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Re: When We Say Dont Marry If You Don't Have A Sustainable Income, This Is Why by psucc(m): 3:43pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
Justkatty:She did so knowing Papa can afford the shelf's provisions. Where the ₦25,000 is the total income for the family including transport to work, my suggestion will suffice. 3 Likes |
Re: When We Say Dont Marry If You Don't Have A Sustainable Income, This Is Why by Olawade24: 3:44pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
psucc:You correct IBB regime, wanted to say ibb don't know why my keyboard type obj. Could have been my luv for obj too plenty. 2 Likes |
Re: When We Say Dont Marry If You Don't Have A Sustainable Income, This Is Why by Talismann: 4:34pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
Jewessgratitud3: I guess you get multiple orgasms seeing and hearing people who braved up and got married not doing well or even having split families and separated spouse(s). Its a much needed consolation and high to the sad life you chose just as much as cocaine soots the addicted one. You aren't married, haven't been and will most likely never be. You aren't in any position to give any advice to the single talk more of the married so stay in your narrow lane. Of course, everyone knows Marriage is for the brave and those willing to sacrifice, it's as obvious as the sun. Also it's common sense to have stable income (both man and woman). Just as it is common sense to ensure progeny especially to someone like you disappointing those who brought you to this world by not making plans to birth at least a soul too, so you have no moral standing to reprove those who made mistakes in marriage. Perhaps your very own parents made a mistake too. You get the gist. The economy of this country, presently as it is, is very difficult, but it's okay for those who are single and know nothing about the pains of family people to pick up their phones and type crap. please stop basking in the glory of the stories of those who couldn't make theirs work for some reason because I tell you they had the balls to venture in there, and you, selfishly never did and may never. You had your time to be an advicer , but e don pass. Shioor. 12 Likes |
Re: When We Say Dont Marry If You Don't Have A Sustainable Income, This Is Why by Justkatty(f): 4:34pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
psucc:Papa ko ![]() That's where you guys always get it wrong. Anyways the most important thing is that my baby is seeing food everyday to eat🤞 1 Like |
Re: When We Say Dont Marry If You Don't Have A Sustainable Income, This Is Why by Justkatty(f): 4:37pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
ecolime:Likewise me May God keep providing for us to take care of his gift Amen 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: When We Say Dont Marry If You Don't Have A Sustainable Income, This Is Why by Jewessgratitud3: 5:07pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
Talismann: Stop being pained because you already failed as a family man before coming across this piece of advice here. I'm not the cause of your failure. All I did was to drop my 2cents as usual to save many what awaits them if they choose to build without counting the cost but it's a pity what you chose to see was me basking in euphoria, of what exactly? You need a brain check. Please take your frustrations elsewhere. No be me do you o. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: When We Say Dont Marry If You Don't Have A Sustainable Income, This Is Why by AgentGoat: 5:10pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
Bliss62: Women dey get work? No be men dem dey wait for. 4 Likes |
Re: When We Say Dont Marry If You Don't Have A Sustainable Income, This Is Why by Jewessgratitud3: 5:20pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
AgentGoat: Everything una go blame women. Na women say make una make babies? Keep your thing now if you no ready to take care of them . Onyenka and Sunny Ade sang it and that particular song was my favorite growing up. Having babies No be joke o You go feed them give them clothes Give them love too If you never ready to carry the load o Why put am for another person head. If you love me you go wait for me. Wait for me make we plan am well. These were songs we listened to that helped shape our lives and prevented us from becoming baby Mamas or ending up in unplanned marriage. These are legends sending a powerful message back then when the economy wasn't even as bad as it is now. 8 Likes
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Re: When We Say Dont Marry If You Don't Have A Sustainable Income, This Is Why by ogawisdom(m): 6:08pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
Cheap skit what are you doing with SMA Gold when there are cheaper alternatives. Is he broke and senseless? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: When We Say Dont Marry If You Don't Have A Sustainable Income, This Is Why by PedoBear: 6:19pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
op meet your fellow barren witch, Ginaz Birds of the same feathers, unmarried witches Na other people suffering day give una joy Tuehh Amusu 4 Likes |
Re: When We Say Dont Marry If You Don't Have A Sustainable Income, This Is Why by drmikeadams(m): 7:15pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
Evolutionism: no be lie..na so werey ex do then,small Tin she don dey cry say I no love am na why I no wan marry am..e no reach 6 months werey go marry n face book I c am sef ![]() 6 Likes |
Re: When We Say Dont Marry If You Don't Have A Sustainable Income, This Is Why by Blitzking: 7:24pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
Wetin him dey fund for nan..abi sma gold stand give ur wife money make she buy brown Abi yellow Pap add crayfish mixture and load the baby stomach..onefood wey we dey give those pregnant women those days for phc..dem go dey Well nourished..nothing beats breastfeeding sha. 2 Likes |
Re: When We Say Dont Marry If You Don't Have A Sustainable Income, This Is Why by Error401: 8:00pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
You can live within your means. I grew up with locally made diapers with milk and pap. Heaven didnt fall and people still go through this practices. If you can have on child and take care of him the best way you can, within your means, that's fair enough Jewessgratitud3: 1 Like |
Re: When We Say Dont Marry If You Don't Have A Sustainable Income, This Is Why by psucc(m): 8:12pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
Olawade24:Phone keyboard na trouble maker. Lolssas You love Obj but ya keypad love him more 2 Likes |
Re: When We Say Dont Marry If You Don't Have A Sustainable Income, This Is Why by Jewessgratitud3: 8:29pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
