Since I was a child I have noticed it

My father doesn't stand up for me or take anything serious when it concerns me . But if it is my other siblings he did go to any length to make sure it is resolved. I don't even want to talk about my education or other aspects of life . Till now , I am 27 and counting, my father still does the same thing.

I need ur advice

Olukemioluwa:
Since I was a child I have noticed it

My father doesn't stand up for me or take anything serious when it concerns me . But if it is my other siblings he did go to the long length to make sure it is resolved. I don't even want to talk about my education or other aspects of life . Till now , I am 27 and counting, my father still does the same thing.

If I need ur advice

A full grown adult at 27 is still talking about my father this, my father that!

Wonders shall never end!

At 27, you should be the one standing up for your father and not the other way round.

Go out there there and get a life.

Forget about your father and his preference

Do you love yourself

Kindly make yourself happy

Feed yourself what you like

Drink what you like,..

Wear exactly what you like


For me, it's Amala Skye(Ibadan). I go there and eat , drink five alive pulpy, go to Sango and have catfish and henieken mortuary frozen type


Please 🙏 take care of yourself, you have just one life to live



.

Hmm you're even so lucky you have someone to rely on what would you say to people who have no parents,should they then go and kill themselves? Bros your dad is simply teaching you a life lesson of self-reliance so that when he's no more you can take care of both yourself and your siblings. So learn very well bros

Go and be made and watch the rest in Africa magic

Skyview01:


A full grown adult at 27 is still talking about my father this, my father that!

Wonders shall never end!

At 27, you should be the one standing up for your father and not the other way round.

Go out there there and get a life.

Bros calm , let me tell you a little bit story . I live far away from home . I recently got a land to erect a building in my home , still on the process. My land acquirance never concerned him . Almost one week ago I called him to get me the contact of a sand seller I don't know what they are called but those who delivers trip of sand for block molding. Do you know that uptil now he hasn't called me back to even tell me how he went about the hunt or to even know if he had made any attempt to. But I called my kid bro yesterday and he went out last night to get me a number of someone I know who does that business and the person will deliver the product on Tuesday. But my dad isn't even bothered about it . I called my elder sis and told her about it , she said I shouldn't bother him anymore since he acts like he doesn't care about me. She kuku knows about this right from when we were kids . So I don't depend on him in anyway. I am just bothered about missing a fatherly love . Not treated by him like the way he treats my other siblings. Imagine if it were my other siblings embarking on these projects, my father would have been all over , running around to make sure it is done

libertyfather:
Go and be made and watch the rest in Africa magic

I am not made yet , but I don't depend on anyone for survival. I am even the one that sends home not ask from home

Maybe you should conduct a DNA test to accertain if he is truly your father.
There must be a reason why he's cold towards you

You are now a man,you need no one to stand for you anymore.

Olukemioluwa:


Bros calm , let me tell you a little bit story . I live far away from home . I recently got a land to erect a building in my home , still on the process. My land acquirance never concerned him . Almost one week ago I called him to get me the contact of a sand seller I don't know what they are called but those who delivers trip of sand for block molding. Do you know that uptil now he hasn't called me back to even tell me how he went about the hunt or to even know if he had made any attempt to. But I called my kid bro yesterday and he went out last night to get me a number of someone I know who does that business and the person will deliver the product on Tuesday. But my dad isn't even bothered about it . I called my elder sis and told her about it , she said I shouldn't bother him anymore since he acts like he doesn't care about me. She kuku knows about this right from when we were kids . So I don't depend on him in anyway. I am just bothered about missing a fatherly love . Not treated by him like the way he treats my other siblings. Imagine if it were my other siblings embarking on these projects, my father would have been all over , running around to make sure it is done

I see where you are coming from.

Those kinds of errands I prefer to send my bro than my dad.

Olukemioluwa:
■ Since I was a child I have noticed it. My father doesn't stand up for me or take anything serious when it concerns me . But if it is my other siblings he did go to the long length to make sure it is resolved. I don't even want to talk about my education or other aspects of life . Till now , I am 27 and counting, my father still does the same thing. If I need ur advice

It is indeed a painful experience to have but there is nothing you can do about it but learn to be a better person from it and if possible for your kids.

It’s easier said than done but if I were you, I’d start to live like he died long time ago. Do my thing and involve only relatives that care about me. However, take into records all the lack of love you received from him so that when he brings up “this child doesn’t care about me his father” in the future, you can lay down the evidence of nonchalance he showed you when you needed him the most.

In a nutshell, give him a lengthy distance, let him be the one to run after you, if he doesn’t, bear in mind that you don’t have a father.

not yet enough dude, do the needy and watch like I said.....talking from experience

Olukemioluwa:


I am not made yet , but I don't depend on anyone for survival. I am even the one that sends home not ask from home

Take or leave it you are the one he loves most,he is building you

Mhizzard:
You are now a man,you need no one to stand for you anymore.

One can never be too old to desire to be loved, especially by one's parents.
Everybody wants to be wanted.

It might even affect his self-confidence as a person.

hakeemhakeem:
Take or leave it you are the one he loves most,he is building you

Building ko, foundation ni

Cut am off and focus more on been successful
Nobody reject a successful man

hakeemhakeem:
Take or leave it you are the one he loves most,he is building you

Your head no correct
Saying rubbish
May you be abandon because someone love you most and building u

Lance008:

Your head no correct
Saying rubbish
May you be abandon because someone love you most and building u

You must be very stupid