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Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by Pacesetter123(m): 12:44pm On Nov 13, 2023
Vinnie2000:


A woman who can use N1000 to prepare Soup for 2, 3 Days. 🤨🙂
Is a submissive woman shay?
grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

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Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by Magnoliaa(f): 12:44pm On Nov 13, 2023
Timtellect:
Can i send you an email?

No.

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Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by God2man2again(m): 12:54pm On Nov 13, 2023
Let's not put the cart before the horse, purpose before marriage, there must be purpose before marriage, can two walk together except they agreed?

There must be a united goal, purpose or reasons for the marriage.

One thing will lead to another.

The horse before the cart.

So, a submissive woman is the one who follows the same purpose with her husband in marriage
Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by Justkatty(f): 12:57pm On Nov 13, 2023
Anything they say don't disagree cool
Don't argue with them
Always accept every lies they tell as the truth
Don't make findings about them through anyone
When you do all these, you'll be seen as the best inugo shocked
Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by omoharry(f): 1:21pm On Nov 13, 2023
sweetkev:
With this comment, you will forever remain an evening news paper
ooo Shut up please!! Evening newspaper my foot! As if marriage is the beginning and the end all women. Life goes beyond that my dear. Please preach that to your usual desperate women that see nothing else in life than marriage. I see beyond that dear.

Happiness, peace of mind and lovely memories in my life time is all I desire and will not jeopardize that at the alter of getting married at any cost. And please dont bring your usual archaic view about menopause, who fucking cares anyway when I can always adopt a cute baby and shower her all my love. Like I said not every woman is crazy about marriage. I am more at peace alone than with a man, you guys are too much of a burden. My two cent dear.

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Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by 1Sharon(f): 1:59pm On Nov 13, 2023
Biglittlelois:


At the bolded, so who created the first African man and woman?


Bleep knows.
Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by 1Sharon(f): 2:00pm On Nov 13, 2023
Biglittlelois:


At the bolded, so who created the first African man and woman?


Fúck knows.
Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by luckyz4rea(m): 2:01pm On Nov 13, 2023
CandidAdmin:
One keeps hearing from the men on NL that they want a submissive woman. Almost every thread about relationships and marriage has that word.

Now, over to the men, what's your definition of submissive?
Is it that when you say A, she must obey and not say B?
Or she shouldn't even give her opinion at all?
Or her choices and prefrences don't matter at all just because you want something?

Men!!! Let's discuss.

Question of the day - True or false, Responsibility without Authority is Slavery?

To me, it is a woman that is submitted to God which is reflected in the way she deals with her family and people.

We respect God and God teaches us to be respectful to people regardless of their status. That’s the way I believe a submissive woman should be.
Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by Biola67: 2:06pm On Nov 13, 2023
sweetkev:
Which country is using your body and soul currently. Happy slaving grin
If Living good life is your own definition of slaving… Make una wey dey Nigeria Dey enjoy the life go grin

Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by Kobojunkie: 2:12pm On Nov 13, 2023
Wallade:
A submissive woman is respectful to her husband, protects her husband, advice her husband, prays and wish her husband well, listens to her husband even when she differs in opinion; she finds the best time and approach to communicate her opinion to him and trust me, he will agree with her respectfully too but if he insists, just follow through with caution.
In fact respect is the key word. He is the captain and she is the assistant captain in the home
.
These are all qualities a man should equally have towards his wife though. Yet you repeat them all just so as to asset the man as captain. How come? undecided
Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by DDIA: 2:21pm On Nov 13, 2023
Jeon:
A woman like their mother, period!.
Senseless almajiri girl.



Go to school even if it means saving part of the money you get from Hawking groundnut daily.

You can go to school and continue Hawking groundnut after school.

This is so as to stop contributing to the illiteracy and embarrassment of the north where your are from. grin

A woman like her mother is this one's definition of being submissive.
Usman Dan fodio do your whole ancestral generation strong thing. grin
Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by achimendy(m): 2:28pm On Nov 13, 2023
Jeon:
A woman like their mother, period!.


