majorly religion that brought about submission

She has the right to air her opinions and bring suggestions. However, her opinions and suggestions are subject to weighing by her husband. He can use it to form his decision or not.

Imagine the husband wants A and the wife wants B, both are insisting on their stance. Who will break the tie? An outsider?
If the wife is submissive, she'll let him have his A as long as it's not going to cause her problems or discomfort.

Because God has put men as leaders, women have to pray for a husband that'll lead her family right. Men have to pray for the grace to lead his family right.

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Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by Jeon(f): 8:06pm On Nov 11, 2023
DonroxyII:
Nah, A Woman That Would Tolerate all their BS.

Yes sir, Yessir, Don't Raise any Objections ....

Worship, Hail, As.slick Him as e Papa na ihm Build CBN!

This is why I said "A woman like their mothers ".

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Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by Magnoliaa(f): 8:07pm On Nov 11, 2023
Albertone:
See, this matter no really hard like that.

Just marry your type. If you want to be kneeling down to serve your husband food, marry a man that wants that.
If you want to be sending your husband to wash your underwear, marry a man that can do that.

All these your questions no really necessary

It is interesting that it is these two scenarios that are culturally far apart that you can bring up. Very interesting.

Because in the real world, couples who eat at the dining table and uses a washing machine do not exist.

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Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by Magnoliaa(f): 8:08pm On Nov 11, 2023
BRATISLAVA:
grin grin grin

The more you look at their logic the more you can tell their mental acrobatics to stay on top are failed.

That one really confused me, eh. grin grin

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Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by DonroxyII: 8:08pm On Nov 11, 2023
Jeon:


This is why I said "A woman like their mothers ".
Nah, Their Ma Might Not Even Be Like That !

But nairaland don Make You Pepperish oo cheesy ..

You just launch at People's Mother for No Reason cheesy
Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by Albertone(m): 8:10pm On Nov 11, 2023
1Sharon:


Before holy books, women existed.

Highly laughable.

Gen 3:16
Unto the woman he said, I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and thy conception; in sorrow thou shalt bring forth children; and thy desire [shall be] to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee.

That is God talking to the first woman to ever exist.

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Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by Albertone(m): 8:16pm On Nov 11, 2023
Magnoliaa:


It is interesting that it is these two scenarios that are culturally far apart that you can bring up. Very interesting.

Because in the real world, couples who eat at the dining table and uses a washing machine do not exist.

You're overthinking things.

I deliberately mentioned these two relatively extreme scenarios which implies everything else in between.

The point is marry your type.

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Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by Jeon(f): 8:16pm On Nov 11, 2023
DonroxyII:
Nah, Their Ma Might Not Even Be Like That !

But nairaland don Make You Pepperish oo cheesy ..

You just launch at People's Mother for No Reason cheesy

@ last sentence, I don't understand.
They, themselves are always quick to say this " our forefather's or father's wives " if an issues concerning Women are been raised. So @ bolded is same thing as their mothers.

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Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by 1Sharon(f): 8:35pm On Nov 11, 2023
Albertone:


Highly laughable.

Gen 3:16
Unto the woman he said, I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and thy conception; in sorrow thou shalt bring forth children; and thy desire [shall be] to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee.

That is God talking to the first woman to ever exist.

Lol. you really believe Eve was the 1st woman?

Why won't the bible say that since it came from a masculine mind?

It's the same reason God is seen as a man and not a woman.

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Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by Joshkid(m): 8:43pm On Nov 11, 2023
Magnoliaa:


How does a person in a backseat play a role from the passenger's seat? What is the role playing here?


How does this practically apply to a marriage?
being at the back seat, you can still offer useful opinions to the driver, do you understand now

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Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by Albertone(m): 9:13pm On Nov 11, 2023
1Sharon:


Lol. you really believe Eve was the 1st woman?

Why won't the bible say that since it came from a masculine mind?

It's the same reason God is seen as a man and not a woman.

You seem to have a wealth of knowledge I do not possess. Kindly share more.

Who then was the first woman? When was she created?
Which gender do you think God is? And why do you think so?

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Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by Magnoliaa(f): 9:45pm On Nov 11, 2023
Joshkid:
being at the back seat, you can still offer useful opinions to the driver, do you understand now

So how exactly does that have anything to do with "operating" from the passenger seat? grin


It is you that wants to explain what the poster has refused to explain himself, ba? Okay.

