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Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by royalfly(m): 9:44am On Nov 13, 2023 |
Magnoliaa: U talking trash, keep fighting. Ur type is evident. Somethings are just meant from creation. The facts explained can't known to ur type. There is a head and there is a brain. Enjoy |
Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by VULCAN(m): 9:46am On Nov 13, 2023 |
I'm always amazed when I stumble on a non reader of the Bible making bold sentences claiming this or that is not in the Bible. How you know they don't read the Bible is because they always make claims that any cursory reader knows is baseless. The number of times that Jesus called the Holy Spirit a "He' in the book of John alone is intimidating. Paul did same in his Epistles. Over and over. Especially in the world famous Romans 8 So this poster has just proven beyond any reasonable doubt that she definitely doesn't read the Bible and also probably hasn't read the Bible in decades. Perhaps she once was taught it in Sunday school as a kid... But as for reading it herself... Na lie What a joke Biglittlelois: |
Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by boldsleek: 9:46am On Nov 13, 2023 |
Bliss62:lol, you are funny. a woman choose to marry a man out of pool of men too, hope you know? Women of this generation work also, contribute also to the home. A woman should obey her man because she loves him and willingly allows him to Lord over her. And, pls, not because of those two reasons mentioned there. |
Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by Angelfrost(m): 9:47am On Nov 13, 2023 |
rapheal5: Sadly, you are right...! You hardly hear such nonsense talk in marriages where there is serious money. That's why I keep telling young men to focus more on their financial lives than chasing ladies upandan. Wealth and Success nor be anybody mate... They give no room for see finish! 1 Like |
Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by 3rockets(m): 9:48am On Nov 13, 2023 |
A305: Oga Your post is the most "stupidest" I have read in recent times. I think you need the crash course |
Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by RonuRonu: 9:48am On Nov 13, 2023 |
![]() Fake love everywhere ![]() I keep telling people that true love doesn't exist in Nigeria, the only thing that exists is fake love. Women love you because of what they will gain from you. Tell a woman you are rich, she will come closer to you. Tell a woman you are poor, she will run away from you without looking back 💯 Men shine your eyes. Don't fall a victim 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by TrustNone: 9:49am On Nov 13, 2023 |
Bliss62:you perfectly nailed it |
Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by skultrick(m): 9:50am On Nov 13, 2023 |
obinna58: I rarely comment but I couldn't skip pass this. You said it all. Many homes lack what you just deposited and that's why you seeing divorce everly on the increase, even in our own Africa which makes very worrisome. |
Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by Bliss62: 9:50am On Nov 13, 2023 |
boldsleek: Well agreed |
Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by Blitzking: 9:51am On Nov 13, 2023 |
CandidAdmin:A submissive woman is a woman that understands where her man is currently..and who has an idea where he is going to..who encourages her man to be the best version of himself and is not a lazy woman herself.. |
Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by omoharry(f): 9:51am On Nov 13, 2023 |
labake1:I tell you ! See them flying all over the place like birds . |
Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by UptownVibes(m): 9:54am On Nov 13, 2023 |
Lists upon lists ![]() ![]() ![]() Most times just for kids only.. We're always prepared for the worst that might happen later.. Na why most guys now prefer lowkey marriage. No need wasting money for what's not certain. Only idiot*s waste too money on marriage these days.. Cux no matter how good you make her feel(these generation of girls) ,she can still put rat poison in your drink mins after you've bought her the world. |
Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by sweetkev(m): 9:55am On Nov 13, 2023 |
Biola67:Which country is using your body and soul currently. Happy slaving ![]() |
Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by seanwilliam(m): 9:57am On Nov 13, 2023 |
Magnoliaa:Kobojunkie, is that you? ![]() Stop hiding ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by Gr8amechi: 9:57am On Nov 13, 2023 |
Magnoliaa:I think you kinda mixing things up. The points you raised are valid and definitely any man who loves you would be understanding because the basis of love is understanding, however, the topic of submissive is about direction, having the lead, and also the direction of the flow of authority. Africa is so backward currently because we want to copy everything white, compared with the Asians, everyone understands their God-given role and duties by virtue of their birth. When an order is distorted what's left is chaos, the family unit must have order, now this is not a pass for men who are irresponsible to take advantage of. For a home to work, there must be a mother and father role, the challenge we have currently is men are becoming too lazy to be men and women are choosing anything other than being women, worse off the west has so much brainwashed our generation for all women to think that their mothers were slaves to men and they should demand for more. 1 Like |
Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by alklas(m): 10:00am On Nov 13, 2023 |
D woman I can push her head to suck my dick anytime I want ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by cococandy(f): 10:03am On Nov 13, 2023 |
They be saying so many words and not making any sense. Ask them for practical examples and it’s crickets. Mute. ![]() Because in real life it doesn’t make sense Magnoliaa: 4 Likes |
Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by omoharry(f): 10:07am On Nov 13, 2023 |