Error401: So you plan for your children to go through what you went through? Times have changed and the children we are birthng these days are different from us. During my own time my dad bought us NAN and it was the big size like the size of big bournvita of old because we are twins. My Mom said he used to buy it every week then at 1.50k. this one no be say Dem tell me, I saw one of the tins of NAN baby food being used for keeping Needles, thread and buttons after I was grown. Me I will give my baby the best o. I no drink pap, why should my baby take pap? 6 Likes |
Re: When We Say Dont Marry If You Don't Have A Sustainable Income, This Is Why by Error401: 8:54pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
No matter how hard you try, the fingers can never be equal. I live a good life, I have quite enough to sustain me and my family for now and the future. But not everyone are opportune to have thesame. Are you saying they shouldn't get married because they are financially down? There are alternatives to these things and things will get better with time. Just one kid is enough in poverty and with handwork, they will scale through. Jewessgratitud3: 5 Likes |
Re: When We Say Dont Marry If You Don't Have A Sustainable Income, This Is Why by Jewessgratitud3: 9:04pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
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Re: When We Say Dont Marry If You Don't Have A Sustainable Income, This Is Why by Tohsynetita1: 10:10pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
There's always a way to go about it, diapers no dey when our mother was given birth to, na clothes them they use and they no die. If you don't know how to Economize, you will say, aren't they washable diapers? Aren't there ogi? Guinea corn is a very rich ogi in protein, so what are you telling me. Even this time, things are hard, are the very poor not giving birth and nursing their children very well? It's not until you eat canned food you will be nourished. What are the product of these so canned food? Is it not from raw materials? 4 Likes |
Re: When We Say Dont Marry If You Don't Have A Sustainable Income, This Is Why by Myer(m): 10:15pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
Jewessgratitud3:Well said. Marriage is for matured people who can handle responsibilities. And most importantly who put God first. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: When We Say Dont Marry If You Don't Have A Sustainable Income, This Is Why by Kobojunkie: 10:15pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
Bliss62:Did she force him into the marriage and into impregnating her? ![]() 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: When We Say Dont Marry If You Don't Have A Sustainable Income, This Is Why by grandstar(m): 10:15pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
Is baby formula compulsory sef? Our grandma's no use am, and yet gave us great parents. 2 Likes |
Re: When We Say Dont Marry If You Don't Have A Sustainable Income, This Is Why by lexy2014: 10:15pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
Jewessgratitud3: can you kindly define being able to "comfortably cater for yourself and one more person before going into marriage" in monetary nd material terms 2 Likes |
Re: When We Say Dont Marry If You Don't Have A Sustainable Income, This Is Why by dododawa1: 10:16pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
Life goes on |
Re: When We Say Dont Marry If You Don't Have A Sustainable Income, This Is Why by lexy2014: 10:17pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
Jewessgratitud3: which part of "live within your means" don't you understand? what job are u doing? if you have this your dreams, why should it be the standard by which others should live their lives? 4 Likes |
Re: When We Say Dont Marry If You Don't Have A Sustainable Income, This Is Why by Angelfrost(m): 10:19pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
I honestly can't pity such Nigerians anymore...! I can only slightly pity the innocent children who never asked to be born into a life of penury. Poor people should take child spacing and family planning more seriously. Look at the North already consumed by terrorism. 6 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: When We Say Dont Marry If You Don't Have A Sustainable Income, This Is Why by GUNITGuy: 10:20pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
beta go look for that money any how that baby and her mum cant starve 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: When We Say Dont Marry If You Don't Have A Sustainable Income, This Is Why by FreeStuffsNG: 10:21pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
Jewessgratitud3:Actually, I have seen low-income mothers mix it with honey and give their babies. Check my signature for free stuffs! |
Re: When We Say Dont Marry If You Don't Have A Sustainable Income, This Is Why by Impliment: 10:21pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
This one is skit. Stagemanaged. 1 Like |
Re: When We Say Dont Marry If You Don't Have A Sustainable Income, This Is Why by Dexy4yah(m): 10:24pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
You see pressure i don't like it at all in my Life. I can't venture into marriage when am not financially bouyant. To marry early na him sweet pass don put many men in school of depression. Abeg oo...be financially bouyant before you venture into marriage. 10 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: When We Say Dont Marry If You Don't Have A Sustainable Income, This Is Why by Coly2012(m): 10:25pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
Everything get level even the baby food, non be most say he must buy sma or other expensive ones. Fine boy dey market,soya beans dey. Marriage and family non too heard na people dey put themselves for problem with their tiny pocket ontop dream life. 2 Likes |
Re: When We Say Dont Marry If You Don't Have A Sustainable Income, This Is Why by adecz: 10:25pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
👶👶👶 In Baby Friendly system, you don't need all this cow milk for your baby.. Don't fall for all these Western propaganda. All a baby needs is mother's breast milk. Even oyibo dey do Baby friendly, but black man loves being brainwashed by baby food marketing companies. Babies fed exclusively with mothers milk hardly cry, disturb or have stomach problems. They grow bigger, stronger and faster. All a man needs to do is simply feed your wife very well. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: When We Say Dont Marry If You Don't Have A Sustainable Income, This Is Why by creolehunt: 10:26pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
Wawelexy: So, a woman contributing to her home is conditional? 3 Likes |
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