A woman like you.
Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by Wallade(m): 2:32pm On Nov 13, 2023
Kobojunkie:
These are all qualities a man should equally have towards his wife though. Yet you repeat them all just so as to asset the man as captain. How come? undecided

I agree that these are qualities the man also needs to exhibit in relationship with his wife but the man should not be submissive to his wife, except if the wife is his boss in the work environment.

In every successful organization, there is hierarchy and line of authority. Everyone needs to understand their roles and hierarchy in the marriage.

The husband is the Chairman of the Board of Directors while the wife is the Managing Director. Marriages that doesn't have that understanding will struggle significantly.

Your husband is your captain, run your decisions by him for approval, concurrence and authority. Respect your husband and every other person will respect him especially when they have a lot of respect for you.

If you understand that concept, your marriage will not struggle.

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Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by Chetas81(m): 2:36pm On Nov 13, 2023
Magnoliaa:


What's good morality?
if you have it, you won't ask question
Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by Chetas81(m): 2:38pm On Nov 13, 2023
MAD PEOPLE FAILED TO ASK WHY SINGLE MOTHER'S FULL EVERYWHERE ACROSS NIGERIA

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Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by Eyinju112(f): 2:42pm On Nov 13, 2023
zed7:

You have comprehension problems. Get someone to read and explain to you.

She really does.
She’s is only twisting herself, a woman shouldn’t think the way she is thinking. She is thinking like the whites who believes in equality.
This is Africa and Nigeria in particular, we are cultured and a cultured woman should be submissive
Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by AllDModsAreMaad: 2:58pm On Nov 13, 2023
A woman that respect her man, i.e a woman that is submissive or loyal to her man.
Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by BRATISLAVA: 2:59pm On Nov 13, 2023
ItisWell22:


God bless you! 🙏🤲

Amen.
Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by AllDModsAreMaad: 3:01pm On Nov 13, 2023
omoharry:
ooo Shut up please!! Evening newspaper my foot! As if marriage is the beginning and the end all women. Life goes beyond that my dear. Please preach that to your usual desperate women that see nothing else in life than marriage. I see beyond that dear.

Happiness, peace of mind and lovely memories in my life time is all I desire and will not jeopardize that at the alter of getting married at any cost. And please dont bring your usual archaic view about menopause, who fucking cares anyway when I can always adopt a cute baby and shower her all my love. Like I said not every woman is crazy about marriage. I am more at peace alone than with a man, you guys are too much of a burden. My two cent dear.

Nobody cares!
Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by Sammy101111(m): 3:29pm On Nov 13, 2023
When you login your Facebook account with out asking you for verification or code direct login with no stress na the meaning
Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by Trojan8(m): 3:29pm On Nov 13, 2023
Albertone:


This is a proof that you don't know the bible.

1. You didn't even complete the verse.

2. Paul was writing to the church at Ephesus. Submission in the context of a christian relationship(christian brothers and sisters) includes the idea of putting someone else, and their needs, above ourselves.

3. We are talking about submission between married couples and Paul expressly stated that wives should submit to their husbands in Ephesians 5:22-24

I like this. A man that knows his stuff and of course she changed gears. Good one
Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by Maxxim: 3:31pm On Nov 13, 2023
Rick9:
Don't love me much, just Respect me and see me as your overlord and you have won my heart.

Not the one I will be talking and you will be talking also. I can't stand pride in a woman, I just can't.
Simple
Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by loswhite(m): 3:36pm On Nov 13, 2023
CandidAdmin:
One keeps hearing from the men on NL that they want a submissive woman. Almost every thread about relationships and marriage has that word.

Now, over to the men, what's your definition of submissive?
Is it that when you say A, she must obey and not say B?
Or she shouldn't even give her opinion at all?
Or her choices and prefrences don't matter at all just because you want something?

Men!!! Let's discuss.

Question of the day - True or false, Responsibility without Authority is Slavery?
Tell us your own definition
Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by ukaface(f): 3:39pm On Nov 13, 2023
When they say open nyash , open am even if you Dey die
When they say sit down, you do because no be you Dey bring money
When they say shut up, you do because no be you be head.
Wahala!

Like as if their mother can tolerate such command.


