Magnoliaa:


Your condescension is for your own pocket o.

I don't give 2 fks. I don't care how you perceive this, long as it doesn't change my own perception of here being a forum where people contribute to discussions.

So now, the only thing that is within your will is to choose to respond to me or not, and that is totally fine.

U talking trash, keep fighting. Ur type is evident. Somethings are just meant from creation. The facts explained can't known to ur type. There is a head and there is a brain. Enjoy

I'm always amazed when I stumble on a non reader of the Bible making bold sentences claiming this or that is not in the Bible.

How you know they don't read the Bible is because they always make claims that any cursory reader knows is baseless.

The number of times that Jesus called the Holy Spirit a "He' in the book of John alone is intimidating.

Paul did same in his Epistles.

Over and over.

Especially in the world famous Romans 8

So this poster has just proven beyond any reasonable doubt that she definitely doesn't read the Bible and also probably hasn't read the Bible in decades. Perhaps she once was taught it in Sunday school as a kid...

But as for reading it herself...

Na lie

What a joke

Biglittlelois:


This is wrong

Nowhere in the bible is it said that it is blasphemy to refer to God as a she, God is an entity, that's why it is said that he can appear in any form to humans, and God is commonly called a he because he came to earth in form of a man, he could have come in form of a woman if God chooses to. The holy spirit is not referred to as a he, the holy spirit is simply called the holy spirit.

Bliss62:
Simply listen to your man and obey him , he married you out of a pool of women, he works his entire life to keep his home safe and happy

lol, you are funny.

a woman choose to marry a man out of pool of men too, hope you know?

Women of this generation work also, contribute also to the home.

A woman should obey her man because she loves him and willingly allows him to Lord over her.

And, pls, not because of those two reasons mentioned there.

rapheal5:
Brother na see finish, it takes result to cancel insult... You need to hold better money...

Sadly, you are right...!

You hardly hear such nonsense talk in marriages where there is serious money.

That's why I keep telling young men to focus more on their financial lives than chasing ladies upandan.

Wealth and Success nor be anybody mate... They give no room for see finish!

A305:
If I have to explain this — it will totally establish the fact that I'm lecturing a kid who doesn't know the dynamics and power play in man and woman relationship.

Please save me the time to type here and just go learn from the basics on YouTube crash course or Wikipedia on Google.

Oga Your post is the most "stupidest" I have read in recent times. I think you need the crash course

Fake love everywhere

I keep telling people that true love doesn't exist in Nigeria, the only thing that exists is fake love.

Women love you because of what they will gain from you.

Tell a woman you are rich, she will come closer to you.
Tell a woman you are poor, she will run away from you without looking back 💯

Men shine your eyes.
Don't fall a victim

Bliss62:
Simply listen to your man and obey him , he married you out of a pool of women, he works his entire life to keep his home safe and happy

you perfectly nailed it

obinna58:

When she gives him enough puxzy so he doesn’t get angry😁

A woman who knows her place and her role “a code of conduct”, acts womanly, being in position for peace always with great understanding, support. She must know the importance of authority, respect and humility, she can cry her to victory if it’s what she needs to win.
Weakness is an attraction just as strength is an attraction for men.

Nothing pisses men off like when she shows strength against her husband instead of the opposite

I rarely comment but I couldn't skip pass this. You said it all. Many homes lack what you just deposited and that's why you seeing divorce everly on the increase, even in our own Africa which makes very worrisome.

boldsleek:
lol, you are funny.

a woman choose to marry a man out of pool of men too, hope you know?

Women of this generation work also, contribute also to the home.

A woman should obey her man because she loves him and willingly allows him to Lord over her.

And, pls, not because of those two reasons mentioned there.

Well agreed

CandidAdmin:
One keeps hearing from the men on NL that they want a submissive woman. Almost every thread about relationships and marriage has that word.

Now, over to the men, what's your definition of submissive?
Is it that when you say A, she must obey and not say B?
Or she shouldn't even give her opinion at all?
Or her choices and prefrences don't matter at all just because you want something?

Men!!! Let's discuss.

Question of the day - True or false, Responsibility without Authority is Slavery?

A submissive woman is a woman that understands where her man is currently..and who has an idea where he is going to..who encourages her man to be the best version of himself and is not a lazy woman herself..

labake1:
Thread for misogynist

I tell you ! See them flying all over the place like birds .

Lists upon lists These kind of women still dey naija? Anybody wen see one or half should let me know please We now have greedy,selfish,damaged and immorality ambassadors as single ladies. Guys now marries with risk

Most times just for kids only.. We're always prepared for the worst that might happen later.. Na why most guys now prefer lowkey marriage. No need wasting money for what's not certain. Only idiot*s waste too money on marriage these days..

