Recently I stumbled on a nairalander's unfortunate post. It's similar to most stories you read on social media these days

According to him, he met a girl and fell in love with her. She was the typical gf material…The best part? She was a virgin. What more could he ask for

To top it off, she promised him her virginity. Possibly, when she's ready or better when they're married

Until 2 weeks later she got fùcked by a guy she had barely known for 2 weeks. Of course, he went on an emotional rant of how wicked women are. And how insensitive she was.

Can you guess her reason for giving another guy her "precious" virginity? "It just happened!"

Everybody and his mother has heard this phrase from women when they talk about some crazy sex she engaged in recently.

That trip to her bestie's house where she got pounded? She didn't plan to, you see.

She wasn't meaning for it to happen. Had she known, she wouldn't have gone there or allowed it… but it just happened!

Or how about when she went to deliver her wedding iv card to her ex only to fùck him? Well, that just happened too

Things "just happening" are a common occurrence for most women. Most women seem to be just floating along on the currents of life, when somehow they bump into a man and his long John Thomas falls inside her. Totally by mistake.

Except is it really a mistake?

Every experienced seducer knows the answer to that. It's not. To the naive man, he'll probably brush it off as an honest mistake

You see, women make things happen or put themselves in a position where things are most likely "just to happen."

That's why I advocate you become a hookup material. When you act that way you are more likely to "make it happen", fùck her and avoid being played.

---Why do things seem to "just happen" with women?

It's simple. She says that so she can shift the blame.

Or better still, find a way to justify her actions. Much better to say "it just happened: than to admit she willingly went to fùck someone.

That's why a big part of being a hook up material is being smooth, subtle… and inspiring her to lust after you.

Because when she lusts after you, she'll be an active participant in the seduction. She'll create opportunities and follow you to places where things can most likely "just happen"


---How to "make things happen" as a man

A smooth, sweet seduction is subtle. It leads a girl through some steps right into your arms.

And it's done in such a way she feels allowed to.

Becoming a hook up material is at the core of seduction. You use Lust Oriented Topics to gently nudge her into situations that things might just happen.

Of course, she can't help it because of how aroused she is. You don't want her to see you as bf or husband material because the pressure to be perfect is on her.

Rather you want to act like a hook up material. Make the right moves. Invite her to the right places and stimulate the necessary emotions in her.

Another benefit of being a hook up material that makes things happen is that she sees you as a guy that just gets it.

It's like you're part of the secret society of womanese. So she's less likely to play those games with you


---What should you do when "things keep happening" with your girlfriend


This applies to guys that are dating or have intentions to. If that's you, pay close attention.

Let's say your girl keeps giving out her number to guys. Or going to clubs with her female friends. Or wearing very skimpy clothes.

And when you ask why, she tells you it's just happened. Cuz she didn't plan for it.

How would you handle it?

Here's a tip:


● Call her out on the bs in a calm way. Show her how her actions make room for these things to happen.

Because believe it or not, she knows what she's doing. When you do this, it makes it even more obvious to her conscious mind the role she plays and the fact that you don't like it

So whenever such a situation presents itself, she'll either make a conscious decision to act funny or not.

And if she continues, you know what to do.

😂

Bros go and make money make woman matter no kill you

Sometimes it really just happened. Sometimes a woman will sleep with a guy she had no premonition of sleeping with. Maybe she just wanted to be friends or she just needed a place to visit because she was bored or she’s keeping him for something she gains from him.

The problem is women think they are in control, but they aren’t. The survival of the bushmeat would always be dependent on the skills of the hunter. Everything they do to avoid it from happening can be countered.

You come with a friend, we have a friend waiting to take her out, your friend wouldn’t even want to return.

Your undies is ugly, we will pull the jeans and the undies together. We don’t have to see how ugly it is.

you didn’t shave, you get a pass this one time lol.

We meet at an open place, 20 mins into the meeting you will be the one asking if we live close by.

You need a job

jobless dey real...

eazzzy1:
Sometimes it really just happened. Sometimes a woman will sleep with a guy she had no premonition of sleeping with. Maybe she just wanted to be friends or she just needed a place to visit because she was bored or she’s keeping him for something she gains from him.

