Hookup refers to casual sex or uncommitted and consensual sexual encounters, usually done for financial gains.

To put it plainly, hookup is just a fancy word for prostitution.

Typically, there is an agreement between the parties involved on what the expectation of the arrangement is and the responsibility of each party.

Hookup has become a fast spreading culture in Nigeria that has been especially aided by technology. These technologies ranges from the plethora of hookup or “dating” apps, e-hailing cab services, online hotel booking, etc.



In recent times, an incredible amount of women ( single and married) have been indulging in this trend either openly or discreetly. While economic reasons are attributed by some for their involment in this trend, a good number do it to finance their craving for a luxurious lifestyle.

In this article, we highlight ten signs to shows that a girl is into the hookup business.


She stays out all night

A woman always staying out all night is an unmistakable sign that she is into the hookup business. Of course, the exception is if she has a job that requires her to work nightshift.

Church vigil is also an exception. However, don’t be fooled! Some use church vigils as an excuse to leave the house at night. They actually might have a skimpy dress and make-up kit concealed in their handbags!


She has “Dating” apps on their phones



The rise in popularity of dating and “Hookup” apps is one factor that has significantly boosted the hookup trend.

Some popular apps that are used for hookup include Tinder, OkCupid, Bumble, Badoo, Olosho, Bingdum, Zoosk, SnapChat, EverMatch, Ablo, SweetMeet, OnlyFan, CodedRuns, etc.

These apps or sites are platforms for finding partners for hookup activities. Finding a partner on them is as easy as swiping right on a profile photo. This has made the trend increasingly popular as a huge number of hookup females are registered on these platforms either openly or discretly.

Therefore, If you find any of these apps on a girl's phone, chances are high that she is into hookup.


She gets a call, dresses up in a hurry, and leaves the house

One good sign that a girl is into hookup is when she gets a call, and then proceeds to dress up in a hurry and then leaves the house.

When a randy fellow discovers a girl that he likes on a hookup app, he then contacts her. After terms and conditions have been agreed upon, this often prompts the girl to up and leave the house in a hurry.

The need for haste is often so that the clients does not change his mind – or connect with some other hookup girl.

That’s right – when you notice a girl scurry out of the house, especially in a provocative attire, and straight into a waiting Uber, she is likely off to a hookup venue.


She often posts pictures of hotel rooms on her status



After the hookup business has been concluded in a hotel, guesthouse, or serviced apartment, the client – especially the married ones – would depart to their homes, leaving the girl in the hotel room.

This period affords her the opportunity to take as much selfies as possible in the beautiful ambience that the hotel room provides.

Therefore, if she is always posting pictures or videos of hotel rooms or mirror selfies on her Insta-stories, WhatsApp status, tiktok, etc – especially when she is wearing white towels or bathroom gowns – then she is most likely into hookup.


She twerks on her whatsapp Status or tiktok
Twerking, dancing seductively or posting obscene picture of her body on social media is a fantastic strategy for attracting patronage for hookup.

Posting sultry photos or videos on her social media account is bound to lure randy men on her contact list.

So if she does these frequently, then there is a huge possibility that she is hunting for patrons for hookup.


She lives in a shared apartment with other girls



In big cities in Nigeria, hookup girls typically live in shared apartments. This is especially common in exclusive areas with close proximity to rich potential clients.

A hookup girl typically cohabits in the shared apartments with other females, who are often in the same line of business. This way, they split the expensive rents amongst themselves, which are paid either weekly or monthly.

In Lagos, these sort of shared apartments are common on the Island especially in places like Lekki Phase 1, Chevyview Estate, Ikota Villa Estate, Osapa London, etc. On the mainland, they abound in places like Festac, Allen Avenue, Opebi, etc.


She flaunts expensive stuff without any identifiable source of income

She is always flaunting expensive phones, hair attachments, bags, jewelries, etc but she has no identifiable means of income.

Chances are high that those items were acquired with the proceeds from the hookup business.


She is into hard drugs or alcohol



Hookup business is no easy business. It requires energy, boldness and fearlessness to deal with and have sex with strangers. To overcome these issues and to boost their energy and confidence, women in the hookup business often turn to hard drugs or alcohol.

So, a woman who is into recreational drugs such as Marijuana, tramadol, Colorado, shisha, etc is most likely into the hookup business.