Cux no matter how good you make her feel(these generation of girls) ,she can still put rat poison in your drink mins after you've bought her the world.

Biola67:
another jobless people thread. Monday morning. Una Dey enjoy for naija sha

Which country is using your body and soul currently. Happy slaving

Magnoliaa:


And she doesn't provide for her man? And what kind of provision sef are you talking? Money? House? Properties? There are women who have one or more of these...where should submission come in here?



Why are you jumping between points? Is submission about provision or listening or it's about provision and listening together?

And if you're saying submission is hinged on a woman affording everything for herself but choosing to hold back, then it is in direction contradiction to the first part of your comment that insinuates that a man provides for a woman. You realise there's a difference between providing for someone and someone allowing you to provide?

Now if you're preaching that a woman should allow a man to provide for her even when she has her own resources, do you agree with women who say, "his money is our money, and my money is my money?"

All of these things you've described...why is it not okay for a man to do same for a woman? I mean, they're good, positive behsviours, right? Listening to someone, treating them with humility, allowing them to take care of you? And what qualifies a man to be a captain?



So in one word submission is respect? Why can the husband and wife, both of them, not show the same respect to each other? Would a man be a fool if he submits to his wife?

Kobojunkie, is that you?
Stop hiding

Magnoliaa:


This is what morality means to you?


Are there anything on your list here that a husband can show to his wife too, or it is forbidden for men to express these qualities as you've described with their wives?

Should a husband not be peaceful? Should he not be understanding? Should he not show support for his wife and deal with her with great understanding? I you think these things are okay for men to imbibe, why are you calling it submission for women?

I think you kinda mixing things up.

The points you raised are valid and definitely any man who loves you would be understanding because the basis of love is understanding, however, the topic of submissive is about direction, having the lead, and also the direction of the flow of authority.

Africa is so backward currently because we want to copy everything white, compared with the Asians, everyone understands their God-given role and duties by virtue of their birth.

When an order is distorted what's left is chaos, the family unit must have order, now this is not a pass for men who are irresponsible to take advantage of.

For a home to work, there must be a mother and father role, the challenge we have currently is men are becoming too lazy to be men and women are choosing anything other than being women, worse off the west has so much brainwashed our generation for all women to think that their mothers were slaves to men and they should demand for more.

D woman I can push her head to suck my dick anytime I want

They be saying so many words and not making any sense. Ask them for practical examples and it’s crickets. Mute.

Because in real life it doesn’t make sense

Magnoliaa:


And she doesn't provide for her man? And what kind of provision sef are you talking? Money? House? Properties? There are women who have one or more of these...where should submission come in here?



Why are you jumping between points? Is submission about provision or listening or it's about provision and listening together?

And if you're saying submission is hinged on a woman affording everything for herself but choosing to hold back, then it is in direction contradiction to the first part of your comment that insinuates that a man provides for a woman. You realise there's a difference between providing for someone and someone allowing you to provide?

Now if you're preaching that a woman should allow a man to provide for her even when she has her own resources, do you agree with women who say, "his money is our money, and my money is my money?"

All of these things you've described...why is it not okay for a man to do same for a woman? I mean, they're good, positive behsviours, right? Listening to someone, treating them with humility, allowing them to take care of you? And what qualifies a man to be a captain?



So in one word submission is respect? Why can the husband and wife, both of them, not show the same respect to each other? Would a man be a fool if he submits to his wife?

Nigerian men like to complicate things for themselves with their bogus ego that is as high as mountain Everest.

Here everyone is busy talking about a submissive woman. for goodness sake, she is a human being and the world submissive is subjective. It now depend to who am I submitting to? Is he an egocentric monster that does not care about anything other than himself and his rules? Is he a tyrant that want me to kept quiet even when my right and dignity is been dragged on the ground? He is a reasonable person that I fell in-love with and thus allow myself to be submissive to him knowing that he is a kind, respectful and considerate man that also respect my opinions any issue?

Even the ones that cannot even provide one square meal for themselves are still they talk about submission, when they have not fulfilled the ultimate duty of becoming a provider. They want ladies of this generation to be like their mothers. They forget that these are different times when the men themselves can no longer be the sole providers just like their fathers of Old. These days we have both couples providing on equal measures to run the homes, reasoning together to see how they can make live better for their family.