The problem is women think they are in control, but they aren’t. The survival of the bushmeat would always be dependent on the skills of the hunter. Everything they do to avoid it from happening can be countered.

You come with a friend, we have a friend waiting to take her out, your friend wouldn’t even want to return.

Your undies is ugly, we will pull the jeans and the undies together. We don’t have to see how ugly it is.

you didn’t shave, you get a pass this one time lol.

We meet at an open place, 20 mins into the meeting you will be the one asking if we live close by.

Not really. Even if they're not fully conscious of it.

They have it at the back of the mind that on some level things might happen. They may act naive but trust me if she really NEVER had an idea it won't happen, there's zero chance it will

Bintabisiriyu2:
Bros go and make money make woman matter no kill you

Dangote

So, its a bit of both:
1. Like someone up there commented women like to think they

Rizzputin:
Recently I stumbled on a nairalander's unfortunate post. It's similar to most stories you read on social media these days

According to him, he met a girl and fell in love with her. She was the typical gf material…The best part? She was a virgin. What more could he ask for

To top it off, she promised him her virginity. Possibly, when she's ready or better when they're married

Until 2 weeks later she got fùcked by a guy she had barely known for 2 weeks. Of course, he went on an emotional rant of how wicked women are. And how insensitive she was.

Can you guess her reason for giving another guy her "precious" virginity? "It just happened!"

Everybody and his mother has heard this phrase from women when they talk about some crazy sex she engaged in recently.

That trip to her bestie's house where she got pounded? She didn't plan to, you see.

She wasn't meaning for it to happen. Had she known, she wouldn't have gone there or allowed it… but it just happened!

Or how about when she went to deliver her wedding iv card to her ex only to fùck him? Well, that just happened too

Things "just happening" are a common occurrence for most women. Most women seem to be just floating along on the currents of life, when somehow they bump into a man and his long John Thomas falls inside her. Totally by mistake.

Except is it really a mistake?

Every experienced seducer knows the answer to that. It's not. To the naive man, he'll probably brush it off as an honest mistake

You see, women make things happen or put themselves in a position where things are most likely "just to happen."

That's why I advocate you become a hookup material. When you act that way you are more likely to "make it happen", fùck her and avoid being played.

---Why do things seem to "just happen" with women?

It's simple. She says that so she can shift the blame.

Or better still, find a way to justify her actions. Much better to say "it just happened: than to admit she willingly went to fùck someone.

That's why a big part of being a hook up material is being smooth, subtle… and inspiring her to lust after you.

Because when she lusts after you, she'll be an active participant in the seduction. She'll create opportunities and follow you to places where things can most likely "just happen"


---How to "make things happen" as a man

A smooth, sweet seduction is subtle. It leads a girl through some steps right into your arms.

And it's done in such a way she feels allowed to.

Becoming a hook up material is at the core of seduction. You use Lust Oriented Topics to gently nudge her into situations that things might just happen.

Of course, she can't help it because of how aroused she is. You don't want her to see you as bf or husband material because the pressure to be perfect is on her.

Rather you want to act like a hook up material. Make the right moves. Invite her to the right places and stimulate the necessary emotions in her.

Another benefit of being a hook up material that makes things happen is that she sees you as a guy that just gets it.

It's like you're part of the secret society of womanese. So she's less likely to play those games with you


---What should you do when "things keep happening" with your girlfriend


This applies to guys that are dating or have intentions to. If that's you, pay close attention.

Let's say your girl keeps giving out her number to guys. Or going to clubs with her female friends. Or wearing very skimpy clothes.

And when you ask why, she tells you it's just happened. Cuz she didn't plan for it.

How would you handle it?

Here's a tip:


● Call her out on the bs in a calm way. Show her how her actions make room for these things to happen.

Because believe it or not, she knows what she's doing. When you do this, it makes it even more obvious to her conscious mind the role she plays and the fact that you don't like it

So whenever such a situation presents itself, she'll either make a conscious decision to act funny or not.