She poses as an online vendor

Hookup girls often camouflage as an online vendors who sell clothes, jewelries, perfumes, hair, bags, etc. Some also claim to be actresses, social media lifestyle influencers, video vixens, makeup artistes, etc.

However, a keen observation would reveal that their inventories or type of work cannot possibly be the source of their expensive or luxurious lifestyle.



She is facinated by Body enhancement or tattoo



In the hookup business, a banging body attracts high patronage, especially from the big spenders. This is one reason why most women in the sex trade are often obsessed with the idea of enhancing their bodies by surgical methods.

If a girl is facinated by body enhancement, or she has undergone medical procedures such as Brazilian Butt Lift (BBL), Breast augumentation, etc, she is most likely a hookup girl.



Bonus

She keeps an extra phone

A smart business move by hookup girls is to own a dedicated phone for the hookup business. On this phone, she advertises herself flirtatiously on her whatapp and social media account to elicit interest from randy clients.

Typically, none of her close friends or family are on the contact list neither do they have the phone number of this line. In this manner, relatives and friends remain unaware of her hookup activities.


Credit: https://jojonaija.com/how-to-know-if-a-girl-is-into-hookup/

Terrible times that we are in. The tragedy is that a woman can go out and do the hookup, and you at home will never know.

I pity for some married men.

Some even they use Facebook or messenger to do der add if you know you know

Let's pray for them to change.

Q: How to know if a girl is into hookup?

A: She's a girl.

Do they even hide it ?

Namaster:
Q: How to know if a girl is into hookup?

A: She's a girl.

Gbam.

neonly:
Some even they use Facebook or messenger to do der add if you know you know

Pls explain more

Justbehave:
Do they even hide it ?

The married ones hide it.

don't waste your prayers

Lovemeharder:
Let's pray for them to change.

In addition;

If she "flushes" her pussy after sex, na them. Your "lovely" wife or girlfriend starts to dey make demands for favours or money immediately after sex all of a sudden, na hookup she be. It's always spontaneous, she is used to it. Their whatsapp is always business whatsapp. Use a different number to call her phone and see what people save her number with. Google the name and it will tell you the whole story.

solutionist:


The married ones hide it.

Married ones hide it successfully for simps, they can't hide it from smart men. They advertise their hookup business on social media by the way they dress, pose and by their make up style even when their simp husbands are with them in the pictures. The fools will be smilingly sheepishly not knowing their wives are selling market.

Well I disagree that a girl owning an extra phone means she’s into hookup. I mean what if the network she uses at a particular place is shaky and she then decides to get another phone to put in a new line and communicate with her loved ones, do we now term this hookup? You all should focus on bettering your lives and not filling your brain with whose is into hookup or not. You wey de kast ladies, u sef na saint?

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Newdawn30:


Pls explain more

How much you go pay

Here for north, our ladies don't know anything called hookup . They only hook down with their husbands right from age 15

FitCorper:
Well I disagree that a girl owning an extra phone means she’s into hookup. I mean what if the network she uses at a particular place is shaky and she then decides to get another phone to put in a new line and communicate with her loved ones, do we now term this hookup? You all should focus on bettering your lives and not filling your brain with whose is into hookup or not. You wey de kast ladies, u sef na saint?

The OP didn't say all women who own an extra phone are into hookup.

According to the write-up, "Typically, none of her close friends or family are on the contact list neither do they have the phone number of this line. In this manner, relatives and friends remain unaware of her hookup activities".

This is the difference. So if your sister, girlfriend or wife own a secret phone that she didn't inform you about, my friend, she be hookup entrepreneur.

Look at the number of dating apps on that phone 😲

The number one sure banker is that she doesn't respect men, and sees men as a caricature.

Knowingly or unknowingly, through her speech, she will talk down on men. Runs girls see men at their worst, at their horney mannerless state, where men blab nonsense and act like fools just to satisfy their hotness.

If you constantly see men in such a state, then you will naturally lose respect for men.

pansophist:
The number one sure banker is that she doesn't respect men, and sees men as a caricature.

Knowingly or unknowingly, through her speech, she will talk down on men. Runs girls see men at their worst, at their horney mannerless state, where men blab nonsense and act like fools just to satisfy their hotness.

If you constantly see men in such a state, then you will naturally lose respect for men.

I know one like that. She only, or seemingly, respects men who have money. Whether she is into hookup, I have no idea. But her love for money, I believe, is the reason. Sometimes, the way some older men act towards her in a bid to have sex could be another reason. I know what older Nigerian men can do just to put the head inside. They can be embarrassing times.