Now tell me , if you wish the ladies to be like their mothers (where they will be less industrious just like our mothers of old) can you guys take care of the bills at home alone? No you cant do that. The only time a man can have 100% authority over his home, where he want his wife to be seen and not heard, is when he is the sole provider of the home. And that means that the woman in question will not be too educated and expose enough to know her right. To this very woman the man is her savior that brought her from the village to the city and as such she is ready to abide by what ever rules the man decide set in the home.

Nigerian men love master and slave relationship, they want to eat their cake and have it in this modern world...They look forward to getting a financial independent woman that is accomplished and still exhibit that archaic misogynistic behavior in such marriage ,expecting her to be subdued just like they would with a plain girl from the village.

Please if you wish to marry a very submissive woman that will never question your authority(Either good or bad) get a woman from a remote village and marry her. Then you can be the supreme lord of your own manor.

One thing you need to understand is that when two or more people form a union , a group or an association, in order to avoid chaos and disorderliness their must be A LEADER and their must be a subordinate.

Now comparing this to marriage we all can agree that both culturally and religiously in any marriage , the man should be the leader and the moment any other person tries to overshadow his orders or water down his directives that action would be percied as insorbordination or mutiny.

In marriage the Man is the King of his kingdom( family in this regard), and his orders must be obyed. But in a situation where you don't like what the man is doing you can give your opinion after all the decisions he takes would affect both him and his family.

Wives can show their submissiveness by following the leadership of the man and this includes but not limited to
1) following his directives
2) her opinions must be seen as a suggestion and not as an order
3) she shouldn't try to play the role of the man in this case trying to be the breadwinner of the family.

Imagine having TINUBU AND PETER OBI AS PRESIDENT AT THE SAME TIME, that would be a perfect recipe for chaos.

As a woman always know that your the vice president and the husband is the PRESIDO

Let's forget all this feminist bullshit when it applies to family.


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Just the way she shows respect to, does not argue with and obeys her boss directives at her work place.
1. Respect.
2. No argument.
3. Simple obedience.
Just the way your maid does.

Respecting your husband principles and values. Most women make mistake of always challenging their husband's authority. If you have issue with submission please stay out of marriage and you will still be successful.

What of those with bad mothers ?

Jeon:
A woman like their mother, period!.

CandidAdmin:
One keeps hearing from the men on NL that they want a submissive woman. Almost every thread about relationships and marriage has that word.

Now, over to the men, what's your definition of submissive?
Is it that when you say A, she must obey and not say B?
Or she shouldn't even give her opinion at all?
Or her choices and prefrences don't matter at all just because you want something?

Men!!! Let's discuss.

Question of the day - True or false, Responsibility without Authority is Slavery?

She should relate with me the way she will relate with her Dad

Magnoliaa:


And she doesn't provide for her man? And what kind of provision sef are you talking? Money? House? Properties? There are women who have one or more of these...where should submission come in here?



Why are you jumping between points? Is submission about provision or listening or it's about provision and listening together?

And if you're saying submission is hinged on a woman affording everything for herself but choosing to hold back, then it is in direction contradiction to the first part of your comment that insinuates that a man provides for a woman. You realise there's a difference between providing for someone and someone allowing you to provide?

Now if you're preaching that a woman should allow a man to provide for her even when she has her own resources, do you agree with women who say, "his money is our money, and my money is my money?"

All of these things you've described...why is it not okay for a man to do same for a woman? I mean, they're good, positive behsviours, right? Listening to someone, treating them with humility, allowing them to take care of you? And what qualifies a man to be a captain?



So in one word submission is respect? Why can the husband and wife, both of them, not show the same respect to each other? Would a man be a fool if he submits to his wife?

I submit to.my wife because she is the one that marry me

alklas:
D woman I can push her head to suck my dick anytime I want

Werey

obinna58:


You’re a definition of non submissive woman

Op here lies your answer
If she behaves like
magnoliaa
Jennyclay
kobojunkie
Siofra
Goodlady
IconicR

You won’t last 5months in the marriage

My little findings. Goodlady na man
Na hustling boy wey dey do local. I carry the picture go check on am omo i surprise lol.

Women opinion matters too, But then

A woman should just know your place, act and show Respect to her man both in public and at home always

Same way people respect their bosses in the office and can still make suggestions to the running of the office where necessary

Same way a Deputy Governor respects his boss while still contributing meaningfully to the running of the state

As a lady when the man s talking, listen. when he is angry, keep quiet. You can always make your suggestions or points or correct him respectively when he is calm and in a good mood. Don't argue unnecessarily thereby heating up the home

Ladies knows these things but wokeness makes some of them thinks doing so is tantamount to slavery

If you can't respect him, please leave him and go your way, biko!!!