Nigerian men like to complicate things for themselves with their bogus ego that is as high as mountain Everest. Here everyone is busy talking about a submissive woman. for goodness sake, she is a human being and the world submissive is subjective. It now depend to who am I submitting to? Is he an egocentric monster that does not care about anything other than himself and his rules? Is he a tyrant that want me to kept quiet even when my right and dignity is been dragged on the ground? He is a reasonable person that I fell in-love with and thus allow myself to be submissive to him knowing that he is a kind, respectful and considerate man that also respect my opinions any issue? Even the ones that cannot even provide one square meal for themselves are still they talk about submission, when they have not fulfilled the ultimate duty of becoming a provider. They want ladies of this generation to be like their mothers. They forget that these are different times when the men themselves can no longer be the sole providers just like their fathers of Old. These days we have both couples providing on equal measures to run the homes, reasoning together to see how they can make live better for their family. Now tell me , if you wish the ladies to be like their mothers (where they will be less industrious just like our mothers of old) can you guys take care of the bills at home alone? No you cant do that. The only time a man can have 100% authority over his home, where he want his wife to be seen and not heard, is when he is the sole provider of the home. And that means that the woman in question will not be too educated and expose enough to know her right. To this very woman the man is her savior that brought her from the village to the city and as such she is ready to abide by what ever rules the man decide set in the home. Nigerian men love master and slave relationship, they want to eat their cake and have it in this modern world...They look forward to getting a financial independent woman that is accomplished and still exhibit that archaic misogynistic behavior in such marriage ,expecting her to be subdued just like they would with a plain girl from the village. Please if you wish to marry a very submissive woman that will never question your authority(Either good or bad) get a woman from a remote village and marry her. Then you can be the supreme lord of your own manor. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by Kingmadiba2(m): 10:10am On Nov 13, 2023 |
One thing you need to understand is that when two or more people form a union , a group or an association, in order to avoid chaos and disorderliness their must be A LEADER and their must be a subordinate. Now comparing this to marriage we all can agree that both culturally and religiously in any marriage , the man should be the leader and the moment any other person tries to overshadow his orders or water down his directives that action would be percied as insorbordination or mutiny. In marriage the Man is the King of his kingdom( family in this regard), and his orders must be obyed. But in a situation where you don't like what the man is doing you can give your opinion after all the decisions he takes would affect both him and his family. Wives can show their submissiveness by following the leadership of the man and this includes but not limited to 1) following his directives 2) her opinions must be seen as a suggestion and not as an order 3) she shouldn't try to play the role of the man in this case trying to be the breadwinner of the family. Imagine having TINUBU AND PETER OBI AS PRESIDENT AT THE SAME TIME, that would be a perfect recipe for chaos. As a woman always know that your the vice president and the husband is the PRESIDO Let's forget all this feminist bullshit when it applies to family. _________________________________________________ ANYWAY that aside, don't allow this bu la blu economy to cause you more hardship ooh, learn how to earn money from the comfort of your kitchen by doing DIGITAL REAL ESTATE Check my profile or click in the link below this comment NOW 👇👇👇👇👇👇👇👇👇👇 1 Like |
Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by Kingson28: 10:13am On Nov 13, 2023 |
Just the way she shows respect to, does not argue with and obeys her boss directives at her work place. 1. Respect. 2. No argument. 3. Simple obedience. Just the way your maid does. |
Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by Exceed15: 10:13am On Nov 13, 2023 |
Respecting your husband principles and values. Most women make mistake of always challenging their husband's authority. If you have issue with submission please stay out of marriage and you will still be successful. |
Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by dbestuncle: 10:15am On Nov 13, 2023 |
Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by Paramount01(m): 10:17am On Nov 13, 2023 |
CandidAdmin: She should relate with me the way she will relate with her Dad |
Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by Paramount01(m): 10:20am On Nov 13, 2023 |
Magnoliaa: I submit to.my wife because she is the one that marry me |
Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by sweetkev(m): 10:21am On Nov 13, 2023 |
alklas:Werey ![]() |
Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by tollyboy5(m): 10:21am On Nov 13, 2023 |
obinna58:My little findings. Goodlady na man ![]() Na hustling boy wey dey do local. I carry the picture go check on am omo i surprise lol. |
Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by Lucky5000(m): 10:23am On Nov 13, 2023 |
Women opinion matters too, But then A woman should just know your place, act and show Respect to her man both in public and at home always |
Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by Mayeldah(m): 10:25am On Nov 13, 2023 |
Same way people respect their bosses in the office and can still make suggestions to the running of the office where necessary Same way a Deputy Governor respects his boss while still contributing meaningfully to the running of the state As a lady when the man s talking, listen. when he is angry, keep quiet. You can always make your suggestions or points or correct him respectively when he is calm and in a good mood. Don't argue unnecessarily thereby heating up the home Ladies knows these things but wokeness makes some of them thinks doing so is tantamount to slavery If you can't respect him, please leave him and go your way, biko!!! 2 Likes |
Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by Paramount01(m): 10:26am On Nov 13, 2023 |
Magnoliaa: I love your boldness. Submission to me is the way yiu respect your dad is the way yiu should respect me and the way I love my min is the way I should love my wife 1 Like |
Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by sweetkev(m): 10:28am On Nov 13, 2023 |
omoharry:With this comment, you will forever remain an evening news paper |
Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by Tommydare(m): 10:29am On Nov 13, 2023 |
The society, the holy books demandsociety that a woman should be submissive to her husband and that's it. Listen, respect and be loyal to your husband. You can't be telling your husband to do chores for you. Although there are some ways in which men can help their wives as well but the woman should understand that the man is just helping her and not his responsibility. Na women dey do chores since time immemorial but today's women think they are woke and want 5o-50 which will never happen. The man's primary responsibility is to provide, protect, guides his family and not some chores. Any woman pushing for 50-50 in any aspect of marriage is not ready. And most of them 96% of women like that are divorcee who couldn't manage their home. Magnoliaa: |
Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by Tommydare(m): 10:32am On Nov 13, 2023 |
What of our social norms, culture and traditions. Is there any African traditions that didn't demand the wife to be submissive to her husband? Magnoliaa: |
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