And if she continues, you know what to do.

can you give few examples of lust oriented topics. you keep beating around the Bush and never want to discuss the main thing.. if you so want to teach guys, discuss the lust oriented topics in details with some examples. only then men will really grab what you are preaching.

you can't just be writing this Long Epistle everytime and deliberately not want to discuss the lust oriented topics itself and some example.. abi you ma self don't really understand it?

eazzzy1:

The problem is women think they are in control, but they aren’t. The survival of the bushmeat would always be dependent on the skills of the hunter. Everything they do to avoid it from happening can be countered.
You come with a friend, we have a friend waiting to take her out, your friend wouldn’t even want to return.
Your undies is ugly, we will pull the jeans and the undies together. We don’t have to see how ugly it is.
you didn’t shave, you get a pass this one time lol.
We meet at an open place, 20 mins into the meeting you will be the one asking if we live close by.

You made a strong point here.

We keep thinking we are in charge, only to get to the end and realize the guy we thought was being played, was actually the player; all along… 😰😫

E dey happen wella.i know someone who this type of thing happened to.he dey nurture the girl for 6years.1 nigger from nowhere burst the stuff ..no be new thing if you get sweet mouth

ItisWell22:


You made a strong point here.

We keep thinking we are in charge, only to get to the end and realize the guy we thought was being played, was actually the player; all along… 😰😫

Well that's the beauty of seduction. It's always important to make a girl participate in it.

To give her the impression that the decision to get intimate with you came from her. That way, not only does the seduction become better.... she'll also enjoy it better.

Nobody likes being forced or cajoled into anything. That's why it's crucial you giver her the opportunity to want and choose to fùck you

Rizzputin there’s something I want to talk to you about privately so I sent a pm to you, kindly respond please

It's why they say women have fish brain. U meet a guy and u both like each other but u are in a strong relationship with another u love and this new guy asks u out because ur both vibing. But u tell u him u already have someone. He insists and insists then u agree to become just friends with a guy who ur both sexually attracted to each other. U tell ur guy he's just a friend when his sixth sense tells him something is off. They foolishly think they're in charge of the situation and go for harmless dates and visits and put themselves in situations and positions to get fvckd. When the guy complains because he takes her seriously she says he's being insecure and nagging. She eventually gets fvcked and starts hiding and acting funny and when e cast she will shift blames. Like the op said they're fully aware of everything they do never believe their bs of it just happened. They actually do want u to believe otherwise when in reality they're just bythces and hoes

For women it doesn't just happen, know this and know peace.

A man can have sex without any emotional connection, but it's different for a woman unless she's into hook up. That's why sometimes when you meet a woman you take time in cajoling and sweet talking her before she can give up that azz.

So she saying " it just happened" is a lie there was an emotional connection attached, she wanted it, she knew what she was doing, she thought about it, dreamt even, she liked the idea, imagined and pictured it happening.

The only thing she can say is she regretted doing it afterwards . Simple.

Rizzputin:
Recently I stumbled on a nairalander's unfortunate post. It's similar to most stories you read on social media these days

According to him, he met a girl and fell in love with her. She was the typical gf material…The best part? She was a virgin. What more could he ask for

To top it off, she promised him her virginity. Possibly, when she's ready or better when they're married

Until 2 weeks later she got fùcked by a guy she had barely known for 2 weeks. Of course, he went on an emotional rant of how wicked women are. And how insensitive she was.

Can you guess her reason for giving another guy her "precious" virginity? "It just happened!"

Everybody and his mother has heard this phrase from women when they talk about some crazy sex she engaged in recently.

That trip to her bestie's house where she got pounded? She didn't plan to, you see.

She wasn't meaning for it to happen. Had she known, she wouldn't have gone there or allowed it… but it just happened!

Or how about when she went to deliver her wedding iv card to her ex only to fùck him? Well, that just happened too

Things "just happening" are a common occurrence for most women. Most women seem to be just floating along on the currents of life, when somehow they bump into a man and his long John Thomas falls inside her. Totally by mistake.

Except is it really a mistake?

Every experienced seducer knows the answer to that. It's not. To the naive man, he'll probably brush it off as an honest mistake

You see, women make things happen or put themselves in a position where things are most likely "just to happen."

That's why I advocate you become a hookup material. When you act that way you are more likely to "make it happen", fùck her and avoid being played.

---Why do things seem to "just happen" with women?

It's simple. She says that so she can shift the blame.

Or better still, find a way to justify her actions. Much better to say "it just happened: than to admit she willingly went to fùck someone.

That's why a big part of being a hook up material is being smooth, subtle… and inspiring her to lust after you.

