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Re: Should I Have Collected The Bread From Her Mother? by fyzaila: 11:49am On Nov 20, 2023 |
My opinion is different, i totally did not see anything wrong in what the op did. He said, the in-laws offered them food and they ate it. Isn't that already sign of trust and acceptance from his own part as a potential son in-law? Is it now turning down the bread offered that is now a crime? I'm a female, i wouldn't see anything wrong if my finace did what op did. I would only be hurt if he visited them without eating they food the offered. Because they must have taken their time to prepare it for his visit. Op don't feel any bad, let them all be castigating you as you kill person. If your girlfriend like, let her use that flimsy thing as an excuse not to marry you again. It wouldn't be your loss 😌 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Have Collected The Bread From Her Mother? by Ishilove: 11:58am On Nov 20, 2023 |
henrimoto:Very prideful individual 20 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Should I Have Collected The Bread From Her Mother? by Ishilove: 11:59am On Nov 20, 2023 |
Mindlog:My sister. E taya me. Are they kids that will eat biscuits and juice? 25 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Have Collected The Bread From Her Mother? by Ishilove: 12:01pm On Nov 20, 2023 |
Mindlog:Now you're making me crave bitter leaf soup 1 Like |
Re: Should I Have Collected The Bread From Her Mother? by Ginaz(f): 12:04pm On Nov 20, 2023 |
Ishilove: biscuit and juice. as per say the parents na primary school children. the guy's gift is 10 times worst than the bread the in- law gave him. he was fed with good food and still given bread yet he felt the bread was too suspicious or beneath him to accept. The way he spoke to his wife- to- be about her parents shows he lacks home training. The girl will marry him despite his lack of manners. tufia! 37 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Have Collected The Bread From Her Mother? by Houseontherock1: 12:46pm On Nov 20, 2023 |
PuZZyNegro:Fine...it's all the more reason you should have accepted the gift! 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Have Collected The Bread From Her Mother? by Neptunium(m): 12:55pm On Nov 20, 2023 |
You should have collected it. Is this the girlfriend who's pregnant for you? https://www.nairaland.com/7847853/how-girlfriends-mum-prevented-us You give their daughter pregnant no marriage yet you stil get get mouth 17 Likes |
Re: Should I Have Collected The Bread From Her Mother? by twilliamx(m): 12:55pm On Nov 20, 2023 |
PuZZyNegro: You no get sense walahi 24 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Have Collected The Bread From Her Mother? by KillIgbohoN0W: 12:55pm On Nov 20, 2023 |
FalseProphet1: 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Have Collected The Bread From Her Mother? by twilliamx(m): 12:56pm On Nov 20, 2023 |
PuZZyNegro:Next time them go gift you Ferrari 8 Likes |
Re: Should I Have Collected The Bread From Her Mother? by Etosha: 12:57pm On Nov 20, 2023 |
You should have collected it na... Nawaooo. 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Have Collected The Bread From Her Mother? by Biola67: 12:57pm On Nov 20, 2023 |
Maybe the mama see how you quick chop the first food finish .. she see say you dey hungry 37 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Have Collected The Bread From Her Mother? by pharmaking: 12:57pm On Nov 20, 2023 |
Small boy carry biscuits go in-law house on a first visit. That also is not only weird but awkward to me. Yeye dey smell.Better call mama and apologise. Wrongest gift indeed 24 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Have Collected The Bread From Her Mother? by KingOfAllIgbos: 12:58pm On Nov 20, 2023 |
I can't believe someone can be this dumb IF it happened in real life. But since that woman scammed to think Buhari wanted to marry her... I don't think there's a ceiling to stupidity. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Have Collected The Bread From Her Mother? by therealMcCain: 12:58pm On Nov 20, 2023 |
PuZZyNegro: But you bought them biscuit and juice? Are ur potential inlaws children? There was nothing else to get them abi? Kids thinking marriage is BF & GF. What was wrong in accepting the bread? Later you can gift it out or throw it away? 16 Likes |
Re: Should I Have Collected The Bread From Her Mother? by JerryJJZ(m): 12:58pm On Nov 20, 2023 |
@OP, its foolishness. In Yoruba land, its forbidden to reject 'food' from your in-laws on First visit. Even if you didnt want to eat it, you could have collected it and keep. 9 Likes |
Re: Should I Have Collected The Bread From Her Mother? by 99persait(m): 12:58pm On Nov 20, 2023 |
madridguy:you sound like a proud person |