I agree with almost all, with a caveat. The aspect of being a vendor can lead to hasty generalisation, especially if it is a well established business.

That said, the demand for their services is the reason for their presence and predominance. Nigerian men LOVE sex A LOT, and will spend any amount to have it. Demand does not exist in a vacuum: https://www.nairaland.com/7684230/how-reduce-hook-ups-nigeria

allsaint2000:
Hookup refers to casual sex or uncommitted and consensual sexual encounters, usually done for financial gains.

To put it plainly, hookup is just a fancy word for prostitution.

Typically, there is an agreement between the parties involved on what the expectation of the arrangement is and the responsibility of each party.

Hookup has become a fast spreading culture in Nigeria that has been especially aided by technology. These technologies ranges from the plethora of hookup or “dating” apps, e-hailing cab services, online hotel booking, etc.



In recent times, an incredible amount of women ( single and married) have been indulging in this trend either openly or discreetly. While economic reasons are attributed by some for their involment in this trend, a good number do it to finance their craving for a luxurious lifestyle.

In this article, we highlight ten signs to shows that a girl is into the hookup business.


She stays out all night

A woman always staying out all night is an unmistakable sign that she is into the hookup business. Of course, the exception is if she has a job that requires her to work nightshift.

Church vigil is also an exception. However, don’t be fooled! Some use church vigils as an excuse to leave the house at night. They actually might have a skimpy dress and make-up kit concealed in their handbags!


She has “Dating” apps on their phones



The rise in popularity of dating and “Hookup” apps is one factor that has significantly boosted the hookup trend.

Some popular apps that are used for hookup include Tinder, OkCupid, Bumble, Badoo, Olosho, Bingdum, Zoosk, SnapChat, EverMatch, Ablo, SweetMeet, OnlyFan, CodedRuns, etc.

These apps or sites are platforms for finding partners for hookup activities. Finding a partner on them is as easy as swiping right on a profile photo. This has made the trend increasingly popular as a huge number of hookup females are registered on these platforms either openly or discretly.

Therefore, If you find any of these apps on a girl's phone, chances are high that she is into hookup.


She gets a call, dresses up in a hurry, and leaves the house

One good sign that a girl is into hookup is when she gets a call, and then proceeds to dress up in a hurry and then leaves the house.

When a randy fellow discovers a girl that he likes on a hookup app, he then contacts her. After terms and conditions have been agreed upon, this often prompts the girl to up and leave the house in a hurry.

The need for haste is often so that the clients does not change his mind – or connect with some other hookup girl.

That’s right – when you notice a girl scurry out of the house, especially in a provocative attire, and straight into a waiting Uber, she is likely off to a hookup venue.


She often posts pictures of hotel rooms on her status



After the hookup business has been concluded in a hotel, guesthouse, or serviced apartment, the client – especially the married ones – would depart to their homes, leaving the girl in the hotel room.

This period affords her the opportunity to take as much selfies as possible in the beautiful ambience that the hotel room provides.

Therefore, if she is always posting pictures or videos of hotel rooms or mirror selfies on her Insta-stories, WhatsApp status, tiktok, etc – especially when she is wearing white towels or bathroom gowns – then she is most likely into hookup.


She twerks on her whatsapp Status or tiktok
Twerking, dancing seductively or posting obscene picture of her body on social media is a fantastic strategy for attracting patronage for hookup.

Posting sultry photos or videos on her social media account is bound to lure randy men on her contact list.

So if she does these frequently, then there is a huge possibility that she is hunting for patrons for hookup.


She lives in a shared apartment with other girls



In big cities in Nigeria, hookup girls typically live in shared apartments. This is especially common in exclusive areas with close proximity to rich potential clients.

A hookup girl typically cohabits in the shared apartments with other females, who are often in the same line of business. This way, they split the expensive rents amongst themselves, which are paid either weekly or monthly.

In Lagos, these sort of shared apartments are common on the Island especially in places like Lekki Phase 1, Chevyview Estate, Ikota Villa Estate, Osapa London, etc. On the mainland, they abound in places like Festac, Allen Avenue, Opebi, etc.


She flaunts expensive stuff without any identifiable source of income

She is always flaunting expensive phones, hair attachments, bags, jewelries, etc but she has no identifiable means of income.

Chances are high that those items were acquired with the proceeds from the hookup business.