Because when she lusts after you, she'll be an active participant in the seduction. She'll create opportunities and follow you to places where things can most likely "just happen"


---How to "make things happen" as a man

A smooth, sweet seduction is subtle. It leads a girl through some steps right into your arms.

And it's done in such a way she feels allowed to.

Becoming a hook up material is at the core of seduction. You use Lust Oriented Topics to gently nudge her into situations that things might just happen.

Of course, she can't help it because of how aroused she is. You don't want her to see you as bf or husband material because the pressure to be perfect is on her.

Rather you want to act like a hook up material. Make the right moves. Invite her to the right places and stimulate the necessary emotions in her.

Another benefit of being a hook up material that makes things happen is that she sees you as a guy that just gets it.

It's like you're part of the secret society of womanese. So she's less likely to play those games with you


---What should you do when "things keep happening" with your girlfriend


This applies to guys that are dating or have intentions to. If that's you, pay close attention.

Let's say your girl keeps giving out her number to guys. Or going to clubs with her female friends. Or wearing very skimpy clothes.

And when you ask why, she tells you it's just happened. Cuz she didn't plan for it.

How would you handle it?

Here's a tip:


● Call her out on the bs in a calm way. Show her how her actions make room for these things to happen.

Because believe it or not, she knows what she's doing. When you do this, it makes it even more obvious to her conscious mind the role she plays and the fact that you don't like it

So whenever such a situation presents itself, she'll either make a conscious decision to act funny or not.

And if she continues, you know what to do.

Rizzputin there’s something I want to talk to you about privately so I sent a pm to you, kindly respond please

Nothing just happens. It was premeditated because between the time you took off your clothes and the time you got down with him, you still had the chance to flee or change your mind but you went through with it all the way with your eyes wide open and later claim it just happened. You're a liar!

na there is nothing like it just happened.she know it what Will happen.outside rape, women keep deceiving men from the day in the garden

🫤

Every "understanding" man will naturally forgive and take them back which is why they use the lines on them. I on the other hand have sworn never to be an understanding man.

Women no just follow us come this world. Their thinking and reasoning is just zero

Ok

Fear women.

Rice is now 2k per kongo. Anyway, it just happened.

Rizzputin:
Recently I stumbled on a nairalander's unfortunate post. It's similar to most stories you read on social media these days

According to him, he met a girl and fell in love with her. She was the typical gf material…The best part? She was a virgin. What more could he ask for

To top it off, she promised him her virginity. Possibly, when she's ready or better when they're married

Until 2 weeks later she got fùcked by a guy she had barely known for 2 weeks. Of course, he went on an emotional rant of how wicked women are. And how insensitive she was.


So whenever such a situation presents itself, she'll either make a conscious decision to act funny or not.

And if she continues, you know what to do.

epistle po!
Is either this OP is going thru a Lot or Coming From A-LOT

I cannot relate

Una still dey reason woman matter?

Una get time o...


Lover Bois una well done

These things shouldn't bother u. Be bothered cos next year a piece of Agbado is gonna cost u 1k and all Agbado supporters gone die of hunger.

In other words, what you are trying to say is that every cheating incident where the woman was in the wrong place at the wrong time, was deliberately orchestrated by her. You are saying that women always know sex is going to happen, and by this your theory, that should also mean that rape is non existent, because the women knew what would happen when they stepped in unsafe spaces.

This means that it is only her fault. The man involved didn't prey on her, she was not the victim of a predatory man's scheme or seduction, she always knows and leads the man on. Right?

I hope you have the same energy when the case is for men who cheat. Because in men's case, funny enough, it's always the woman that 'seduced, charmed and forced them'. Such explanations are accepted in men's cases, but women are suddenly very wise if they are the guilty ones.

The best thing is just to warn our young girls. Some things are rigged against men on the society, some things are rigged against women. In women's case, every bad or wrong sexual encounter is deliberately created by her, it's her fault, according to society. Men will always turn around to blame the woman, even one's so called lover. So girls/women have to be very careful, and not trust any men claiming their private space is safe. This really sucks, honestly. This method of blame reeks of cowardice and ego, and toxic masculinity.

Msheewww


Just negodu the pile of BS this one wasted his time to type.smh