Re: Should I Have Collected The Bread From Her Mother? by holluwai(m): 12:58pm On Nov 20, 2023 |
People are angry you rejected the bread. If I had known I would have rejected that silly mat those people gave me that year but when I eventually woke up and gave it out, all hell broke loose. Thank God Please don’t feel any remorse about rejecting the gift. |
Re: Should I Have Collected The Bread From Her Mother? by yoniehuin(f): 12:59pm On Nov 20, 2023 |
PuZZyNegro: Na man you be You know your worth and i like your courage Giving a visitor 2 slice of bread is an insult and not a good thing 1 Like |
Re: Should I Have Collected The Bread From Her Mother? by NBAjunior: 12:59pm On Nov 20, 2023 |
PuZZyNegro: I can see having sense is not by age bro you lack sense 8 Likes |
Re: Should I Have Collected The Bread From Her Mother? by dandollaz: 12:59pm On Nov 20, 2023 |
Immature of you.fcukoff dude.for the first time you visited and you rejected your future in-law gift. Why don you gift a beggar on your way out if you feel you don't want it.tomorrow you buy them bread and expect them to collect and say thank you. 13 Likes |
Re: Should I Have Collected The Bread From Her Mother? by eepeepook: 1:01pm On Nov 20, 2023 |
Na you know. I no follow you pick fiancee. Anything you see, take. |
Re: Should I Have Collected The Bread From Her Mother? by HEBEI: 1:01pm On Nov 20, 2023 |
Over Sabi future son-in-law Who train you 10 Likes |
Re: Should I Have Collected The Bread From Her Mother? by Jackipapa: 1:01pm On Nov 20, 2023 |
At times we get it very wrong. It is not the gift but the heart. You need to apologize and take the bread, do this and thank me later. 8 Likes |
Re: Should I Have Collected The Bread From Her Mother? by spiSeyi: 1:01pm On Nov 20, 2023 |
You are about to marry from a toxic family why should you give your son-in-law bread as a gift . Nah winch dey do that to invoke issues where there is none, the Greek gift is a test All I see here is that they are looking for an outright excuse to reject you. Let's observe the events 1. You rejected the gift politely (if she is a mother she would have no bad feelings about that) 2. She immediately reports you to her daughter (meaning she has no forgiven spirit 3. Your babe took the issue up with you instead of her to calm her mother, then corrected you with love if at all you made a mistake. OP this is enough red flag for you because it's evident that your wife-to-be emotion towards you will be controlled by her mother. And such a mother won't like you because she already hates you. These are the little things that can destroy your home if you marry that girl 4 Likes |
Re: Should I Have Collected The Bread From Her Mother? by Akinpresident: 1:01pm On Nov 20, 2023 |
Bro just call them and apologize. Anything that made your girl to call you and be telling you this means it's serious to them and you shouldn't take it lightly no matter what you think. They gifted you on goodwill, that's what's important. And now they feel offended, make amends. 4 Likes |
Re: Should I Have Collected The Bread From Her Mother? by tuzle(m): 1:01pm On Nov 20, 2023 |
Houseontherock1:I have a different opinion to this. I don't see why one will accept a gift if they don't eat things like that. For example, if I don't like something and u give me as a gift, I will respectful reject it and tell u the reason why in a polite way. I don't like when I am gifted something and I end up giving someone else, except I am giving my close family members. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Have Collected The Bread From Her Mother? by daspeaker: 1:01pm On Nov 20, 2023 |
Young man, you are too proud and not ready for marriage yet. You dont decide what gift to receive. the giver decides. 15 Likes |
Re: Should I Have Collected The Bread From Her Mother? by oluwaseyi0: 1:02pm On Nov 20, 2023 |
PuZZyNegro: You're traveling a far distance, port Harcourt back to Lagos so she thought of something that could easily come in handy on your journey After rejecting it what do you expect? That she should return it back to the supermarket? You did wrong 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Have Collected The Bread From Her Mother? by johnjay4u2u(m): 1:03pm On Nov 20, 2023 |
First thread I will read on Nairaland with everyone being matured, truthful and without sentiment or tribalistic. Keep it up fellow Nairalanders. As said by all, guy , you didn't do well. Even if na cup of water from well, you must collect and drink. Rejecting a gift is rejecting the giver. 8 Likes |
Re: Should I Have Collected The Bread From Her Mother? by twilliamx(m): 1:03pm On Nov 20, 2023 |
PuZZyNegro:So you travel all the way go pH and na biscuit and juice you carry go and you they complain say them give you bread..you are indeed a puzzy negro with complete lack of social intelligence 20 Likes 2 Shares |
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