Magnoliaa:


If I asked you to oblige me on your Christian journey and faith now, you will chicken out like your fellow guy above. If I asked you if you've had a personal experience with Jesus Christ, I doubt if you'll have something reasonable to tell me.

When you got saved? When you got baptised - both in Spirit and in water? Or how diligent you've followed the Great Commission?

Your moniker alone itself is sus.

Because you want to take the Bible on what it says about marriage, meanwhile you probably haven't taken other things it says about salvation, condemnation, etc., as truth.

I love your boldness.

Submission to me is the way yiu respect your dad is the way yiu should respect me and the way I love my min is the way I should love my wife

omoharry:
Nigerian men like to complicate things for themselves with their bogus ego that is as high as mountain Everest.

Here everyone is busy talking about a submissive woman. for goodness sake, she is a human being and the world submissive is subjective. It now depend to who am I submitting to? Is he an egocentric monster that does not care about anything other than himself and his rules? Is he a tyrant that want me to kept quiet even when my right and dignity is been dragged on the ground? He is a reasonable person that I fell in-love with and thus allow myself to be submissive to him knowing that he is a kind, respectful and considerate man that also respect my opinions any issue?

Even the ones that cannot even provide one square meal for themselves are still they talk about submission, when they have not fulfilled the ultimate duty of becoming a provider. They want ladies of this generation to be like their mothers. They forget that these are different times when the men themselves can no longer be the sole providers just like their fathers of Old. These days we have both couples providing on equal measures to run the homes, reasoning together to see how they can make live better for their family.

Now tell me , if you wish the ladies to be like their mothers (where they will be less industrious just like our mothers of old) can you guys take care of the bills at home alone? No you cant do that. The only time a man can have 100% authority over his home, where he want his wife to be seen and not heard, is when he is the sole provider of the home. And that means that the woman in question will not be too educated and expose enough to know her right. To this very woman the man is her savior that brought her from the village to the city and as such she is ready to abide by what ever rules the man decide set in the home.

Nigerian men love master and slave relationship, they want to eat their cake and have it in this modern world...They look forward to getting a financial independent woman that is accomplished and still exhibit that archaic misogynistic behavior in such marriage ,expecting her to be subdued just like they would with a plain girl from the village.

Please if you wish to marry a very submissive woman that will never question your authority(Either good or bad) get a woman from a remote village and marry her. Then you can be the supreme lord of your own manor.

With this comment, you will forever remain an evening news paper

The society, the holy books demandsociety that a woman should be submissive to her husband and that's it. Listen, respect and be loyal to your husband. You can't be telling your husband to do chores for you. Although there are some ways in which men can help their wives as well but the woman should understand that the man is just helping her and not his responsibility. Na women dey do chores since time immemorial but today's women think they are woke and want 5o-50 which will never happen. The man's primary responsibility is to provide, protect, guides his family and not some chores. Any woman pushing for 50-50 in any aspect of marriage is not ready. And most of them 96% of women like that are divorcee who couldn't manage their home.

Magnoliaa:


And she doesn't provide for her man? And what kind of provision sef are you talking? Money? House? Properties? There are women who have one or more of these...where should submission come in here?



Why are you jumping between points? Is submission about provision or listening or it's about provision and listening together?

And if you're saying submission is hinged on a woman affording everything for herself but choosing to hold back, then it is in direction contradiction to the first part of your comment that insinuates that a man provides for a woman. You realise there's a difference between providing for someone and someone allowing you to provide?

Now if you're preaching that a woman should allow a man to provide for her even when she has her own resources, do you agree with women who say, "his money is our money, and my money is my money?"

All of these things you've described...why is it not okay for a man to do same for a woman? I mean, they're good, positive behsviours, right? Listening to someone, treating them with humility, allowing them to take care of you? And what qualifies a man to be a captain?



So in one word submission is respect? Why can the husband and wife, both of them, not show the same respect to each other? Would a man be a fool if he submits to his wife?

What of our social norms, culture and traditions. Is there any African traditions that didn't demand the wife to be submissive to
her husband?

Magnoliaa:


If I asked you to oblige me on your Christian journey and faith now, you will chicken out like your fellow guy above. If I asked you if you've had a personal experience with Jesus Christ, I doubt if you'll have something reasonable to tell me.

When you got saved? When you got baptised - both in Spirit and in water? Or how diligent you've followed the Great Commission?

Your moniker alone itself is sus.

Because you want to take the Bible on what it says about marriage, meanwhile you probably haven't taken other things it says about salvation, condemnation, etc., as truth.