Next question will be ‘ women what do you bring to the table’

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Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by teewhyhomes: 3:54pm On Nov 13, 2023
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Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by BRATISLAVA: 3:57pm On Nov 13, 2023
Bliss62:
cool



Simply listen to your man and obey him , he married you out of a pool of women, he works his entire life to keep his home safe and happy



.

Lies. He wants to share bills and have enough money for a young girlfriend.
Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by Bukola94(m): 4:29pm On Nov 13, 2023
zed7:
A submissive woman is not the one who only listens to her man because he provides for her, a true submissive woman is one who knows that even though she can afford everything by herself, she chooses to humble herself and listen to the man because she recognises she's a helper and not the captain.

Submissiveness doesn't mean you're a fool, but you choose to be respectful, because you know that you're a woman and a man is the head of the relationship.
Women like Khadija, Mary and Simbiat etc
Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by Bukola94(m): 4:33pm On Nov 13, 2023
Vinnie2000:


A woman who can use N1000 to prepare Soup for 2, 3 Days. 🤨🙂
not in this economy that things are so costly. Concussion rice that use to be cheaper is now expensive to cook. 2k soup last a family of two 2days only

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Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by Tommydare(m): 4:37pm On Nov 13, 2023
This is a fight you can't win. You can continue looking for a man that will be doing 50-50 with you but one thing is for sure, you won't see any. He might pretend in the beginning, but he will later show his true color and if you are
not submissive, he won't think twice before marrying another wife. It's a win for him in the end and the woman lose in the end. There are thousands of women out there looking for who to marry them. Harrysong just married 30 ladies recently. You ain't going to achieve anything in marriage with a feministic mentality. It will never work. Unless you no wan marry. Even if you no marry, so far u dey relationship with a man, you can't get 50-50. The best way is to avoid men and that is if you can. Those elderly women that are submissive ain't fools.
Magnoliaa:


The same society used to deem twins as evil. The society has many taboos and regulations for people from don't look into a mirror at night to not sitting on a mortar or drawing lines on the floor with a stick. With the exception of societal sanctions that protect humans' lives and dignity, every other norms are relative. You can choose to break them, but there'll be no physical punishment for it. And they're not necessarily right.

On the holy books part, I will ask you for a personal evidence. When you tell me how much of a spiritually devout person you are, I may consider listening to you on submission, 'cause I am not accepting y'alls cherrypicking. grin

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Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by nzoptunechi(m): 4:37pm On Nov 13, 2023
Loyal, respectful.
Still stay humble even when you're doing numbers than He did
Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by Kobojunkie: 4:40pm On Nov 13, 2023
Wallade:
I agree that these are qualities the man also needs to exhibit in relationship with his wife but the man should not be submissive to his wife, except if the wife is his boss in the work environment. In every successful organization, there is hierarchy and line of authority. Everyone needs to understand their roles and hierarchy in the marriage. The husband is the Chairman of the Board of Directors while the wife is the Managing Director. Marriages that doesn't have that understanding will struggle significantly.
Your husband is your captain, run your decisions by him for approval, concurrence and authority. Respect your husband and every other person will respect him especially when they have a lot of respect for you. If you understand that concept, your marriage will not struggle.
So both man and woman have to possess and exude the same submissive qualities in order for the relationship to make sense but somehow --- here's the illogical twist--- the man is not to submit to the woman at all? undecided
Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by Wallade(m): 4:55pm On Nov 13, 2023
Kobojunkie:
So both man and woman have to possess and exude the same submissive qualities in order for the relationship to make sense but somehow --- here's the illogical twist--- the man is not to submit to the woman at all? undecided

Respectful to his wife, protects his wife, advice his wife, prays and wish his wife well, listens to his wife even when he differs in opinion, where the difference or conflicting opinion persists, the position of the husband is binding on the wife otherwise, she has become disrespectful.

Submit to the leadership, authority and direction of your captain - husband. There can't be two Captains on a ship except one captain submits to be assistant of the other one.

It is against the culture, religion and personality of most men to submit to his wife or woman.

This is not only applicable to Nigerian man it is applicable to men around the world. You are free to check with other men and prove me wrong.

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