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My Father Doesn't Stand Up For Me Like My Other Siblings by Olukemioluwa: 7:29pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
Since I was a child I have noticed it My father doesn't stand up for me or take anything serious when it concerns me . But if it is my other siblings he did go to any length to make sure it is resolved. I don't even want to talk about my education or other aspects of life . Till now , I am 27 and counting, my father still does the same thing. I need ur advice |
Re: My Father Doesn't Stand Up For Me Like My Other Siblings by Nobody: 7:35pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
Olukemioluwa: A full grown adult at 27 is still talking about my father this, my father that! Wonders shall never end! At 27, you should be the one standing up for your father and not the other way round. Go out there there and get a life. 4 Likes |
Re: My Father Doesn't Stand Up For Me Like My Other Siblings by Bliss62: 7:38pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
![]() Forget about your father and his preference Do you love yourself Kindly make yourself happy Feed yourself what you like Drink what you like,.. Wear exactly what you like For me, it's Amala Skye(Ibadan). I go there and eat , drink five alive pulpy, go to Sango and have catfish and henieken mortuary frozen type Please 🙏 take care of yourself, you have just one life to live . 2 Likes |
Re: My Father Doesn't Stand Up For Me Like My Other Siblings by 4KNGOATS(m): 7:39pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
Hmm you're even so lucky you have someone to rely on what would you say to people who have no parents,should they then go and kill themselves? Bros your dad is simply teaching you a life lesson of self-reliance so that when he's no more you can take care of both yourself and your siblings. So learn very well bros |
Re: My Father Doesn't Stand Up For Me Like My Other Siblings by libertyfather(m): 7:53pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
Go and be made and watch the rest in Africa magic |
Re: My Father Doesn't Stand Up For Me Like My Other Siblings by Olukemioluwa: 8:02pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
Skyview01: Bros calm , let me tell you a little bit story . I live far away from home . I recently got a land to erect a building in my home , still on the process. My land acquirance never concerned him . Almost one week ago I called him to get me the contact of a sand seller I don't know what they are called but those who delivers trip of sand for block molding. Do you know that uptil now he hasn't called me back to even tell me how he went about the hunt or to even know if he had made any attempt to. But I called my kid bro yesterday and he went out last night to get me a number of someone I know who does that business and the person will deliver the product on Tuesday. But my dad isn't even bothered about it . I called my elder sis and told her about it , she said I shouldn't bother him anymore since he acts like he doesn't care about me. She kuku knows about this right from when we were kids . So I don't depend on him in anyway. I am just bothered about missing a fatherly love . Not treated by him like the way he treats my other siblings. Imagine if it were my other siblings embarking on these projects, my father would have been all over , running around to make sure it is done 3 Likes |
Re: My Father Doesn't Stand Up For Me Like My Other Siblings by Olukemioluwa: 8:05pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
libertyfather: I am not made yet , but I don't depend on anyone for survival. I am even the one that sends home not ask from home |
Re: My Father Doesn't Stand Up For Me Like My Other Siblings by Ahmed0336(m): 8:42pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
Maybe you should conduct a DNA test to accertain if he is truly your father. There must be a reason why he's cold towards you 1 Like |
Re: My Father Doesn't Stand Up For Me Like My Other Siblings by Mhizzard(m): 8:51pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
You are now a man,you need no one to stand for you anymore. |
Re: My Father Doesn't Stand Up For Me Like My Other Siblings by Nobody: 10:21pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
Olukemioluwa: I see where you are coming from. Those kinds of errands I prefer to send my bro than my dad. |
Re: My Father Doesn't Stand Up For Me Like My Other Siblings by Kobojunkie: 10:34pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
Olukemioluwa:It is indeed a painful experience to have but there is nothing you can do about it but learn to be a better person from it and if possible for your kids. ![]() |
Re: My Father Doesn't Stand Up For Me Like My Other Siblings by Yashita: 12:19am On Nov 13, 2023 |
It’s easier said than done but if I were you, I’d start to live like he died long time ago. Do my thing and involve only relatives that care about me. However, take into records all the lack of love you received from him so that when he brings up “this child doesn’t care about me his father” in the future, you can lay down the evidence of nonchalance he showed you when you needed him the most. In a nutshell, give him a lengthy distance, let him be the one to run after you, if he doesn’t, bear in mind that you don’t have a father. 1 Like |
Re: My Father Doesn't Stand Up For Me Like My Other Siblings by libertyfather(m): 12:37am On Nov 13, 2023 |
not yet enough dude, do the needy and watch like I said.....talking from experience Olukemioluwa: |
Re: My Father Doesn't Stand Up For Me Like My Other Siblings by hakeemhakeem(m): 8:43pm On Nov 13, 2023 |
Take or leave it you are the one he loves most,he is building you |
Re: My Father Doesn't Stand Up For Me Like My Other Siblings by mariahAngel(f): 8:58pm On Nov 13, 2023 |
Mhizzard: One can never be too old to desire to be loved, especially by one's parents. Everybody wants to be wanted. It might even affect his self-confidence as a person. 1 Like |
Re: My Father Doesn't Stand Up For Me Like My Other Siblings by Pikadili: 4:20am On Nov 14, 2023 |
hakeemhakeem: Building ko, foundation ni |
Re: My Father Doesn't Stand Up For Me Like My Other Siblings by Lance008(m): 4:55am On Nov 14, 2023 |
Cut am off and focus more on been successful Nobody reject a successful man |
Re: My Father Doesn't Stand Up For Me Like My Other Siblings by Lance008(m): 4:56am On Nov 14, 2023 |
hakeemhakeem:Your head no correct Saying rubbish May you be abandon because someone love you most and building u |
Re: My Father Doesn't Stand Up For Me Like My Other Siblings by hakeemhakeem(m): 7:46am On Nov 14, 2023 |
Lance008: You must be very stupid |
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