She is into hard drugs or alcohol



Hookup business is no easy business. It requires energy, boldness and fearlessness to deal with and have sex with strangers. To overcome these issues and to boost their energy and confidence, women in the hookup business often turn to hard drugs or alcohol.

So, a woman who is into recreational drugs such as Marijuana, tramadol, Colorado, shisha, etc is most likely into the hookup business.


She poses as an online vendor

Hookup girls often camouflage as an online vendors who sell clothes, jewelries, perfumes, hair, bags, etc. Some also claim to be actresses, social media lifestyle influencers, video vixens, makeup artistes, etc.

However, a keen observation would reveal that their inventories or type of work cannot possibly be the source of their expensive or luxurious lifestyle.



She is facinated by Body enhancement or tattoo



In the hookup business, a banging body attracts high patronage, especially from the big spenders. This is one reason why most women in the sex trade are often obsessed with the idea of enhancing their bodies by surgical methods.

If a girl is facinated by body enhancement, or she has undergone medical procedures such as Brazilian Butt Lift (BBL), Breast augumentation, etc, she is most likely a hookup girl.



Bonus

She keeps an extra phone

A smart business move by hookup girls is to own a dedicated phone for the hookup business. On this phone, she advertises herself flirtatiously on her whatapp and social media account to elicit interest from randy clients.

Typically, none of her close friends or family are on the contact list neither do they have the phone number of this line. In this manner, relatives and friends remain unaware of her hookup activities.


Credit: https://jojonaija.com/how-to-know-if-a-girl-is-into-hookup/

An insightful thread.

Gerrard59:


I know one like that. She only, or seemingly, respects men who have money. Whether she is into hookup, I have no idea. But her love for money, I believe, is the reason. Sometimes, the way some older men act towards her in a bid to have sex could be another reason. I know what older Nigerian men can do just to put the head inside. They can be embarrassing times.

And such girls cannot be saved.

They would rather settle with a man who will tolerate their rotten self than be with one who calls them to order. They hate structure, authority, and integration into a man's program.

Last last, as you lay your bed, you shall lie.

Wahala for those wey dey find Hoes.

Wahala for those wey dey find horsebands.

AllOfUna go dey Alrice

pansophist:


And such girls cannot be saved.

They would rather settle with a man who will tolerate their rotten self than be with one who calls them to order. They hate structure, authority, and integration into a man's program.

Last last, as you lay your bed, you shall lie.

To think that I really like her, especially as she was and remains my crush. But her love for money eh As a capitalist, I like money, but I know the process is not easy to come by. Maybe she behaves so because she is the first child out of 4 children amidst Nigerian economic conditions.

Gerrard59:
I agree with almost all, with a caveat. The aspect of being a vendor can lead to hasty generalisation, especially if it is well established business.

That said, the demand for their services is the reason for their presence and predominance. Nigerian men LOVE sex A LOT, and will spend any amount to have it. Demand does not exist in a vacuum: https://www.nairaland.com/7684230/how-reduce-hook-ups-nigeria

Indeed.

Gerrard59:


To think that I really like her, especially as she was and remains my crush. But her love for money eh As a capitalist, I like money, but I know the process is not easy to come by. Maybe she behaves so because she is the first child out of 4 children amidst Nigerian economic conditions.

Allow women to fall in love my brother, such privilege is not afforded to men.

If you go love a gold digger, na you go suffer am. If a gold digger loves you, na she go enjoy

You see the discrepancy abi? lol

One sure banker for me is if a girl is all about money money money.

pansophist:


Allow women to fall in love my brother, such privilege is not afforded to men.

If you go love a gold digger, na you go suffer am. If a gold digger loves you, na she go enjoy

You see the discrepancy abi? lol

lol

We were secondary classmates. Ever since I have not had any crush on women. I just admire and move on. With my experiences so far, I am even cynical when a woman claims to like me.

Gerrard59:


lol

We were secondary classmates. Ever since I have not had any crush on women. I just admire and move on. With my experiences so far, I am even cynical when a woman claims to like me.

My brain instantly convert ''I love you'' to ''Give me money''

pansophist:
The number one sure banker is that she doesn't respect men, and sees men as a caricature.

Knowingly or unknowingly, through her speech, she will talk down on men. Runs girls see men at their worst, at their horney mannerless state, where men blab nonsense and act like fools just to satisfy their hotness.

If you constantly see men in such a state, then you will naturally lose respect for men.

QED