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Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by Kobojunkie: 9:48pm On Nov 11, 2023
Albertone:
Highly laughable.

Gen 3:16
Unto the woman he said, I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and thy conception; in sorrow thou shalt bring forth children; and thy desire [shall be] to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee.

That is God talking to the first woman to ever exist.
Wrong, that was God placing a curse on marriage and childbearing by cursing the woman for her sin against God. undecided

Just so you know, Eve was cloned from Adam so Eve was a female copy of Adam. undecided

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Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by 1Sharon(f): 10:52pm On Nov 11, 2023
Albertone:


You seem to have a wealth of knowledge I do not possess. Kindly share more.

Who then was the first woman? When was she created?
Which gender do you think God is? And why do you think so?

Africans predate the story of Adam and Eve.

God should not have any gender. But he is seen as a male, because a male mind is the mind behind the bible. God doesn't have XY chromosomes.

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Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by Albertone(m): 11:07pm On Nov 11, 2023
1Sharon:


Africans predate the story of Adam and Eve.

God should not have any gender. But he is seen as a male, but a male mind is the mind behind the bible. God doesn't have XY chromosomes.

The emboldened doesn't answer who the first woman is. If you don't believe God for creating the first woman to be Eve, you should know who the first woman then is.

Yes, God doesn't have a gender. But how does he being referred to as a male affect you?

Just say you don't believe in God. All these things you're saying reeks of ignorance.

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Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by luminouz(m): 11:11pm On Nov 11, 2023
zed7:

You have comprehension problems. Get someone to read and explain to you.
Nice one. Don't engage her further. Na men thread be this but they won't let us breathe.
Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by 1Sharon(f): 11:12pm On Nov 11, 2023
Albertone:


The emboldened doesn't answer who the first woman is. If you don't believe God for creating the first woman to be Eve, you should know who the first woman then is.

Yes, God doesn't have a gender. But how does he being referred to as a male affect you?

Just say you don't believe in God. All these things you're saying reeks of ignorance.

The first woman is an african woman, not a middle Eastern woman called Eve.

Since you're acknowledging God doesn't have a gender, why is he perceived as a male?

And why is calling God a female blasphemous?

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Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by luminouz(m): 11:13pm On Nov 11, 2023
Lmaooooo...this one off me oh

God is a female?

Make I just jejely Waka before I make someone cry today.

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Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by Albertone(m): 11:15pm On Nov 11, 2023
Kobojunkie:
Wrong, that was God placing a curse on marriage and childbearing by cursing the woman for her sin against God. undecided

Just so you know, Eve was cloned from Adam so Eve was a female copy of Adam. undecided

The point is, God has made man to be over his wife and a wife to be under her husband.
I don't know what this is if not submission.

Eve wasn't cloned.
Paper is made from a tree. Does that mean papers are cloned trees?

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Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by luminouz(m): 11:18pm On Nov 11, 2023
Albertone:


The point is, God has made man to be over his wife and a wife to be under her husband.
I don't know what this is if not submission.

Eve wasn't cloned.
Paper is made from a tree. Does that mean papers are cloned trees?

I take God beg you, no quote her again...this thread will become meaningless
Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by Albertone(m): 11:24pm On Nov 11, 2023
1Sharon:


The first woman is an african woman, not a middle Eastern woman called Eve.

Since you're acknowledging God doesn't have a gender, why is he perceived as a male?

And why is calling God a female blasphemous?

1. I gave you my own proof as to why I believed Eve was the first female. So please give me your own proof why you believe the first woman is an African woman and not Eve.

2. God acts like a father figure hence, people refer to him as father(male). Now ask yourself, in the bible time, what pronouns could be ascribed to a genderless entity?

3. In the bible, there's no express statement that accounts for the gender to refer to God as. If referring to him as female is what rocks your boat, it is not a blasphemy.

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Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by 1Sharon(f): 11:25pm On Nov 11, 2023
Albertone:


The point is, God has made man to be over his wife and a wife to be under her husband.
I don't know what this is if not submission.

Eve wasn't cloned.
Paper is made from a tree. Does that mean papers are cloned trees?

Ephesians 5:21- submit to one another. Don't quote only the parts that favour you.

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Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by Albertone(m): 11:26pm On Nov 11, 2023
luminouz:


I take God beg you, no quote her again...this thread will become meaningless

It pains me to see someone take pride in ignorance. Make I school am small.

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